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>>701819you’re right as far as gen z is concerned but
<le mass unrestricted internet access as computers became more accessible to the general population is acktually a psyop does not make much sense
in the 80s and 90s internet usage was more limited to university and military usage.
due to most computers having shitty hardware that made playing around with this stuff painful and vested financial interests betting for years probably up until 2015 betting that people would be turned off by the internet and return to cable tv, it took a time to really sanitize and commercialize it
>>701825now that the richest man on earth and donald trumps personal handpuppet owns one of the largest and most journalistically significant platforms, this will unfortunately only become more true.
i also want to address the fact that i fucked up my post TWICE but what i reposted is more or less the same as rhe initital post
>>701826I could expound a lot. No worries either, I'm not quick to insult people like a lot of anons. Yeah I don't know if I really have to lay it out that it is important to like have social relationships with people in person. I'm not saying a telecommunications only relationship isn't/or can't be a real relationship per se, but it's just missing the full experience. Also people tend to have more shallow relationships with people. Especially if it's all through texting and etc. Me and you are having a more real conversation than most people have through text on social media, because most people don't have long thought out conversations like we have here with multiple sentences and everything. But you can have real relationships through telecommunications. I've met a number of people online from around the USA that I've actually met in person. Some people I keep up with to this day.
So how will the touching grass and having IRL social experiences help? Like that's like I said, the real full spectrum social experience. You have to physically be present with someone. So if you have trouble doing that, we can talk and talk endlessly about whatever your problems are doing that, but you are never going to get better at that, until you go out and do it. Like I said with the older gens, I think it is much more a given that you had some mostly offline, IRL relationships with people, and deep, in-person human connection experiences. So it's more a matter of "getting back on the horse." But if you've had that experience, it's going to be much harder to take your first steps, and it will only get harder, not easier, to get those kind of experiences as you get older for the most part.
>>701821>>701823>>701819Normalcy is relative by your definition. This stereotype that younger generations don't have a social life due to Internet is ironic. I find more terminally online asocial boomers than zoomers.
Most young people nowadays have a social life that's merely extended by social media not restricted
>>701832It was way easier to escape reality before the Internet.
You could afford to not have TV or radio.
And you could live in remote areas and there were less liability laws.
>>701825>Also people tend to have more shallow relationships with people. Especially if it's all through texting and etc. Me and you are having a more real conversation than most people have through text on social media, because most people don't have long thought out conversations like we have here with multiple sentences and everything. But you can have real relationships through telecommunications. I've met a number of people online from around the USA that I've actually met in person. Some people I keep up with to this day.This is kind of self righteous. People have long discussions online about anything and everything. And irony is, on image boards, I get spammed with more memes and whining about sexlessness than on mainstream platforms.
>>701821The real reason for this isn't because of social media but because of stranger danger/helicopter parents.
People blame social media for all of youth problems because adults ignorantly assume that youth is a universal experience for everyone.
>>701819It's not the newer generations you should be worried about. It's the imageboard patronage.
You guys project your own personal failings onto "normies" far too much.
All the pathologiseing you do about your juniors applies more to you than them
>>701829>Some people I keep up with to this day.truth i still know and talk to a handful of people i met on TF2 and R9K over a decade ago
>So if you have trouble doing that, we can talk and talk endlessly about whatever your problems are doing that, but you are never going to get better at that, until you go out and do it. this is just exposure therapy is it not
>>701832>[…] now everyone has the devil in their pocket 24/7. It's so easy to try to escape from IRL experiences even when you are outside or in a social gathering or etc.even since moving to large city there are rarely times where im not constantly using my phone, i usually idly have ear buds in my ears or headphones on my head even if im not using them
so.. pretty true
hard not to get the impression that people just want to be left the fuck alone in public and youre intruding on them somehow with your presence
>>701840pretty clear that anon is saying all of this because they feel that they lack in that department
>>701832am i wrong?
also, how old are you approximately?
