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Not reporting is bourgeois


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>kink is an integral part of pride! we were at stonewall!
where? seriously, where are they?
<no u dont get it the kinksters were just outside of the frame

this is VERY americentric and i will not stand for it.

>>2934
show us the kinksters at stonewall
show us the proof that bdsm actually has a place amongst fags as a fag thing and not a white cishet grift

Even if degens were at stonewall pride can be redefined without their misogyny/selfesteem/abuse-induced paraphilias

LMAO are zoomers seriously going to pretend around the time of stonewall there was some queer united front

>>2933
>>2940
I do love it so much when like 15 year olds online are like "Oh, all this queer infighting! What happened to those good old Stonewall days I remember? Ah, good times, I remember them well. Marsha P Johnson would surely never do discourse, and she'd be my mutual as well!", like be for fucking real.

>blatant strawman
obviously not what op is talking about
op is talking about the bdsm community, primarily a bunch of white guys, claiming significant kinship with the lgbtq community and right to be present at pride especially

>>2942
"the lgbtq community" as a concept is bullshit already actually

>>2943
first based post in da thread 🍾🍾🍾

I hate how they bring that BDSM flag around with them. It's not something I want to be associated with. Personally I am modest though I don't mind others not being so. What I do mind is when they bring explicit things into public since it is a violation of consent. I don't see why they need to. Kink is not something you need to broadcast to everyone around you because not everyone is comfortable with it. I just don't get it, keep your sex toys indoors. Cis people have this issue as well btw, even ones who don't openly identify as being kinky. Kink is like being cat called but its acceptable in the queer community because it feels nobody can separate their sexual interests from their social presentation.

Well anyway I never go to pride other than to stand in the way and protest it because it has the police and loads of companies complicit in the genocide in Palestine in it.

>>2949
>seeing some random clad in leather is a "violation of consent"
words used to mean things

>>2949
>>2951
i can demonstrate a real violation of consent

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>>2949
>>>>>>>>>>

what the actual fuck is with the moralism itt, like this is just a bunch of horseshit

i just don't consent to your exhibitionism and want you to stop raping my eyes. this is such an easy thing to do, literally just represent your kink with subtly and class, a leather jacket, a choker or even outright dog collar here and there

>>2949
>violation of consent
love hysterics using this wordplay to make their issues seem more important than they really are

>>2966
>stop raping my eyes
at least this retard plays it straight!

from what little i know of sf queer culture in the 70s, it was pretty kinky
the hanky codes and all that
fags are perverts, shrug

>>2967
Lmfao, look if you think someone is fucking around take a look around. You're now a categorical rapist, try to rape someone's eyes again and you won't have none yourself.

>>2969
so weird how literally none of those pictures have anything freaky going on, how i can see only a handful of handkerchiefs and most worn in regular stylings, etc.

>>2972
>categorical rapist
aka not a rapist

>>2972
>>2972
>Lmfao, look if you think someone is fucking around take a look around. You're now a categorical rapist, try to rape someone's eyes again and you won't have none yourself.
incomprehensible sentence, i will rape your ass

>>2972
Posting porn you don't like to the group server is now rape apparently

>>2975
people cant just call someone else a weirdo and move on, they now have to turn it into some important moral crusade

>>2975
Consent is about sexual acts between people. It doesn't apply to people's clothing. You can't say you don't consent to seeing a woman in a dress or a black guy.

>>2976
It's so annoying. I don't care if a vanilla calls me a weirdo or ignores, but doing this moral crusade stuff is cringe inducing

>>2977
I mean if we agree wit the framework of consent and you are an exhibitionist (=get turned on by people watching you, or being near you) you are envolving other people in your sexual act which may not have involved.
Sending porn to a group server may not have a sexual intent.

Maybe this is related with how pretty much everyone agrees that children shouldn't watch porn (maybe because they can't consent to sexual acts)

>>2982
>framework of consent

>>2982
consent is a social construct

>>2935
😕 You might as well just call kink bourgeois decadence and drop the cover.

