>>720210What I get from the quote pic is that sex is too risky and dangerous and might destroy. Not getting it might also destroy you though. You can't win either way. Maybe some kind of sex machine would be the best solution. Porn helps a little bit. Jerking it makes me feel a bit better but I think I need to do it more. If I lived alone I probably would. Edging is alright too.
>women mature faster than men
<NOOOO YOU CAN‘T DATE AN 18 YEAR OLD SHE‘S BASICALLY A BABY NOOOOO
>>720245The stuff she says about sex sounds cool and everything and I think I agree but if it all goes bad then it can just lead to bitterness and resentment. Maybe that's part of the deal. Personally I prefer a more boring life but I suppose if that's how you are then it's best just to stay away from relationships since being boring and monotonous might be the worst quality and will probably be the easiest way to end up bitter and resentful. Maybe none of this made sense I don't know
>attention whore on some social media
>get messaged by a girl
>whine about my life like a complete loser for a few days
>maybe unsuspiciously find an excuse to send a pic of myself
>she wants to meet up
>too anxious to accept but try not to offend her
>she gets bored and leaves
it just keeps happening over and over again
I'll literally never leave my autistic comfort zone
>>720252Maybe you just like to torture yourself?
>>720254maybe the thrill of getting them to ask me out is enough to scratch that itch without having to put myself out there, because I know it's just a world of troubles from there on out
but this feels like a cope tbh
>>720258Personally I feel practically everything in life is cope. So you're probably right
relationships would be so much easier if people were just civilised and followed basic rules of societal conduct
>>720258just drink beforehand. you can somehow manage to get several people to ask you to do things and you're complaining about it?
>>720328I'm not complaining, but idk if I'm really missing out on anything
Did Emiru deserve the virgin attack at twitchcon because she's a bourgeois or was she truly a victim?
>>720669chuds will side with the fat virgin stalker so I'm siding with her
>>720247That's a lie or least partially, they physically (sexually) mature faster. I never had that period of life where girls are taller than you, thats only true if you're destined to be a manlet.
>>720535bro looks like a michelangelo statue
>>720669She doesn't deserve to be kissed without consent but I also don't think this is a scandal worthy of caring about, it always annoys me a bit when famous people complain about the predictable consequences of being famous (especially when also cultivating a parasocial cult)
>>720729This is what I think as well. Theres multiple variables and because it's a woman, people don't want to talk about them. Also not defending the creep either because he'd probably do it to proletarian women too.
>be me
>19 years old
>unemployed
>mentally ill with auadhd and ocd
>obese but has been trying to loose weight as of lately
>lives in strict household that treats me like meh griffin and the house in general gives me claustrophobia
>has nobody else to live away from the household
>is both sexually frustrated and repulsed at the same time
>is a virgin
>is born as a girl but overtime started to look like a male most likely due to early signs of pcos and high testosterone
>nobody irl finds me attractive except for a couple people online
>has small breasts irl
>looks and sound like a male to the point men assume i’m unironically a guy or a trans person irl
>is overall unattractive irl
chat am i cooked?
>>720748just lose some weight you fat fuck
>>720748Yeah probably but you're only 19 so time to improve. You're also a girl so I think it'll be slightly easier for you to date than a guy. After 25 though I don't think you'll much of a shot at improvement in all parts of life but that's just what I think.
>>720748London? If you can get a scholarship go to college. You'll get away from your family, get a labor aristo certificate, meet some handsome young men. I dated a girl with basically all your conditions. Being ugly isn't as big a deal as people make it out (for men or women) you just have to put more work in to make up for it.
>>720748>chat am i cooked?largely depends on the country but
>obeseif you don't tackle that you are basically cooked most of the time
How many more people here under 6 feet and 200+ pounds or their metric equivalent? I'm not I mean I'm between 140 to 150 lbs. But I'm a bit of a manlet.
