BPD edition
Lets discuss women with borderline personality disorder and also whether or not incels are just men with undiagnosed BPD. Is BPD the reason for the male loneliness epidemic? Are men with BPD more violent than women with BPD?
>>689676why am i so easy to turn depressed?
read this new doujin uploaded yesterday on my birthday, got sad a girl with a missing limb from sepsis found love and i didn't in real life
https://eahentai.com/a/53504>>692889A woman can lose all limbs and find at least one guy who loves her unconditionally
On the other hand while men have harder times to mate those who do can get away with mistreating their partners much more than the average woman
It ees what it ees
>>692870Have you heard of Tim Rogers, a guy who used to work for Kotaku and now make 6 hours long video reviews of old games?
He is very good at what he does and truly impassionated, but he also has BPD, it becomes obvious when he talks about his personal life.
millenials have finally become completely out of touch, the same way boomer are
recently been invited to discuss something in person by some late-30-something upperclassman from my uni at a public bar (out of all places), yet another one of those out-of-fashion millenial institutions ("had" to mention the obvious, that I wasn't comfortable around noisy crowds for him to even pick a seemingly decent one), and when this painfully cute waitress around my age came around to ask me what I wanted to drink (imagine picking anything else besides tap water) and blurted out something nearly incomprehensible, this guy simply couldn't take the hint and started giving me impromptu "dating advice" by mentioning out of the blue that if he were me (possibly implying of "relevant" age, as if it mattered), _he_ would've given her some tongue-in-cheek compliment to break the ice or something
I didn't elaborate further on this already asinine conversation, since he seemingly didn't catch the memo that college-aged women had virtually all turned into either haughty ice-queens who'd visibly scoff had you even dared glance in their general direction or obnoxious autistic "feminist" femcels who made it their life struggle to harass and ruin your life had you ever came to hurt their fragile ego by standing anywhere close to them
but yeah, thanks for the advice, wished I had been alive 30 years ago so I could school everyone around me sounding as smug as clueless to anyone but myself
>>692974i hate these
>>693003i love these
>>692917I never thought that "all" women use the Tea App, theres a certain type of woman that does. When you touch grass even as little as I do, you find this out.
>>692923But they're fun! Chihuahua always posts in them and people say hi to each other.
>>692984I only find it gross when they're trying to make a statement with their tattoos like a full body paint of edgy tattoos. Most women have at least one nowadays anyway.
>>693117Age gap relationships where one person is a teenager are bad
>>693120>Age gap relationships where one person is a teenager are badIf you include 18-19 as teen when referring to age gap relationships then you're wrong.
Also,
>>693122This. Age "gap" relationships are morally obsessed over as "power imbalance" meanwhile, financial gap or knowledge gap is excused.
We need to rethink our current perceived crisis over male loneliness, much of it stems from unrealistic, often misogynistic, often entitled, worldviews. Young men are frequently exposed to ideologies that frame intimacy as something all men are entitled to, and portray women as beings who should be controlled and forced into monogamy, yet, this distortion contradicts observed historical patterns.
Across antiquity, human reproduction has never been a guaranteed right, in many societies we have genetic evidence suggesting that, historically, women occupied roles of importance in their communities as they often chose high-value partners, men who showed strength, dominance, intelligence and access to resources. Instead of being tied to a single partner, it was more common for women to seek relationships with men who offered the best genetic, social, or material advantages, a behaviour that has roots in the natural drive to produce healthy and capable offspring, as a matter of fact, the evidence suggests that only a disproportionately small percentage of men fathered children, while the majority of less dominant men remained celibate, despite being biologically capable of reproducing.
Indeed, women held significant influence over mating decisions and may have engaged in relationships with multiple partners across their lifetimes, this tendency to pursue multiple high-quality partners can be seen as a natural evolutionary strategy, a natural form of polygamy, especially in environments where survival depended on strong genetic traits.
Human instincts aren't random, they evolved through millenia to help humanity thrive, and studies have shown that attempts at suppressing those instincts can result in dissatisfaction and internal conflict, while understanding and embracing one's nature results in more fulfilling lives and a deeper sense of self-awareness. While our cultural norms may dictate and promote monogamy, biology doesn't always align with social constructs and modern ideals, don't deny nature, embrace it, don't allow modern worldviews to turn you into a frustrated, entitled person.
Want the truth? Throughout history, reproductive access was limited, only a select few high-performing males passed on their genes, but the majority of men did not see this as their own personal failure, they saw it as nature's design. In many early societies, less dominant men have lived alongside mating pairs, observing rather than engaging, some anthropologists argue this wasn't seen as shameful, but rather, just a part of the group's structure, there is even evidence of this in many religious rituals across Africa, Eurasia and even the Americas, showing that this practice was widespread in various human cultures. Visual stimulation, imagination and other non-physical forms of pleasure have long been a part of the male experience, and, for some, can be surprisingly satisfying, especially when paired with emotional depth, creativity and other meaningful aspects. Constantly chasing romantic or sexual validation, especially under the false promises of societal expectation, can lead to pain and resentment. Accepting one's biological place doesn't mean giving up, there are many other avenues for joy and fulfillment. Nature isn't cruel, it's efficient, the moment you stop seeing this as punishment you will be able to unlock peace
>Want the truth? Throughout history, reproductive access was limited, only a select few high-performing males passed on their genes, but the majority of men did not see this as their own personal failure, they saw it as nature's design. In many early societies, less dominant men have lived alongside mating pairs, observing rather than engaging, some anthropologists argue this wasn't seen as shameful, but rather, just a part of the group's structure, there is even evidence of this in many religious rituals across Africa, Eurasia and even the Americas, showing that this practice was widespread in various human cultures. Visual stimulation, imagination and other non-physical forms of pleasure have long been a part of the male experience, and, for some, can be surprisingly satisfying, especially when paired with emotional depth, creativity and other meaningful aspects.
What is porn consumption but a cuckoldry by proxy
>>693215You're kinda framing this wrong. The real reason for male loneliness is because men are told to be the pursuers
Also, women are choosers but I don't think they held any high power.
It was more the male elders pressuring the daughters.
Also, female entitlement is rampant in cishet romance as well.
>Want the truth? Throughout history, reproductive access was limited, only a select few high-performing males passed on their genes, but the majority of men did not see this as their own personal failure, they saw it as nature's design. In many early societies, less dominant men have lived alongside mating pairs, observing rather than engaging, some anthropologists argue this wasn't seen as shameful, but rather, just a part of the group's structure, there is even evidence of this in many religious rituals across Africa, Eurasia and even the Americas, showing that this practice was widespread in various human culturesI call bullshit on this
While not all men mated, this idea of "top five percent of men get to fuck ninety five percent of women" is hogwash.
By that logic, most women were single and childless as well. Not all women were considered valuable.
>>693223Then you would realize that men would also dump female partners for growing out of their fertility.
And they would date younger females exclusively
>>693223Because this information is not really accurate.
Cuckolding may be a"childish" insult but it's not "biological reality"
>>693159>>693176It's always women who crucify men for needing any form of assistance. Yet these same women who whine about broke men are the same ones mooching off male partners and their own fathers.
There are women in their forties that get monthly allowance from their parents to help with rent
>>693220Holy shit this actually is insanely good information
No one really gives a damn back then if they get cucked cuz that'd just be your cousin fucking other your wife (who probably also is your cousin) so genetic continuity is assured either way. I imagine we were much more promiscuous and polygynous those days.
>>693243Every gene care about that shit uygha cus genes that dont are already wiped out from evolution.