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>>2972
>so weird how literally none of those pictures have anything freaky going on, how i can see only a handful of handkerchiefs and most worn in regular stylings, etc.
bruh do u know what hanky code is

>>2982
Again consent is between individuals and not the public sqaure. Seeing someone's presence in public of your consent you reactionary fuck
>>2996
Hearing a man flirting with a woman is rape now

>>2997
I don't know if I agree with what I am saying mainly because I am putting a lot of emphasis on consent (which is not enough to determine if something is "good" or "bad" like liberals want to pretend) and what we are discussing will not affect me in real life.
But didn't you say that "Consent is about sexual acts between people", how can you reconcile that with exhibitionism being a sexual act?

>>2940
>>2941
Bruh, why do you guys keep obsessing over zoomers?
Alot of this faux nostalgia crap is usually older people tbw

>>2997
"Consent" is now just a shibboleth used against "ugly bastards".

>>2976
It's amazing that we live in a time that preaches "diversity" and "appreciation of minorities".
Yet, anyone who goes slightest outside of plain vanilla sex are now pathologised as "groomers".

>>2999
>Yet, anyone who goes slightest outside of plain vanilla sex are now pathologised as "groomers".
This is absolutely false, BDSM and related paraphilias are super accepted and mainstream. It has influence in music, drawings, porn, psychology ("kink-positive therapist"!!! yay <3)… Don't act as if you will get beaten up for engaging in sadomasochism

>>3001
>Don't act as if you will get beaten up for engaging in sadomasochism
if youre a male dom or female sub you will

>>3002
>male dom
>female sub
Literally the two most common and safest roles you could take in BDSM, admittedly male subs get shat on with good reason, imo. So much so it's almost yawn-worthy to admit to being so.
Sure you might see someone get accused of being a creep for being into BDSM, but most of the cases are either because they're an ugly fuck (pretty privilege) or they really are a creep.

>>3003
so you were wrong

>>2999
some of the most abusive people ive ever met were people who prided themselves on only having "morally good fetishes" or "consuming good media" or w/e

moralizing random shit in this way is just giving abusers a new extremely low effort manipulation tactic because then you can pretend to be a Good Person(tm) easily

>>3006
>personal anecdote about "moralizers"
>"moralizing random shit in this way is just giving abusers a new extremely low effort manipulation tactic because then you can pretend to be a Good Person(tm) easily"
idk it seems like youre the one trying to say "im a good person!"

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>>3007
>theres more to abuse than meaningless aesthetic signifiers
<erm youre doing a heccin fallacy (?)
illiterate fucking retard lol

>"

is this your first day on the internet

>>3008
>complete word salad, ultimately meant to defend an anecdote saying "x people are shitty people"
<fails to understand that the attempt to associate the morals of people with beliefs in if kink is part of the LGBT community is in it of itself an example of being a shitty person

>>2998
Seeing someone in a collar is not meaningfully engaging in a sexual act with that person. Neither is seeing a woman's chest. Are you having sex by looking at this painting. Is seeing this unprompted in a museum a violation of your consent you little reactionary

>>3010
Like you're just doing socially reactionary shit. It does not meaningful harm you to see someone walking around with a collar on.
https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/comfort--fear-of-conflict.html
> Inb4 Tumblr

>>3011
Like make no mistake reactionaries insist the mear act of seeing a trans woman is violating their consent because their transphobia makes them uncomfortable around trans women. They do this shit all the time.

>>3012
This is such a bizarre notion to me. This reactionary usage of consent in a supposedly Marxist space. The reason consent is emphasized in society is over scenarios where a victim is actually debilitatingly harmed by the violation. In this scenario the harm is simply undone by looking in a different direction, minding your own business. You can't "mind your own business" your way out of a man pinning you to a brick wall and groping you. You can't just look away from being raped.
> Pov I'm violating OPs "consent"


>>3013
I don't give a shit about if you do kink, or what you wear if its a choker or whatever. Even one of those dog masks, that isn't what I'm complaining about. I just don't want to see any sort of sex in public. None of it. It's disgusting, it makes me feel uncomfortable and it makes places like pride unsuitable for children. Public sex completely changes the dynamics of the place it is happening. It has extremely deep social consequences on how a place feels.

Your petplay / degradation kink is not your identity. You don't need to ruin the park for everyone else to get off.

>>3010
I was thinking about public sex, not light things like that

>>3016
when are people having sex in public?

>>2949
whatever faggot

What is this premise? They weren't in mursuits and leather == not present? Go ask the person you unsolicitedly challenged to debate for some literature instead of coming here to be hugboxed in illiterate skepticism and moon landing type arguments.

