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lefty gay general - boyfriend edition

How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
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>>2744
This.

>>2730
Got to do the best with what you have no?

>>2749
>And a lot of people who use it are often insecure needy people who never achieved much in their prime years.
So like fat women and body positivity? It does make some sense, if you're too insecure about your age you'd berate those who do like youth. Furthermore, I'd be hard-pressed to call femboys "pedos" in the first place, so many of them are so anime-y they don't even look that human in the first place, that and a lot of young men do not look traditionally twink-ish or femboy-ish imo. Just young and masculine I guess.

>>2763
>So like fat women and body positivity? It does make some sense, if you're too insecure about your age you'd berate those who do like youth.

Yep. "Body positivity" is just tall poppy syndrome.
Irony is, a lot of those in "body positivity" would mock/patronize cishet males for any bodily flaws.
Actually, they would more bully each other indirectly.

The people who complain about hebe-centrism usually are the ones who are look down on youthful features and prioritize older looking features as "mature". They don't even care about "maturity" beyond looks and fashion.

Alot of them are usually dysfunctional and are stuck in dead jobs and are resentful.of younger people who have higher stations/standards than them.

They hate precocious behavior in children.


>Furthermore, I'd be hard-pressed to call femboys "pedos" in the first place, so many of them are so anime-y they don't even look that human in the first place, that and a lot of young men do not look traditionally twink-ish or femboy-ish imo. Just young and masculine I guess.


Exactly. I fucking hate how modern culture comically portrays male physiognomy as either bears or twinks with no in-between.
Most young and early middle aged men would look more like shonen characters in Naruto or Bleach.

Also pic related is hot.
Whose the cutie and the artist?

>>2763
>Got to do the best with what you have no?
Yeah well I just lean in to the masculine presentation since I could really go either way personality wise but physically it suits me.
>I'd be hard-pressed to call femboys "pedos" in the first place, so many of them are so anime-y they don't even look that human in the first place
Femboy aesthetics definitely lean a bit into ageplay. You've got a lot who collect plushies, love kids cartoons and own related merch, lean heavily into sexualized innocence/youth and cuteness, etc. At least this is what my bf is like and a lot of other guys I've seen on social media. But honestly the decisive factor here is whether they're a legal adult with basic cognitive faculties, i.e. can they properly consent. If they can then it's not pedophilia by definition, and getting angry about it is just people seething about liking things that they don't like. People constantly fetishize and sexualize things that are rightfully considered unacceptable if done in real life, but are often done performatively as sex between consenting adults. Think about shit like CNC, faux incest, pet play, slave/master stuff, etc. If you're going to get mad that people like cute, young looking femboys then you might as well get mad at anything non-vanilla because most of it would be pretty fucked up if done outside a controlled, consensual, and fictional setting.

Can you be too old to transition? No.

Can you be too old to be a 'femboy'? Oh my fucking god yes, please stop it you 40 year old men.

>>2768
Idk I think an AMAB person who tries to transition at 40 and actually resemble a woman is going to look a lot worse than a guy who just likes to wear cat ears and socks sometimes. Again, what makes it look bad is overshooting what your body can pull off in terms of feminine aesthetics, and generally speaking trans women are going to try to push those aesthetics farther than femboys. If they're starting from the same place physically then they're going to end up looking worse by trying to push it farther.

>>2768
>>2769
This is something most people are too pussy to admit because it would considered chauvinistic.

We need to stop coddling insecure men into transitioning to feel better about themselves.
I also think that the girly clothes used by trans women and crossdressing males is overkill. Most cis women don't dress like that unless for prom.

I think some trans women want to "compete" with cis women and then cry about TERFism.

They're just as petty as TERFs.

I would like to see trans women who would be willing to still dress male or at least androgynous without needing so much make up.

>>2775
I mean I'm not saying that people shouldn't transition past a certain age. That's an important personal decision and people need to do what they feel is best for themselves. I'd respect the least and most passing tgirl equally. Its just that realistically the later you transition the less likely you are to look good doing it, and you're definitely going to look worse than a cis guy who is just trying to look like a cute and feminine man. Tbf tho I'm biased because I'd pick a femboy who pulls it off over literally any other person regardless of how well they pull off their particular aesthetic or gender expression. They're just my favourite.

>>2775
Most trans people I know, including one of my closest friends, don't use "overly feminine" clothes or whatever. I feel this is an internet thing. Others I know use very "experimental" clothes that defy gender norms.

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Enough chit-chatter about trains. There's something that's been on my mind. I've heard there's a someone for everyone, basically every body-type has its fans. Muscular, short, tan, etc. I hope it's true, everyone deserves to have someone who likes them physically. Though admittedly some body-types are going to have considerably more enjoyers than others. Personally I don't know how many people like the shorter, scrawny look; but hey won't know for certain 'till I put myself out there.