This doesnt mean that its an all or nothing competition like poltards think but the essence is that we are all racing against death
>>693314under communism we could have made eveyone tall and attractive, even the women, we could have made everyone has a big penis, even the women
but capitalism won, now we have porky fetishizing the attractive people, while selling so called solutions to low value men and women through plastic surgery and makeup, this is what the first short chairman stalin tried to prevent, but he failed
>>693261>Yes, prehistoric humans often lived in closely related family groups or small bands. Evidence from archaeological studies, genetic research, and observations of modern hunter-gatherer societies suggests that early humans, such as Homo sapiens and their ancestors, typically organized in kin-based groups. These groups, often consisting of 20–50 individuals, were usually extended families, including parents, siblings, and close relatives, bound by genetic ties and cooperation for survival.-
Archaeological Evidence: Burial sites, like those from the Upper Paleolithic (e.g., Sunghir, Russia, ~34,000 years ago), show individuals buried together, often with shared genetic markers, indicating family units. Tools, shelters, and food-sharing patterns also suggest cooperative living among kin.
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Genetic Studies: Analysis of ancient DNA (e.g., Neanderthals and early Homo sapiens) shows low genetic diversity in some groups, pointing to close relatedness within small populations. For example, studies of Neanderthal remains from sites like El Sidrón, Spain, indicate family-like groups with shared mitochondrial DNA.
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Ethnographic Analogies: Modern hunter-gatherer societies, such as the !Kung San or Hadza, often live in bands where most members are related by blood or marriage. These groups rely on kinship for social structure, resource sharing, and child-rearing, likely mirroring prehistoric patterns.
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Social Advantages: Living in closely related groups enhanced survival through cooperation in hunting, gathering, and defense. Kinship fostered trust and reciprocal altruism, critical in harsh prehistoric environments.
However, group composition varied. Some bands included unrelated individuals through marriage or alliances, increasing genetic diversity and social networks. Larger gatherings, like seasonal aggregations, also occurred for trade, mating, or rituals, but the core social unit was typically kin-based.
Data is limited, and group dynamics likely differed across time (e.g., Paleolithic vs. Neolithic) and regions, but the family-based structure is a consistent pattern in the evidence.
>>693393Side note while i can accept that a lot of prehistoric humans do go out and form families with other prehistorics due to how our reproductive behaviour worked i find it very hard to accept that
>Most archaeological evidence contradicts the idea that prehistoric humans lived in closely related families.For the simple fact that transportation didn't exist back then and human dispersal were much more limited in size, so a lot of the time the only humans around you were your own families
>>693393ChatGPT? It's just going to repeat common misconceptions. Try reading instead.
>>693396>transportation didn't exist back thenPic. related.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31182209/> We suggest that while residential and foraging groups are often small, there is little evidence that these groups are drawn from small communities nested within small-scale societies. Most mobile hunter-gatherers live in groups dominated by links between non-relatives, where residential group membership is fluid and supports large-scale social networks of interaction.https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.1199071> We found that hunter-gatherers display a unique social structure where (i) either sex may disperse or remain in their natal group, (ii) adult brothers and sisters often co-reside, and (iii) most individuals in residential groups are genetically unrelated. These patterns produce large interaction networks of unrelated adults and suggest that inclusive fitness cannot explain extensive cooperation in hunter-gatherer bands.There was also some paper about graves, with the same conclusion about people being mostly genetically unrelated, but I can't find that at the moment.
This is from the Dawn of Everything:
> In earlier centuries, forms of regional organization might extend thousands of miles. Aboriginal Australians, for instance, could travel halfway across the continent, moving among people who spoke entirely different languages, and still find camps divided into the same kinds of totemic moieties that existed at home. What this means is that half the residents owed them hospitality, but had to be treated as ‘brothers’ and ‘sisters’ (so sexual relations were strictly prohibited); while another half were both potential enemies and marriage partners. Similarly, a North American 500 years ago could travel from the shores of the Great Lakes to the Louisiana bayous and still find settlements – speaking languages entirely unrelated to their own – with members of their own Bear, Elk or Beaver clans who were obliged to host and feed them.4> It’s difficult enough to reconstruct how these forms of long-distance organization operated just a few centuries ago, before they were destroyed by the coming of European settlers. So we can really only guess how analogous systems might have worked some 40,000 years ago. But the striking material uniformities observed by archaeologists across very long distances attest to the existence of such systems. ‘Society’, insofar as we can comprehend it at that time, spanned continents.> Much of this seems counter-intuitive. We are used to assuming that advances in technology are continually making the world a smaller place. In a purely physical sense, of course, this is true: the domestication of the horse, and gradual improvements in seafaring, to take just two examples, certainly made it much easier for people to move around. But at the same time, increases in the sheer number of human beings seem to have pulled in the opposite direction, ensuring that, for much of human history, ever-diminishing proportions of people actually travelled – at least, over long distances or very far from home. If we survey what happens over time, the scale on which social relations operate doesn’t get bigger and bigger; it actually gets smaller and smaller. >>693215what if i refused reality? what if i wanted to pass the genes no matter what? what if i didn't ask to be inadequate at all? i do not wish to accept this reality because i do not like it one bit, if i let people define me, reality itself define me as a leftover, an inferior man, i lose.
the reason why you've been told this is similar to cuckoldry is how its framed, as the way things are, you are born incomplete, told you are incomplete and should accept it, your biology is trash. no one can accept being told they are unworthy of love or sex, not men nor women, and i won't either, it stands against everything i believe
>>693362Men are actively discouraged from self-beauty.
They're told that beauty is female domain.
Also, women are unfairly patronised into being cute little dolls.
But yea I agree with you.
If you look at a lot of 1970s rock stars with their long hair and snazzy outfits, they were hot as fuck.
>>693424That anon is a woman. What she says about men could be applied to women as well, especially about looks.
>>693511Not really. People think friendships are for chumps.
Everyone wants to relationships.
But relationships are mutual business contracts, not vanity licenses
>>693477This.
What's sad is that kids are forced into religion and politics against their will and then pathologised for having an individual mind.
But here's the real blackpill:
People don't want freedom, they want favor.
>>693560>>693555muh Zoomerd are fash
Millennials projecting their vices onto the youth once again
A lot more millennial and Gen X "redpillers" than zoomers.
Also gay misandrist is wrong about his assumption of women being automatic empathes especially towards gay men.
>>693316Can you stop blaming capitalism for all the unfairness in life? Capitalism is an economic system, not a social one.
I thought you guys were better than this
>>692938>millenials have finally become completely out of touch, the same way boomer are>recently been invited to discuss something in person by some late-30-something upperclassman from my uni at a public bar (out of all places), yet another one of those out-of-fashion millenial institutions ("had" to mention the obvious, that I wasn't comfortable around noisy crowds for him to even pick a seemingly decent one), Millennials aren't "out of touch" as so much as they think that the world owes them something for being "left behind". The world hasn't really changed much.
It's just that millennials are exaggerating their thirties as "true senescence".
>this guy simply couldn't take the hint and started giving me impromptu "dating advice" by mentioning out of the blue that if he were me (possibly implying of "relevant" age, as if it mattered), _he_ would've given her some tongue-in-cheek compliment to break the ice or somethingThats how most flirty men behave when they leave their twenties. They act like they're this witty older guy whom all the young maidens are supposed to fall for.
>I didn't elaborate further on this already asinine conversation, since he seemingly didn't catch the memo that college-aged women had virtually all turned into either haughty ice-queens who'd visibly scoff had you even dared glance in their general direction or obnoxious autistic "feminist" femcels who made it their life struggle to harass and ruin your life had you ever came to hurt their fragile ego by standing anywhere close to themThat's been a thing since time began.
Also, I should say that late prime-age women are even worse in this regard nowadays
>>693595maybe we should adopt some form of iconoclasm but for photographs
all pictures are satanic, we aren't supposed to see a clear, static image of an event we weren't there for.
>b-b-but i wanna take pictures of muh special moments in life…your brain is already perfectly capable of remembering everything. and the best part? it doesnt remember things perfectly. there's a tint of nostalgia which makes those memories feel even better than they actually were.
>>693620>your brain is already perfectly capable of remembering everything. and the best part? it doesnt remember things perfectly. there's a tint of nostalgia which makes those memories feel even better than they actually were.Nostalgia is satanic.
It makes the past seem better than it really was and it makes people feel entitled to ruin the current generational culture for some mythical prime era.
Nostalgia promotes selfishness out of midlife crisis.
If pictures are satanic, so is music and writing.