>>3016
That fisting video in the trans girl porn thread wasn't a pride parade, that was a sex worker convention (don't remember the name) where the area was rented and fenced off so it wasn't actually in public, only seen by peers.

>>3016
No I'm not having the conversation about sex in public. That's not what you said retard. You wanted to talk about kink in public so I'm talking about kink in public. Don't what about to public sex. We both know a girl in a collar isnt public sex. We both know seeing a topless woman isn't public sex. You social reactionary

>>3023
Forcing people to not include kink at pride parades neither benefits children or adults either. Quite frankly if you want children at pride make a pride for children, don't force a thing that is for adults to be for children. True inclusion of the child in events and public spaces involves actually caring about them and making things for them

we need to stop shaming people for natural sexual urges in public, decriminalize public masturbation and sex NOW!!!!!!

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>>3014
>file is deleted by mods
i wonder why hmmm

>>3023
is kink like, not sex to you? because without the sexually charged actions that involve kink gear, there would be no "kink" to describe "kink gear"; you would just look like a fucking idiot. This is a retarded attempt to split hairs so thin that you'd infer the innocuous act of having a goddamn handkerchief could be the very same as two men roleplaying a dude and an animal with a cultural context of exclusive sexual connotation given to such roleplay on a fucking categorical level. And no, comparing it to children playing is NOT going to fucking help your case.

>>3026
You know the fact that you're putting words into my mouth makes this pointless. Cope and seethe that you're not welcome at pride reactionary

>>3026
>some dumb attire is literally like having sex

they hated ushankanon because they told the uncomfortable truth

kink is such a lame word

>>3028
the attire is more sex than sex itself, just like how credentials are more important than knowledge

>>3031
retarded arguments that would only convince a fellow philosopher dipshit

>>3032
you made a post just to tell me you are too afraid to engage? defeated by a one liner…

>>3033
>too afraid to engage
not everyone is a college student with endless free time

>>3027
yeah whatever dude, do you know what happens to people like me? we don't disappear. YOU kicked us out because YOU couldn't put away the weird shit. YOU couldn't restrain yourself to not violate people's basic rights to not see freaky ass shit. Do you know what happens to people like that? Do you know what happens to wanton aggressors who take nothing but pride in their endless gorge for more? Do you? You speak amongst a strata of people who claim to do. Perhaps ask them.

>>3035
you're a little reactionary

>>3035
You become reactionary shits we all know this

>>3035
lol is the the "furry anon" retard

>no YOURE the reactionary
boards aren't big enough to make the points needed, to the streets lol

>>2949
That's a lot of words for "no one wants to see that shit"
Trvke though

>There were no BDSM people at Stonewall.
There were no cops at Stonewall?!?

>>3043
thank you
honsetly im a massive hypocrite and im an extremely freaky piece of shit
>t. op

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>>3035
>tiktok respectability politics
You'll figure out that you'll never be "respected" by fascists for putting kink or trans or theians or whatever else under the bus after you graduate highschool.

Nobody IRL even cares that much about this shit and if they do chances are they hate all queers the same it's all desperately trying to make yourself seem like Not A Weirdo

>>3055
I don't know how of much this reflects reality, but when the media reports about pride, they always put people who look like they're about to start an orgy front and center. Essentially being free propaganda for them, footage like that strongly characterizes anything deviating from the norm as a kind of dionysian excess. In some sense trying to look respectable is always a losing battle for a group being actively demonized, yet the children at pride thing is a real concern and why unnecessarily give them ammunition? I would never go to a pride parade, not only because i'm an antisocial channoid and being "proud" sounds like the most reddit thing to me, but because even as an adult fetish wear still makes my stomach turn.

>>3054
Unsurprising, retarded crypto-fascist is unable to understand that not everything is done to appease him.

I want kink gone because it makes me personally uncomfortable.
Ultimately that means no more outright play scenes in public where there clearly is an atmosphere of "lewd references at most, please". I don't give a fuck if you wear a collar, having your partner pull you on a leash is pushing it.

Are we clear now?

>>3056
everything makes more sense when you see them as white liberals with fascist undertones. "Listen to me and do everything as I say because I was dictated to do it by my past."

