lefty gay general - boyfriend edition
How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
149 posts and 30 image replies omitted.>>3401Have you considered that the post was talking something different from the beginning
>oooohhh im into Twinks but not really any other type of male, also my definition of twink is either impossibly neotenous internet jpeg or Any Young Guy as long as he doesnt have visible body hair (ugh!), but i prefer the former. also im single btw
im begging some people to just go and fuck some guy with armpit hair or something instead of being fussy ephebophiles
>>3408
nothing is more ridiculous than reddit sexualities
>>3407Do people really have a problem with armpit hair?
>>3413
no, im the one fucking people with armpit hair retard
>>3427Yeah then I don't see what's wrong with only liking twinks. It most likely just means you're bisexual but lean heavily towards women. Idk what Anon is seething about.
>>3428I like twinks and have no interest in women.
>>3439But do you exclusively like twinks?
>>2919>other groups have chasers tooThis line of thinking would only be relevant if I, as you claim, hate femboys. I don't. I hate their chasers. That has been my entire sentiment from the drop: distaste for people who obsess over femboys. Which I do, not just because it is pathethic behaviour, nor because this kind of person leeches of an already strained culture, but also because it, precisely, reduces 'femboy' to a narrow, individualized concept.
A pluriform femboy culture is immaterial there (though we are assuredly using different definitions and so the point is moot anyway). Not that I argued that. What I did argue is that "butch lesbian" is not the gender inverse of "femboy": a blatant categorical error on your part.
>>3440I like dudes that are clean shaven and lean. Which does include a lot of twinks but not exclusively.
>>3450Good taste fam. I love fit guys whether they're muscular or lean, and scrawny little bitch bois too. I just don't like overweight or hairy dudes, which is funny because I'm bi and I also love chubby chicks with untamed bushes.
>>3428>I don't see what's wrong with only liking twinksnot based
>>732Twink enjoyers are just borderline hetero
that gay nazi flag poster is a crypto-fascist.
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I genuinely wouldn't mind most twink porn if it actually included twinks that look like they could be found on a college campus or something, like it used to be. It feels like there's been this huge push lately for actors that genuinely look like they've barely entered puberty with tops that are like 6'5"+ to try and emphasize a wider age difference than what's there.
It's just weird to me, like it's not even gay porn anymore but targeting a larger swath of bicurious types with latent pedophilic tendencies.
>>3579Eh it depends. There's some porn like you describe. Though there are certain companies and actors that clearly play on infantilization.
Any of you get a BF through socializing IRL? If so how?
>>3615what circles are you socializing in? Is there a cute gay boy in your local lefty gun group or reading circle? Expressing interests in places like that is very risky and typically discouraged.
Do you mean you're out in a public area like a city center or cafe or marketplace or catholic mass and you see a qt that's giving off faggie vibes? Not sure if that's socializing but you should definitely toss out a pickup line (you can google these) and try to get his number or socials.
Sometimes you can just say "oh hey, I like your (jewelry, hairstyle, article of clothing, etc)" and try to get a conversation going. Usually, if they enjoy your presence, they will keep talking to you; they even ask for your contact before you get to.
Learn to accept that it may at times be cringe or end in rejection. That's okay, be glad you tried because more people need to be outgoing like that, especially gays who are addicted to grindr/blued/twitter/sniffies.
It's also very socially hygienic to practice to do this outside of the internet and as well as good for your mental health.
Would you ever date a dude who had a kid?
>>3707Happily. I'd like to have kids but adoption is pretty intimidating.
>>3707If I really really liked him then maybe.
>>3707I don't date men who touched women
>>3428I like twinks and I'm not bisexual. Also people not into twinks should not determine what twink means. Your perception of twinks is ridiculous.
Also straight people, obviously men, but particularly cis straight women, should definitely NOT use the word twink. Honestly the normalization of this word is so jarring.
also hi. I haven't been active in a while. I'm still working on myself mashallah. Work still fucking sucks. Thankfully I am very soon not going to be under my EU-loving gay white ass colonial boss who's a bootlicking autist. The past 6 months have been a slow descent to hell.
I've consciously distanced myself from everything political (news,
being a mod here, protests, etc) for my mental health. I'm still very involved in workplace organizing which is it's own timesink and stress but at least it's better than my regular work which I only derive dread from.