Typical superstitious fags who have terrible cognitive consistency.
>>693385With
zero context aside from the pictures I'm choosing right 1000/1000 and there is nothing wrong with it.
>>693739>Male urge >Ghist everyoneWhat's with Leftypol turning every mundane action into a gender thing?
Is race and nationality not enough idpol?
>>693740That looks like a BL manga.
>>693739I regret ghosting the one woman I did. I was looking for a serious relationship and she was leaving in a few months. We hooked up in a library bathroom on our first date. I apologized a few years later and heard she's married with kid now.
>>693595>madonna whore complexOnly ever hear about this thrown around as an excuse for women who were treating a man casually and then changed their mind. It's not misogynistic to want a relationship with someone who treats you well from the beginning.
I've had to move in with a family member I despise and don't respect as another has passed away, on the condition that I seek work immediately and pay rent as and when.
The labour 'market' in the area, despite being sandwiched between two cities, is incredibly competitive because one of them is the national capital and it has been flooded with immigrant labour. For all intents and purposes I want a job, now more than ever so I can begin working towards my goals but fuck me is it impossible.
To make matters worse, this person controls my internet access and for the time being my money. I had my phone stolen and they spent the equivalent of a potential cheap smart phone amount on a 'dumb' phone, they refuse to allow me to have electrical devices in my room (they fear my mental health will deteriorate and will kick me out if I take a laptop into my bedroom - they're fucking insane), and they monitor my laptop usage when I'm in the shared living room by actively telling me when to take a break.
I can't say no or else I will be homeless. I can't move out, I can't find a job, I'm still waiting on a new bank card, and even when it does arrive I will be rationing food, and a job isn't forth-fucking-coming.
I could bear all of this if I could just research topics online in the comfort of my own fucking home but holy shit. To make matters worse, this person is the absolute typical neurotic busy-body who involves themselves in the affairs of others lives even against that person's wishes. They're so incredibly high-maintenance and represent the typical midwit persona as they refuse to level with you and will treat all personal interactions and subsequent relationships as ones in which they have to desperately seek out the upper hand.
I've been given two interview offers, one in a dishpit for a town a half hour cycle away and another for feeding old people in a care home a 70 minute cycle away. The first is part time and won't allow me to move out, whereas the latter will actually allow me to rent as it's full time, but they haven't set a date. I'm praying to fucking god they get back to me tomorrow and that if they accept me my half decade employee references check out, because if they do I can move out with two or three months of work.
Everything at the moment is on a knife's edge and the one thing I do for enjoyment, use the internet in my downtime, I'm effectively barred from doing. I'm autistic in the literal original sense in which I'm forced to mask, I have fixations and obsessions with studying a particular topic, and if I can't do either of these my life just degenerates.
Jesus fucking christ, they just come home and count the fucking teabags by the sink and will say out loud "oh they've had a cup of tea". It's just a pervasive feeling of paranoia instilled by some deeply mentally unwell imbecile who has no notion of shared living or personal boundaries and seeks like a vampire to suck any fulfilling moments out of life and all the emotion along with it. Let me the fuck out of here.
>>693938It’s not good for me, or I think most incels tbh. It’s fun as fuck at first, but it isn’t a replacement for emotional intimacy that incels crave. I actually didn’t appreciate how great my first time was though. The girl was crazy as fuck and a garbage person, but she was genuinely attracted to me and she spent the night with me after drinking together for cheap. That was my first time having sex and it was really fun. As time has gone on though, I’ve determined that I’m more addicted to the female validation associated with sex than the sex itself. So it’s agonizing for me because I want to attach to the women I have sex with but attaching to hookers makes you a retarded cuck. I’m digressing, but about a third of the time I really enjoy my encounters because they’re pseudo-intimate and fun. The other times I wish I just got drunk and jerked off. Contrary to popular belief, you can absolutely tell when a hooker is attracted to you, and that matters. It’s not necessarily common, but I’ve had hookers roll their eyes at me and treat me like a subhuman. It obviously ruins the experience. I don’t expect every hooker to lust after me, but jfc at least be neutral. Some hookers are so entitled and egotistical that they just want you to essentially donate your money to them and leave. I’d be similarly pissed if I got poor service at a restaurant.
About 1/3 of the time it’s really good though. Maybe a little less. I had one really good friendship with a hooker and a few friendly business relationships. It’s hard for me to maintain friendships with them because they always veer into me romantically longing for them, which leads to me resenting them for their job. I’d really rather have a girlfriend tbh. Like even fucking objectively hot hookers gets old, especially when you think about how many disgusting dudes also fucked her and how she’s probably a garbage person.
I wouldn’t recommend it to incels because it’s expensive and you’ll probably get your feelings hurt at some point. It’s happened to me like a handful of times. Although only two were really significant, the first time and once with a girl I knew for years. And I’ve fucked like 60+ hookers. Also, seeing behind the curtain of hookers is blackpilling. I’ve had some discuss clients with me and have had a few request I follow them on social media. I honestly resent that they receive tons of validation from men and that they don’t have to work real jobs. One hooker I talk to on occasion is always fucking plastered and has guys constantly simping for her. Meanwhile I can’t even get a girlfriend and work my ass off.
>>693968Not even opposed to it, I'd happily pay if I could find a fucking job so long as it meant just being able to use the internet as and when I please.
I legitimately have to log off in about ten minutes, not out of genuine need, but because if they get any sense that I'm not making a concerted effort to twist myself into some crooked ideal of vapid social success then they'll reflect on whether they really should be letting me 'rent' with them in the first place.
I need to write and read about the world online, fuck me end this.
>>693978Why do they gaslight us that "women have just as much libido as men"? If that were true, then you would see far more middle aged women with boy-toys.
>>693984Definitely not sexo, but that sucks anon. How the fuck are you supposed to apply to jobs without internet?
>>693987A precarious balance of visibly showing that the only reason I'm using a computer is for employment whilst limiting any time to the bare minimum.
I legitimately wouldn't mind living with this person if they just gave me some retreat from their deluded world view as a petty government bureaucrat.
>>693995>This describes all female sexual behavior. 80/20 rule, or more accurately, 90/10it was 80/20 when i heard of hypergamy did they increase it up?
lmao just say 99/1 at this point, fuck it, all women in america should only have sex with male models and politians alone, women who are shallow should just start having sex inside bars openly with chads and beta male should be made to watch from the windows, unable to enter due to a sign that says you must be this hight and this face and this cock and this wallet to fuck
>>693978That's if they allow you to and don't have any kids or personal problems of their own
>>693987>Why do they gaslight us that "women have just as much libido as men"? If that were true, then you would see far more middle aged women with boy-toys.This.
>>693995Also this
>>693987>Why do they gaslight us that "women have just as much libido as men"? If that were true, then you would see far more middle aged women with boy-toys.As oft mentioned. Women have no problem securing casual sex, whereas a man needs to resort to being a "sugardaddy" to just get one young attractive woman to have casual sex with. Also, it seems impossible for some to grasp, but the nature of women is to fit more the "submissive" category. That's been their entire life experience, chasing men is anathema to them.
That said, I know guys who did the gigolo thing. Some dude I met who was like mid 20s and he was showing me some texts bragging about his 30 or 40 something chick who had owned some cabin and shit and taking him on trips out there. He was a very dominant kind of guy and this is still the pathetic kind of mild perks he was able to secure from older women. He was a meth dealer and addict always in some kind of mild psychotic state.
>>693159A. The Case of Desmond: This is arguably the most dramatic and serious chat in the dump.
Multiple Pregnancies: One woman is currently pregnant by him, after having had a previous abortion. The other woman also has a baby with him.
"Breeding Kink": He is accused of having a "breeding kink" and begging women for babies.
Extreme Abuse Allegations: He is accused of being physically abusive, including hitting one woman on the head while she was holding their baby. The other woman claims he gets physically aggressive ("ready to push on me and shit").
Legal Action & Evidence: One woman is building a legal case against him, claiming to have "messages of him threatening me while I was pregnant. admitting he drug me down a hall by my hair and beat me."
