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>>696472>>701819you’re right as far as gen z is concerned but
<le mass unrestricted internet access as computers became more accessible to the general population is acktually a psyop does not make much sense
in the 80s and 90s internet usage was more limited to university and military usage.
due to most computers having shitty hardware that made playing around with this stuff painful and vested financial interests betting for years probably up until 2015 betting that people would be turned off by the internet and return to cable tv, it took a time to really sanitize and commercialize it
>>701825now that the richest man on earth and donald trumps personal handpuppet owns one of the largest and most journalistically significant platforms, this will unfortunately only become more true.
i also want to address the fact that i fucked up my post TWICE but what i reposted is more or less the same as rhe initital post
>>701826I could expound a lot. No worries either, I'm not quick to insult people like a lot of anons. Yeah I don't know if I really have to lay it out that it is important to like have social relationships with people in person. I'm not saying a telecommunications only relationship isn't/or can't be a real relationship per se, but it's just missing the full experience. Also people tend to have more shallow relationships with people. Especially if it's all through texting and etc. Me and you are having a more real conversation than most people have through text on social media, because most people don't have long thought out conversations like we have here with multiple sentences and everything. But you can have real relationships through telecommunications. I've met a number of people online from around the USA that I've actually met in person. Some people I keep up with to this day.
So how will the touching grass and having IRL social experiences help? Like that's like I said, the real full spectrum social experience. You have to physically be present with someone. So if you have trouble doing that, we can talk and talk endlessly about whatever your problems are doing that, but you are never going to get better at that, until you go out and do it. Like I said with the older gens, I think it is much more a given that you had some mostly offline, IRL relationships with people, and deep, in-person human connection experiences. So it's more a matter of "getting back on the horse." But if you've had that experience, it's going to be much harder to take your first steps, and it will only get harder, not easier, to get those kind of experiences as you get older for the most part.
>>701821>>701823>>701819Normalcy is relative by your definition. This stereotype that younger generations don't have a social life due to Internet is ironic. I find more terminally online asocial boomers than zoomers.
Most young people nowadays have a social life that's merely extended by social media not restricted
>>701832It was way easier to escape reality before the Internet.
You could afford to not have TV or radio.
And you could live in remote areas and there were less liability laws.
>>701825>Also people tend to have more shallow relationships with people. Especially if it's all through texting and etc. Me and you are having a more real conversation than most people have through text on social media, because most people don't have long thought out conversations like we have here with multiple sentences and everything. But you can have real relationships through telecommunications. I've met a number of people online from around the USA that I've actually met in person. Some people I keep up with to this day.This is kind of self righteous. People have long discussions online about anything and everything. And irony is, on image boards, I get spammed with more memes and whining about sexlessness than on mainstream platforms.
>>701821The real reason for this isn't because of social media but because of stranger danger/helicopter parents.
People blame social media for all of youth problems because adults ignorantly assume that youth is a universal experience for everyone.
>>701819It's not the newer generations you should be worried about. It's the imageboard patronage.
You guys project your own personal failings onto "normies" far too much.
All the pathologiseing you do about your juniors applies more to you than them
>>701829>Some people I keep up with to this day.truth i still know and talk to a handful of people i met on TF2 and R9K over a decade ago
>So if you have trouble doing that, we can talk and talk endlessly about whatever your problems are doing that, but you are never going to get better at that, until you go out and do it. this is just exposure therapy is it not
>>701832>[…] now everyone has the devil in their pocket 24/7. It's so easy to try to escape from IRL experiences even when you are outside or in a social gathering or etc.even since moving to large city there are rarely times where im not constantly using my phone, i usually idly have ear buds in my ears or headphones on my head even if im not using them
so.. pretty true
hard not to get the impression that people just want to be left the fuck alone in public and youre intruding on them somehow with your presence
>>701840pretty clear that anon is saying all of this because they feel that they lack in that department
>>701832am i wrong?
also, how old are you approximately?
>>701836>spammed with more memes and whining about sexlessness than on mainstream platformswell thats just to be expected unfortunately. but you also get a space to hangout with other socially autistic freaks who are "in the pocket" so to speak, who have had life experiences that may reflect yours and are often familiar with more obscure references
there's also no incentive to farm upvotes and increase your karma or likes to increase your social profile here, all you get are maybe a lot of replies in one thread that expires after 500 replies.
the appeal to this sort of social media is that it is more true to the human experience and less performative even if many of the things posted here are a flood of vile fucking garbage
>>701846>>701841>>701842>even since moving to large city there are rarely times where im not constantly using my phone, i usually idly have ear buds in my ears or headphones on my head even if im not using themso.. pretty true
>hard not to get the impression that people just want to be left the fuck alone in public and youre intruding on them somehow with your presenceDo you remember before iPods we had people stuffing their faces in newspapers and cassette players?