>>701836>spammed with more memes and whining about sexlessness than on mainstream platformswell thats just to be expected unfortunately. but you also get a space to hangout with other socially autistic freaks who are "in the pocket" so to speak, who have had life experiences that may reflect yours and are often familiar with more obscure references
there's also no incentive to farm upvotes and increase your karma or likes to increase your social profile here, all you get are maybe a lot of replies in one thread that expires after 500 replies.
the appeal to this sort of social media is that it is more true to the human experience and less performative even if many of the things posted here are a flood of vile fucking garbage
>>701846>>701841>>701842>even since moving to large city there are rarely times where im not constantly using my phone, i usually idly have ear buds in my ears or headphones on my head even if im not using themso.. pretty true
>hard not to get the impression that people just want to be left the fuck alone in public and youre intruding on them somehow with your presenceDo you remember before iPods we had people stuffing their faces in newspapers and cassette players?
Or we had people using portable DVD players.
Or even novelettes.
Nobody ever really liked being bothered by strangers.
>the appeal to this sort of social media is that it is more true to the human experience and less performative even if many of the things posted here are a flood of vile fucking garbageIt's only true in the sense it caters to the "downtrodden". But I don't really think image boards are more genuine.
In fact, I would say a lot of the woes on here are embellished. It's just less "plastic" than would be on Reddit.
>there's also no incentive to farm upvotes and increase your karma or likes to increase your social profile here, all you get are maybe a lot of replies in one thread that expires after 500 replies. There's incentive to get replies.
Image boards don't need upvotes. All they need are replies. That's more influential than upvotes.
Upvotes merely indicate if people gel with your sentiment and they can be declined.
>pretty clear that anon is saying all of this because they feel that they lack in that departmentWhich is typical of most people. They always feel like they're lacking in some department.
>am i wrong? also, how old are you approximately?Age numbers are not a good indicator of personality.
But I bet that anon is older than you think they are.
>>701846True. To a certain extent.
Methinks that alot of things classified as mistakes are just people feeling entitled to instant prospect.
People like to beat up on their younger self for missing out on uncertain prospects especially if it's romantic relationships or stock marketing.
But the likelihood of success is always less than half.
But I also think there are mistakes that cannot be lived with. And it's not even a matter of "life changing decisions" but rather just the typical loss of potential that time brings.
This is why idealism should never be reinforced onto young people.
Idealism leads to unnecessary suffering.
Broke up with my bipolar off-and-on girlfriend and got back on apps. I actually have a really good intellectual connection with this girl I started talking with. We're going on a date Saturday and I'm really excited for it. Hope the chemistry is good in person. She's a little thicc, but ime the best sex is with chubby girls.
>>701855I've had a couple dreams about my ex talking about the guy she blew me off for at the start of our relationship. Just the other night after we'd broken up I dreamt that I met the guy at an open-house. I cooked her breakfast that morning and later she went out and hooked up with some guy off the internet, texting me about her outing with "a friend". She had the gall to tell me she "always wanted to be with me" too. Sorry for the rant I just needed to get that out.
>>701838you blew that other guy outta the water with this one, shit like "terminally online" and "touch grass" are thought terminators in discussion, particularly in relation to internet demographics regardless of how obscure they are. the average leftypol user is necessarily different than the average twitter user (not to say there are no similarities) but both can be be flattened so easily using those phrases its absurd
>>702077there isn't because there's a difference between mere sexual attraction and actually wanting to be with someone. you can be friends with a woman you find pretty, and it's not repression to do so. you just know you think she's beautiful and you don't act on that feeling. if merely observing that fact is enough to cause you distress you need to take some time and really think about what your priorities are or how you quantify people in your mind. if sexual attraction is null for the respect of friendship you have something wrong you need to fix that requires more women friends. or you could be in the prestages of polyamory, who knows. but it sounds more like what i was sayin before.
>>701981May as well say that about everyone in the days of slavery and superstition and the drug craze.
Otherwise, this is just projection.
I notice it's always the bitter old men who say stuff like this while hiding away from the outside world.
>>702077This is very shallow.
>>702080>if merely observing that fact is enough to cause you distress you need to take some time and really think about what your priorities are or how you quantify people in your mind. if sexual attraction is null for the respect of friendship you have something wrong you need to fix that requires more women friendsFucking this.
A lot of this romantic/sexual philosophical.angst that image boards have is just merely projection of their psychosexual immaturity.
They don't know how to appreciate others in a platonic setting.
They feel entitled to sex and physical affection without having anything to offer in return.
>>702112I wish that
>>702107 was me.
In fact, that anon articulated the situation better than me.
>>702156But
>>702079 is about accepting a sexless life.
>>702240Do you mean 2000 the year or the decade?
PS3 came out in 2007
>>702248Nice pun you did there.