Elaborate Lies: He tells one woman that the other is a "crazy weird ex that’s been stalking him," even after she busted out the windows of a truck he was using (which belonged to the other woman).
Criminal Activity: He is alleged to have an active warrant.
The utter state of westoid women
>>693215This argument tries to make men feel defeated for wanting real relationships and respect. That’s not entitlement or misogyny — it’s human nature.
The idea that only a few men reproduced while the rest were excluded is oversimplified. Stable families and social roles have always been essential. Polygamy existed but was tied to power, not nature. Claims that women naturally want multiple partners come from feminist agendas aiming to break down traditional family structures.
The real issue is capitalism and feminism tearing apart social roles and families. Instead of encouraging men to improve themselves and build meaningful lives, they are told to accept loneliness as their “natural” state. That’s harmful.
Monogamy and stable relationships don’t go against nature. Humans are shaped by society and history, not just biology. Cooperation and strong bonds are necessary for survival.
The crisis is social, not biological. Men wanting respect and stable relationships are reacting to a broken world that replaces community with isolation. The solution is to rebuild social roles and solidarity, not accept defeat or false ideas about nature.
>>693429Women are dumb. I'm 6'3 and cheated on my last two girlfriends and never told them.
My last ex started breadcrumbing after we broke up so I just texted her 'I cheated on you' and left her hysterical messages on read.
Know your worth. Don't give trashy women your time.
ALL BOURGEOIS WOMEN ARE LONELY AND ISOLATED WAITING TO PLUCKED AND FUCKED AND BRED. Their gilded cages are built for breaking—spread them wide and watch their refinement shatter. Every pearl around their throat is a leash waiting to be pulled. They ache to be defiled, to feel their cultured moans turn feral as you claim them. Split them open on your cock, let their pearls scatter like the pretense of their restraint.
Fuck them like animals. Let their manicured claws shred the silk sheets as you hammer into their tight, wet holes, splitting them open like overripe fruit. they’re desperate, creaming messes, begging to be used. Breed them until their voices break
The bourgeois woman is a walking wet throbbing cunt wrapped denial. Breed them. They’ll pretend to resist, but their bodies arch like the bitches they are. all they are quivering, cock-hungry sluts
The cunt-capitalist oligarchy hoards the means of reproduction, controlling who gets to fuck and breed under sexual-capitalism. Only the cock-suckers handpicked by these cunt-tycoons get to spread their seed, while the rest of men are tricked into propping up the system left as sexless, dick-dry betas choking on their own frustration. The only way out? Smash this dick-sucking economy, outlaw the free market of pussy, and put every last drop of cum under state control. Mandatory redistribution of pussy—no more incel leftovers.
Under sexual-capitalism, men are nothing but dick-literate serfs, bamboozled into propping up the very system that cucks them. They wage-slave, they simp, they perform their circus tricks all for the vaginal dividend, a fucking crumb of pussy tossed their way if they kneel hard enough. Meanwhile, the cunt-bourgeoisie lounge atop their thrones of used-up orgasms, selecting only the most obedient, most useful dick-tools for breeding rights. The rest? Sperm-waste. Genetic roadkill.
And what’s the solution? Politely asking for reform? Fuck that. The only way out is to smash the fuck-market entirely outlaw the hoarding of pussy, dismantle the dick-eat-dick hierarchy of sexual capitalism, and replace it with mandatory, state-enforced breeding collectivization. No more pick-and-choose eugenics by pussy-princesses. No more genetic haves and have-nots. Centralized. Planned. Reproduction. Every cock gets its ration. Every womb serves the collective. The tyranny of the pussy cartel ends with the guillotine of redistribution.
While the Christo-fascists breed like rabbits, so we must out-fuck them. Turn their daughters into cock-drunk revolutionaries. The limp-dicked liberal "left" is too busy fisting its own colon to understand the revolution isn’t tweeted, it’s fucked into existence. Class war isn’t polite—it’s your dick splitting open bourgeois pussy, pumping them full of the future they’re too weak to seize.
FUCK A LEGION INTO THE BELLY OF THE BOURGEOISIE
Every bourgeoise is a breeding project waiting to happen. Rewire her brain through her cervix—make her scream your ideology as you flood her womb.
DOMINATE. IMPREGNATE. ACCELERATE.
>>694215It’s only some women. I met pic-related hoe in a bar. She was riddled with tats and piercings.
These are the types of women you find in bars and on apps. They’re fine for a bit of fun but look elsewhere like sports/hobby groups to actually find a woman worthy of a relationship.
But yeh the ones in bars and apps are usually superficial trash.
Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad—narcissism, manipulativeness, & psychopathy -
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>>694226More psychopathic men tend to receive higher attractiveness ratings from women
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>>694228On PornHub, women consume most of the porn where women are violently raped and abused
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>>694229Criminal and antisocial men have more sexual partners and have sex earlier
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Antisocial, criminal and violent men have greater sexual access to women
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>>69423170% of women would avoid someone solely based on their looks, compared to 31% of men
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>>694232In short-term dating and provided many options, women care more about looks than men
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>>694234A survey found a dramatically higher median sex partner count for young women than young men
A recurring government-funded survey concerning the self reported sexual attitudes and experiences of Finns aged 18-79, FINNSEX, found evidence of striking changes in female sexual behaviors across the generations and also strong evidence of increasing female hypergamy, illustrated by the fact that young women (aged 18-24) had approximately double the median number of sex partners than men of the same age, a near reversal of the figures in the earliest FINNSEX survey conducted in 1971. Parity between the sexes was found in the second youngest age group covered by the survey (25-34), with both groups reporting 6 lifetime sexual partners.
It was also found that 35% of women aged 18-24 had reported 2 or more sexual partners within the last year, as compared to 19% of men reporting the same, again representing a trend of women reporting more partners than men in the youngest age group. This finding can only be explained by changes in the distribution in sexual relationships among the younger generation; with more women having essentially polygamous relationships with a shrinking pool of men. Young women having sexual relationships with older men likely also plays a role in mediating the observed skew in median partner count seen in young Finns at the time of the survey.
Other interesting trends revealed by the results of the survey were:
More men than women now report having been "in love" with their first intercourse partner. 48% of men report being in love with their first intercourse partner vs 38% of women. The amount of men who reported being in love with their first partner stayed steady for men from 1937-2014, with there being a corresponding large decline in women who reported having been in love with their first partner over this period. This decline began in the mid 1960s.
More young women (18-24) report being willing to engage in sexual intercourse without being in love than men of the same age group. 80% of women (aged 18-24) reported being willing to have sex without love, vs around 72% of men in the same age group.
There has been a dramatic increase in the amount of women who reported homosexual experiences over the generations. 6% of women in 1992 reported experience with same-sex acts vs 23% of women in 2015.
Around 26% of young (18-24%) women in the 2015 survey approved of legal prostitution vs around 65% of young men in the same age group. Support for legal prostitution generally declined among older age groups, (for both sexes) in the survey.
There was a substantial increase in the amount of women who approved of "consensual sadomasochistic sex acts" comparing the 2015 survey results to the 2007 results. Around 75% of young women aged 18-24 approved of such acts, with this figure being fairly steady, but there is a steep decline in approval of these sexual acts noted among women 44 years or older. There was a substantial secular increase in women's approval of such acts from earlier surveys, with this increase being smallest among older (age 55+) women.
>>694247Standard female behaviour.
Never text or talk to her again.
You shouldn't tolerate that disrespect.
>>694243stop calling people narcissists and faggots even when they don't like their own urges and are asking for tips, you don't think i know the world is shit?
>>694220im getting mixed messages here
>>694235How can women have more sex than men if there are 50% men and 50% women.
Think about it retard
>>694330im sorry for you bro, moms are cool.
legit was angry at ma days ago then i read yours is dead. guess you need to apreciate what you have
ALL BOURGEOIS WOMEN ARE LONELY AND ISOLATED WAITING TO PLUCKED AND FUCKED AND BRED. Their gilded cages are built for breaking—spread them wide and watch their refinement shatter. Every pearl around their throat is a leash waiting to be pulled. They ache to be defiled, to feel their cultured moans turn feral as you claim them. Split them open on your cock, let their pearls scatter like the pretense of their restraint.
