lefty gay general - boyfriend edition
How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
235 posts and 39 image replies omitted.>>6596Name of this delicious hunk?
>>6602I'm not going to dox myself
how do I convince my roommate to let me suck his dick
>>6604Is he attracted to males?
>>6596I normally hate buff dudes, but jesus christ this is so hot
>>6604Please don't.
>>2729>It's the sheer amount of teen characters and high-school settings that irk me. Why are people on imageboards like this? There's plenty of BL with adult characters.
>>3385>>3400>>3391Nice projection there matey. Disguising your hatred of youth with concern about "pedophilia"
>>2150>Regardless, most of the people perpetuating this idea are either too young themselves, critically online basement dwellers or motherfuckers who seriously overestimate their own attractiveness.False on all three.
The bias is promoted more by adults, people with no agoraphobia, and people who don't have any self-love.
>>2766>People constantly fetishize and sexualize things that are rightfully considered unacceptable if done in real life, but are often done performatively as sex between consenting adults. Think about shit like CNC, faux incest, pet play, slave/master stuff, etc. If you're going to get mad that people like cute, young looking femboys then you might as well get mad at anything non-vanilla because most of it would be pretty fucked up if done outside a controlled, consensual, and fictional setting.People accept rape play, scat, vore, feral, and even gore but get a tizzy over loli and shota.
Im straight but I thought I would ask you guys this, back in high school I was once sexually harassed by another man in a bathroom stall, I was sexually harassed not assaulted so don't worry he did not touch me or anything but he just flashed a dick-pick under the bathroom stall wall. He didn't see me at first because I got in the stall first but he I confronted him after he got out and he tried to play dumb, the thing is that I have no idea if he was gay because I don't mean to stereotype because I can't tell by looking at someone but he didn't look gay. He looked like gym bro, but I have no idea if he was straight and doing this as a power thing or an edgy humor thing or if he was gay and he was cruising? I will never see him again but I was wondering if you guys would have an idea about this.
I joined yesterday some gay matrix chatrooms to see if I could get lucky and they had pedophiles and seemed dead. Why is finding a private dating place so hard?
>>6671>He looked like gym bro, but I have no idea if he was straight and doing this as a power thing or an edgy humor thing or if he was gay and he was cruising?Gays that pass completely as straight are called "straight-acting" and since you are hetero you probably pick up less things so I would say he is probably gay or at least a creep. Why would anyone put a phone with a dick in a locked stall? Or maybe he is just wanted yoi to get out
>>6671Were you twiky? A bit flamboyant, you might have looked at him before and thought you were gay as well, obviously he wanted you to suck his cock
>>6671Gay men are overrepresented among gym bros so if anything it makes it more likely, but yeah almost certainly was cruising and hoping to hookup.
why are so many gay men obsessed with straight men?
Most straight men are loud and obnoxious while simultaneously being the most boring and basic people alive, and dont even get me started on how they dress.
Can someone please explain to me what the appeal is?
>>6691There are way more straight men than gay men, that's all it is. You see him, develop a crush, then learn he's straight.
>>6691Most gay men are attracted to masculinity and society at large tells that homosexuality makes you less masculine than heteros, so heteromen are the most masculine, effortlessly masculine
>>6692Yes, there is that. But some also have an obsession specifically for straight men
Why am I gay? I like men a lot and think of them a lot, but sometimes my frustration of having no men to touch and having one to live romantically with makes me wonder why I must be gay while almost everyone else is hetero and I will never live a "normal" life, always see as slightly different or outright as a pedo or a degenerate
>>6696idk straight zoomers nowadays can get pretty flamboyant
what would have been called "gay behavior" a couple decades ago is now just how normal guys act
there's still plenty who engage in performative masculinity but less so compared to the old days - which is a positive overall
the average straight boomer smells like shit, zoomers are better about showering (millennials somewhere in-between)
>>6699that's just the gay experience dawg
personally I get women hitting on me all the time but I have zero luck with finding gay men, if I was straight my romantic life would be so easy
>>6701>I get women hitting on me all the timeYou are so lucky, at least if someday you want to have a family you could
>I have zero luck with finding gay menMaybe guys don't hit on you if you look too straight? Have you try hitting on some obvious homo?
>if I was straight my romantic life would be so easyFun thing is that mine would probably be worse (or the same? Anything multipled to 0 is 0), probably an incel, so idk why I think I would live a "normal" life
>>6691I could easily say the same about cishet females
>>6700Men used to dress flamboyantly in the past. Hell look at the 1970s and early 80s.
Or even better yet, look at black American fashion in the R&B lens rather than the rapper fashion.
>>6700>the average straight boomer smells like shit, zoomers are better about showering (millennials somewhere in-between)Boomers are old so they have the "old man smell" in addition to having old relics and senility which makes them forget to bathe.
Also, millennials aren't "somewhere in between".
>>4853>>4860Straight wmen are also like that with gay women as well
>>6705As someone who regularly interacts with all three age groups yes millennials are in-between. Not as performatively masculine as boomers but not as "flamboyant" as zoomers, on average. And that includes hygiene. Being very well-groomed used to be a gay stereotype but that doesn't apply anymore.
>>6692makes sense, but then again i see a lot of gay men fetishizing the identity of being straight itself rather than a specific straight man
>>6696Ah, I see, Im one of the few gay men who doesnt find masculinity attractive, so i suppose thats why i dont get it. I was raised in an accepting progressive household so i never really internalized a lot of the homophobia other gay men internalize.
