That feel when you realize after years of theory that not even communism could solve your avoidant personality disorder. Cursed existence until death.
Avoidant to everything except death. That seems meaningful somehow.
If youre a foid i can fix you. If youre a dude i couldnt care less
Maybe if you had access to more better mental health treatments and also didn't live in a hyper-competitive "boot-strap" culture you wouldn't be so avoidant.
I also doubt a "communist" society would then capitalize on you're desire to withdraw by selling you addictive solitary activates (internet) thus making it even harder to crawl out of that hole.
Even if you're to far gone at least i would stop anyone growing up from getting fucked up in the same way. I think that's worth fighting for, no?
I do not believe that to be the case. Read Suicide by Emile Durkheim and stop going to therapists.
short summary of anome becaude I am too lazy.
<Durkheim defined anomie as a state of "normlessness" that occurs when rapid social or economic change disrupts the traditional rules and moral boundaries of a society. In this vacuum, the social guardrails that usually regulate human ambition disappear, leaving individuals with infinite, insatiable desires that can never be fully satisfied. Because society no longer provides a clear map for what is "normal" or achievable, people experience a deep sense of disorientation and psychological distress, often feeling lost or adrift within a system that has failed to provide them with direction.>
isolation, alienation and other social disorderd skyrocketed when eastern eurooe transitioned from socialism to capitalism. I dont really have a solution for you since I am in the same position, we will just have to learn to adapt and endure for the time being. And maybe circunstances will force us to be less avoidant who knows.
>>778480this says a lot about society. we live in a society where men are viewed as worthless if they dont have something to offer you
>>778480What if the foid in question is an old lady or is butch? Or she’s young and beautiful but she’s not interested in sex?
>>778484The real problem is society doesn’t value solitary recreation.
Recreation is seen as mandatorily collective
>>778476Take showers every day and talk to your family.
>>778629Stop making me do sociology reading on the meme board, i finished that years ago
there is no political solution to things that aren't related to money, resources and violence.
politics and economics exist to feed you clothe you and house you in the least fucked up way available, the reason you should care about politics is because you want a society with good material conditions, rightoids tricked everyone into thinking politics can cure a broken mind, it can't.
>>779435Critical theory implicitly championed the idea that all the alienations and -isms and -phobias and mental illnesses (and even humor) are antagonistic excrement of capitalism and once capitalism is gone those things are gone as well. So the idea that politics will fix broken minds isn't exclusive to rightists. But critical theory goes a step further, because it rejects "humanity" as a transhistorical category, implicitly suggesting that for example, after capitalism, there will be no more crimes of passion. And they were writing this stuff decades before incel terrorism, which is predicated on the inherent inequality of free-for-all dating, which Marx somehow never anticipated even if he understood that economic coercion in his time "chained" women and men to each other.
I literally get verbally bullied by strangers constantly when I'm outside and nobody believes this is possible while they also believe that a minority kid facing objective hostility in a neighborhood is possible. I am so tired.