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Figured I made a thread to share our romantic experiences – or lack of thereof, – opinions, wishes and advice. That is part of the whole LGBT experience besides the sex and gender.

I reached mid 20s with barely any experience, autism made sure of that. Kissed a drunk lesbian once, I don't even think I looked that cute for a guy in his 20s, so I was honored more than anything. Broke up a friendship with a trans girl after some hasty choices, but she was crazy anyways. Now focusing on friends, making and deepening them.

Wish I had a man I understood and was understood by, someone light-hearted and whimsical to have fun with on the short time I have here on Earth. Femboy-ish ig, not masculine, but takes care of himself, with a touch of femininity to him. Impartial on sex, willing to do it, might be fun even.

One thing I like is the idea of relations as temporary, serial monogamy if you will. I'm all for loyalty while in a relation, but that doesn't necessarily mean it must be forever and ever. People change, why shouldn't their relations? Admittedly I do see the romance in a lifelong relation, sticking with someone and changing together with them. Besides looking for a new partner every x amount of years sounds exhausting.

I have never loved or been loved, and at this point its more likely to stay that way than not.

I had a fling with a girl and got ghosted we did all the intimate stuff but made me realise women objectify men as much as men objectify them albeit it's less based on looks because I'm not a chad by any means but I was always told it's the woman who wants the relationship but it's the man who just wants the sex, all the romantic stuff just seems like a facade so they don't look like whores and filter toxic gooners, it seems woman want your body and soul even if temporary, not just clinical sex which is the ideal of the male.

I'm dating a beautiful puppy girl. Everyday I feel lucky to get to know her. I feel so lucky she wants me to move in with her. I feel so lucky I can make her feel good so well. I hadn't had much sex before her and had never topped. Yet it all went well
I worry sometimes she's not affectionate but I think she just does it in a different way.

>>3156
My relationships beside her were all kinda sad
- Guy who never did anything with his wife
- another trans woman who wanted me to be a live in maid and screamed at me for not knowing immigration stuff. Left me homeless
- trans girl who didn't know it yet. Her finding out kinda unstablized the feeling of security I really wanted from her. It wasn't that she was wrong to it's just she started questioning the things about her that made me feel safe with her.
Maybe I was a shitty person to all of them, don't know

I wish being a transhumanist wasn't so fucked

I'm not very good at getting to know people in general. Which I really need to work on, because TBH I've derped out in some pretty spectacular ways.

>>3160
I have some lack of empathy for others. IDK how to dissect it further. Maybe I need a therapist, or maybe I need a change to my moral outlook.

>>3162
It's because only low autism score people value sex and relationships highly, they breed more and sooner in common with the beasts, usually higher autism score are more interested in objectivity such as status, politics or thought concepts and other people are seen as vessels to engage in dialectics

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>>3163
>other people are seen as vessels to engage in dialectics
i get so incredibly frustrated if a person is unable to be this.

>>3144
>want your body and soul even if temporary
I've heard relations between older women and younger boys is something to the tune of the boys acting like puppies mad for them or risk being abandoned. Don't know if that's what your experience was like, I'm curious really.

>>3157
I'm happy you were that lucky Anon. You sound like you're loving your relation I hope it continues and both you and your puppygirl be happy in it. If you don't mind me asking what's being a transhumanist have to do with your romantic relations?

>>3139
>>3139
I'm almost 30 and never had a boyfriend and had very little sexual encountera

The fact I'm an autist who never worked on his life does not help

>>3144
Are you bi?

>>3203
Same but I'm 32 and joined the military.

I've been talking to someone on tinder but idk I'm worried she's TOO into me.

>>3206
Why join the military?

>>3211
Sapphic?

>>3218
ye

>>3215
Because I was/am a fuck-up and had zero prospects. Dad died a couple years ago so it really made me think about my mortality.
Obviously it was an immoral thing to do and could bite me in the ass but it was the best option I could think of beyond continuing to be a leech.

>>3226
The military won't help you at all. You are just contributing to the regime. Nobody wants to have sex with soldiers. I suggest you rethink your life choices or you will end up dying from an IED planted by the socialist resistance.

>>3228
I want to have sex with soldiers tho. He still shouldn't join the military.

>>3228
Respectfully, you come off as a NEET.

>>3228
Having sex with soldiers = BASED
Having sex with cops = CRINGE

love is so sweet. but im so looooonely

Had sex and didn't enjoy it but I pretended to. She is kind of overweight and boring. Planning to tank the relationship by showing her my unhinged communist fanfics / fiction I write and insisting she read them.

>>3282
>Planning to tank the relationship by showing her my unhinged communist fanfics / fiction I write and insisting she read them.
Why don't you just breakup normally?

>>3282
>unhinged communist fanfics / fiction
Can you share it here? I'm quite curious now.

>>3295
I posted it in the fanfiction thread (this is hatefiction though tbh)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/63403183/chapters/162445723

>>3303
was it you who recommended this series in my rape-porn thread?

>>3304
I didn't, it might have been another thing in the setting (I hate the setting btw)

>>3307
someone rec the setting then called me a paedo without elaborating and left, i read one book and found the setting incredibly boring, there was not even any sex in it.

>>3303
Fascinating to find hdg here

>>3139
How do you get over them? I still keep thinking of her. It wasn't meant to be. Yet it still hurts. I still can't move on. How many days do you have to be like this? How do you get over it quickest?


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