>>2933
>>2949
>>3026
>>3035
I really am completely surprised that some ᴉuᴉlossnW-like American fascist never took power here like most Americans ideal society it that and they speak like insane fascist freaks for any imagined slight and they end up talking like this.

>>3060
>how fucking dare you ask me to respect your boundaries like an adult, you fucking fascist
fascismo thinking, fitting you see the name upside down


>>3061
>boundaries
god you are so lib brained, you will be raped

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I've got a very frank question to the thread and Anons here.
How do you explain LGBT rights progressing as they have in the last few decades? Admittedly I'm quite ignorant to this, but it seems to me it progressed through a combination of LGBT people being that much of a nuisance to powers-that-be, and increased social acceptance among cishet people. Stick-and-carrot in a way.
Put it this way I don't see kink doing much for either approach, it's not really annoying anyone with actual influence in any significant capacity, nor is it making us seem any better in the eyes of most people, or most gay or trans people for that matter.

>>3068
Why would you need to annoy powers-that-be? You don't have to gain anything (like marriage/decriminalization), you can already do everything you want except uh… Have sex in public or parade your naked slave or something?

>>3070
what the fuck does this post mean

>>3072
That you don't need to approach kink in either of the ways you said because legally you can do what you already do and (I didn't say this in my post) you are socially accepted (lots of BDSM porn on mainstream websites (and thus young people internalising sadomasochistic paraphilias) , 50 shadows of grey, booktok etc.)

>>3068
>treating queer rights like theyre fundamentally different from other rights

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I don't think people should be attacked in the street for the articles of clothes they wear.

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>>3080
ik you'll deny the validity of this comparison instead of making a solid reason why, but what if they're wearing this?

>>3081
its just a uniform kink

>>3081
I unironically don't care and nazis are too cowardly and would rather pull dogwhistlers than wear an actual nazi uniform anyway.

>>3081
What if their partner is a Jew that has both a uniform and a masochism kink?

>>3059
>pointing out my internalized fascist tendancies makes YOU le cyrpto fascist.
>I want kink gone because it makes me personally uncomfortable.
Then you are the problem. You are the reactionary that is easily trained to disgust, cringe, morally abhor, etc… and wants those codified to keep such tendencies in an unattainable peace–rather than rid your mind of such spooks. You are a weapon of fascism, regardless of if you consider yourself a fascist personally. There will be no room for the NIMBY mindset in a revolution.

I can't afford to eat seven meals a week and have scarce access to air conditioning, If I saw a drone suit puppygirl on my commute that'd be rather amusing actually, it would improve a day that materially still hurts to persist in. My abhorrence is reserved solely for capitalism for putting me through this–and you, of course, for having a comfortable enough life to need to search for discomfort through bourgeoisie morality.

>>3068
I think in broad terms capitalism has hit a crisis especially in the United States and Britain the birth places of neo liberalism. The bourgeoise know their is growing discontent amongst the people. When people are discontent capitalisms safety blanket so to speak is reactionary shit; hating blacks, hating trans people, hating immigrants. Anything that gets people to not look at the imperialist wars or the cost of living or the floundering healthcare. Trans people represent a decent minority to attack due to their increased prominence recently. So a large amount of money was spent demonizing them. You can see that the people pushing us down are usually rich. In the UK transphobia is funded with the personal wealth of a billionaire author, in the US one of the top advisors to the president and owner of Twitter disowned his daughter because he had genetically engineered her to be male (no I'm not making this up). The NY times who peddled this nonsense is owned by a billionaire family
Sadly trans people are not often talked to by comrades so very few people understand the extent of the situation. I feel if more communists talked about this openly it would help bring class consciousness to most trans people they talk. Very few trans people are bourgeoisie (that is owning capital)
There are some people who would also post that trans people represent a threat to the structures of patriarchy and the family that help reinforce capitalism. I can see it but I feel focusing on the ways this is manufactured by the elite is better

>>3085
Those conditions sound rough comrade. The bit about a drone puppy girl was pretty enjoyable for me so I decided to generate some ai slop of the idea

>>3085
>You are the reactionary that is easily trained to disgust, cringe, morally abhor
Sure, anglo puritan morals pervade anything and make the mere mention of sex seem unreasonably vulgar, yet a group dressed like they're ready to engage in their fetish isn't a mere reference, neither a symbol, but like a window into one part of the act. I don't fundamentally have a problem with that either, but consider the context of these events, this isn't a case of "i went to an event full of people i didn't like". If pride fashions itself to ideologically align with the majority of lgbts (which it doesn't in any case), it shouldn't give as much visibility to something that might make others uncomfortable and is used by the media to dismiss any threat to the family unit as swinging culture or something.

