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lefty gay general - boyfriend edition

How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
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>>2229
wanting a boywife isn't inherently reactionary, go wild bro

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>>2229
Neither, you're a man with common sense. Speaking from experience, there are a lot of nerdy young twinks who are introverted and have low self esteem. Find one you like, get to know him a bit, and once it's clear that you have feelings for each other go Gomez Adams on his ass. Gush love and affection with zero chill and make him feel special and loved (obviously only do this for a guy you have real feelings for, don't just pretend because that's fucked up). Femboys like attention but they especially like it if it's genuine affection and not just horniness. Tell him you'll cuddle him and call him a good boy, that he's smart and pretty and cute. Don't be afraid to get poetic. This all worked for me.

Obviously everybody is different but I've met a few really cute guys who were like this and responded well to it, including my current bf.

>>2229
If exclusively his feminine qualities would bewitch your heart , full of sorrow may it all be if you both age up.

I guess, in the union of love, the lovers share a mutual dependency which they previously didn't 'realize' , an abstract yet a sensed power- and I hope in your situation it'd be everlasting

>>2240
Feminine qualities can be reasonably maintained with a little work Anon. The only real issue could be hair loss but not everybody gets that. Women age too, they just put more effort in to fighting it.

I don't think I want to look traditionally feminine, I just hate aging past 30.

>>2081
>But twink death is real, its just what testosterone naturally does to the body.
You mean what aging does to the body.

<Notably, although the protective effect of HRT on wrinkling was previously reported25,35, the pooled association for wrinkling and HRT use was non-significant.

>>2271
>>2081
Methinks testosterone is an overused scapegoat for twink death. Like even if femboys had zero T, aging will still make them lose their looks.

Also, most IRL femboys look kinda weird.
Not ugly, but kinda weird.
I guess it's because they tend to dress too girly at times

And irony is we have tomboys who would pass for femboys

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Thoughts on bbno$?

>>2281
I don't care about petit-bourgeois clout chasers.

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>>2282
I'mma be honest I don't give a fuck because he's hot and his drag looks slay
I want to fuck his ass in drag

Troye sivan: twink, 29 years old
Timothy chamalette: twink, 29 years old
Cole Sprouse: twinkz 32 years old

Y'all sleeping on older twinks.

>>2276
>Not ugly, but kinda weird.
Personally I get a bit of an ick when people overshoot their body's ability to put on a feminine look. I love femboys, but if they dress more feminine than they can pull off it kinda creeps me out. A guy that would look amazing in long socks, a pastel hoodie and cat ears can look terrible in a dress and heels. I like them to successfully look like cute guys, not try and fail to look like women. I would rather a guy just dress masculine than try to overshoot honestly, and a guy who is really attractive in men's clothing can he super not attractive in women's clothing. I think that a lot of feminine guys struggle to find the niche that suits their bodies and going outside of it is what makes them look weird.

>>2281
>>2287
Annoying queerbaiter and his music sucks.

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I'm a straight guy but I unironically want to achieve the "bear" physique. Any tips on how to get more body hair and a fat-strong look? I'm currently just fat.

>>2299
>Any tips on how to get more body hair and a fat-strong look?
Do a lot of weight training but no cardio or diet.

Speaking of physique, it's summer which means it's beach time
Are you ashamed to show your body? I know I am

Currently working on a gay historical romance novel set during the Napoleonic Wars where a Russian aristocratic cavalry officer is convinced to become a Decemberist bourgeois revolutionary by the power of Polish femboy bussy.

>>2380
Short pants and tshirts look bad on my skinny legs and arms and I don't like looking at them with short clothes on, but since I usually don't look myself at the mirror and generally don't care enough to be ashamed of it, it's okay

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>>2511
is it gay to kiss a man you've been trying to defeat for seven months?