Of course for only nineteen-hundred and seventy-five Anglo American cent-dollars,you too can get your own Nippon femme fatale fighter with alternate customes.
(Offer only availble from midnight first of January twenty ought zero thru eleven fifty-nine post meridian of the thirty-first of December twenty ought nine)
>>702333People always seem to think that every and any opportunity to get laid or get rich in the past was all highly likely for success.
Unfortunately that only works for a select few
However at the same time I don't believe in "youre never too old to try again"
>>702353me either anon
but dont put your dick in her raw unless you know how many people shes fucking, and how many people THEY are fucking
<t. art student fucking three-to-four other amabs accuses me of giving him trichomoniasis<take full STD panel and blood panel<tests come back negative for trich<???<still feel ashamed because i fucked a dude that was actively banging so many other people rawoh well it still felt pretty great
>>702375oh no dont get me wrong, same here anon
i even fucked three people raw like weeks after that lol
im just trying to save u the stress bro
>>702729how to flirt:
1. be attractive
>>702729Dating is tricky
You can do everything right and still end up with nothing.
Are you looking for a relationship or a sexual escapade?
>>702739Wrong.
It's not being attractive.
It's being good looking, witty, skilled, etc
>>702759Ironically it's more the lacking you are in attributes, the more you need to be witty
Donald Trump is lacking in a lot of areas
It's his wit that has kept him well liked.
Backed up by a small loan of million dollars
But seriously though, his money alone wasn't his lifeline. He had to make people want to give him their money
And that takes wit.
Donald Trump was a good looking guy back in the 1970s and 80s.
But that alone wasn't what him.
His looks enhanced his main attribute
"Blackpills" are monochrome vision.
>>702818A lonely island?
>>702867>>702871"Jizz In My Pants" or "Dick In The Box" would be better
Called my off-and-on ex over. We had raw makeup sex and I'm feeling a lot better. We'll probably be together until she starts making me feel undesired again. I think I should probably jerk off before first dates in the future.
>>702739You're right anon. Talked to my dad about it and he said "that's just a rude way of saying she wasn't attracted to you". It pissed me off because the way she framed it was like it was a mutual thing and I found her really attractive and exciting.
Day drinking the rest of the IPAs I bought. I also got a handy from a Chinese grandma earlier, the bitch had the nerve to look disappointed at the 30 dollar tip I gave her lmao. I've got to go to Mexico soon, jesus christ; a Tijuana hooker would kill for that 30 dollars (idk I've never been to Tijuana, or Mexico). Also, Kerouac is kind of cringe. Folk punk songs made him seem super cool, but Tristessa is literally just the written account of a psuedo-homeless morphine addict romanticizing Mexican poverty and drug addiction. And imagine lying to yourself that your Mexican hooker morphine addict GF that's literally dying of some disease is hot, or "thick" (not his literal words but his sentiment). Maybe she was 1950s thick, idk. Dhrama Bums seems better but I'm like 3 pages in. Ngl, I thought his stories would be about epic adventures, but like 5 chapters into Tristessa and he's just chilled in her house and like walked down a street. Wtf even is this shit, if some loser posted this story on /trv/ they'd be laughed off the face of the internet. And this guy got published. I want to attach a picture of a beautiful Asian woman but I can't find any on duckduckgo. Why do men that like Asian women love the heavily photoshopped NPC look so much? The features of these women are so nondescript and surgically modified that you can't even guess their ethnicity. I honestly think that I'm the only person with good taste in Asian women, jesus christ.
>>703183Just do it. If you go and don't like it there's nothing compelling you to go back. It's really lower stakes than your damaged brain is telling you. I've found friends at the gamestore (D&D and wargames) and in hobbies. I prefer to meet women dancing because that makes me feel hot and fun.
>>703187>>70318940k is such a money sink. I recommend Battletech/Alpha Strike if you want to play a sci-fi wargame with autists. The Alpha Strike box set is fifty buxx on amazon and you get 13 decent monopose minis plus rules and cardboard terrain.
>>703300Your fetish is chud-coded.
>>703305Stop implying that whiteness = attractiveness, you're racist.
>>703307It's not a fetish, Asian women are objectively the most attractive group of women, and they're the cutest. Regardless, you're wrong but okay.