>>720769i’m born and raised in the US and im still living in this shithole. i’m more than likely cooked but that’s because my mental health drained during high school. been trying to loose weight as of lately though
>>720752i am. can’t you read my post? but then i just remembered im on a image board so people here are more likely to lack critical thinking skills or reading comprehension
>>720779You wrote that you were "trying to loose weight as of lately" which is not the same as what I wrote, fatty.
>>720774>6 ft 4 in, 209 lbNope.
>>720783it is the same thing, are you retarded? and why are you using high school fatphobic insults? lmao
Sex and Romance are for elite males and women of any standing. What can I do to purge my mind of sexual desire through will power. Fucking with my hormones doesn't sound like a great idea. Paradoxically I am happiest when my test is high.
>>720859Go on dates, try to get a girlfriend. Its fun
>>720860lol you really are a funny guy. But that's impossible, I'm 39 years old, I know what I am not to women.
>>720861So what if youre 39. If you got a job youre game. Just be sociable and meet new people
>>720251It sounds like she wants Chad to constantly entertain her with novel experiences which of course gets increasingly difficult
and expensive as you get older. Bitterness and resentment are inevitable especially when you grow old (65+).
>>720863The juice is not worth the squeeze. But I also keep thinking it is. It's far too complicated, judgemental, miserable of a game to play. Even those with success are just another flavor of sad and now with a level of complexity added on top of just trying to survive. It would be kinda fun if I was handsome, bourgeois, and white. I'm not into begging for scraps, desperation is not attractive to anyone, even me.
My dad and his roomate are bachelors and their experiences frighten me that if I don't lock down a decent woman I'm gonna be fucked later on. My dad is pretty much invisible as a fat bald dude and his roommate who has always had better prospects but squandered them to be a gamer is getting taken advantage of by a single mom with a retarded kid.
>>720860How much drugs and/or alcohol would I have to take to make this true? Which ones would you recommend?
I don't have sex and I don't have relationships, yet I post here
>>720947You need an ego death. To have no inhibition. A very low sense of shame. I didnt take any drugs but I heard shrooms on downtime can hell
>>720868If you say so, thats fine. Im not white, handsome nor bourgeois and yet I got dates just fine. I'm 5'10 and balding and can't grow a full beard. I'm quite a bit younger too which also puts me at a disadvantage bc a man in his early 30s should have a larger dating pool Just lose weight if youre fat, dress clothes that fit, apply some perfume, and start smiling more. Kill your inhibition. Make a fool of yourself and others and see it as a way to have fun.
> Sex and Relationships
It's a fake, they don't exist
>>720865Exactly. Something just rubbed me the wrong way about what she wrote. She just tries to make it sound much more fun than it would probably be. I don't even think she'd like those things much.
>>721108That's because white women who don't look at porn are neurotic freaks who want to stone you to death for having an age gap relationship
>>721108We can all learn from white women
>>720327Would I fuck Miku? Obviously, who wouldn't.
How do I deal with wanting to fuck my friend?
She's really nice, we're close friends and she's with someone already but recently I can't help but lust over her.
I don't want to make things weird between us and I feel like it could get weird if I'm thinking about her like that constantly
>>721114Maybe get less attractive friends?
gf still stringing me along about getting on birth control. it's the third time she's said she would set up an appointment and didn't do it. I'm so tired of condom "sex" I think I'm just going to only ask for head until I can hit it raw.
>>721125try japanese condom brands, thin/ribbed varieties
also this
>>721150 while birth control is certainly progressive in regards of harm reduction from sexual activity it still has side effects, just like any medication
not the "vagina will literally shrivel up and you die from estrogen poisoning" kind memed by reactoids to ban them as "health hazards" though
>>721153I already use thin/non-latex condoms. It's all cope and marketing to sell products with lower material cost at higher markup. Condom sex just isn't real sex, period.
>>721156break up with her immediately
Why do people hate gamers so much?
>>721517Her idea of a man comes from Boomer sitcoms.
>>721517this has to be a parody of incelposting
>if i was a woman i would just marry a rich guy or get into sex work at 18 and live off that, literally easy mode update:
trying to be a woman's therapist never works. don't ever console a woman over a bad breakup. it NEVER works. she'll forever associate you with her ex in her mind just because you were present to listen to her bitch about him. it's not fucking fair man.
