Like I feel like 90% of people who say girls want a "cute shy nerdy guy" are either guys or girls who don't actually know what a cute shy nerdy guy is
>>786294yeah I'm sure they exist but generally speaking a woman still wants a dude who will bring home the bacon and not act like a total autistic pansy. if it gets to the point that she's acting like your mother, then you know you done fucked up.
Probably not but maybe if you're lucky you might be able to get sex from her before she gets the ick.
Not into shyness as that would amplify my own shyness, but yeah feminine guys seem cleaner and easier to work with. And nerdy varies a lot in meaning but I interpret it as they're emotionally intelligent enough to be okay engaging in stuff without putting it through a "but is it popular tho" filter.
Cute, shy and nerd != Feminine
By "cute shy and nerdy" they mean a KPOP band member who can dance and sing and has had extensive plastic surgery.
who gives a shit man lets just goon and smoke some good ass weed
>>786323Polls repeatedly show that 87% of women are mostly attracted to obese unemployed masturbators who smoke weed !
>>786295> if it gets to the point that she's acting like your mother, then you know you done fucked upif it gets to the point where she starts acting like my mother thats how i know i found the right one
>>786326Did you mum beat you or what?
>>786294Just be relatively good looking don't smell, have money or a source of income, preferably your own car and place and you can be pretty much anything.
Lots of them do but they wont date them long term
>>786325who said im obese and unemployed though.
im hot as shit
>>786343How does it feel to know that women's aren't attracted to skinny, hot and employed men ? I doubt you are a reddit mod as well, even tho 56% of women confess that this is the most attractive job in their opinion.
Have you considered becoming a concubine for a real man instead?
>>786390
yea but they were rich and talented and im not
I've definitely met christian girls with effeminate closet case bfs
Hetfoids are romanticizing the notion of introversion
hetmoids will do anything to find out what women are like except talk to them and treat them like human beings
The overwhelming majority of straight women tolerate feminine behavior and aesthetics only insofar as it is used as an aesthetic or performance assessory to enhance your masculinity. Like if you are a 6'3 hunk you can get away with coloring your nails, having long hair and dressing flamboyantly because it creates a contrast with the already expressed masculinity, so it's not an actual subversion of gender norms or aesthetics it's a form of enhancing them, kind of how a yellow belt stresses a violet dress. I don't know how a whole generation of people have been brainwashed into believing straight women don't uphold patriarchal gender norms. If anything and in many respects they do so more than straight men. They are way less tolerant of having a bisexual partner for example.
Just be tall, that's 90% of it. Get a leg surgery and add 6 inches and abandon inceldom forever no matter how ugly, smelly or weird you are.
>>786446Im actually bi. Most of my friends are girls I'm just too scared to ask them
>>786455Short people have it so fucking easy so they had to invent oppression.
Love you'd explain to me how oppressed you are when 90% of intrastructure is adapted to you.
No they do not
>>786461Being freakishly tall is bad but being between 6ft to 6'3 Isn't really that bad .
>>786465Even then, you start off to feel the consequences, and honestly women are more intimidated then attracted to you, you'd be shocked the amount of time some woman would avoid walking next to me in a street (No I am not fat) Sure it's not all bad, but there obviously are issue, beyond being much more likely to get die in an accident (tall people have a much lower life expentency)
>>786455i like being short though
>>786481That's a decent height.
Very fat girls that have neither tits nor ass with hormone imbalances, yeast infections and fibroids or ovarian cysts do.
>>786455I've been over six feet since I was a teenager. Now I'm 40 never had a gf. I'm still poor, ugly, and not white that kinda overrides any benefit I get with height.
>>786674do you have autism?
>>786454I don't know how a whole generation of people have been brainwashed into believing straight women don't uphold patriarchal gender norms. If anything and in many respects they do so more than straight men. They are way less tolerant of having a bisexual partner for example
It's a whole society, not a whole generation.
My mom has a cartoonish view of gender norms, blaming men for women's poor body image but then she will judge men for having any non-macho mannerisms
Why did you assume male femininity is "cute shy nerds"?
>>786302>but yeah feminine guys seem cleaner and easier to work withAre you sure you're not mistaking "feminine guy" to mean "soft spoken immaculate bishonen"?
>>786323This
Idk why people obsess over not being someone's sexual preference
Stop basing your happiness off of other people.
People are fickle and annoying for gratification purposes.
>>787921voluntarism
name a form of happiness not based off of other people
>>787898I have something, but I don't think it is autism. I never had any kind of learning disability (opposite actually), I can read social cues.
>>787926Porn, music, cooking, art, hiking, etc
>>786294I've never heard anyone say women want shy nerdy guys, but if they did the woman's idea of it would probably be quite different than what you have in mind. Think Hollywood ugly.
>>787968Most pop cultural portrayals of nerds in chick flicks are often hunky studs with glasses
But the real problem is the stereotyping of nerds as aesthetically challenged
>>787916Yep, bourgeois feminism is basically just endless psyops. Like women overwhelmingly date based on extremely hetero and conventionally attractive norms like height, facial features, fit body etc.
At the same time they gaslight and pretend that it's men that push unrealistic standards, when in reality its men that are far more lenient in dating based on attractiveness.
I think the correct way of attacking feminism without becoming a chud is pointing out the hypocrisy in bourgeois feminism. But who am I kidding, they'll still call you an incel chud and nothing changes
>>787912STallion fluttershy is the best thing to happen to this board since stirnerposting
>>789566Yep.
There's an anon in another thread claiming women are more leftist than men and the article they provided showed that women only voted more liberal. The only mention of socialism was in a poll question but I don't think they clarified if poll takers understood what socialism was. It was all based on Anglo American politics.
Needless to say anon is having a meltdown because I dare to ask them to provide more evidence.
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