>>703322It's not a fetish because Asian women are not biologically superior. They look like everyone else really. The difference is in style, culture, and values that makes them better partners and more attractive. Any mid 4/10 or 5/10 girl can look like an asian princess. They just don't try and then get mad when people choose the women who care about their appearance over the women who don't. The reason Asian wives don't get fat like every other culture's wives isn't because of some biological trait that prevents Asians from getting fat. They just value personal health. Asian women don't blame pregnancy for making them gain weight. They go to the gym to get rid of it immediately after giving birth and are proud of doing so.
I may be an incel but at least I'm not delusional.
>>703350>>703354>children.Yeah man, presenting yourself in a positive light means you're a child. Women should only be bitchy and belligerent and show zero charm. That's what a TRUE woman is like.
Do you realize how infantilizing and sexist that is? Jesus. What a totally shallow worldview.
anyways, vid related just made me realize something. you know how conservatives love to call other males "betas", and say that feminists secretly hate males? its ironic, because conservatism is a lot more gynocentric than feminism. what benefit do you get, as a male, supporting an ideology that sees the everyday male as a subhuman, an NPC, as cannonfodder that exists purely to sacrifice himself everyday just to provide for a woman? conservatives present quite literally no solution to young men, they just tell you to go die in some war so rich bankers can get richer and that this will make you happy somehow. any sort of male individual expression is shunned and viewed as weakness, any sort of introspection is quickly shut down, your only value in life is in relation to others, you are not an individual but rather a provider, you are measured by how much you provide and if you for any reason fail to provide, you are discarded and easily replaced. its bleak.
>>703356>>703358whatever you assholes are just getting mad at me for stating a fact.
>>703355sure
>>703438
>A racial fetish comes in the form of stripping the complexity and individuality of the demographic in question to a monolithic stereotype that you feel attracted to, which applies to everything you said. People who aren‘t East Asian can also have the traits you praised and people who are East Asian could not have the traits you ascribe to them.
Congrats you discovered that humans have nuance and "Latinas have better asses" is not universally applicable as a statement and doesn't inherently imply the person saying it is ONLY attracted to latina women or their asses but simply noting an observed trend that Latinas (generally) have better asses. That isn't to say a non-latina can't have a nice ass, or a latina can't have a flat ass.
Actually fuck it, I'll just use height since that's probably the thing you're obsessed with. White men are generally taller than asian men. This is a quality that many asians fetishize about white men. When they speak of wanting a tall white boyfriend, they are not talking about the short incel weeb chud that doesn't bathe. They are talking about Chad.
The same applies to women. When someone says "I want an asian gf" they aren't talking about some fat ugly loud Chinese girl that doesn't take care of herself. They are talking about the cultural ideal of asian women: skinny, fashionable, nice-smelling, cute, and affectionate. This is also conveniently the asian beauty ideal, which is why MOST asian women aspire towards it. Just like the white beauty ideal for men is being tall and having strong facial features and broad shoulders. People with a "race fetish" are pretty much just lusting after that race's beauty ideals, not the race as a whole.
>>703605>Latinas have better assesNice Motte and Bailey there. Saying that latinas usually have big asses is not the same as the fetishistic race drivel you said earlier.
>This is a quality that many asians fetishize about white men.I noticed that racists usually go about using terms very loosely to muddy the waters. They don‘t „fetishize“ tallness when they state a preference for taller men. What they fetishize is white men on the basis that they belief white men are superior, which is something that is rampant among East Asian women. East Asian female and white male couples are based on mutual fetishization.
>>703634You do realize that paraphilia is basically interchangable with 'kink' right
Objectively speaking from a modern day perspective kinkless sex is more atypical than paraphilia
>>703639Saying you feel attracted to someone‘s
character doesn‘t mean it‘s about them having good morals. I also didn‘t say everybody feels this way. But I must say it‘s pretty sad to only feel sexual attraction to a body.
>>703666Yep this too
Like are you gonna ditch your partner because they get stressed out by jobs and such and are no longer the same person as they are when you started a relationship
I'm not saying that we should be prudes who stubbornly remain in a doomed relationship. But instantly ditching your partner because their personality changed is much more shallow than liking someone simply for their physical attractiveness
>>703666There is something called divorce.
>>703670And where did I say I would ditch my partner for any minuscule change in personality? I said if your partner‘s personality changed so much that they would lose the traits that you feel attracted to then you would ditch them, which likely doesn‘t occur just because they are stressed in a given time period. If they were to change that drastically with no guarantee of it returning then absolutely you should leave your partner. That isn‘t shallow either, it‘s everything.