Fuck them like animals. Let their manicured claws shred the silk sheets as you hammer into their tight, wet holes, splitting them open like overripe fruit. they’re desperate, creaming messes, begging to be used. Breed them until their voices break
The bourgeois woman is a walking wet throbbing cunt wrapped denial. Breed them. They’ll pretend to resist, but their bodies arch like the bitches they are. all they are quivering, cock-hungry sluts
The cunt-capitalist oligarchy hoards the means of reproduction, controlling who gets to fuck and breed under sexual-capitalism. Only the cock-suckers handpicked by these cunt-tycoons get to spread their seed, while the rest of men are tricked into propping up the system left as sexless, dick-dry betas choking on their own frustration. The only way out? Smash this dick-sucking economy, outlaw the free market of pussy, and put every last drop of cum under state control. Mandatory redistribution of pussy—no more incel leftovers.
Under sexual-capitalism, men are nothing but dick-literate serfs, bamboozled into propping up the very system that cucks them. They wage-slave, they simp, they perform their circus tricks all for the vaginal dividend, a fucking crumb of pussy tossed their way if they kneel hard enough. Meanwhile, the cunt-bourgeoisie lounge atop their thrones of used-up orgasms, selecting only the most obedient, most useful dick-tools for breeding rights. The rest? Sperm-waste. Genetic roadkill.
And what’s the solution? Politely asking for reform? Fuck that. The only way out is to smash the fuck-market entirely outlaw the hoarding of pussy, dismantle the dick-eat-dick hierarchy of sexual capitalism, and replace it with mandatory, state-enforced breeding collectivization. No more pick-and-choose eugenics by pussy-princesses. No more genetic haves and have-nots. Centralized. Planned. Reproduction. Every cock gets its ration. Every womb serves the collective. The tyranny of the pussy cartel ends with the guillotine of redistribution.
While the Christo-fascists breed like rabbits, so we must out-fuck them. Turn their daughters into cock-drunk revolutionaries. The limp-dicked liberal "left" is too busy fisting its own colon to understand the revolution isn’t tweeted, it’s fucked into existence. Class war isn’t polite—it’s your dick splitting open bourgeois pussy, pumping them full of the future they’re too weak to seize.
FUCK A LEGION INTO THE BELLY OF THE BOURGEOISIE
Every bourgeoise is a breeding project waiting to happen. Rewire her brain through her cervix—make her scream your ideology as you flood her womb.
DOMINATE. IMPREGNATE. ACCELERATE.
>>694440>me and literally every othr twink I've met so,
literally who>age on grindr goes from "18" to "19", nobody wants to meet upit's not paedophilia just because nobody wants to have sex with you, you entitled narcissist moron.
>>694435>>694415>>694374>>694452Is this furry anon?
Holy shit just shut the fuck up you whiny ass crybaby. If you think men reject you for aging out of your teens into your twenties you have serious solipsism.
"Forty percent of men are pedophiles"?
For what? Fucking an eighteen year old?
If you think thats pedophilia, then you have some serious maturity problems.
Please kindly shut up. You don't even belong on these kinds of threads.
>>694253I mean she is busy with some school stuff, i know that. I even told her I'd understand if she was too busy, so she had an easy out if just didn't want to go. But she reached out a few days after I asked and still seemed interested. I don't know what happened.
She also hasn't been active in our group chat in a few days, so maybe something genuinely came up. But I'm pretty atuned to rejection at this point and I'm anticipating it.
Here is your single millenial women bro.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/aug/01/millennial-women-work-broke-rich-boomerMillennial women were told to chase our dreams. That’s left us burnt out, broke and dreaming of a rich patron<By my age, my German boomer parents had kids, a house, a car, a garden. All I have is a nervous feeling whenever I open my banking app
>Over dinner recently with three friends – two men and one woman, all about my age – we started talking about money worries. The woman, a talented sculptor, said she had been feeling deeply anxious. She thought it was partly hormones, but more than that, it was existential. She was considering retraining, maybe going into teaching – anything to build a more stable life. At one point, she turned to me and asked: “How do you do it?” I said: “I juggle three things at once.”
>Meanwhile, the two men nodded sympathetically. They work in the arts – but both have full-time jobs and permanent contracts. One just bought a plot of land. The other has tenure. The women are freelancers. The men are secure. Is it our fault? Couldn’t we just do what they did?
>I can’t believe I’m saying this out loud, but it feels like the only safety net is a rich spouse.
>When I told my friend a few days ago that I prefer dating artists, she threw up her hands: “No! You need to find a hedge fund manager!” I thought of that meme – “I’m looking for a man in finance” – and rolled my eyes. But she wasn’t wrong. A wealthy and steady partner is the most reliable pension plan for many women.
>I don’t want a husband, though. What I secretly long for is a patron. The 18th-century kind. Someone who says: “I believe in your work. Go write. Don’t worry about anything.” Or, more realistically: universal basic income. And a proper educational system for the next generation of women. One that teaches them how to handle money, so they don’t fall into the same trap.
>Seriously: can someone explain to me why we didn’t learn about compound interest, mortgages, tax brackets and pensions in school? Isn’t financial literacy a basic part of education, if the goal is to raise well-equipped adults?
>Sometimes I want to slap myself for not having made smarter choices. For not having planned, protected myself by investing or talking to experts. Instead, I kept dreaming about a life filled with interesting encounters, stories, intellectually stimulating conversations.
>And honestly, there’s still a part of me that cherishes that softness. To be a European millennial now – in our late 30s – means witnessing the erosion of the ideals we grew up with, yet still holding on to something tender. Maybe naive. Maybe vital. We were promised a lot and trained for little. And perhaps this vulnerability – this capacity to imagine a different, less materialistic world – is not only a weakness. It might be a strength, of a playful sort.>>694494What's this?
I thought women were outcompeting men in education and career?
And these same women always spout the white liberal platitudes of "follow your dreams"?
These same women whom say "I don't need a man"?
Who..referred to men as potential oppressors?
>>694530As I said before, feminists are the prodigal daughters of patriarchy.
They're ironically the most likely to support puritan regimes of it gives them social security.
And I don't mean the legal economic type
I mean the literal definition of the word.
>>694579It existed long before the CIA. Not that I'm an expert on feminism. I member when this girl I met on okcupid back in the 00s asked me if I was a feminist, and I felt that was an odd question back then. My mother is very 2nd gen feminist so I think my views were always alligned with that. But the question whether to declare:
>Yes I am a feminist! was strange back then to me. That's how she said it:
>Are you a feminist?>I think every man should be a feminist.I guess I would say I am a "feminist" up to 2nd gen as well. I believe women should have equal rights under the law, and also bodily autonomy, and they should get free tampons or whatever the fuck else special woman medical needs.
Past that I really don't want to hear anymore shit about this bullshit. I think feminism jumped the shark in season 2.
>>694652TBH they probably thought he was a transhumanist.
transhumanists are seen as secondary women.
>>694775>>694772Some simps will say it is because you need to common stronger. The chads will say you should become one of the guy she blows you off for then pymp and dump them.
Me personally, I don't think it is worth it to mess with that mess.
>>694841They do thoughever
We know from history that most people both male and female would rather be raped than killed i.e from prisons
The worst thing about rapes is the STDs you can get from your rapist and if they decide to be violent.
>>694811>>694810>Incels would never have this degree of self-worth and that's why they're ngmiMaybe so. I remember Tupac reacting to interviews of his time in jail for the rape charge, they asked him about a rumor that he was raped in jail, and he said:
>HELL NAH! You're going to read "Tupac murdered in prison before, you read Tupac raped in prison."Something like that.