Or we had people using portable DVD players.
Or even novelettes.
Nobody ever really liked being bothered by strangers.
>the appeal to this sort of social media is that it is more true to the human experience and less performative even if many of the things posted here are a flood of vile fucking garbageIt's only true in the sense it caters to the "downtrodden". But I don't really think image boards are more genuine.
In fact, I would say a lot of the woes on here are embellished. It's just less "plastic" than would be on Reddit.
>there's also no incentive to farm upvotes and increase your karma or likes to increase your social profile here, all you get are maybe a lot of replies in one thread that expires after 500 replies. There's incentive to get replies.
Image boards don't need upvotes. All they need are replies. That's more influential than upvotes.
Upvotes merely indicate if people gel with your sentiment and they can be declined.
>pretty clear that anon is saying all of this because they feel that they lack in that departmentWhich is typical of most people. They always feel like they're lacking in some department.
>am i wrong? also, how old are you approximately?Age numbers are not a good indicator of personality.
But I bet that anon is older than you think they are.
>>701846True. To a certain extent.
Methinks that alot of things classified as mistakes are just people feeling entitled to instant prospect.
People like to beat up on their younger self for missing out on uncertain prospects especially if it's romantic relationships or stock marketing.
But the likelihood of success is always less than half.
But I also think there are mistakes that cannot be lived with. And it's not even a matter of "life changing decisions" but rather just the typical loss of potential that time brings.
This is why idealism should never be reinforced onto young people.
Idealism leads to unnecessary suffering.
Broke up with my bipolar off-and-on girlfriend and got back on apps. I actually have a really good intellectual connection with this girl I started talking with. We're going on a date Saturday and I'm really excited for it. Hope the chemistry is good in person. She's a little thicc, but ime the best sex is with chubby girls.
>>701855I've had a couple dreams about my ex talking about the guy she blew me off for at the start of our relationship. Just the other night after we'd broken up I dreamt that I met the guy at an open-house. I cooked her breakfast that morning and later she went out and hooked up with some guy off the internet, texting me about her outing with "a friend". She had the gall to tell me she "always wanted to be with me" too. Sorry for the rant I just needed to get that out.
>>701838you blew that other guy outta the water with this one, shit like "terminally online" and "touch grass" are thought terminators in discussion, particularly in relation to internet demographics regardless of how obscure they are. the average leftypol user is necessarily different than the average twitter user (not to say there are no similarities) but both can be be flattened so easily using those phrases its absurd
>>702077there isn't because there's a difference between mere sexual attraction and actually wanting to be with someone. you can be friends with a woman you find pretty, and it's not repression to do so. you just know you think she's beautiful and you don't act on that feeling. if merely observing that fact is enough to cause you distress you need to take some time and really think about what your priorities are or how you quantify people in your mind. if sexual attraction is null for the respect of friendship you have something wrong you need to fix that requires more women friends. or you could be in the prestages of polyamory, who knows. but it sounds more like what i was sayin before.
>>701981May as well say that about everyone in the days of slavery and superstition and the drug craze.
Otherwise, this is just projection.
I notice it's always the bitter old men who say stuff like this while hiding away from the outside world.
>>702077This is very shallow.
>>702080>if merely observing that fact is enough to cause you distress you need to take some time and really think about what your priorities are or how you quantify people in your mind. if sexual attraction is null for the respect of friendship you have something wrong you need to fix that requires more women friendsFucking this.
A lot of this romantic/sexual philosophical.angst that image boards have is just merely projection of their psychosexual immaturity.
They don't know how to appreciate others in a platonic setting.
They feel entitled to sex and physical affection without having anything to offer in return.
>>702112I wish that
>>702107 was me.
In fact, that anon articulated the situation better than me.
>>702156But
>>702079 is about accepting a sexless life.
>>702240Do you mean 2000 the year or the decade?
PS3 came out in 2007
>>702248Nice pun you did there.
Of course for only nineteen-hundred and seventy-five Anglo American cent-dollars,you too can get your own Nippon femme fatale fighter with alternate customes.
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>>702333People always seem to think that every and any opportunity to get laid or get rich in the past was all highly likely for success.