>>703682Personality/character isn't an innate trait no. It's something you can very much improve by just forcing yourself to socialize. I'm an introvert but working in sales pushed me to learn how to analyze people and develop more interpersonal skills that I otherwise would've never tried.
Your nature is just your starting stat line. The fact you never develop it past that point is your own fault.
>>704096I'd probably cum harder inside of chudette than a communist girl that really loves me. Because of:
>>704082Sex is a mess.
>>704096It's different for men. I'd fuck a chudette in a heartbeat and cum on her face. It's all about humiliation. Taking it is submission.
>>704099>>704101True.
>>704489Yeah I don't really feel like I cheated, but she saw it that way and I kinda see her point, but also I could spin what she did as cheating too even though it's not.
>I have no idea what this isMe neither anon.
>>704510>Big titties and a nice ass are not worth it when the woman is mentally illTrvke.
>>704487 This girl is rail thin with fat titties
>>704758>>704771i know you're trying to meme but guinea sexuality is nothing like that, guineas aren't selective like humans in sex, all guineas are horny when the time comes, all guineas have sex in a communal way, both the men and the women are sluts despite the sex lasting for one minute only, sorta like cats, this is why they keep them in devided areas but it didn't matter for randy
thank you for reading have geeenas
>>705467If what you’re saying is true imagine how just as bad the female side is.
Have you ever hung around women in their own spaces as platonic acquaintances or as a moms errand child?
>>705471I hear more of that kind of chatter from older guys whom are still stuck in their glory days
Also, if you think that’s bad, imagine how women talk and feel about men.
Have you ever hung around ghetto chicks or even suburban ones?
>>705473This is why I say marriage is a vanity license.
Society gives far too much credit to older married guys as the heroes of society.
Yet they’re the main clientele of prostitutes and are on the down low with other men.
>>705495people in general develop superiority complexes if they get lucky. whether it's lucky to be smart (born with a good brain), lucky to be rich (born into a wealthy family), lucky to be attractive (have access to good food and exercise equipment). People take whatever lucky hand they got dealt and they say to themselves "this was all my good choices and free will and everyone else made bad choices and I'm better than them and they should kiss my ass."
But imo free will isn't real because if a person gets massive brain damage they will make completely different "choices" from that point onwards, have a different attitude, etc. We've known this since Phineas Gage. Our "choices" are simply the interplay of brain/body and surroundings, neither of which we had a choice in. Nobody even choses to be born. Choice is an illusion but the idea that people are "responsible" for what they "choose to do" is a spook to reinforce hierarchies and persecute people who have "bad brains" that make "bad choices"
>>705500yeah I have no free will and I'm "lucky" enough to realize that and not develop a superiority complex about it.
also I recognize that people will be "held responsible" for their actions even if they were predetermined by physics. because that's deterministic too
>>705809asked your mom, she says she does
I was wondering what she was doing on the phone while I'm hitting her from the back
>>706120Then you start drinking all day, everyday, for weeks and you're like:
>WTF? Why am I getting an ulcer?It's spooky how similar.
>>706120Trvthnvke
>>706076Mid girls deserve to have a good time too.
>>706308I'm not a dude, I'm speaking about my own preferences. For how much we get killed by our partners I think the majority of women don't take their survival seriously enough. Self defense starts at decision making, at life choices. I will not be an statistic.
>>706307If you're trained then you can still fucking destroy a male so long as he's around a similar size and weight and you. In MMA and combat sports in general you regularly see men that obviously have a much less favorable muscle/fat proportion (and are ergo weaker) win. Think Conor McGregor vs Nate Diaz 1. Conor was in spartan condition ripped as fuck and Nate was fat fucking slow yet still choked him.
The reason most women lose to men is actually just lack of interest in seriously developing combat and self defense abilities as well as the fact that the average woman is smaller and lighter than the average male by a country mile. Also what's with the implication that shorter men are ugly? thats just not true.
>>706346You think it's always guys with the same strenght out there or "the stronger one always wins"? In Ilia Topuria vs Charles Oliveira not too long ago it was very obvious in the short clinch exchange that Charles massively strength-mogged Ilia. But how did the fight end? weight, conditiniong and technique (IN THAT ORDER) matter more than anything else. All champions lightweight and below would get killed by an unranked LHW journeyman.
