Dating conventions/tips only apply to the 70% of people that care about football and Nikki Minaj drama so if that's not your type you can safely ignore all dating talk i.e. basically trying to defeat the other person by caring about them less than they care about you with 0 negative consequences and look for someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with.
giga trvke the incels in sibera aren't ready for this
Ultimately you want someone that matches your autism. I've dated allistics and it was hell. Get yourself into something there's conventions for like furries and/or anime and make enough friends that statistically one of them might be into you.
>>792290>bringing up le autism le ""allistics"" out of nowheredo uyghas really make some random dsm5 disorder their whole personality holy shit LOL
Most people who aren't terminally online know how to be likable around other people, it's really meeting new people that's the problem, dating apps suck and people are less and less willing to interact with strangers.
>>792295nta but you don’t make it your personality, it chooses you. that’s why it’s called a disorder. that’s what neurotypicals don’t understand, especially if you have comorbid disorders it makes you radically different to most people in a way that basically funnels you into certain interests and behaviors.
>>792295If you're autistic that's just legitimately helpful advice. Dating is supposed to be a two way thing. If one partner is having to accommodate the other's allism the whole time it's going to be emotionally draining for both parties.
>>792295I take it you really don’t understand autism
>>792274I find the concept of dating seems ridiculous to me, more like a job interview, all my relationships have been meeting people organically, getting to know them, and them me, either at work, school, 'third spaces' or through friends then dating or hanging out alone.
>>792274I love this image.
>>792290>>792301>>792302None of you are autistic, you're simply pretending to have a serious disability.
You are no better then people faking down syndrome.
>>792334Autism is a neurotype. You are a pseud and/or a twitter user.
>>792346It's not, it's a disability, real autists can't live on their own. It's not that different from down syndrome.
>>792327You are blessed. So many people don't have friends or third spaces that can actually provide a social venue. No idea if it's a skill issue or what, maybe we are just retarded.
>>792348It's just luck (right place, time, people) and being sociable even if it's just small talk and being respectful (there is no formula, you just have to use your intuition, which is where autistic people struggle I suppose), hygiene and not being grossly overweight unless youre a 'chubby chaser' or they're a freak. But luck really is the major player so don't feel bad. I can understand why people use apps but they're just not for me (atleast the concept of them since I've never used them). You just have to put yourself out there and shit sometimes happens, but make sure what you're doing has a reason outside of just looking for a partner even if it's in a social context.
>>792334i may be autistic but you're retarded
>>792359I may be retarded, but at least I don't fake a disability.
>>792362thanks for admitting you're a retard now go drool in the corner
>>792364Like real autists do.
Seriously, don't you feel sad about yourself for faking a disability ? Do you think down syndrome it also a "neurotype" ?
>>792380Autism is just the "gifted" of today, it doesn't mean shit anymore;
Scientific "Consensus" pushed by the private school mothers who just can't admit that their kids are stupid so they have to be "autistic" "Adhd" or whatever else to explain their failures
>>792366>Do you think down syndrome it also a "neurotype" ?Why do you have such strong opinions about a field of psychology you know nothing about? What do you gain from pretending to know what autism is while admitting to not knowing what a neurotype is?
>>792382They dont look very gifted to me
>>792384People like you have made socials services worse for everyone with an actual disability. Stealing the ressources and people they need. You are disgusting.
>>792385Cause they aren't, "gifted" people are just born in January. They get caught back by the time others arrive in middle school. it's a very shitty thing to tell a child he's superior to all others when he's not.
>>792382Again, you know nothing about this field. You are larping, and everything you say reveals more about the extent of the larp.
Nothing is stopping you from neuroscience, yet you've decided it's a culture war, in the same way string theorists hype up every new "perpetual energy machine" that's acually just some toy with a magnet or a really efficient flywheel.
>>792387I know more about this field then you do, only idiots claim that autism isn't a disability.
>>792388I just noticed you're not a glowanonymous. That you haven't been banned for barnyfag-esque screeching in every thread someone brings up allism, I can only assume you're a janny either bait-testing the userbase, or keyjingling newcomer twitter users hoping they stay.
>>792390I think you have schizophrenia not autism;
But in any case, your kind of autists are just treatlerite who need to grow a pair, stop being picky eaters and socialise, real autists are special needs and rely on others for their survival. They can't live alone and often can't even speak. You are not that.
>>792391>treatleriteAh, a Hasan fan. So this is a twitter thing.
>>792392Not even a fan, but funny how you won't adress the main point.
Must be too busy exploiting some poor somali refugee on ubereats. Larper.
>>792394You don't have a main point. You're having an allistic meltdown because people around you aren't following your rigid social ques, so you threw a bunch of debate openers into a paragraph hoping someone would trip on one of them.
>>792395I'm not the one crying when I eat my veggies.
>>792396I already know where this is going. I will not participate in your mommy kink. Go to a booru and look up "toriel" or look up ASMR mommy sleep aid videos for that.
>>792398Grow a pair, picky eater.
>>792384thats the average imageboard user. people here pretend to be experts in the fields of economics, psychology, philosophy etc
all pseuds
>>792399Winning internet arguements isn't going to fix your relationship with masculinity either. Read a boxing manga like
Star: Strike It Rich or
Baki. Sports are a gateway to healthy masculinity / femininity, as well as being healthy in general.
>>792401I'm not reading japanese slop made for teenagers. As for my health, I assure you that I'm more healthy not being a whiny picky eater.
