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551 posts and 84 image replies omitted.ARGHGHAHGHAHGHAGH I JUST WANT THE BAD FEELINGS AROUND MY GF TO GO AWAY WHY CAN I NEVER GET A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO COMMITS TO ME FROM THE START!???
Nothing. Enjoy what you have. Or don't it doesn't really matter. It's probably all about breeding anyways.
>>737121how much do you think you need to pay to win the lottery ?
at no point do you say you tried asking someone out (even with innuendos idc) so of course all this shit is worthless,you need to move onto the rollercoaster,not stand on the side waiting for someone to pick you up.
>>737121since you omitted it i have to assume you are under 6' or whatever that number in burger was. anyway, you are too short for a gf, sorry.
>>737124No anon, unfortunately I am above 6ft, so it's not that, if you wanna help me cope with incel talking points you can point to the fact that I'm not white, but I'm afraid that's probably not it either, this one is my fault somehow
>>737123I do invite women out, the ones I mentioned, none of them wants me, and also I don't vibe with any of the normal one(not that I don't keep trying like fucking Sisyphus)
>>737122I want a girlfriend more than I want to be alive tbh
>>737131You should stop trying. At least if you're past the 25-30 age range after that there's probably no reason other than to continue humiliating yourself. Or keep trying a lot of it is just luck anyways.
>This whole self improvement thing is a scam
You can be an unemployed slob living in your mother's basement and have a girlfriend. Self improvement is for your own benefit, anon. I suspect you're autistic and just don't have the script for flirting. I recommend dating apps, they suck and you won't meet anyone interesting, but you will meet people who want to fuck. Just pay attention to the way they act and what they respond to and you'll get it.
>>737140Yes, you are most probably right anon, but how can I learn how to flirt? I suck at this and absolutely hate dating apps (don't do good in them either, so your plan won't work)
>>737140>You can be an unemployed slob living in your mother's basement and have a girlfriend. Depends if you're willing to have a gf with a triple digit bmi, uterine fibroids, hormonal imbalances, severe yeast infection, etc.
>>7371211) You need to actually ask girls out.
2) You need to recognize your league. If the girls you are going for consistently reject you, you're out of your league. Go for less and less attractive girls until they start responding and showing interest. That is your league. If anyone tells you that there aren't leagues, they're lying because they think that this sort of "nothing is impossible" pep talk makes themselves look better and that being realistic sounds mean.
3) Self-improvement is only a "scam" to an extent. If you're batting way the fuck out of your league, no amount of self-improvement is going to help. Most of the factors that would land you a supermodel are out of your control. But self-improvement is a way to raise your status a bit, and thus your league. You can be as much of a fucking fat, useless slob as you want so long as you don't mind dating she-ogres that are just as bad as you are.
>>737186league narrative is horseshit. really hot girls never get cold approached and if you're actually a charming fellow the fact that you had the balls to approach her can sometimes be enough to interest her. of course even a drop of insecurity of fear will destroy you but that's the way it is.
>>737259Don't listen to this guy. He's trying to trick you. An ugly loser doesn't get a hot girl just because he cold opened, even if he was the world's more charismatic man, and the vast majority of ugly losers aren't all that charismatic anyway. The best you can hope for is to just not embarrass yourself. Stick to your league.
>>737263i can see you've never chatted a girl up and gotten her number. it's easy when you make it fun, that's kinda the trick to it, just make her laugh or shock her a little bit, anything that gets the blood pumping makes her think you're attractive because women get off on how a guy makes the feel, whether that's through looks, charm, possessions, etc. yes op will absolutely strike out mercilessly at first but eventually he will get a number and it'll snowball from there. you're right that he doesn't have to only ask out super hot girls but you'd be surprised how often they're receptive to lively conversation. women love chatting they think nothing of it, so it doesn't cost you anything.
You do DIY conversion therapy and turn yourself homosexual/bisexual
or become celibate
>>737326Why cant I be a normal person instead?
>>737267The key is to strained up conversation with them though, and that doesn’t mean you’re gonna score
>>737259The first sentence is completely wrong.
>>736328Women don’t want chuddiness.
They want handsome chivalric men.
>>735443> But yeah men who have a more inclusive view of masculinity has less sexual success on average than misogynistic men, and this applied even for physically fit or otherwise outwardly masculine non misogynistic menDoubt.jpg
This sounds like more like urban myths
RODS OUT FOR JADEY
>>736577comrade ur pencil seems to be on FIRE COMRADE YOUR OENCIL
>>737562Ok and?
Research papers used to state that ethnic people and women had smaller brains than white men.
This is just more pop psych.
I bet if respected serious science journals started promoting right wing ideology, you’d instantly reject them
>>737444Chat is this real?
>>733949When people complain about “loneliness “ they’re just complaining about “platonic people being too plentiful”
>>737444She looks she’s drunk or high.
Or the guy she’s cuddling is a relative or friend
Lookism is a non-issue when it’s in the dating market
People who complain about lookism are often the biggest enforcers of it.
Most people think themselves as needing better than they deserve
“Never settle for less”, “be yourself”, ladies/guys like it when you (insert peculiar gesture here)”
It’s all about presentation.
People complain about romance and sex being like a shopping market.
Well guess what?
IT WAS ALWAYS LIKE THAT!!!!
Most people are mediocre in looks, talent, assets, wit, and even hygiene.
Yet, they expect that they should be loved unconditionally from the get-go outside of familial bonds?
>>737694Life is a miserable venture. Mostly anyways.
>>737696>>737694This is why I hate it when people start obsessing over “the meaning of life” or start some stupid ass quest of idealism to “change the world”
>>737783the architect… i kneel…
>>735117"the one" is not a real thing. just settle and commit, spend 10 years with her without major issues and you will think "wow she really was 'the one'"
Would you rather be a seething sunni or a coping shia?
>>735219>>feelings should only be discussed with paid therapists>has become over the last few years as a go-to response (on both sides) and nobody involved seems to have even the foggiest inkling that living your life like that would actually be soul-crushing and alienating.This has got to be some kind of capitalist psyop thing.
>>737851I'm to intelligent to be religious.
>>735336>There are next to no sexually unsuccessful womenIsn't this a literal incel talking point
>>735380I wear my shoes until the very end of their lifespan so it looks like they'll assume I'm poor. I'm assuming this is a bad thing
>>735436We should talk more about this
>>737498Anecdotal, but my misogyny increased a thousand-fold once I started having sex.
>>737855It’s true
Fucking apartment manager in Thailand canceled my reservation. Luckily I was able to find a new place but it’s no longer in walking distance of the language school I planned to attend tf
>>737854>Should be too* intelligentUgh. I can't believe you just made me do that.
>>737854Would you rather stroke a seething sunni schlong or caress a coping shia cock?
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