/siberia/ - Off-topic

I don't know but that picture is very hot and lust inducing.

>>808689
Isn't that true? I bet you'd want those jiggling plapcakes on your face right now, wouldn't you?

Slow escalation. Pulling back when she’s not receptive in the moment and retrying later. You don’t get upset when she refuses your advances and treat it as no big deal. Always seem like you know what you are doing and confidently lead. Establish touch early on in inoffensive ways like touching her upper arm, leading her by her lower back, etc. Convey a sex positive, non-judgmental attitude about women expressing their sexuality. Give her some excuse when you invite her to go back to your place, so she doesn’t feel like a slut when she comes with you.

>>808731
Of course I would. I'd also want her to make that face she plaps my face.

>>808733
>Convey a sex positive, non-judgmental attitude about women expressing their sexuality.
Can you elaborate on this one? I don't quite understand what to do exactly.

>>808738
Like this.

>>808738
For one, you shouldn’t act butthurt when she retells a story that reveals she hooked up with a guy soon after meeting him, had a threesome, slept with multiple guys, etc. Men easily get jealous or are repulsed by her not being a pure virgin angel and if she catches wind of that, she will simply keep those things a secret. Her being closed of like thay makes her less willing to have sex quickly with you because she fears you are the type of guy who will judge her for it.

Another thing is identifying her resistance points when it comes to her sexuality, which is usually brought about by patriarchal socialization. Like, I remember that one time a girl retold me how a guy she was seeing when she was 16 wanted her to suck his dick and she acted offended that he would even ask her such a thing. I told her “Hey, if you felt like it, go for it, who cares.” It’s like her defenses melted in that moment and she said “I mean, yeah, I think I wanted it too, I just wasn’t ready.” It’s like she was performing outrage to live up to some ideal of chastity. I know she was called a slut before for a minor thing and it really got to her, so that’s why she acted that way. When women regurgitate these ideas of chastity, act like it’s nonsense and that you don’t care about it. Encourage her to be sexually free (but don’t be pushy about it).

>>808742
>you shouldn’t act butthurt when she retells a story that reveals she hooked up with a guy soon after meeting him, had a threesome, slept with multiple guys, etc. Men easily get jealous or are repulsed by her not being a pure virgin angel and if she catches wind of that
for me what grinds my gear is if i do the same during the conversation or imply i saw women before i met the girl, its always either visible irritation or calmness that always implies 'oh thank god he's not a virgin.' always sensed one of the two feelings, never the same indiffrence they expect

>>808742
Thank you anon.
How do you know so much about this?

>>808742
Women also look down on men who actively tell about their sexual lives. They think the man is a player or degenerate

>>808745
he probably talks

what helps somone get out of the incel phase (i prefer just calling it lonliness) is to stop thinking girls have a judgment radar even if they were toxic. they're just like you with their own inadequacies

>>808747
Inceldom in the purest sense only exists for people who suffer from severe mobile, neurocognitve or immunological disabilities

>>808746
yeah but that feels recent atleast to me

i always laugh when people pull how women are shamed for being pornstars but not the male pornstars as patriarchy or any word salad but the truth is they are shamed, for the opposite. we literally use virgin and incel as flak that a man is not worth his loser existence.


it doesn't help most men's body counts are 0-5 and few reach the double digit organically so the few promiscious men were seen as loved by women, charismatic and they'd be delighted to share…well that's back then, now i see players easily depicted as quagmire types, womanizers, degenerates and manipulative people with money.

>>808745
By having approached a lot of women, so trial and error, but also by talking to other men about their experiences (the sexually successful ones, everyone else is just misleading you).

Go to an Asian owned massage parlor, pay for the cheapest massage, get naked and lay on the table, do not cover yourself with the towel, wait for the flip, offer $40 for the finish.

Go a few times to establish rapport. Eventually ask for the poonani

>>808744
>what irritates me is they either do thing or the opposite of thing
sounds like you'll be unhappy no matter what LMFAO

>>808746
not really dude.

>>808782
They do. After a while, they look down on them with contempt.

>>808750
Women have looked down on men having frequent sex as horndogs for along time. It’s just that they only glamorize the ones they see from afar and/or are celebrities

They do look down on virginal men a lot more though.

>>808738
be good looking.