BPD edition
Lets discuss women with borderline personality disorder and also whether or not incels are just men with undiagnosed BPD. Is BPD the reason for the male loneliness epidemic? Are men with BPD more violent than women with BPD?
>>689676>>694435>>694415>>694374>>694452Is this furry anon?
Holy shit just shut the fuck up you whiny ass crybaby. If you think men reject you for aging out of your teens into your twenties you have serious solipsism.
"Forty percent of men are pedophiles"?
For what? Fucking an eighteen year old?
If you think thats pedophilia, then you have some serious maturity problems.
Please kindly shut up. You don't even belong on these kinds of threads.
>>694253I mean she is busy with some school stuff, i know that. I even told her I'd understand if she was too busy, so she had an easy out if just didn't want to go. But she reached out a few days after I asked and still seemed interested. I don't know what happened.
She also hasn't been active in our group chat in a few days, so maybe something genuinely came up. But I'm pretty atuned to rejection at this point and I'm anticipating it.
Here is your single millenial women bro.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/aug/01/millennial-women-work-broke-rich-boomerMillennial women were told to chase our dreams. That’s left us burnt out, broke and dreaming of a rich patron<By my age, my German boomer parents had kids, a house, a car, a garden. All I have is a nervous feeling whenever I open my banking app
>Over dinner recently with three friends – two men and one woman, all about my age – we started talking about money worries. The woman, a talented sculptor, said she had been feeling deeply anxious. She thought it was partly hormones, but more than that, it was existential. She was considering retraining, maybe going into teaching – anything to build a more stable life. At one point, she turned to me and asked: “How do you do it?” I said: “I juggle three things at once.”
>Meanwhile, the two men nodded sympathetically. They work in the arts – but both have full-time jobs and permanent contracts. One just bought a plot of land. The other has tenure. The women are freelancers. The men are secure. Is it our fault? Couldn’t we just do what they did?
>I can’t believe I’m saying this out loud, but it feels like the only safety net is a rich spouse.
>When I told my friend a few days ago that I prefer dating artists, she threw up her hands: “No! You need to find a hedge fund manager!” I thought of that meme – “I’m looking for a man in finance” – and rolled my eyes. But she wasn’t wrong. A wealthy and steady partner is the most reliable pension plan for many women.
>I don’t want a husband, though. What I secretly long for is a patron. The 18th-century kind. Someone who says: “I believe in your work. Go write. Don’t worry about anything.” Or, more realistically: universal basic income. And a proper educational system for the next generation of women. One that teaches them how to handle money, so they don’t fall into the same trap.
>Seriously: can someone explain to me why we didn’t learn about compound interest, mortgages, tax brackets and pensions in school? Isn’t financial literacy a basic part of education, if the goal is to raise well-equipped adults?
>Sometimes I want to slap myself for not having made smarter choices. For not having planned, protected myself by investing or talking to experts. Instead, I kept dreaming about a life filled with interesting encounters, stories, intellectually stimulating conversations.
>And honestly, there’s still a part of me that cherishes that softness. To be a European millennial now – in our late 30s – means witnessing the erosion of the ideals we grew up with, yet still holding on to something tender. Maybe naive. Maybe vital. We were promised a lot and trained for little. And perhaps this vulnerability – this capacity to imagine a different, less materialistic world – is not only a weakness. It might be a strength, of a playful sort.>>694494What's this?
I thought women were outcompeting men in education and career?
And these same women always spout the white liberal platitudes of "follow your dreams"?
These same women whom say "I don't need a man"?
Who..referred to men as potential oppressors?
>>694530As I said before, feminists are the prodigal daughters of patriarchy.
They're ironically the most likely to support puritan regimes of it gives them social security.
And I don't mean the legal economic type
I mean the literal definition of the word.
>>694579It existed long before the CIA. Not that I'm an expert on feminism. I member when this girl I met on okcupid back in the 00s asked me if I was a feminist, and I felt that was an odd question back then. My mother is very 2nd gen feminist so I think my views were always alligned with that. But the question whether to declare:
>Yes I am a feminist! was strange back then to me. That's how she said it:
>Are you a feminist?>I think every man should be a feminist.I guess I would say I am a "feminist" up to 2nd gen as well. I believe women should have equal rights under the law, and also bodily autonomy, and they should get free tampons or whatever the fuck else special woman medical needs.
Past that I really don't want to hear anymore shit about this bullshit. I think feminism jumped the shark in season 2.
>>694652TBH they probably thought he was a transhumanist.
transhumanists are seen as secondary women.
>>694775>>694772Some simps will say it is because you need to common stronger. The chads will say you should become one of the guy she blows you off for then pymp and dump them.
Me personally, I don't think it is worth it to mess with that mess.
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