>>792404Winning internet arguements isn't going to recover you from your un-cinematic highschool / college experience either. You need to actually have a skill you can forge over the years, and develop emotional intelligence through regular cooperative communication with friends. Adulthood isn't just handed to you by vice signaling, or what you choose to consume / not consume.
>>792405You insults are so banal and simple, but the fact that i've denounced fakers of autism have made you uneasy, so you have to ask an AI to write an awnser for you.
Sad !
>>792406Lmao you've let an advanced autocomplete rob you of any literacy you had left.
LLMs aren't that popular, you just gave something hyperspecific. Can you even tell that you did that? Are you even aware what information is available to others when you talk to them, or are you entirely on autopilot?
>>792407You really think I wouldn't notice it ?
Seriously ? You type like an AI, it's no clear. Any idiot would know that you don't need to add "Not consume" in the sentence "what you choose to consume" seriously, don't talk about litteracy when you can't even handle the proper structure of a sentence, the "Not Consume" was already implied.
And in fact, since I've made a true statement, all you have been able is to ask Grok or whatever AI you're using to insult me, you haven't managed to do even rebuttal.
>>792408>You type like an AIYou can't come into a thread talking tough about what you think is and isn't a mental disability, then admit you can't tell the fluff generator from actual information conveying text.
Also since you're so hyperfixated on the picky eater thing, (an allistic trait) tell me what orange juice does to the flavor profile of coffee, I'll wait.
>groklmao of course you're all in on elon
>>792409There is no information in your text, just purely insult.
You know, it's almost sadder if you didn't use an AI, since that'd just mean you act like one.
>>792408>Any idiot would know that you don't need to add "Not consume" in the sentence "what you choose to consume" seriously, don't talk about litteracy when you can't even handle the proper structure of a sentence, the "Not Consume" was already implied.Holy shit you're illiterate.
- If anyone would know that, a statistical model would do the same. You're claiming I'm deviating from the statistical most likely next word, and claiming that's AI-like
- Immature people signal what they think adulthood is through their consumption, and distance themselves from what they consider juvenile through signalling non-consumption. Those are both load bearing.
>>792410Also you forgot to do the orange juice coffee review before responding to me, making
>And in fact, since I've made a true statement, all you have been able is to ask Grok or whatever AI you're using to insult me, you haven't managed to do even rebuttal.Even more pathetic of a deflection, because you are too picky of an eater to try something as mild as that, and you can't hold yourself to such a simple standard.
>>792411Reasonable adults aren't picky eaters, and don't pretend to be disabled.
Again, you type like an AI, your writing is empty of meaning and sense. Again, most people don't write like AI, AI has its own very clear way of writing. For exemple, most people don't use Em dashes, but AI absolutly adores them, or the "It's not just x, it's Y" writing.
>>792412It was shitty empty, advice, that you very clearly intended as an insult, considering you know nothing of my life. I could ask an AI for life advice and it'd spill me the same type of nonsense.
>>792415Because it's completly unrelated.
>>792416Allistics are picky eaters into adulthood, unlike autistics, who are merely picky eaters as kids but get over it as adults. If you weren't a picky eater, this wouldn't take you more than the time it takes to boil water.
Just admit that you're too picky to put orange juice in your coffee.
>>792416>For exemple, most people don't use Em dashes, but AI absolutly adores them, or the "It's not just x, it's Y" writing.People who write longform regularly use em-dashes. I haven't used one in this thread, though I do use them regularly.
>>792419You have no idea what a picky eater is.
>>792421You have no idea what orange juice in coffee tastes like. It's literally good. Also salt milds the bitter of black coffee by overriding the taste.
>>792422Idk, maybe it is, if I were at someone's place and they'd propose it to me I might drink it, but it doesn't sound like something I'd like very much.
But thats not what being a picky eater is, you can dislike some things. if all you eat is shitty mass produced slop, you're a picky easter.
now, If you're severly disabled, like real autists or people with down syndrome, thats to be expected. It's very different if you're only pretending to be disabled, like fake autists or people with so called "ARFID" do.
>>792425>But thats not what being a picky eater is, you can dislike some things.I'm not saying you gotta like it, merely that you demonstrate the capacity to try something unfamiliar without being forced to.
>if all you eat is shitty mass produced slop, you're a picky easter. As do most allistic adults and autistic children, not autistic adults. Unless they age regress, but that's a seperate ordeal that requires trauma to be an issue.
>>792427I can eat stuff without being forced too, but that doesn't mean i'll make something because some guy on an image board tells me too.
Maybe in america, the nation of manchildren. But in most countries, most people cook and eat normal food.
Real autism isn't "age regression" and isn't caused by trauma, it's from birth and onwards, most autists I know have been raised on fairly normal environnement and they've just ended up that way from birth.
>>792430>doesn't mean i'll make something because some guy on an image board tells me too. understandable.
>Maybe in america, the nation of manchildren. But in most countries, most people cook and eat normal food. I'd extend that to most of the west, but yeah maybe that's a western thing, because now that I think about it I know a few chinese allistics with varied cooking.
>Real autism isn't "age regression" and isn't caused by traumaYeah, I said that was a seperate thing. You skim read again.
>>792431Not in France at least, fatness is a very Anglosphere problem.
Even then, picky eaters are more present among autism fakers then among people who don't fake autism.
>>792434Sometimes I forget where france is on the map and register it as eastern european for some reason despite it literally being on the western coast of europe. Maybe I need to watch french fishing videos to get that to stick.
wow this thread sure is autistic
>>792435how though. are you not a history 'tist
>>792274>picOh my god she is so attractive! I want her to crush my balls in her hand
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