lefty gay general - boyfriend edition
How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
136 posts and 28 image replies omitted.>>3191Imo, people who whine about friend zoning are kinda entitled
>>866Sounds like someone is jealous
>>3202Older people are not as "giving no fucks" as they claim.
If they were, they would not complain so much about being single and society being "youth oriented".
People who do give less fucks as they get older are often those who had their fill of life or those who truly are just enjoying life casually.
>>3150>Excessive body hairNot even once
His body shape hasn't changed much tho
>>3335>"that's just kid">"those are referring to kids">"Sounds like someone is jealous">jealousEw, with what.
Also why do you want do be chased down by vatican priests.
>>3387>youngand shotafags will still use that slang for anyone underage.
most none IRL examples and anime/animation/comics/video game characters are just being any underage male instead of any bunny.
it's no different when lolifags uses the word brat from time to time for awhile.
>>3393unless you never been to twitter or discord, /a/ or /lgbt/ on much more popular imageboards then no.
>>3394tell that to shotafags
>>2919>other groups have chasers tooThis line of thinking would only be relevant if I, as you claim, hate femboys. I don't. I hate their chasers. That has been my entire sentiment from the drop: distaste for people who obsess over femboys. Which I do, not just because it is pathethic behaviour, nor because this kind of person leeches of an already strained culture, but also because it, precisely, reduces 'femboy' to a narrow, individualized concept.
A pluriform femboy culture is immaterial there (though we are assuredly using different definitions and so the point is moot anyway). Not that I argued that. What I did argue is that "butch lesbian" is not the gender inverse of "femboy": a blatant categorical error on your part.
>>3615what circles are you socializing in? Is there a cute gay boy in your local lefty gun group or reading circle? Expressing interests in places like that is very risky and typically discouraged.
Do you mean you're out in a public area like a city center or cafe or marketplace or catholic mass and you see a qt that's giving off faggie vibes? Not sure if that's socializing but you should definitely toss out a pickup line (you can google these) and try to get his number or socials.
Sometimes you can just say "oh hey, I like your (jewelry, hairstyle, article of clothing, etc)" and try to get a conversation going. Usually, if they enjoy your presence, they will keep talking to you; they even ask for your contact before you get to.
Learn to accept that it may at times be cringe or end in rejection. That's okay, be glad you tried because more people need to be outgoing like that, especially gays who are addicted to grindr/blued/twitter/sniffies.
It's also very socially hygienic to practice to do this outside of the internet and as well as good for your mental health.
>>3428I like twinks and I'm not bisexual. Also people not into twinks should not determine what twink means. Your perception of twinks is ridiculous.
Also straight people, obviously men, but particularly cis straight women, should definitely NOT use the word twink. Honestly the normalization of this word is so jarring.
also hi. I haven't been active in a while. I'm still working on myself mashallah. Work still fucking sucks. Thankfully I am very soon not going to be under my EU-loving gay white ass colonial boss who's a bootlicking autist. The past 6 months have been a slow descent to hell.
I've consciously distanced myself from everything political (news,
being a mod here, protests, etc) for my mental health. I'm still very involved in workplace organizing which is it's own timesink and stress but at least it's better than my regular work which I only derive dread from.
I send a big hug to the mod team and a kiss on the balloon knot by the genitals.
>>3724>Straight people just use twink as a socially acceptable way to say the f slur.📠📠📠📠 facts
>>3728>also tbh, i never hear straight people talk like that.Then maybe you should have withheld your accusation that the other anon was making it up.
>>3729>not irlPeople imitate what they see online and in media. This does happen quite a lot. For example, the show "It's always sunny in Philadelphia" for example, made all of these words acceptable to use with the straight bro morons.
It's not a huge issue, not even a minor one. It's a tiny issue but I choose to bitch about it because it's very annoying to see a straight bro use twink as a slur, just as they use taking it up the ass as an insult, but "they're not homophobic so it's OK". Fucking hate this shit.
Yeah, it's not the worst thing in the world, let me bitch in peace.
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