lefty gay general - boyfriend edition
How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
>>732Was in a relationship for nearly a decade. Broke up two years ago.
Started dating a guy recently. I'm kinda crushing on him. But idk, it seems mutual when we're together, but not when we're apart, so I think the best is to let him pursue the relationship further if he actually wants to keep seeing me. Maybe he wants to take things slow, idk. I can't be playing these games.
>>732Gaygen thoughts on gay misandrist???
Also gay misandrist are you here????
>>794I guess I'm expecting him to initiate things reciprocally. I invited him last time, I expect him to invite me this time. He just doesn't send me too many messages via WhatsApp. He isn't that present online in general. Sometimes responding hours later. Which is fine in general. I don't really like texting too much. I feel a bit clingy and needy, but a hello once every couple of days to keep things alive would be nice!
He just broke up with his ex and is still getting over him, which is obviously not ideal but I like this guy and he's hot. I just don't get what he expects. If it were up to me, I'd like to see him at least once a week. Do not that we've only started seeing each other, we have only 6 dates.
Today I kinda fucked up. He finally initiated conversation after a week. I told him to let me know if and when he wants to meet up. I didn't want to impose, so I kinda left it open. But he responded like "wtf? What do you mean if I want to meet up. I do want to see you. Why do you think I don't". So I sent him a video note saying that I didn't really understand him through text, and that since he wants to see me then we should meet up and I'd be very happy to.
It was a bit awkward. Idk. I'm going to have to talk to him soon and explain that I don't feel attended to by him via text, that I feel a bit of distance and I need time to get used to his texting style.
>>836>twink>femboythat's just kid
most people who use those word now are referring to /GET/ shit.
>>874iktf
do you have plans to move in together?
>>732Sick of being lonely and sexless
Being a mid looking mentally ill dicklet is a death sentence to your sex life
>>1311Sperg + I don't openly act gay (I have a pretty mild personality, and people treat you differently when they know you're gay which I don't like).
So I'm not actively seeking people out and they're not actively seeking me out.
>>1320>>1497Irony is, most gay sex is usually just cishet or cisbi guys looking to let off steam.
Most actual gay dudes have less sex.
>>1954(Not who you are replying to)
Once like a month ago or so I became so desperate I installed a modded Grindr (so I didn't have shitty ads) to try and my city is pretty small and there was just like one guy searching for something romantic and he was +10yr my age and the rest were searching for sex (me too but also for a bf like everything except a friend) and most picless and I ended up uninstalling it, and like I don't think I could find a boyfriend in any dating app because he would refuse to install a dating app, where else am I left to find a boyfriend online? (genuine question) and even if I found one it would probably be from another country, I think I could deal with a LR but I don't know if I could stand it for life, because I also hate trips and I would not move for him.
But I want a boyfriend so badly…
>>2031Brehhhh. Jealous rn. Good for you.
>>1529Wish list
>twink (thin, twunk OK, kinda fem, fair featured)>preferably >25 years old, closer to 30 even better>has stable job (just not on the brink of absolute poverty)>has stable housing (not on the brink of homelessness)>not crazy>not a drug addict (doing drugs is ok, just not an addict)>cool and nice to hang out with>not an exclusive top (verse, bottom, side, all OK)>not long distance>likes meI don't even care if he wants open or closed relationship. I don't care if he's politically active or aware. I don't care about dick size or shape. Don't care about performance in bed either.
I'm not asking much. I'm hot enough. I was dating someone that fit almost all of this, but he didn't like me back enough and it fizzled out. Back to square one 😢
>>836>normal females don't make me feel much anymore>twinks, and femboys on the other hand watching pornography of them or just seeing them act flamboyant makes me get an erection or leak pre a bitwell that's it, i guess i'm no longer straight, what a bummer
how you do fellow homos
>>2062But twink death is real, its just what testosterone naturally does to the body.
Im terrified of hitting twink death, thinking about it makes me want to cry. Denying that twink death exists isnt gonna prevent it from happening though.
>>2062As
>>2081 said, twink death is real, there may exist some shorter guys who for some reason have lower testosterone and look younger at their 30s, but even they are different from (real) twinks
>>2081The big thing is just keeping your hair.
Everything else is easily maintainable for a good amount of time.
>>2140Well in that case, I can understand what you mean, and even agree to some extent.
These ephebophiliacs have a very inaccurate idea of both younger men and older men for that matter. Not all youngsters are cute or bottoms, nor are all older men uglier or tops. Frankly – like the bottom/top dichotomy – this seems like an inheritance from heterosexual norms. Older men (are supposed to) look for younger women, while young women are supposed to shack-up with men old enough to be their fathers.
Regardless, most of the people perpetuating this idea are either too young themselves, critically online basement dwellers or motherfuckers who seriously overestimate their own attractiveness.
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