>>706347It's not all I'm thinking about, I just have a very strong self preservation instinct I think I have entirely reasonable motives for feeling paranoid and unsafe even with men that seemingly have nice personalities. I've seen it happen too much that a girl meets a prince charming that 6-12 months into a relationship becomes a domineering monster, or after getting her pregnant/getting married. I'm never losing financial independence, marrying, getting pregnant or dating way too physically advantaged compared to me. Simple as.
>>706336>Also what's with the implication that shorter men are ugly? thats just not true.i like your oblivious honesty girl.
but in all seriousness i don't understand it either, i'm a guy, i couldn't care less about my height when i was much, much younger, but i was teased and mocked for it during school, it got under my nerve but not to extreme levels, now the more i search the worse it gets, i seen girls call Tate "short man energy" when he's their ideal height of six feet, to be shorter is to be uglier in all kinds today, it's associated with negativity and badness, like being indian or being dum, its now seen as one of those negative traits no male wants to be associated with, and and insult to use to defame someone, kinda like small dick or you look ugly. or you're poor im rich.
it's gross, being seen as less over a trait so trivial like height, i don't stand the appeal either
>>706353People just look for different ways to create "cool/cringe" dynamics so they can feel superior to other people and have someone they can make fun of. I really fucking hate how shallow and needlessly sadistic and cruel it all is in this system and culture.
I feel like 99% of the human population should get forced to do metta and karuna meditation 30 minutes a day each for life.
>>706344>>706334oh.
well in that case i sympathize, and i understand completely, during school i had only one social dream, to be like the stereotypical jock from Dumb medias i consume circled around school life, mean girls, the Bully Game. i wanted to look like this picture, letterman jacket, athletic, tall, with a cheerleader girl i can count on. and a convertible Car. this is all a fantasy, it never happened, im from working class family unable to afford cars, i got rejected a lot, sometimes it had to be my look, others, it was my obsession, i wasn't exactly a loser, just a loner. socializing was hard, i never got to do the deed in my teens like all the medias kept promoting as the absolute achievment of life, to find love at teen age.
im 23 now, i dropped out, im telling you incredibly boring info of my life to show it happens to many people but its not the fucking end, who gives a shit if the past is gone dude. even those who have what you like, have things they want to have so bad. if its dating or anyother fantasy try again, not to prove anything but because you want it bad. don't be like me and chase it because of some movie or game
>>706357mediating? people need more than that, when i see people sick in the head cheering for the bombing of third world villages, or setting homless tents on fire, or telling ugly people to commit suicide, i know some people are beyond meditating and need a death squad, i have no tolerance for cruel sadists
Incels’ Fiefdom:
Society: Hierarchical, male-dominated, obsessed with “status” and attractiveness metrics. Likely rigid, bitter, socially isolated.
Economy: Small, survival-focused; reliance on resources over diplomacy.
Army Composition:
Mostly young men, low morale but highly motivated by ideology/resentment.
Light infantry with makeshift weapons; maybe a few archers.
Few skilled strategists; heavy reliance on numbers and fanaticism rather than tactics.
Femcels’ Fiefdom:
Society: Smaller, tight-knit communities, cautious and defensive. Focused on security and mutual support rather than conquest.
Economy: Barter-heavy, possibly more self-sufficient (gardens, crafting).
Army Composition:
Small but disciplined militia; defensive tactics dominate.
Guerilla-style strategies, traps, and ambushes rather than direct confrontation.
Morale may be fragile but survival-driven; cohesion stronger than incels’ chaotic mass.
Likely Outcome in Conflict:
Incels might field larger armies but poorly coordinated.
Femcels’ fiefdom would survive longer defensively, avoid direct battles, and exploit terrain/traps.
Overall, it’s less about strength and more about organization, morale, and strategy—femcel fiefdoms could outlast but rarely conquer.
>>706352That's why I said the fatter guys are not
always the weaker ones. Your first post implied that, but clearly you don't actually believe that, so we're in agreement.
