BPD edition
Lets discuss women with borderline personality disorder and also whether or not incels are just men with undiagnosed BPD. Is BPD the reason for the male loneliness epidemic? Are men with BPD more violent than women with BPD?
>>689676>>696386This is because friends will eventually not have the same amount of time to spend with you
Why? Because your friends have relationships, or because they are simply getting to old and dusty to hang out anymore
People talk about how crazy cat ladies and weird old men down the street have existed for a long ass time but these people interacted with other residents in the community
Today if you don't have a relationship or siblings who would take care of your ahh being single implies societal isolation.
>>696388>>696393This goes back to my point about embracing being single. Sure, it might be nice to be in a relationship and sure it's true you can't always hang out with friends, but there is merit to being alone and enjoying your own company.
Sure, if you enjoy being in a relationship and are nostalgic for past ones then it might be hard to enjoy being by yourself.
we're also conditioned through media, school, etc that we absolutely HAVE to be in a relationship, have sex all the time, etc but there IS more to life than that and you don't need partners to experience it.
and if all you want is sex, then get a sex toy. if you want the company as well then you could organize a hookup or have phone sex. just an idea
>>696386>why do you guys feel like you NEED to be in a relationship?I like to fuck regularly.
>>696396>if all you want is sex, then get a sex toyThis anon does not fuck.
>>696386<disclaimer: i promise that i am not trying to write a smug quippy dunk on you, i am being sincerei believe it in my bones that i can only love myself through the eyes of another person, because i am barely a person if at all
but i do treasure each and every moment in which a random person, friend, what have you has seen me as something more than a robot meant to perform a specific act or task or a full on colossal wreck (im talking national tragedy level wreck here bros, not that i’m important enough to get that kind of shine)
living in rigidity does not get easier
all i can do is continue to love whatever people still do tolerate me while they are still here
>INB4 “it’s not that bad anon you seem normal and sociable”>some kind of variant of Narrative Therapy slop>“stop catastrophizing anon, it’s all going to be okay in the end!” >>696386Obviously I have a blind, insatiable impulse that compels every cell of my being to strive, to endure, and to reproduce. It's different for other people?
>>696380She obviously isn't, but I'm thinking you probably have no idea what you really want and you keep clinging to this because when you actually get some of your elusive 'wants' your dopamine receptors go fucking bananas because it's a momentary break from crying and feeling invalidated, so you delude yourself into thinking this is good actually - but I don't give a fuck, good luck my man
>>696396>there is merit to being alone and enjoying your own companyAnon, I told you I have been alone most of my life. I have traveled all across Europe alone several times. I can enjoy my own company. But sometimes I miss the warmth of a girlfriend, the company women can provide. That doesn't mean I absolutely need to be in couple. Hell, I rejected a woman today because she bailed out, it pissed me off so I told her I have nothing positive to bring to her and she should forget me, while I could have been a simp but I don't have the patience to do so. I prefer being alone than purchasing someone who won't do me any good. But I still wish I had a gf sometimes.
>if all you want is sex, then get a sex toySorry but sex with a real woman, in the flesh, with whom you have a strong emotional connection, is not comparable to masturbation. If the woman know how to move her body, she can make you feel like your brain is about to explode. That said, some women are boring in bed and are basically like fucking a starfish.
>if you want the company as well then you could organize a hookup or have phone sexWith whom? Might as well go straight for the real relationship thing at this point if you have phone sex with a girl.
>>696405 (me)
pursuing* not purchasing, i'm not a passport bro lol
>>696419lol same thing happens here it’s real strange
wonder if that happens on desktop w/ 4chan X
>>696421reporting live from my pc: it's still sideways
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>>696687True. But, not my style dawg.
>>696688Idk, man $250 aint that crazy imho. Compared to money I spent on other escorts and massage girls this was well worth it. You cant really get hammered and high and freely drill in most clubs. I guess the tough part might be frequenting a dancer enough to build trust. But I guess I'm a club vet by now.
>>696707Literally selling your body on the streets isn't even rape, at least not most of them. An undocumented immigrant being pimped by thugs in the streets is not the same thing as adult men and women who just want to do a convenient and easy way for extra income
This is the same thing as conflating road rage with killing someone. It is so absurd and anyone who knows any actual sex worker will realize that the only way you arrive in that conclusion is through abstract philosophizing
>>696727bruh that's not a solution, female jobs pay like shit. I work in a male dominated field that pays decently enough but there's no pussy, it seems you can't have both career + women unless you have some insane social network
female hobbies are also useless besides maybe cooking, i don't want to go to a fucking yoga class or shitty mindfulness jerking session
>>696222>Choose to date a mentally ill female>Get ghosted>"OMG the world is doomed"That's YOUR fault buddy
>>696386The anons on here are mindslaves.
>>697050thats right!! 😁
remember how much you love treats?
ooohh whos my good boy?
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