I send a big hug to the mod team and a kiss on the balloon knot by the genitals.
>>3721>I've consciously distanced myself from everything political (…being a mod here…) for my mental health.So what is all the other mods' excuse?
>>3721Straight people just use twink as a socially acceptable way to say the f slur.
>>3725
im not. Just look at how straight people use the word twink in sentences. If you replaced it with the f slur in the sentences then the meaning of the sentence would usually remain the same. Like when a straight person says "he looks like a twink" when referring to any guy who dresses a bit more femininely.
>>3728
It's mostly straight people talking like that online, not irl, but still. It doesnt matter whether they say the actual slur or twink instead, its still the same intent either way. I dont think its a major problem thats destroying the lgbt community or anything, just something I thought was worth mentioning.
Also femboy isnt comparable to twink lol, the words have very different meanings
>>3724>Straight people just use twink as a socially acceptable way to say the f slur.📠📠📠📠 facts
>>3728>also tbh, i never hear straight people talk like that.Then maybe you should have withheld your accusation that the other anon was making it up.
>>3729>not irlPeople imitate what they see online and in media. This does happen quite a lot. For example, the show "It's always sunny in Philadelphia" for example, made all of these words acceptable to use with the straight bro morons.
It's not a huge issue, not even a minor one. It's a tiny issue but I choose to bitch about it because it's very annoying to see a straight bro use twink as a slur, just as they use taking it up the ass as an insult, but "they're not homophobic so it's OK". Fucking hate this shit.
Yeah, it's not the worst thing in the world, let me bitch in peace.
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>>3725
>you just made that up.
Sorry meant to quote with this too.
Since you haven't heard straight people use the word twink, then maybe you don't have the necessary context to know whether it they normally used the word as a stand in for faggot. You accused the anon of making it up. I think it's a bit premature and unfair to the anon. It was just a suggestion, don't take it too seriously or personally.
>>3740I never heard word twink used negatively though. It is always a way of acknowledging someones attractiveness.
I want a sweet cuddly golden retriever top bf who's taller than me (almost impossible because I'm like 6'3) OR a sweet cuddly femboy bottom bf that's much shorter than me.
>>3762Sigh, this is why I hate being a tall femboy
>>3765Definitely a struggle, but that wouldn't be a deal breaker for me. I mostly just want somebody nice and cute who likes to cuddle.
Why do extreme levels of promiscuity seem to really only be a thing among AMAB queer people? I've never heard of casual sluttiness being nearly as prevalent among lesbians and FtMs as it is among gay men and MtFs.
>>3936Because testosterone+a tiny bit of socialization, and straight menos are also promiscuos
>>3936FtMs are horndogs through.
>>3937>straight menos are also promiscuosAt least they would be if getting women into bed wasn't such a fucking chore.
can i get a list of clothes that aren't gay
>>3964No, fuck off hetmoid
>go on Grindr for the first time in a decade
>see a bunch if straight white women claiming to be some vague flavour of "queer"
Where's the white woman extinction button when you need it?
Does anyone have any guide or tips to get rid of the fagcent?
Last year one guy asked whether I was gay and while this hasn't caused me any problem I would like to be able not to broadcast my sexuality, for security (even though I live in a very tolerant place) and to get along better with straight guys once I enter the workforce.
>>3963Came out at 12 so I assume I haven't wore "closetcore" and I think we gave some of my older clothes to my cousin.
>>4199Doesn't grindr have a gender (there shouldn't be non-men there but whatever) filter? Or did they make that a paid feature too? If that's the case you could use GrindrPlus, if that woman labbeled herself as a man you could use the height filter.
>>4205I mean obviously its easy enough to avoid such people. I'm just baffled by why AFAB people other than transmascs would be on there in the first place.
>>4205>>4205>to get along better with straight guysImagine crawling and begging for the acceptance of these vermin
They'll hate you and want to beat you/kill you as soon as they find out you're gay no matter how masc you perform
>>4233>how do i not give bosses some bullshit justification to fire me or w/e<uhhhhhhhh assimilationist much??????not everyone is a sheltered petit bourgeois who never leaves their bedroom and plenty of queers dislike the "fagcent" themselves
is there a faster site out there where I can complain about how gay and lonely I am that's not 4chan?
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