>>811210what chads and stacies don't want you to know: if you adapt more of the things that women do that are considered "feminine" such as practicing various kinds of beauty care (pedicures, manicures, skin care, hair care, "manscaping", and various physical activities that can be perceived as feminine, such as yoga) but still retain some "masculine" bravado in your body language, behavior, mindset, and interests, this makes you 1000% more attractive.
wearing tights might fit into this as well; personally, I do think they seem like they'd be comfortable, but you might still come across as gay.