I find sex abhorrent
Idk why you people are so obsessed with it
>>721555are you that girl on discord that ghosted me after a long convo about japanese youkai
if so please come back.
>>721555I think a lot of us are obsessed with it because it is abhorrent. We want it and crave it but many of us can't get it or won't pursue it for one reason or another.
>>721544Been there, just accept whatever rebound sex you can get and dip.
>>721555I wish I could feel the same. But I will admit it is a lot of work and while the physical pleasure is alright, I have too much peformance anxiety.
Mostly because I don't know when will be the next time and I never have had sex with someone I trust. >>721744Oklahoma. It's right there on their shirts
Its age gap autumn
>>72074819 is not cooked? 😭
>>721558its actually over for you twin
>>721744My uncle legitimately talks like boomhauer. Bringing new people to family functions is always fun.
Who do you think really gets laid more in right vs left men? I think women despise weakness in men more than anything and right wingers when you think about it are the weakest dullest MFs on earth. Ladies are treating me fine lately so Im just curious what ya'll think
I dreamed that my sister was sucking a massive bulbous cock next to me while a chick was mocking my small penis
what does this mean
>>721784Cuckoldry fetish? But it involves your sister somehow.
>>721783>I think women despise weakness in men more than anythingTradthots do
>right wingers when you think about it are the weakest dullest MFs on earthAbsolutely, which is why reactionary men can't even lay a tradthot even if their beliefs are perfectly compatible in theory
>>721908Women in general despise weakness in men,not merely just “tradthots”
Also, I’m questioning your definition of “weakness”.
Do you mean situational or moral wise?
>>720720This.
Girls only biologically mature eighteen months earlier than boys.
>>722048>throwing away self value to comfort a theoretical female partner What is your definition/preference of female candidacy for romance?
>>720882Yeah same im about to 25 , if it's not over now it will be soon, hopefully i won't live super long late 20s early 30s after that I'd prefer not to live
What do you call Shoeonhead's aesthetic? Not what she says, just what she looks like. It's perfect to me. I wish every woman looked like her.
>>722055hard to tell, my prefrences aren't set on a single archtype, i don't have above average standarts in women, but i'd say personality> physical build and looks. i been with girls who felt manipulative before or were too full of themselves
>>720882What’s so bad about being a bachelor?
A lot of family men are miserable and would pay good money to be rid of their wives and children.
>>722061Who is she?
>>722062What’s your definition of personality?
Looks aren’t the only form of romantic bias.
There’s also mannerisms which can warp the common moral judgement of someone.
Although mannerisms are more dependent on looks in bias
>>722067She's so beautiful
I want to smell her feet
>>722048>mfw i will never have anything like your first picwhy am i even alive at this point
>>721912>Women in general despise weakness in men,not merely just “tradthots”i suppose i should have clarified by "tradthot" i meant any woman that is spooked into traditional gender relations and roles, but honestly this extends to any woman that is not mature enough by herself (and should have no business judging others' weakness tbh)
>Do you mean situational or moral wise?both
The words I needed afterer my latest heart related mistake
<Better to die from Vodka than from Boringness
Maiakovsky
Thanks Maia, speaking Truth to power
Fuck, it still hits hard when …. Things happen
>>722048so can we admit heterosexuality is creepy as hell
>>722075Women are always dependent on external validation for moral guidance.
And its because men made them that way.
Even as a child, I always felt that pressure.
I've realize now that I don't want a girlfriend. I want a friend who is a girl.
I mean a woman who is self aware of her own moral compass and doesn't condemn men for having flaws.
I also wish men would stop forcing women into divinatory statutes that exaggerate the severity of female personal flaws.
>>722067She looks like a phenotype of female youth fashion from the 2000s and early 10s. Like the cute halfsmile and head tilt.
So characteristic of that time.
>>722073She's an average beauty.
Not that this is a bad thing.