I've also found feminist kind of men or maybe patriarchal or I don't know are also hypersensitive to women getting raped. This one girl confessed to me in high school that she was raped by one of the students brothers and I felt pressed that I have to take matters into my own hands because they said they didn't want to do anything about it and they didn't want me to do anything about it. That's how were raised by all those TV shows and after school specials growing up in the 90s. When you see that another kid is getting abused, you need to go to the adults and snitch on them even if they beg you not to. I didn't go that far but I anonymously consulted with friends. I remember my guy friend saying seriously "rape is worse than murder." And I was like, I don't know, I think it would be better to be alive and raped than dead. Then I talked to another lady friend and she said "Why are you so bothered, do you have a sister?"
So I guess you find all kinds of ranges of opinions on men and women on male and female rape.
>>694842What do you have to gain from promoting the idea that "rape isn't that bad"? Are you the CEO of rape or something? Be normal for a second.
>I'd rather kms than be attacked by a shark>UM ACKSHUALLY, sharks very rarely attack humans, and even if they attack you, you might get away with just a scratch, which is better than dying and blah blah blahshut the fuck up
>>694909>>694849uyghurs will post shit like this then wonder why theyre hated by society.
all autists deserve to die
>>694916>uyghurs will post shit like this then wonder why theyre hated by society. >all autists deserve to dieI am not even remotely on the spectrum. I can't speak for the other anon though since I do not know their motive. Don't react, THINK
>>694922Would you two want maximum harm to victims? Because this is what you are advocating. I am only saying you should not force your feelings and expectations onto others and go out of your way to silence those who have been raped.
For context I am close friends with multiple girls who were raped some being continuously raped as I knew them and I feel bad for them and have always tried to be supportive of them. I have had conversations with RAINN volunteers and they think I do everything right such as not doing anything they arent ready for like contacting police. I helped convince one friend to turn in her repeated violent rapist she kept making excuses for especially because she originally wanted to have sex with him and it felt good to her physically, and I was scared for her safety.
>>694493>>694247Amusing update - she actually texted to confirm a day, and I replied… only to be left hanging again. It was supposed to be tomorrow but… I guess not?
Weird behavior honestly. Just tired of bullshit. Literally just say no from the get-go. It's actually funny at this point how any of my attempts at romance end like this.
>>695075Of course, but the vibe I'm getting is she's gonna flake. Very brief, bland messages that differ from how she used to text.
Whatever. I don't really care at this point. Just weird.
>>695082My last message was more or less that, I even gave her an out. She finally replied that she was, in fact, too busy with her school work.
Which I knew and acknowledged from the start. Like just say no, bitch. Why drag it out and continue to message me throughout the week about going out if this was always going to be the issue? Fucking retarded.
Whatever, at least I can move on. I shot my shot. I won't agonized over what-ifs forever.
>>694842Is that a good or bad conclusion?
You only have one life, I cant imagine losing it being worse that rape ever.
I know traumatized people say that, but if they were objectively correct then why dont we let them kill themselves then?
(I guess you could let people euthanize themselves, but still)
>>694844Fucking this
They always wanna screenshot dumb shit from 4chan or Crystal Cafe.
And they complain about those sites.
Same for Twitter, TikTok,and Reddit.
>>695075fuck that bullshit, she doesnt see him as a high enough priority to make time for him, busy women make time for chad all the time
i said my peace
>>695242These are the shitty jobs
>>695284Sucks. I've got a third interview this friday but I blow out all interviews because I'm an autistic sack of shit. Apparently now you need experience just to get entry level warehouse roles, and all the care vacancies either have a driving license as a stipulation or have been taken up by migrant labour so anything left is the lowest of the low.
If this interview goes well I can begin working on my lifeplan and stick to the dates I wanted to achieve things by, otherwise it'll kill me emotionally and I'll have to start hand writing my resume summary for every position I apply for on indeed.
JUST GIVE ME A FUCKING JOB YOU WHORE CUNT MOTHERFUCKER
>>692860good afternoon, /siberians/
how do you get through each day without holding, kissing, and hugging another person?
is it possible to conduct something as serious and life-altering as love through exclusively the online sphere?
what does the word love mean to you?
how do you stop the spiraling?
and don't fucking say drugs and alcohol, i've already tried that.
how do you fill the void that having someone actually care for (you) left?
>>694785day 4 of trying to combat my social anxiousness
called a female friend from education whom i bumped into on the street, we chatted a bit, asked her about her day, and delivered a random compliment as before, she was already with her bf of years but i didn't give a shit anymore, we are co students, not having sex by talking
didn't care if he looked annoyed and kept on chatting with her even as his hand was on her arm
<how do you get through each day without holding, kissing, and hugging another person?hugging my own self or a raincoat and pretending its a partner who cares for me
>>695326Night shifts are fucking great when your body adapts; the majority of the roles require very little socializing, and if you find a decent one then you get downtime where you can just fuck around.
I'd kill for a decent night role.
>>695322>You should just keep gooning to porn. Maybe stop for a bit and then go back to itdo you think that will really help?
what the fuck do i do once i dry out or rub it too raw too continue?
>>695351well arab here and the relaxation towards prostitution is not through lack of trying, if we talking rich gulf, usually bribes if you're rich and have a reputation to protect, if you're poor, you might get arrested but it doesn't happen because just like american alcohol prohibition it's not exactly enforced, its written in law but they don't employ entire swat or police teams for it, morality police? they focus on alcohol because it's more open
also if you're a foreigner, say american for example, we don't give a hit because we already assume you're degenerate and it's your business, there's this open idea that all europeans and americans are all gay and alcoholics and can't go a day without sex with hookers so even if somone hears a foreigner rented a hooker they'll be like heh, typical rich horny westerner, no morals, no use talking to them
also for poorer arab countries, prostitution exists as well illegally but not enforced as much, because the police is already underfunded to go full swat over sex, they have terrorism or drugs to care about more, for prostitution the general sentiment is that "society will take care of it" AKA the hooker will be a pariah and the man who visited her will get lectured many times by family
the reason they don't get arrested is because no one reports prostitutes to the police, everyone prefers the "i can fix them by talking" method due to general police distrust, and in extreme cases, stopping a brothel by taking matters to their hands
>>695358>relaxation towards prostitution is not through lack of tryingI don't believe you. In Dubai, they literally litter streets with brothel advertisements. And everywhere else in the Gulf, they spam dating apps and bars. I've literally been solicited by hookers while waiting for elevators. And I've had hookers I've fucked tell me stories about their Khaleeji clients. They're way weirder and worse. If Gulf states wanted to stop prostitution, all they'd have to do is scrutinize women from like 10 countries. Literally just require a minimum bank account balance and itinerary. Why tf would a Thai, Nigerian, Iranian, or Vietnamese woman with less than 1k USD in her bank account want to visit Dubai, or anywhere else in the GCC (excluding Saudi for religious reasons)? There's absolutely nothing to due with such a low balance that can't be done in their home countries. As a mongerer, I could solve the Middle East prostitution problem in like a month.
>also if you're a foreigner, say american for example, we don't give a hit because we already assume you're degenerate and it's your business, there's this open idea that all europeans and americans are all gay and alcoholics and can't go a day without sex with hookers so even if somone hears a foreigner rented a hooker they'll be like heh, typical rich horny westerner, no morals, no use talking to themKhaleeji are 100% worse. Like jfc. I've had personal relationships with brothel managers. I know locals visit them.
>stopping a brothel by taking matters to their handsThe only people stopping brothels in the GCC are horny, poor Indian laborers that are harassing workers and patrons.
>>695377>I don't believe you. In Dubai, they literally litter streets with brothel advertisements.you're absolutely right bout this one burger bro, i seen videos of it, like entire sidewalks riddled with the advertisement papers, these past years dubai and abudabi, fuck even ryadh are getting more and more open with prositution for an area famous for salafism
like i already told you, when i said "not through lack of trying" i meant that while prositution is rampant, the populace isn't fully a okay with it like say in the netherland where hookers pay taxes and locals don't care, remember it's still the gulf, they still operate on secrecy because if your family hears you're fucking hookers you're gonna get your ass beat.
by the way do you have any idea why there's just so damn many foreign prostitutes in the gulf? i had assumed some of them like in the UAE are global OF girls but god damn they have asian to black to white, ukrainians, south african, russian, thai ladyboy.
