/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>9755
Dicks are nice.

that's a service top ain't it?

that sounds brain-broken? don't straight guys like eating pussy in many varieties of position? so like same thing

>>9756
Yes.

>>9757
I'm clueless about these terms, so I don't know.

>>9758
I mean, the most toxically masculine guys also see it as an act of submission to eat a woman out. Not that this view is common. Many straight guys see eating pussy as showing appreciation, but sucking a dick is still perceived as inherently submissive.

>>9755
forget about dom/sub, they're not strict categories just general tendencies or preferences, if you have a desire to suck dick then you shouldnt let patriarchal heteronormative prejudice hold you back, personally I have no desire to be penetrated therefore I don't do it unless I oblige on a rare occasion but that is more out of a desire to please my partner not necessarily because I desire to in a selfish sense.

>>9770
I agree with you, but I don’t think I have properly explained my concern here. I do think most women are subs and desire a dom (let’s think of it as a spectrum with heternomative people mostly falling on one side) and I noticed in all my relationships that not being dom and not being masculine simply leads to a diminishment of respect and sexual attraction. That doesn’t mean no woman ever respected or felt sexually attracted to me if I don’t perform my dom role. I still had either, *but* said respect and sexual attraction diminishes and is not as much as when I maintain this role. I like
women the most when they have this maximal respect and sexual attraction to me. I’d love it if women gave me this maximum respect and sexual attraction with my switch-self and when I occasionally feel sub, but from what I can tell women compatible with that are hard to come by. I’ve only spoken with them over the internet. I mostly get subs that merely tolerate it when I’m not being dom but I can recognize that it doesn’t tickle them the same way.

Now I’m wondering if this is what I will be dealing with when I’m dealing with sub guys. I’ve been talking to femboys (yes, I know how much you guys dislike them, or some of you at least, lol) and everyone I talked to (over the internet) was highly submissive. This to me seems like it will just head down the same road were breaking polarity will inevitably lead to the same outcome as with hetero women.

>>9775
I mean I can't really speak to how gay men feel about it, though I suspect they don't care much about strict sub/dom labels. But I never ever ask for boyfriends to do that but I will let it happen if he wants it so it doesn't seem like dom or sub thing to me.

>>9791
I mean, I would guess (or rather hope) that queer spaces are not bound to strict uniform interpretations like heteros are. But I have no experiences in queer spaces, so I don't know. I will just do it any see how they respond.

Only unenlightened simpletons think oral is inherently submissive, or inherently dominant for that matter.

Suck with vigor. Pin their hands as you take them in your mouth, in case they need a reminder of who's in charge.

Hi OP. You need to learn what a dom is! And, possibly, a dom-leaning switch (but nothing you said there suggests that).

0) TALK TO YOUR BOY. NOT US.
You were correct when you said: "Or is this highly individualistic with no general tendency to speak of?"

1) I have heard, only online fwiw, of some subs not liking a dom who does things they see as weak. Meanwhile, my sub who is my literal furniture didn't bat an eye when I talked about my sub side. They might actually dom me at an event later in the month! It's down to taste, and what people want out of a sub/dom relationship.

2) You can dom from the bottom, and sub from the top. Someone at an event I couldn't make it to was (consentually) demanding her slave to whack her with floggers. You can absolutely dom your shy boi while sucking his dick. You can even flick his balls if he likes pain! There's lots of power you have there. There is nothing necessarily non-dom about taking what you want and putting it where you want. Imagine a femdom doing the same, if that helps.

3) You can be a dom most of the time and a sub sometimes! Last night I talked to two dom-leaning switches who are dom enough kidnap a motherfucker. Then I watched them both kneel over and take impact to the ass. Switching is great! And my current sub, who dolls up and gets used as a piece of furniture, doesn't give a fuck that I do sub stuff too.

>I’m likely very biased by a straight viewpoint, so I was wondering.
I'd go further and say it's a heteronormaive patriarchal viewpoint - the mainstream one. The one that makes guys scared to talk about their feelings until they go kill themselves. The one that makes grown men say that washing the crack of your ass is gay. It's borderline Fascist ideology (big F), taking a spiritualist hypermasculinity rather than a material perspective on masculinity.

>>9922
>The one that makes grown men say that washing the crack of your ass is gay

Why does Leftypol keep promoting this stereotype?
I have never heard of this before in my life.

>>9976
They are addicted to ragebait gender divide&conquer algos on reactionary social media platforms

>>9992
Unfortunately so.
I see so many threads that center around a screenshot of some dumb post said on Reddit or Twitter

>Leftypol is this true

Or they wanna post comics made by some reavtionary comic artist (Tats) arguing over historical inaccuracies or obsessing over sexual fetishes of right wingers.

>>9976
>I have never heard of this before in my life.
Rigorous stuff, comrade.

>>10036
Ah yes the well known transhistorical masculine behavioral Law passed on into the detergent smelling apartment sky-rises - "thou shall not shower thine buttocks"
How could I have forgotten that one,
"""Comrade""".