Although in my personal opinion I feel that gay men tend to be way more masculine then the average straight guy lol.
>>6703Theyre definitley still loud, obnoxious, and basic but theyre definitley nowhere near as loud obnoxious and basic as cishet men are
>>6712>Theyre definitley still loud, obnoxious, and basic but theyre definitley nowhere near as loud obnoxious and basic as cishet men areIdk I find that high-pitch vulnerable voice they sometimes make (not their natural voice) very annoying
>>6712>Ah, I see, Im one of the few gay men who doesnt find masculinity attractive, so i suppose thats why i dont get it.
>Theyre definitley still loud, obnoxious, and basic but theyre definitley nowhere near as loud obnoxious and basic as cishet men areCopium.
>Although in my personal opinion I feel that gay men tend to be way more masculine then the average straight guy lol.Copium tenfold
Just admit that you're a heretomisandrist
>>6713Fucking this. It's especially particular in black women. They complain about men not appreciating femininity but then henpeck men for displaying "feminine" behavior.
>>6711>Being very well-groomed used to be a gay stereotype but that doesn't apply anymore.Thats ironic because meticulous hygiene is a masculine thing in the white Anglo.world before the 1980s.
Also it's a given rule for blacks and Latinos
There is a cutie in my class and today before leaving ye tried to "flirt"/talk with a girl and he did it painfully and obvious that he was trying to make her laugh and she obviously didn't laugh
God I hate heterosexuality so much, he should be taking to me instead of her
>>6738Mhm, it's tragic. Where only one party craves, finds itself a dependency with the sensed being of the other.
Do you have any plans in your mind to aproach to him regardless of the unkind fate? (Also does he have someone he calls a friend?)
Do you believe, that in some ideal condition, 'you' may became his valuation? After all, one may find the female-form more appealing to eyes- but for the heart? Won't know.
>>6773This.
Methinks LGB had the answers all along.
It’s too bad T is still fumbling in the dark
>>6738Heterosexuality is useless outside of procreation
>>6829Post images of boomer rock stars in their prime years
>>6739>Do you have any plans in your mind to aproach to him regardless of the unkind fate? (Also does he have someone he calls a friend?)Yes he has a friend, actually, we share that friend. But even that way we have only talk once and it was about him or me asking him to move and another time at the start of the course when we commented about a teacher, we disgreed (friendly). And no, I do not plan on approaching him. I used to look at him a lot (I have stopped recently) and I think he noticed that, and probably thinks bad of me…
>Do you believe, that in some ideal condition, 'you' may became his valuation? After all, one may find the female-form more appealing to eyes- but for the heart? Won't know.No, we don't even have the same interests (I think)
Today I dreamt we talked a bit about a church in the distance, he has a very beautiful voice so talking with him in my dream was very pleasant, I was also trying to look him at the face in the dream so the communication was better
So much of the gay experience is centered around having a boyfriend. Should I ever bother considering myself gay when im incapable of ever getting a boyfriend?
>>6843>So much of the gay experience is centered around having a boyfriend.Does it really? I have the sensation that it is morr about having sex, whether it is with a boyfriend or hook-ups, and maybe looking hot. Gay men are the less engaged with a long-term partner (40% only)
>Should I ever bother considering myself gay when im incapable of ever getting a boyfriend?I can't decide for you but two years ago when I wasn't interested in sex or relationships (I was a volcel, I guess) I wondered if I could stop calling myself gay, since it was inconsequantial what I liked, since I wasn't to do anything to males nor to females
>>6846True its mostly about sex, I just assume most gay guys have sex with their boyfriends instead of hooking up. Either way, no man would ever want to fuck me
>>6847>no man would ever want to fuck meThere are, but you probably wouldn't want to fuck him (they are a fat ugly grandpa)
>I just assume most gay guys have sex with their boyfriends instead of hooking up.Well, you now know you are wrong, most gay men are not in a relationship, they are on situationships and Grindr
>>6843The same could be said for the straight experience
>>6847That's because LGBT folk are still patronized so they cannot have long term relationships as easily as cisheterosexual folk
>>6849>There are, but you probably wouldn't want to fuck him (they are a fat ugly grandpa)This. It's sad that most of those boomers are cishet married men who just want to get a nut off instead of being truly gay
Only guy I was ever interested in was a leftcom. I slept with him but turns out he lied to me and is interested in some neo-lib whitegirl. Pathetic
>>6872Leftcom and bisexual is a combination taken straight from hell
>>6849I love fat ugly men aslong as they arent straight up elderly
is it a good idea to wear something like a rainbow bracelet to signal that I'm gay so other gay guys will notice? A lot of people I've talked to think I'm straight based on the way I look and act
I don't really wanna change my entire look or how I behave but maybe an accessory could do the trick?
>>6901I used to do that as a teenager, but I don't think I could do that anymore, it seems to "i just came out of the closet and i am proud!". Not anything wrong with it if you can…
The other day in the optic I noticed a man was gay, he had a moustache and a shaved hair, which looked very gay… Maybe if you are old enough you could do that?
>A lot of people I've talked to think I'm straight based on the way I look and actDo these people include gays or is it just straggots thinking you are hetero? Gays should notice better
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