>>2764
Artist is kuroh.shiro he's (?) got an insta page and a cara page but sadly the art I posted is not there. Shame, he's got other art of cute boys and while not bad they're hardly anything to appreciate.

>>2793
>Personally I don't know how many people like the shorter, scrawny look
Isn't that the basic twink body type? Personally that's my favourite. My bf is like that, about 9 inches shorter than me and nearly half my weight.

>>2793
I don't know if I like it or envy it, like being nostalgic for the body I had when I was 15 years old, last year there was one guy in another class who was 18yrs old but was very short and his face looked 13-14, this year there is one who is also like that but he is 16. I envy them a lot, I find their type is cute and good-looking but I don't know if it is a turn-on/attractive, it would feel paedophilic.
Does anyone else have a problem not really differentiating what they want for themselves and what they want on another guy?

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>>2795
>9 inches / 23 cm
>half the weight
Pure sexo. Congratulations on catching him lad.
I can see where you're cumming from with the body type observation, I've always thought of twinks face-first, body-second. But I guess there is an influence by the body on whether one's seen as a twink or not.

>>2797
I think the pedophilia accusation comes mainly from the age disparity. A 19 year old dating a 17 year old might not raise many glance, a 25 year old dating a 17 might. If that's the case for you. Join the club lad (╯︵╰,)

>I find their type is cute and good-looking but I don't know if it is a turn-on/attractive

Well that varies by guy, I assume? Some might be attracted to older men, some to bodybuilders, some to other twinks. I imagine it's a question of getting to know them, even then they could make an exception. Sorry for the not-answer.

>Does anyone else have a problem not really differentiating what they want for themselves and what they want on another guy?

The "do I want him or do I want his body" problem. I've had that problem in the past. I frankly got too busy to really care, and my preferences expanded. Or maybe I gave in to despair, hell I'm still considering taking E. I'd recommend going out there, experiencing the world as you can and see how your ambitions and preferences change, if they change.
Personally, I'd like to be a femme 4 femme. I haven't heard much about these relations. Maybe femmes shack up, transition, or stop looking entirely.

If your "cuteness" comes from your noodle arms and tiny frame, I hate to break it to you but you're not cute.

I've seen plenty of 18-20 somethings at the gym. Their faces don't change as they build muscle. It's getting old, and if you somehow think feminine getting old is better there's nothing stopping you from going on HRT while working out.

>>2827
>If your "cuteness" comes from your noodle arms and tiny frame, I hate to break it to you but you're not cute.
Nothing cuter than a guy you can manhandle and break in half.

>>2731
Men who are strictly into femboys are not "gay men". Please don't lump us in with that sordid group. Chasers are chasers, it's that simple.

>>2848
I think there is a clear difference between a femboy and a sissy

>>732
I desperately wanna suck a cock :(

>>2853
yes, one of them exists outside the internet

>>2854
i know that feeling lol

>>2848
I beg to differ. If they aren't interested in women, they could be considered gay.
By your definition, all girls who specifically like butches are not gay

>>2853
I agree. Thanks for underlining my point?

>>2858
Notice how I didn't mention sissies, fairies, or any other form of femme men. Only 'femboys'. And strictly chasing only them at that.
Not that it matters: the proof is in the pudding. Chasers barely if at all engage with queer culture, let alone the community. They just want to fuck petite girls with a dick.

Also, it's crazy that you try to represent the many wonderful flavors of butch lesbos as the gender inverted equivalent of femboys. Guess it supports my previous point.

Any gaydar tips?

>>2873
Spam their DMs with "M4M???" like 100 times in a row.

>>2873
Call them a good boy and see how they react

Note: only works on bottoms

>>2875
It would work on me.
t. Service top

Thread's opinion on posting gay art / yaoi here? Including photos. I figure rule standards must be similar to /siberia/.

>>2872
Sadly, I'd say lucky enough to not date either one.
I don't think I've heard of a romantic relation with a femboy that didn't either end in flames or made it past twink-death. And from personal experiences, interactions with femboys haven't been all that pleasant.
Won't even go into the shitshow that "sissies" are.

>>2873
Tried cruising on a rock bar. Didn't work, hope I'm not too ugly.
Perhaps a rainbow bracelet or or wristband? Might be a bit more difficult but incorporating interlocking mars signs ⚣ into jewelry or clothes might work too.

>>2875
>Note: only works on bottoms
Worth a cum-shot on tops no?

>>2884
>Thread's opinion on posting gay art / yaoi here?
i hope its not just the same shit that gets posted on reddit twitter like astolfo or felis or whatever fotm exists today

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the images of nitzer ebb from the 80s are some of my favorite homoerotic-industrial-guy band photos. they all look like theyre ready to fuck on the floor of a missile plant

>>2884
>or made it past twink-death
Meme nonsense made up by chasers, if you're actually into dudes and not just femboys then it wont be an issue. "Cute guys become unfuckable past 25" is the same retard logic incels use about women being "run through" by the same age.