Unfortunately that only works for a select few
However at the same time I don't believe in "youre never too old to try again"
>>702353me either anon
but dont put your dick in her raw unless you know how many people shes fucking, and how many people THEY are fucking
<t. art student fucking three-to-four other amabs accuses me of giving him trichomoniasis<take full STD panel and blood panel<tests come back negative for trich<???<still feel ashamed because i fucked a dude that was actively banging so many other people rawoh well it still felt pretty great
>>702375oh no dont get me wrong, same here anon
i even fucked three people raw like weeks after that lol
im just trying to save u the stress bro
>>702729how to flirt:
1. be attractive
>>702729Dating is tricky
You can do everything right and still end up with nothing.
Are you looking for a relationship or a sexual escapade?
>>702739Wrong.
It's not being attractive.
It's being good looking, witty, skilled, etc
>>702759Ironically it's more the lacking you are in attributes, the more you need to be witty
Donald Trump is lacking in a lot of areas
It's his wit that has kept him well liked.
Backed up by a small loan of million dollars
But seriously though, his money alone wasn't his lifeline. He had to make people want to give him their money
And that takes wit.
Donald Trump was a good looking guy back in the 1970s and 80s.
But that alone wasn't what him.
His looks enhanced his main attribute
"Blackpills" are monochrome vision.
>>702818A lonely island?
>>702867>>702871"Jizz In My Pants" or "Dick In The Box" would be better
Called my off-and-on ex over. We had raw makeup sex and I'm feeling a lot better. We'll probably be together until she starts making me feel undesired again. I think I should probably jerk off before first dates in the future.
>>702739You're right anon. Talked to my dad about it and he said "that's just a rude way of saying she wasn't attracted to you". It pissed me off because the way she framed it was like it was a mutual thing and I found her really attractive and exciting.
Day drinking the rest of the IPAs I bought. I also got a handy from a Chinese grandma earlier, the bitch had the nerve to look disappointed at the 30 dollar tip I gave her lmao. I've got to go to Mexico soon, jesus christ; a Tijuana hooker would kill for that 30 dollars (idk I've never been to Tijuana, or Mexico). Also, Kerouac is kind of cringe. Folk punk songs made him seem super cool, but Tristessa is literally just the written account of a psuedo-homeless morphine addict romanticizing Mexican poverty and drug addiction. And imagine lying to yourself that your Mexican hooker morphine addict GF that's literally dying of some disease is hot, or "thick" (not his literal words but his sentiment). Maybe she was 1950s thick, idk. Dhrama Bums seems better but I'm like 3 pages in. Ngl, I thought his stories would be about epic adventures, but like 5 chapters into Tristessa and he's just chilled in her house and like walked down a street. Wtf even is this shit, if some loser posted this story on /trv/ they'd be laughed off the face of the internet. And this guy got published. I want to attach a picture of a beautiful Asian woman but I can't find any on duckduckgo. Why do men that like Asian women love the heavily photoshopped NPC look so much? The features of these women are so nondescript and surgically modified that you can't even guess their ethnicity. I honestly think that I'm the only person with good taste in Asian women, jesus christ.
>>703183Just do it. If you go and don't like it there's nothing compelling you to go back. It's really lower stakes than your damaged brain is telling you. I've found friends at the gamestore (D&D and wargames) and in hobbies. I prefer to meet women dancing because that makes me feel hot and fun.
>>703187>>70318940k is such a money sink. I recommend Battletech/Alpha Strike if you want to play a sci-fi wargame with autists. The Alpha Strike box set is fifty buxx on amazon and you get 13 decent monopose minis plus rules and cardboard terrain.
>>703300Your fetish is chud-coded.
>>703305Stop implying that whiteness = attractiveness, you're racist.
>>703307It's not a fetish, Asian women are objectively the most attractive group of women, and they're the cutest. Regardless, you're wrong but okay.
>>703322It's not a fetish because Asian women are not biologically superior. They look like everyone else really. The difference is in style, culture, and values that makes them better partners and more attractive. Any mid 4/10 or 5/10 girl can look like an asian princess. They just don't try and then get mad when people choose the women who care about their appearance over the women who don't. The reason Asian wives don't get fat like every other culture's wives isn't because of some biological trait that prevents Asians from getting fat. They just value personal health. Asian women don't blame pregnancy for making them gain weight. They go to the gym to get rid of it immediately after giving birth and are proud of doing so.
I may be an incel but at least I'm not delusional.
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