How do I harden myself psychologically?
How do I stop being a typical pussified generation zoomer that old people talk about
I heard hard times make hard men
I already endured a lot of severe bullying and have 2 years of criminal psychiatric imprisonment but i dont think i experienced enough violence in there to grow my character. I want to join the army but due to said psychiatric imprisonment i cannot. Should i become a full masochist that camps in the freezing mountains for weeks or just start looking for suffering in general to become accustomed to it?
trauma doesn't harden you.
>>805606if anything it makes you weaker. people in the military or in jail are just emotionally unstable manchildren who cant solve problems
>>805605>How do I stop being a typical pussified generation zoomer that old people talk aboutI heard hard times make hard men
Dont listen to those people accusing zoomers of being pussies. Those people are usually self absorbed boomers or millennials who are suffering from midlife crisis
> already endured a lot of severe bullying and have 2 years of criminal psychiatric imprisonment but i dont think i experienced enough violence in there to grow my character. I want to join the army but due to said psychiatric imprisonment i cannot. Should i become a full masochist that camps in the freezing mountains for weeks or just start looking for suffering in general to become accustomed to it?
No.
In the end, people don't care about your suffering. They just want to see you miserable
>>805605you gotta do the impossible
see the invisible
touch the untouchable
break the unbreakable
what you gonna do is what you want to do
just break the rules and you'll see the truth
and that's basically it.
>>805607This
"Hard times make strong men" is a psyop used on insecure low empathy people
>>805624I already have le job
I've spent the last seven years softening myself. If you're sensitive, embrace it. It's much better for you and more useful in the world. Numbing yourself to be manly or why the fuck ever sucks, it's why ii barely remember my twenties and why I was unable to form deeper relationships with the people around me despite their efforts. It's lonely, crippling and bad for the people in your life.
As an old person, fuck them old folks, they're all miserable for a reason.
>>805630then what is your excuse for making the most j*bless thread of all time?
>>805634Elderly people are awesome. It's middle aged people who aren't.
They're the ones complaining about "kids these days" all the time.
>>805630Is it a customer facing position?
>>805634How do you soften yourself,
>>805658Watch qt femboy content creators that radiate positivity and do the cute kitty thing
>>805670Nah. Just read wholesome yaoi with lite touch of bara
>>805670any recommendations