>>2890
Chasers might be involved but I think it's also a cope for people who don't take care of themselves and blame age.
I know dudes who look amazing in their 30s but also dudes who smoke/drink themselves to death and look like total garbage.

>>2907
Get yourself a short boy who doesn't smoke, drink, or go outside ever. So called "twink death" (i.e. becoming less attractive due to age) won't occur until mid 30s.

>le twink death
straightoids getting hold of queer lexicon has been a disaster, dont even get me started on bullshit like 'femboys'

>>2907
This. I cannot express how annoyed I feel when people say "I don't look thirty" just because I still have youthful looks.
Like bruh, there's not much physiognomical difference between twenty and thirty.

People expect thirty to be the start of senescence due to using Anglos as the standard of physiognomy and their culture of mediocrity.

If you go to Latin America, Africa, or even SEA, people remain good looking all the way until their sixties.

>>2909
Stop whining.
This anti-femboy rhetoric is just tall poppy syndrome at this point.
You wouldn't do this with bears or trans ladies.

>>2890
Actually, they use thirty-five as the final age, not twenty-five.
Also, femboys can still look good past that age

>>2861
>Notice how I didn't mention sissies, fairies, or any other form of femme men. Only 'femboys'. And strictly chasing only them at that.
Not that it matters: the proof is in the pudding. Chasers barely if at all engage with queer culture, let alone the community. They just want to fuck petite girls with a dick.
>Also, it's crazy that you try to represent the many wonderful flavors of butch lesbos as the gender inverted equivalent of femboys. Guess it supports my previous point.

Sissies, butches, bears, and trans ladies also have chasers that want a specific physiognomic type.
To say there isn't a diversity of femboys types while saying there are for butches is hypocritical

Sounds to me you just hate femboys.

>>2919
>You wouldn't do this with bears or trans ladies.
those exist outside the internet :)

>>2926
As do femboys.
Trans ladies are a minority though compared to bears

>>732
Does anyone have a print of haz's homophobic rant on twitter?

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>>2731
>fem
>Boy
It's was for just shit like astolfo and slang for some trans discord users to use
then most shotafags uses the slang femboy as a another word for shotacon and shit like the size difference tag for oneshota now
In the same way bestiality/zoo furfags uses the term "feral" for non-anthro/bestiality porn
it's too the point where shotafags aged down astolfo (the OG femqueer himself).

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twink death or twink glow up
call it

>>3150
He wasn't a twink in the first place

How can I get a guy (that I've only known for a couple months) to enjoy being around me? He hangs out with me sometimes but I can't help but feel that he's just being nice to me and only barely tolerates my presence. I'm not sure whether he's slightly repelled by my social anxiety or if he also has social anxiety. Maybe both, but I've seen him be a lot more relaxed/friendly around others. I am really bad at small talk and I'm generally a boring person. He's hung out with me enough times (and sometimes for really long periods) to make me think he doesn't hate me, but I have a lot of paranoid negative thoughts. Whenever he acts in a way I interpret as anything less than 100% positive it tortures me. I hate feeling obsessive like this and have been trying really hard to not let it show.
I'm not even at the stage of figuring out whether he's attracted to men or not.

>>3153
That's a common issue that people have around people they like Anon, but its most likely all in your head. Just ask him on a date and see what he says.

>>2039
what's hot enough? also are you annoying?

>>3150
I am not capable of growing that much hair.
I have gone long periods without shaving and I can't grow a beard or a real mustache, and my chest hair is just a bit at the top (very thin or non-existent everywhere else). It's either I shave or I look like shit.
32 btw.

>>3174
If I just asked him on a date I'd risk losing his friendship (I have basically no friends besides him right now) and worst-case he could spill it to a lot of people I work closely with (and they're not exactly allies).

>>3190
That's the age old problem Anon, all I can say is you have to make the choice whether you wanna shoot your shot or live in the friendzone forever. For what it's worth though I can say your worries about him secretly hating you are almost entirely unfounded. Like I said that's a really common way to feel about somebody you really like, and I've been there myself. Those fears rarely turn out to be true, especially if he has actually shown a willingness to hang out with you.

>>2230
I will

>>3191
I get what you're saying but I definitely think I need to know him better before getting to that point.

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As you got older did you find yourself caring less or more about your appearance? I understand reasons for both, and I can't judge anyone for caring less or more.
I've found myself caring more tbh, but I do admit sometimes I go overboard and I just want to scarf down a sandwich without worrying over my weight.

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I just spent 5 hours looking for MUGEN character file for bara Sol Badguy so I could watch him get raped by monsters
I didn't find it


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