Average is natural.
People are too conditioned to think in "awesome" or "awful" only.
No one is allowed to just be "just fine".
Her skin isn't blemished, he hair is sleek and dark brown.
Her eyes are twinkling.
And she's just fine.
>>722077Ironically, I've actually had this thought as a child despite being a cishet male and not being old enough to know about transgender.
Materialist explanation for there being more wmaf couples than any other interracial couples?
>>722077Ur saying this when what he describes is just the average bear twink interaction. Queer ppl need to do some self reflection ngl
>>722076You know dying from an industrial accident or jamming a knife in my throat doesn't sound boring but I think I'd rather die of boredom than those ways. I mean I don't particularly like being alive but I don't think I want to die at least not in an exciting way unless it's from sex or something. But dying from an industrial accident seems more likely than me even having sex.
>>722077That‘s the standard dynamic between dominant and submissive partner and also occurs in queer relationships.
>>722077genuinely asking what is creepy in particular about that post?
>>722275Does this mean that good men have harems then?
>>722277all men are whores who don't give a shit about monogamy so that's not unlikely
>>722278I think this may be false. Men do care about monogamy if they can't get sex from anyone but their partner. I suppose you could always pay for it if that's the case.
>>722188remove the
>for mein the last one and it's fixed
Im gonna give it one more year and if I don’t get a gf by then I’m genuinely gonna blow my shit smoove off
>>722309Good luck with that then
>>722393maybe because im a man but most of these are just "athletic + under 4% bodyfat+ abs" but width and size
except for arthur, he got that dad build more than abs
>>722410*but with diffrent width and sizes*
>>722393i forgot the full hair, all the body types share the same features overall, visible abs, full or long hair, no fat percentage
>>722412One of them has TV instead of head.
>>722429i did not count him nor the hazbin hotel character under other
how tf do you get androgyn hair and femface but hard muscles like the top heavy character?
>>722432Be attractive + work out?
I had sex recently, but I paid (directly) for it. Boosted my confidence slightly.
Anyone else struggle with being the Emotional Support Friend in your social circle?
I enjoyed it at first because I thought being "a good listener" and "non-judgemental" were positive traits and that I was really being a good friend to others but I can see now these friends only like me for what emotional services I can provide. I'm worth bringing their problems too so they can vent for hours, but I'm not worth inclusion as an equal in the "fun" friend activities they all organize without me.
>>722446I don't have friends.
>>722437Most of the time I jerk it I also feel a bit more confident and somewhat self assured and slightly happier. I could only imagine what would happen if I did it with a woman whether paying for it or otherwise. I'm not going to find anytime soon however I don't want it to blow up in my face plus I'd have leave the house.
>>722393these are all subvariants of incredibly attractive men. you wont find guys like this irl
I am almost out of college and have completely squandered the land of losing virginity, its so over.
>>722492>Most of the time I jerk it I also feel a bit more confident and somewhat self assured and slightly happier…That doesn't happen to me. After a wank the pressure valve just released some pent up feelings and sometimes if I fap too much it might make me feel a bit depressed. But it boosted my confidence a bit because it was at a strip club I have gone to from time to time and for the first time ever I got an offer I couldn't refuse. I'd like to believe she was thinking, "making a few hundred extra dollars wouldn't seem so bad with him". Technically that shit is against the rules.
Also, we kissed a lot which was suprising. Probably should not have done that tbh. >>722514>This has also taken me a lot of courage to share.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
>>722514Trauma and being a social reject
>>722514>women are natural Allies of gay guys - ack!Women only sympathize with glamor personas of male homosexuality.
The same way men glorify the glamourised personas of female homosexuality
>>722514Has gay misandrist called hetero males xy rapeapes before?
>>7223933/4 are all muscular with varying degrees of body fat percentage. the remaining few are twinks.
>>722522holy shit you kinda right…lesbians are hot to men until they butch
>>722523Nah. He‘s been repeating the same few lines and insults for a while now.