>>706713>get into gym to get better, maybe improve body get called "gymbro" and "gymrat" and "roid gremlin", self-improoovement addict looking for abs to get women>get into pickup artistery and seduction, get called sexist womanizing, cringy old fashioned PUA >get into sport and act agressivly assertive, get called a grindset alpha toxic-masculinity tate watcher and smegma male>try to improve my looks with random tips online to look beautiful, get called a tryhard, faker, looksmaxxing freak obsessed with jaws and skincare and height and dark triad edits>get into literature and softer hobbies, get called a matacha drinking performative male and softboy pretending to get girlsgirls, ladies.. can i try first? i don't care about any of these communities or subcultures, i know im unintresting without any so im following what seems to work at random, if im sexist VHS artist or performative book reader fake feminist, i have to, without performing im not intresting, i have no form and i must perform
are all communities so negative? i go online and all the communities for men have bad connotations with them
>>706847its the problem with the concept of self improvement in general. theres nothing wrong with going to the gym, or reading more, or working on your career, those are good things, but men are taught that, if they want to be appreciated by society, they *need* to become "better", that you, as you currently are, are not good enough, and you will only be good enough once you change yourself. compare this to how women are taught the exact opposite, female self-help content is mostly aimed at learning self-love, that you are enough, that you shouldnt change yourself to please others, and of course thats a positive message, but it should be taught to everyone, not just one gender.
>>707761>>707759the more i think about it, the more i realize it's true, everything in life is built around looks, even racism is built around looks. the entirety of racism is tooted in people trying to appear superior to one another, and that's certaintly based on looks
it's not just racism sure people can be prejudiced on looks inside their own race, but although almost every stereotype of racism is rooted in looks, ours good, the others bad.
from nazi propaganda, to propaganda depicting muslims as bearded rotten toothed ugly bastards, or asians as squint eyed uglies, or jews as hideous, even as far as irish. everything in racism and outside of it is centered on looks, if you're ugly, everything about you is invalid, or the ugliness is part of why you're invalid.
even the whole point of trans hatred online is that they look "manly" or hideous, that if they don't look attractive in any way and that's why they are creepy, no right winger ever depicted a trans person in their memes about bathrooms as passing pornstars, but as creeps who look ugly
this is no world for chopped people, nobody would respect or love the uglier part of the argument, this thing is good because the sayer looks masculine or attractive, the other thing is clearly bad because it isn't attractive
>>707783>it's exactly the other way around.let me rephrase
<everything in life is built around racism, even looks is built around racismits still the same idea to me, nothing changed
>>707768You can't be attractive and not get laid unless you are
actively avoiding sex.
My off-and-on gf insists on having weekly "check-ins" where we talk about how our weeks went and honestly it just makes me ruminate more on the negative feelings I have about us. I don't want to be stuck perpetually "fixing" things. Deep down I hope I meet someone organically who I can monkey branch to. I saw an old high school crush of mine around town and I think the feeling was mutual. I wish I'd stopped her and got her number.
>>707876You are twenty, chill out and enjoy life. Stop seeing her as your gf who will turn your pathetic life around and just enjoy getting your dick sucked while you look for a woman worth actually dating.
>>708161emotionally distant manipulator here
it's called "masking" bitch, I'm autistic
>>708215At best, women can be center left. Women cannot be truly progressive. They are not our allies.
>>708161I'm emotionally distant, but not a manipulator. Just socially retarded. You bitches never give me a chance to open up though.
>>708265Are you 60
>>708256I always lol at this pic. Maybe e-girls are truly proletarian
>>708215This doesnt happen where I live
>>708105doesn't carry the same energy whatsoever, way too dominating
>>708049im so hard right now
>>708122tomboys are the communist way
no forced gender norms, girls manly boys manly
>>708207Same, lol.
>>708280It's piss that was taken. She's completely feminine.
>>708347technically it can, since it removes the main negative factor/risk from hetero sex for women - the threat of pregnancy
of course it's still possible to get an STD, however
Crashed out my gf and more or less called her a whore, again, for being on dating apps while I wasn't at the start of our relationship. I don't know if she's capable of a good relationship, but I just don't want to be lonely again.
>>708434Why'd you split?
>>708385do you really think the woman you truly love and cherish would accept the fact that you were a living dildo to random sluts with undiscovered STDs?
if she does, that would imply a degree of acceptance of promiscuity on her part, which means she's likely to also be a whore previously. you will deserve each other
>>708161"sensitive guy" here
in my defense I thought relationships were about mutual support and I didn't know wanting consistent affection from my gf was a bad thing tbh, I thought she'd appreciate it even lol
dw I've been working hard to change my mindset now
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