>>3085
Understand firstly that I am too young to remember the proscriptions of Rome. I do not care for your preconceptions of what is and is not Fascism. At this point, understand firstly, that I do not have any reason to care about what you say unless it is an outright appeal to logic. BDSM makes me uncomfortable, I wish to not see it in public. Murder makes people uncomfortable, they wish not to see it in public and their wishes are granted. Nudity makes people uncomfortable, they wish to not see it in public and their wishes are granted. This extends to simulations of sexualized acts that furthermore represent a normalization of abusive heterosexual relationship dynamics. This is a basic request and it will be met.

Give me one good reason not to take the first chance I get.

If OP was around in the Victorian era:

>>Why should I be exposed to bare ankles in public when I did not consent to do so? They make me uncomfortable, I wish to not see them.

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this is the end goal of "anti kink" puritans and christofascists https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skoptsy

this is who you are arguing with.

<As Gayle Rubin theorized of the “charmed circle” of sexuality, American culture has long approved certain enactments of erotic identity and desire:
>(heterosexual,
>married,
>monogamous,
>procreative,
>non-commercial,
>in pairs,
>in a relationship,
>same generation,
>in private,
>no pornography,
>bodies only,
>vanilla)

<while denigrating others:

>(homosexual,
>unmarried,
>promiscuous,
>non-procreative,
>commercial,
>alone or in groups,
>casual,
>cross-generational,
>in public,
>pornography,
>with manufactured objects,
>sadomasochistic)

>>3128
slippery slope is ok when a butthole licker does it

>>3134
Well what does that even mean? Just because Amerikkkan morals think something is bad doesn't mean it is good. Commerical, cross-generational (wtf?) and in public sex are just objectively bad.

>>3169
fascists are a subcategory of BPD where they split. Rainbow fascists think "good" is when butthole licked, when money given for sex, when sex in public, basically if christian daddy screams "NOOO"! it's like a chud trying to offend his parents.

>>3169
>Well what does that even mean?
you need dialectical thinking
<a way of thinking that emphasizes the interconnectedness of opposing ideas and encourages the synthesis of seemingly contradictory concepts. It involves recognizing that multiple perspectives can be true simultaneously and that understanding these perspectives, even if they seem at odds, leads to a more comprehensive understanding. This approach moves away from "either/or" thinking and embraces a "both/and" perspective.
>public sex are just objectively bad
your entire planet has been fenced off and traded on Wall Street. The public commons have been privatized by neoliberal capitalism

>>3172
>THE PUBLIC GOOD IS WHEN I'M ALLOWED TO TREAT THE WORLD AS MY BEDROOM
I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE DEATH TO THESE PEOPLE

>>3172
>dialectical thinking
kill yourself pseud

>>3173
kill yourself hysteric

Bruh this thread. Le fagari a le tiny minority with their little israel exclusionary communities. Most people will never witness le shid you are complaining about.

>>3172
Anon, immanent critique is load bearing to the dialectical process, you can't just skip it.

>>3169
>objectively bad
Randian schizobabble. Things exist regardless if an observer deems it true that it exists. Physics, time and the properties of objects are not subject to psychic democracy of observers. You can only ever approximate the truth by experimentation. Morals are spooks.

>>3186
The best part about people like these is that they say morality is a spook without realizing they're arguing with someone whose basically asking "why shouldn't I kill you where you stand". You're basically just saying "don't miss lol", and as far as I'm aware, there's a 99% chance you aren't enough of an outright badass to pull that shit and walk away from it. How about you consider thinking more and repeating less?

>>3186
What? I don't give a shit if morals are objective or not, it was a turn of phrase. How about I use the word ethical instead? I don't really understand the difference between the two other than semantics. Public sex, commercial sex and cross-generational sex are unethical.

Anyway morals are real. I fucking hate how people pretend they aren't, Marx laughed at morals relating to political economy not whether or not public sex should be allowed. It just means what's ok in society, its not always right but that is what morals are and they do exist because society upholds them.


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