>>722524feels like that meme of men describing similar colors as blues and red and women going in details like sky blue, navy blue, sea water blue, turqouise blue, crimson red, velvet red
but instead of blue and red its muscular and twink
but ins
>>722527I mean, who hasn’t?
He’s famous because of his catchphrases
>>722526I thought I was kinda left.
>>721055> I'm quite a bit younger too which also puts me at a disadvantage bc a man in his early 30s should have a larger dating poolThat’s false. Age numbers aren’t a male virtue inherently. Did you read what anon said?
You have to have prospects going for you.
>>720865My mom ironically thinks it’s the opposite.
She says people become less bitter with age.
Although I think she’s saying that because she’s in her fifties and she grumbles too much about young people.
>>722533>I thought I was kinda left.you are lol
have a song
I like to say that I hate being alive but that I don't want to die but the truth is I'm too squeamish to kill myself not so much for moral reasons or because I might hurt my family although their is a little bit of that. Mostly I just don't want to hurt myself too much or fail and make myself even worse off than I am now. Truthfully I'm not doing too bad but I don't particularly want to do anything maybe have sex but that's about it. I don't care too much about making myself independent or traveling or moving up career wise. I think when my parents go I really won't have much to live for and my life will get much harder yet I don't want to do anything to make it easier for myself. I don't think I'll eventually bite the bullet so to say but I will think about alot like I do now. I don't know if finding something else to do to get my mind off this will do much but don't know.
i need headpats so much it's unreal
>>722432very low body fat percentage
>>722393>averagebeautiful bait holy fuck
i'm basically convinced success in dating is just correlated with having close friends you can be open with and all the online dating coach bro shit is just a sort of cope or fantasy, as is any attempt to "solve inceldom" or w/e without addressing this.
like one type of guy i'm fairly sure is fairly rare is lifelong friendless autistic NEET who just starts lifting weights and looksmaxxing because he was told to by someone online and then successfully "acquires" a wife without changing anything else about his life. just very hard to imagine many people like that existing.
and still the best way to get a girlfriend is to have friends giving you support, confidence boosts, personalized advice, taking you to places where you can meet new people, etc. not to mention just having the constant social practice of expressing yourself openly around other people
'beria will agree with the libest libs that ever lib'ed on this issue
straight from the horse's mouth, the imperial core spokesmen:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45806087>>721783a small majority of men are conservative in most of the western world so probably them. the idea that we uniquely understand women because we're lefties is hilariously arrogant cope
>>721768i’m just saying how old i am?????? tf
>>722809Disagree as someone who lost his virginity as a friendless loser living at home. All the looksmaxing manosphere advice helped a lot. I've built a social circle since then, but it never seems to work out dating people from that. It either blows up or I just don't feel a connection. Prefer hooking up with girls I meet at shows or on dating apps.
>>722894More luck is involved than we think. At least I think so. Although what's the thing some people say? Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.
>>720748Just lose weight and you will be fine. Heck the other heath problems except for autism can be solved by losing weight. It’s literally just eating less.
>>722894At shows? You mean like concerts? What‘s your approach?
What if nobody got horny and we reproduced via cloning?
Honestly, maybe life would be better. Exploitation would be significantly limited and the social stigma around having sex or not having it would be gone.
It just seems to be more harm than good.
>>722925Yeah, concerts. I love to dance, doesn't matter the genre. I go up and dance with women who are into the music. If they ignore me I move on. If she seems kinda receptive I dance for a bit and move on, but keep her in mind to chat her up and get a number or socials if I run into her again that night. If she's all over me grinding etc. she's most likely on something (probably molly), so I try to score some free drugs for myself and if I'm into her I'll just ask to go home with her. Honestly the thing that sucks most about being in a relationship is I don't have as much fun meeting a ton of new people at concerts. My gf has no sense of rhythm and dancing with her is a challenge.