>>2514
go full jap and wear cropped blocky tshirts

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>>2380
i am afraid of going outside i have the body of a greek merchant not god

>>2679
>Opinion ignored
there was no opinion in the first
but you post beforehand already didn't made since youre defending socdem loli/shotafags from twitter

>>2684
I dont follow into your political gossiping over "socdem/tankie/anarkiddie" or whatever.
And defending what?
You getting butthurt over some loli/shota?

🤣🤣🤣🤣

>>2676
You are the hottest man in this thread.

>>2687
>I dont follow into your political gossiping over
>You getting butthurt over some cp?
>uninformed with the shit and subject on the bait post
gay

>>2671
Is it gay when the bussy so good you recognize Napoleon as the World Spirit?

Anyone here interested in BL? I've read a few, quite liked Our Dining Table. It's the sheer amount of teen characters and high-school settings that irk me. Guess I shouldn't have expected much else out of Japanese works. Maybe I'll try reading manhua or manhwa.

>>2292
At the end of the day you do have to consider what image your body and clothes can project, not just what you want to project. Gross dissonance between how you come off and what you think you come off as is very uncanny, see non-passing MtFs.

>>2729
>At the end of the day you do have to consider what image your body and clothes can project, not just what you want to project.
Yeah, I mean I'm a switch and I'd love to be a subby femboy sometimes, but I'm 6'3 and over 200 pounds so obviously I wouldn't pull it off, and I know nobody would be into it. I'll have to be satisfied with breeding subby femboys instead (the horror!).

>nonstop talk of ""femboys""
why are cis gay men so fucking pedophilic, even chasers are better than ts

>>2731
>feminine =/= child
Wtf are you on about?

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>>2732
youre only bringing up half of the word

>>2734
Damn dude you're right. I guess liking goth girls makes you a pedo too even if they're in their 20s or 30s.

>>2731
waht is "ts"

>>2731
Gay men are not one bit more paedophilic than straight men.
I don't know why people think straight and gay men are so different when it's just the exact same male sexuality focused on different genders + gay men conforming less to gender roles.

>>2731
were you abused?

>>2731
>Liking femboys means you're a pedophile

Let's be honest. Are you afraid of being seen as too old to be attractive?
Im starting to notice that a lot of mindless liberal misused of the "pedophilia" is often lobbed against liking anything cutesy.

And a lot of people who use it are often insecure needy people who never achieved much in their prime years.

>>2744
This.

>>2730
Got to do the best with what you have no?

>>2749
>And a lot of people who use it are often insecure needy people who never achieved much in their prime years.
So like fat women and body positivity? It does make some sense, if you're too insecure about your age you'd berate those who do like youth. Furthermore, I'd be hard-pressed to call femboys "pedos" in the first place, so many of them are so anime-y they don't even look that human in the first place, that and a lot of young men do not look traditionally twink-ish or femboy-ish imo. Just young and masculine I guess.

>>2763
>So like fat women and body positivity? It does make some sense, if you're too insecure about your age you'd berate those who do like youth.

Yep. "Body positivity" is just tall poppy syndrome.
Irony is, a lot of those in "body positivity" would mock/patronize cishet males for any bodily flaws.
Actually, they would more bully each other indirectly.

The people who complain about hebe-centrism usually are the ones who are look down on youthful features and prioritize older looking features as "mature". They don't even care about "maturity" beyond looks and fashion.

Alot of them are usually dysfunctional and are stuck in dead jobs and are resentful.of younger people who have higher stations/standards than them.

They hate precocious behavior in children.


>Furthermore, I'd be hard-pressed to call femboys "pedos" in the first place, so many of them are so anime-y they don't even look that human in the first place, that and a lot of young men do not look traditionally twink-ish or femboy-ish imo. Just young and masculine I guess.


Exactly. I fucking hate how modern culture comically portrays male physiognomy as either bears or twinks with no in-between.
Most young and early middle aged men would look more like shonen characters in Naruto or Bleach.

Also pic related is hot.
Whose the cutie and the artist?