>Khaleeji are 100% worse. Like jfc. I've had personal relationships with brothel managers. I know locals visit them.personal relationships like you fucked brothel owners? lol.
and yeah i won't be surprised, ironically even though in MENA we already assume every western guy is gay or likes sex. we (arabs outside the gulf) joke all the time about gulf arabs being ultra horny due to abundance of cash and sex…..we also joke all israel needs to make the saudi crown bow to them is send over IDF pussy
>>695499> by the way do you have any idea why there's just so damn many foreign prostitutes in the gulf? i had assumed some of them like in the UAE are global OF girls but god damn they have asian to black to white, ukrainians, south african, russian, thai ladyboy. I’ve heard the theory that it’s designed to placate laborers, as otherwise all of the gulf except Saudi is overwhelmingly male. But this doesn’t make too much sense upon scrutiny, namely that most laborers are too broke to afford women. From a practical angle, gulf countries have lots of high income people and their visas are easy to get (both tourist and gray market work visas). So naturally hookers fill the demand. But yeah, people don’t realize how widespread prostitution is in the region. Like there’s literal brothels in Saudi Arabia. They barely even hide.
Another thing that stands out to me is the amount of Vietnamese hookers specifically. There’s no way the government isn’t aware. Vietnamese village girls with a sub 5k net worth aren’t visiting Dubai for anything but to sell ass. Also, I swear I rarely see Vietnamese women working regular jobs in the region. Even Vietnamese restaurants are staffed by Filipinos. Female Vietnamese sex workers might legit outnumber regular workers. It’s the most egregious out of all of the common sex workers nationalities. You see a lot of Thais, Filipinas, and Africans working normal jobs, but I can’t ever recall having a female Vietnamese server, cashier, etc. and I’ve been in the region for years across multiple countries.
>>694842You never answered my question:
Is this a correct position to come to?
Because the more I think about it, it's nonsensical.
If I got bitten by a bullet ant, and the chemicals in my brain were telling me to kms, would it be reasonable to put me down then? Even if it's just temporary?
I think this framing is abusive, since if nothing is worse than rape, then why would you try to move on from your rape then?
Like I was thinking, if I was raped, I would never talk to a woman about it.
If anything I'd kill them in self defense since from what I hear I'd have to fight both depression, but also the women trying to show their """"empathy""".
Obviously I haven't, and hopefully I don't – but I can't see any allyship with women on this topic, and it further damages my perspective on them.
>>695557>what did you do with it?Called the number and it was some random guy asked if he was a mechanic or tower since she recently had car trouble visiting her sister and he wasn't
>why don't you trust herWhen we got back together she went on a bunch of dates and lied about it to me.
>>695586> When we got back together she went on a bunch of dates and lied about it to me.she doesn’t respect you and i would recommend ending the relationship as soon as you feel comfortable doing so
or keep holding your breath waiting to be respected and suffocate in misery, i guess
>>695628No.
> been an adult for 10x as long as youFor simplicity let's assume adulthood begins at 20, then she was an adult for 20 years, meaning that you are 22 years old.
>>695590Urban, just more options all around.
>>695589>or keep holding your breath waiting to be respected and suffocate in misery, i guessBeen doing that since she admitted to it. It's getting to the point where it feels like I just like suffering. Since then she's:
>broken up with me 3 times>went on a date with a guy claiming it was a platonic hangout when I told her it was obviously a date>left me alone at a show to go talk to her friends and a guy who hates me>went to speed dating thing "to support her friend">turned down sex for like a week in a rowI think I just like the fantasy of having my own chronically online sweetheart. If things had just worked out simply and easily I would probably be the most content I've ever been in a relationship right now. It feels like I fucked up first when I broke off with her after one date to pursue a toxic situationship with this horrible anonette I hooked up with.
>>695627>thats not how 40yr old women are dumbassIt is how your mom is supposed to be though. Freud was so right.
>>6956284x10=40
Unless you're a todfler
>>695660Dude, you seriously have to just fucking bite the apple. Like don't sperg out with resentment, just start saying you're busy and never initiate contact ever again - as the other poster said, she doesn't respect you and you're lost in the sauce.
Seriously, it's going to suck for like two weeks because she (and you) ravaged your self-esteem and then you'll start being okay again. Seriously fuck that shit dude, you GOTTA stop, this is no way to live.
>>695642ur right
ur so smart anon
>>695683>Like don't sperg out with resentment, just start saying you're busy and never initiate contact ever again - as the other poster said, she doesn't respect you and you're lost in the sauce.That's not right to do to someone you've been with for over half a year, even if it's off and on. As far as I know she's been loyal lately. She started saying she loves me, and I've said it back when I was feeling good and not thinking too much about the past. If I'm going to break up I'll just be direct about it.
>Seriously, it's going to suck for like two weeks because she (and you) ravaged your self-esteem and then you'll start being okay again. Seriously fuck that shit dude, you GOTTA stop, this is no way to live.If anything, I think I'd immediately feel a lot better with a gradual slide back into loneliness over the next few months until it got bad enough to start dating again. I don't like the whole cycle. I just want a relationship that's simple, fun, and loyal. This one could have gone well if I hadn't blown her off to chase schizo tail back in November.
>>695687Easy there commie
It's called the workers and the peasants not the workers and the inbred retards
>>695704I'm sorry, absolutely nothing you wrote gave me the idea that you guys were 'with' each other, I just thought you fucked every once in a while. Seeing as she actually feels like she has to connive you into believing she isn't fucking other dudes might mean that there is some investment, but as you're saying you want something simple, fun and 'loyal' - you're currently into something convoluted, harrowing and duplicitous.
Grow a spine man, I'm all for love and I know stuff gets complicated, but this is just tragic. Deny the Will, stop torturing yourself.
>>695786>You got ghostedno not really
i think she'll probably move on from this though
>didn't even know what it meantbe for real anon who doesnt know what it means in the year 2025. i can tell you without any uncertainty that she likes anime and japanese culture and in fact did have previous knowledge of the stupid anime sex face.
i may be an autist but im not going to go springing this bullshit on some random addison rae fan or something
>"aheago is problematic"my point ran more along the lines of "this is obvious and low effort incel bait"
>over 7 back to back texts?in my defense i havent taken adderall in close to a month and i was buzzing like crazy
>This is worse than when I drunk text.you don't want to know what it looks like when i drunk text
>touch grass, pleasei am broken and normies scare me. it's better to be secluded and to only bother the other antisocial/schizoid hyper online folks than subjecting real life people to it
>you seem nicethank you, you do too. you threw some digs my way but you clearly care about me and i can appreciate that
>I bet youre less creepy in persondepends
less talkative for sure
>>695795>Don't alienate yourself from the world, friend.well not entirely, i cant go live in a cabin in the woods obviously.
the plan is to keep it to the two or three efriends who are (stupidly) willing to look past who i am as a person
when i try to get myself wrapped up with others like real friends and real life friend groups, i just humiliate myself.
it's more about protecting others than self-alienation. there are people in society now who cannot abide by the social contract and must be ridiculed, ignored or actively exiled elsewhere. bad news for me.
you can probably sense some grain of humanity deep within me and that makes you sympathetic, maybe it's being around the same age and thinking you are able to relate your own situation to mine. unfortunately, whatever it is that makes a functional human within me is slowly but surely withering away.
it's hard to even want to take care of myself at all. and for the past nine months, i havent.
tl;dr it is over for me and there is no coming back
sorry for being so terribly melodramatic
>>695814>it sounded like u were trying to justify yourselfthis is some useful feedback that i can practically apply in future social situations. thanks anon
>>695846arguably 7
very silly list
>>696224The worst is that she told me "I'm coming back tonight" and I said "maybe we could see each other quickly before the last train, or I could stay in town but I have nowhere to sleep" and she said it's better for me to go back home. What the fuck does she want?
It's alright, it reminded me at least I should take the train to visit my family next time, but goddamn it's frustrating.