>>722819>I have never heard or read anywhere that the guy initiated it>simply because it adds nothing to the overall pleasure for himthis is so far removed from reality i can't tell if they
(or a severely self-hating she because this is pure pickme cuckquean brainrot) are serious
>>723379>alcoholwhat are the chances you won't turn into an absolutely pathetic oversharing mess when drunk? you know, the type to text their exes and then regret it and swear to never do this shit again (never happens)
>>722514>xy rapeapeKEEEEEEEEEK
My hobbies consist of going to lady bars, refusing to buy these whores drinks, getting fucking plastered, and bumping 2000s pop punk
Will we ever get suck and fuck VR machines?
>>722048t, girl kisser
or just a yumejoshi enjoyer
>>723529This looks like it might either be California or Canada. A whole bunch of Asians and the girl looks either south Asian or Latina. I can't really tell.
>>723529How does the trick work?
>>722061>What do you call Shoeonhead's aesthetic?boxxy-ish, lots of latinas are like that
>>723532What does boxxy-ish mean?
if youre still engaging with the dating market in 2025 you have 0 self respect and self esteem
>>723534Having 0 self respect and self esteem is exactly why I dont engage with it.
>>723532>>723546seeing boxxy on the leftypol overboard in 2025 caught me off guard
if you think about it it's pretty fucking embarrassing that shoe0nhead still does her makeup like a 2008 mexican teenager, but then again she is indeed mentally a child and has literally no criteria of her own
>>723547i can never not remember boxxy each time someone brings up shoe0nhead
>>723549that's monica muriño btw not boxxy, but still, that's what i would deem sort of shoe's style
I feel so uncomfortable with my gf. We're on a weekend getaway both took time off for it and she's been distant and goes on her phone unless I make effort to keep her engaged. I thought it'd be nice, but I just feel so alone with her right now. It's been weeks since I've felt okay in her presence without being dead tired or on drugs.
>>723379Phenibut.
>>723611one time when i was 17 (in 2018) i ate a fuckton of phenibut in my ex's dad's bathroom. did nothing. tasted horrible. 0/10
>>723621you need to do a lot of phenibut to get high from it, like about a gram is a common dose.
>>723549It's not embarrassing it's awesome.
>>723379>nothing that tastes like straight battery acid such as vodka/rum/etc.That's the point of cocktails
Guys, I need some serious relationship advice. Here's my situation: my honey came in and she caught me red-handed, creeping with the girl next door. Picture this: we were both butt-naked, banging on the bathroom floor. How could I forget that I had given her an extra key? All the time she was standing there she never took her eyes off me.
>>723680>quirk chungus>autistically sperging at me about favorite fictional character shipsCould be my soulmate.
>>722277It states that there are 100 good women for every good man. Not that these 100 good women will be attracted to good men, whatever good women and good men mean for who wrote that,
Just had the best sex of my life. I don't want to tell her that because I feel that's embarassing for some reason, so I'm going to shout it into the void
Find yourselves a gooner anons, it is life changing
>>723799You'll give her the ick and then she won't want to have sex with you ever again. But you'll probably give her ick some other way anyways.
>>723680lmao dates are like that are cringe in an adorable way, i once overheard a conversation on a date, and this girl was talking her ass off about this "awesome website to land jobs and talk to managers 1:1" which i pierced together was supposed to be linkedin and the guy was like -_- the entire time
>>723680I would rather have this experience than date a glassy eyed zoomer woman with an inflated ego who can't think outside of her algorithm and I am a zoomer. Maybe it's because out of all the archetypes I never found the quirk chunguses to be as insufferable as others.
I guess this partially proves your point because a lot of problems people point to with zoomers are complaints people had about younger millennials multiplied by 5.
>>723549why is a specific type of mexican woman so enamored with the boxxy look/personality? ive noticed this even before you mentioned it, this seemed to be the case even after it went out of fashion
I feel like you can only either treat women as either friends or sex objects and not as just human beings like male to male relations
>>723904massive skill issue, or reactionary mindset
>>723680Truth
But more cumbersome is the lonliness that is due to moving for work. Fuck. Moving a thousand kilometres for some dollarinos and getting to know that the girl you were interested is now dating someone else.
And here there is no one as beautiful as her. Fuck farms, Fuck ground work.