>>2763
>Got to do the best with what you have no?
Yeah well I just lean in to the masculine presentation since I could really go either way personality wise but physically it suits me.
>I'd be hard-pressed to call femboys "pedos" in the first place, so many of them are so anime-y they don't even look that human in the first place
Femboy aesthetics definitely lean a bit into ageplay. You've got a lot who collect plushies, love kids cartoons and own related merch, lean heavily into sexualized innocence/youth and cuteness, etc. At least this is what my bf is like and a lot of other guys I've seen on social media. But honestly the decisive factor here is whether they're a legal adult with basic cognitive faculties, i.e. can they properly consent. If they can then it's not pedophilia by definition, and getting angry about it is just people seething about liking things that they don't like. People constantly fetishize and sexualize things that are rightfully considered unacceptable if done in real life, but are often done performatively as sex between consenting adults. Think about shit like CNC, faux incest, pet play, slave/master stuff, etc. If you're going to get mad that people like cute, young looking femboys then you might as well get mad at anything non-vanilla because most of it would be pretty fucked up if done outside a controlled, consensual, and fictional setting.

Can you be too old to transition? No.

Can you be too old to be a 'femboy'? Oh my fucking god yes, please stop it you 40 year old men.

>>2768
Idk I think an AMAB person who tries to transition at 40 and actually resemble a woman is going to look a lot worse than a guy who just likes to wear cat ears and socks sometimes. Again, what makes it look bad is overshooting what your body can pull off in terms of feminine aesthetics, and generally speaking trans women are going to try to push those aesthetics farther than femboys. If they're starting from the same place physically then they're going to end up looking worse by trying to push it farther.

>>2768
>>2769
This is something most people are too pussy to admit because it would considered chauvinistic.

We need to stop coddling insecure men into transitioning to feel better about themselves.
I also think that the girly clothes used by trans women and crossdressing males is overkill. Most cis women don't dress like that unless for prom.

I think some trans women want to "compete" with cis women and then cry about TERFism.

They're just as petty as TERFs.

I would like to see trans women who would be willing to still dress male or at least androgynous without needing so much make up.

>>2775
I mean I'm not saying that people shouldn't transition past a certain age. That's an important personal decision and people need to do what they feel is best for themselves. I'd respect the least and most passing tgirl equally. Its just that realistically the later you transition the less likely you are to look good doing it, and you're definitely going to look worse than a cis guy who is just trying to look like a cute and feminine man. Tbf tho I'm biased because I'd pick a femboy who pulls it off over literally any other person regardless of how well they pull off their particular aesthetic or gender expression. They're just my favourite.

>>2775
Most trans people I know, including one of my closest friends, don't use "overly feminine" clothes or whatever. I feel this is an internet thing. Others I know use very "experimental" clothes that defy gender norms.

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Enough chit-chatter about trains. There's something that's been on my mind. I've heard there's a someone for everyone, basically every body-type has its fans. Muscular, short, tan, etc. I hope it's true, everyone deserves to have someone who likes them physically. Though admittedly some body-types are going to have considerably more enjoyers than others. Personally I don't know how many people like the shorter, scrawny look; but hey won't know for certain 'till I put myself out there.

>>2764
Artist is kuroh.shiro he's (?) got an insta page and a cara page but sadly the art I posted is not there. Shame, he's got other art of cute boys and while not bad they're hardly anything to appreciate.

>>2793
>Personally I don't know how many people like the shorter, scrawny look
Isn't that the basic twink body type? Personally that's my favourite. My bf is like that, about 9 inches shorter than me and nearly half my weight.

>>2793
I don't know if I like it or envy it, like being nostalgic for the body I had when I was 15 years old, last year there was one guy in another class who was 18yrs old but was very short and his face looked 13-14, this year there is one who is also like that but he is 16. I envy them a lot, I find their type is cute and good-looking but I don't know if it is a turn-on/attractive, it would feel paedophilic.
Does anyone else have a problem not really differentiating what they want for themselves and what they want on another guy?


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