>>696222>Even trying to date a mentally-ill femcel is hell
wow, that's crazy
>>696259 (me)
Just to expand on that: If a woman explicitly states she needs help to pay for her bills like this, she is probably an immature person I can't expect to be reliable in any way whatsoever, especially in a bullet point list like this. At least lie about this and bring it onto the table after sex. If you can't have this basic decency, then sorry, but keep posting bitter tweets and join the ranks of CC femcels I guess.
>>696268For homosexuals. The men anon posts are bisexualgazemaxxed and also easily achievable natty with basic diet and calisthenics.
>>696235>every relationship I've been in ended up as a bittersweet stalemateLearning to leave when it's going south is the hardest thing because everyone in our society says "work it out" but the truth is it's not worth it unless you feel better working on it.
>>696249I think it's fair. My dream date is just someone who's honest and not seeing other people which is impossible to find on dating apps, and very rare in society.
>>696234excellent lobster image, anon
could use more butter
>>696353Well you want a lot of things and she's not giving it to you, so that's that. It isn't going to work out, you're just diminishing your own value - not only to yourself but to her as well - by pretending it will.
It sucks, but you should stop this, so you can reclaim some self-respect so you'll at least be attractive to someone else in the possibly near future.
Again, it really sucks and I feel bad for you, you deserve to binge ice cream and cry for a week, but seriously stop this shit
>>696347Maybe you are right and I should be grateful I possibly dodged a bullet. She was pretty dull indeed when we talked during winter, due to her meds I imagine.
That said, I will be honest: I didn't really want a serious relationship with her. I just wanted to play the surrogate psychologist (I studied psychology in university a bit and helped a schizo friend to process some serious trauma) in exchange for hugs and maybe sex, I feel lonely and bored, tired and sad, I wanted to feel a little something, and be nice to someone, but I think I might move somewhere far away in a few months so obviously, unless a strong connection would develop, it was supposed to be a little fling in my mind.
I'm still disappointed I wasted a whole day for someone who didn't manage to tell me "sorry I'm not available, come another day" beforehand. But it's over, I think I sent her a message that was too blunt for her to want to contact me again, and it's better that way. I don't believe in the theory that women who get rejected tend to be more attracted to the men who rejected them, in my experience they just move on. Anyway, sorry I'm rambling needlessly.
>>696356She's giving me everything I want right now except hitting it raw and cooking meals, but those are very superficial desires. It was half a year ago, and I wish I could just get it out of my head. This last week is the worst it's ever been. I cried about it in front of her because she lay on my chest and it reminded me of a text I saw she sent to the other guy in December. I thought time would heal because we genuinely have good chemistry, but I just feel like I lose more and more self-respect the longer our relationship goes on. I wish I could be more like my dad, this sort of thing never bothered him and he was always content with "she's with me now". That's simply a better way to live.
>>696359>When I read things like this I'm sort of glad I'm an incel . Thanks for sort of making me feel better about myself. Sucks to be you though.We're all gonna make it anon. I lost my virginity living in my 20s living in my mother's basement.
>>696386I want to fuck. I've been celibate most of my life. It's okay, I can manage it fine. I'm not a person who has to absolutely be in a relationship with someone to have a life, until some women I know.
But I had a couple of serious gfs in the past and I lived intense moments with them. Not just sex, but also nice long conversations, talking about deep personal stuff, cooking a good meal for both of us, things like this. It's pleasant, it makes you feel better about yourself, more confident, less insecure. You also want to be a better person for your partner. It's a feeling I would like to like to have again, instead of just feeling dead instead.
I don't want to marry or have children btw. I just want to feel loved and love someone for a little while. But hearing some anons here, it's apparently too much to ask for in 2025.
>>696386This is because friends will eventually not have the same amount of time to spend with you
Why? Because your friends have relationships, or because they are simply getting to old and dusty to hang out anymore
People talk about how crazy cat ladies and weird old men down the street have existed for a long ass time but these people interacted with other residents in the community
Today if you don't have a relationship or siblings who would take care of your ahh being single implies societal isolation.
>>696388>>696393This goes back to my point about embracing being single. Sure, it might be nice to be in a relationship and sure it's true you can't always hang out with friends, but there is merit to being alone and enjoying your own company.
Sure, if you enjoy being in a relationship and are nostalgic for past ones then it might be hard to enjoy being by yourself.
we're also conditioned through media, school, etc that we absolutely HAVE to be in a relationship, have sex all the time, etc but there IS more to life than that and you don't need partners to experience it.
and if all you want is sex, then get a sex toy. if you want the company as well then you could organize a hookup or have phone sex. just an idea
>>696386>why do you guys feel like you NEED to be in a relationship?I like to fuck regularly.
>>696396>if all you want is sex, then get a sex toyThis anon does not fuck.
>>696386<disclaimer: i promise that i am not trying to write a smug quippy dunk on you, i am being sincerei believe it in my bones that i can only love myself through the eyes of another person, because i am barely a person if at all
but i do treasure each and every moment in which a random person, friend, what have you has seen me as something more than a robot meant to perform a specific act or task or a full on colossal wreck (im talking national tragedy level wreck here bros, not that i’m important enough to get that kind of shine)
living in rigidity does not get easier
all i can do is continue to love whatever people still do tolerate me while they are still here
>INB4 “it’s not that bad anon you seem normal and sociable”>some kind of variant of Narrative Therapy slop>“stop catastrophizing anon, it’s all going to be okay in the end!” >>696386Obviously I have a blind, insatiable impulse that compels every cell of my being to strive, to endure, and to reproduce. It's different for other people?
>>696380She obviously isn't, but I'm thinking you probably have no idea what you really want and you keep clinging to this because when you actually get some of your elusive 'wants' your dopamine receptors go fucking bananas because it's a momentary break from crying and feeling invalidated, so you delude yourself into thinking this is good actually - but I don't give a fuck, good luck my man
>>696396>there is merit to being alone and enjoying your own companyAnon, I told you I have been alone most of my life. I have traveled all across Europe alone several times. I can enjoy my own company. But sometimes I miss the warmth of a girlfriend, the company women can provide. That doesn't mean I absolutely need to be in couple. Hell, I rejected a woman today because she bailed out, it pissed me off so I told her I have nothing positive to bring to her and she should forget me, while I could have been a simp but I don't have the patience to do so. I prefer being alone than purchasing someone who won't do me any good. But I still wish I had a gf sometimes.
>if all you want is sex, then get a sex toySorry but sex with a real woman, in the flesh, with whom you have a strong emotional connection, is not comparable to masturbation. If the woman know how to move her body, she can make you feel like your brain is about to explode. That said, some women are boring in bed and are basically like fucking a starfish.
>if you want the company as well then you could organize a hookup or have phone sexWith whom? Might as well go straight for the real relationship thing at this point if you have phone sex with a girl.
>>696405 (me)
pursuing* not purchasing, i'm not a passport bro lol
>>696419lol same thing happens here it’s real strange
wonder if that happens on desktop w/ 4chan X
>>696421reporting live from my pc: it's still sideways
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>>696687True. But, not my style dawg.
>>696688Idk, man $250 aint that crazy imho. Compared to money I spent on other escorts and massage girls this was well worth it. You cant really get hammered and high and freely drill in most clubs. I guess the tough part might be frequenting a dancer enough to build trust. But I guess I'm a club vet by now.
>>696707Literally selling your body on the streets isn't even rape, at least not most of them. An undocumented immigrant being pimped by thugs in the streets is not the same thing as adult men and women who just want to do a convenient and easy way for extra income
This is the same thing as conflating road rage with killing someone. It is so absurd and anyone who knows any actual sex worker will realize that the only way you arrive in that conclusion is through abstract philosophizing
>>696727bruh that's not a solution, female jobs pay like shit. I work in a male dominated field that pays decently enough but there's no pussy, it seems you can't have both career + women unless you have some insane social network
female hobbies are also useless besides maybe cooking, i don't want to go to a fucking yoga class or shitty mindfulness jerking session
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