I love trans women but i also love cis women and guys and i genuinely see tgirls as real women. I consider support for the trans community an integral part of my political worldview yet every time i see one and think shes hot i always have that though go through my head and i feel disgusted by myself. This happens specially when i watch trans porn even though thats just one of the many types of porn i watch. It got to the point that if i ever met a transwoman in real life id be too scared to even look at her let alone talk to her for fear that i might come off as a chaser. I do have ocd which might play a part but it is not one of the main themes currently so i dont think its that alone
How do i stop feeling like a creep?
Well first of all, most people aren't gonna care what you think about when you look at porn. It's not hurting anybody. When it comes to real interactions with people, I think it's best to replace "coming off as a chaser" with "objectification". Because the former is seems like a very complex topic, special to transpeople, with all kinds of variations but objectification is probably something you're familiar. And as long as you are not objectifying her, and making a genuine effort to connect with her as a person, you are gonna dodge 99% of ways you could possibly be coming off as a chaser without even trying.
>>9897Generally men have to chase the women, not even trans women but women in general. If youre solely attracted to trans then you have a problem.
>>9913Why is it a problem if dude is into chicks with dicks?
>>9914Because trans are supposed to be women which means you're objectifying them either for their genitalia or transness
>>9915And yet if men don’t chase them, transwomen will complain about being “invisible”
>>9917That's how you know they are real women.