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maybe leave the house

>>789659
what a meaningless and non-sequitur response. thanks for the bump.

>>789659
t. guy who doesn't leave the house
we literally already had a thread about this the other day but no who says this stuff understands how difficult it is these days to actually mingle with strangers. everyone is really isolated.

>>789658
>why are there so few cis women
because cis women inhabit the privileged position of being the gatekeepers of sex. they don't waste time on discord or whatever other nerd shit, they're embroiled in the sexual or interpersonal relationships they've acquired without effort because women are de facto sexually desirable. this is a generality of course, but the point is, cis women don't need to inhabit those spaces to get what you'd hope to acquire from them.

>>789664
op here, i’m genuinely a pretty social person and i’ve gone to lots of social gatherings and concerts on my own in the past, but since none of my current friends live near me it’s a bit difficult to be social when you’re a single guy in his 30s hanging out by himself. i still keep thinking about just hanging out at a local hobby shop that sells pokemon and comic books, or just hanging out at a coffee shop, or going to an event or a convention, but the people who say “go outside” like you said have never actually gone outside and tried to mingle with people. it’s logical that most people my age hang out in online spaces most of the time and it would make the most sense to try to make friends in places where we share the same interests, but then you get people like this poster who says im not doing enough.

i mean, whatever. it’s fine. i was just wondering if other people have had similar experiences, maybe im doing something wrong.

>>789667
sorry dude, but this is just not true and you can’t fool me with the gender war stuff. women are not the gatekeepers of sex, women are horny too. they waste plenty of time on discord and nerd shit, in fact they seek out these kinds of spaces and social functions a lot more than men, i would say. i know because i’ve had sex before. however, my problem is that the few times ive managed to have relationships it was out of pure luck. cis women inhabit plenty of spaces for all kinds of reasons, and looking for love is certainly one of them. you might be asking yourself why i made this thread if i know all of this, well, the problem is i keep asking myself that question too. i know that there’s someone out there for me in this world of 8 billion people, but my number just hasn’t come up yet. all i can do is report on what i’ve found so far and hope that there’s someone else who had my problem and found a solution to it.

Try joining a TERF server (even if you are not one), make some friends or pretend to and asked them for the places

>>789658
Why are you guys so obsessed with “finding a gf” via social media chats?

>>789669
>they waste plenty of time on discord and nerd shit, in fact they seek out these kinds of spaces and social functions a lot more than men, i would say

Doubt. jpg
Not saying they don’t but to claim they do it more than men?

>>789668
People who say “go outside” assume that social lives are easily attainable. They don’t understand that people already have preset social groups and personality types they gel with or don’t

>>789669
>however, my problem is that the few times ive managed to have relationships it was out of pure luck.

That’s the average level of prospect these days. May as well get used to it.

Just fuck transhumanists and don't be a jerk.

>>789679
(Not OP) (Assuming you are a heterosexual male) Would you fuck me then?

>>789672
i don’t actually dislike trans people though, and i would rather not hang around in spaces where rightoids would like to feel welcome either. i dont think TERFs are keen on letting any kind of men into their spaces in any case.

>>789674
>Why are you guys so obsessed with “finding a gf” via social media chats?
what an utterly ridiculous question to ask. this kind of nonsense is what makes incels feel validated. there is nothing wrong with wanting to find a partner and i’m not going to even entertain the rest of your drivel.

>>789675
perhaps so. a lot of it is down to luck, after all. i know that the more i interact with people the more likely i’ll meet someone, but i genuinely have no idea how to meet more people.

>>789679
sorry, i’m simply not interested. i like my trans friends but it’s simply not what i’m looking for. what a rude thing to call someone a jerk for simply being themselves.

If your hobbies are nerd shit then the spaces youll inhabit will be full of autistic people and a lot of autistic people are transgender for some reason. There are plenty of cis women on the internet of course but theyre mostly on twitter, not fucking discord, and their interests are like kpop and shit. It sucks to meet women on twitter because youre gonna have to debase yourself as a reply guy. Your best shot is actually just touching grass, make IRL friends and meet friends of friends and make groupchats with them and schedule hangouts and expand the web of People You Know enough so that people know you too, then you'll meet potential partners. I don't say this to be dismissive, I actually think it's the only way forward and thats how I got lucky. I know some people try Tinder as well and that works for them but me personally I'd rather not

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