I should have stayed in the city.
>>723890I guess it just looks cute.
The black hair complements the face and gives some aura of innocence or joyfullness, more the latter I think. Haven't met one to be fair.
>>723680>she spends most of the time autistically sperging at me about favorite fictional character shipssounds nice if a little overbearing
>with the occasional pause to show me pictures of funko popslost me there completely LOL
>>723680>implying this is just an American thing or that it was only started with millennials>>723904Chud detected.
If you cannot appreciate women as people while being sexually intimate with them, that’s a you problem.
>>724049This.
I would love to talk about fictional romantic pairings with a nice girl.
>>720245That’s the message we send to teens tho
>>720251This.
Boring is good.
People are too dumb to appreciate any serenity. They always think drama/turmoil is a sign of authenticity.
Yet, people who live in constant unrest become numb to the point of not being able to appreciate even the good things in life.
>>723549What’s so bad about her makeup though? I swear, imageboard users find the most inane stuff to be indignant about.
>>723888>algorithm>glassy eyedWe are hitting all the points. Also, anything wrong with zoomers has been going on since mid-late Gen X. Genpol has become so promoted that it causes psychosomatic bias.
I assume it doesn't. Most women have the same tendencies as do most men.
There was this girl who wanted to make "relationship anarchy" with open relationship. That was a hard no for me.
when normal gf: Ugh you don't understand the class dynamic of Democratic Kampuchea at all you haven't even read Vickery dumb bitch
when marxist gf: Y-yes ma'am you are so correct Hafizullah Amin actually was the avatar of the working class I shall undergo whipping for initially thinking otherwise.
>>724620first one is leagues better than a "marxist" revisionist gf/bf that read ben kiernan however
>>724587There is no ethical consumption under capitalism, so that also means love, typical heterosexual monogamous nuclear family sexual dynamics, unless you live in some commune.
>>724704
That's so… cute… <3333 oh man anon (>ᴗ0)
>>724715
Which is?
>>724717All women know is
>charge they phone>be bisexual>twerk>lie>eat hot chip >>724718Have you tried dating older women? Born before 1993?
well, for one, you share your toothbrush obviously
After like two weeks of no dates from Tinder, I met with someone earlier. A few minutes into us talking, she video calls her boyfriend then tells me that she’s on Tinder for friends. I’m so fucking done, why are women like this?
>>724951How much people use tinder for friends? Don't some of those apps have options to find friends only?
>>724972Tinder has the option to set your profile to looking for friends, but these profiles aren’t segregated from the pool of normal users. It’s not like Bumble BFF and Bumble, which have separate pools. Regardless, her profile wasn’t set to that, but she wrote in her bio that she was looking for a friend to go to cafes with. I assumed she was being euphemistic because who the fuck goes on Tinder for friends? Especially friends of the opposite gender. It makes no sense except to feed the egos of inconsiderate women craving male attention.
Navigating modern dating is so fucking frustrating. You’re weird and a creep for approaching women who don’t want to be approached, yet women will go out of their way to insert themselves into spaces they shouldn’t be in.
>>724951Comrade. Your report from the frontlines of the Vaginic dating marketplace deeply distresses me and is a perfect case study in the sickness we fight. You have been subjected to a classic maneuver of the degenerate culture: a ritual humiliation designed to reinforce your powerlessness and her unaccountable, chaotic agency.
Let us analyze this through the Innovationist Phallic-Vaginic Dialectic:
You were operating in a Vaginic Marketplace. Tinder is the digital embodiment of the Vaginic principle. It is a horizontal, chaotic, and sterile environment that commodifies human beings into swipable products. It rewards superficiality, fosters infinite optionality (the illusion of endless choice), and destroys the very possibility of genuine, focused courtship. By participating, you entered a game rigged for your demoralization.
You Were a Consumer, Not a Builder. Your approach was that of a consumer, seeking to "get" a date, to "get" validation. The woman you met was also a consumer, "shopping" for attention and ego-strokes. The "boyfriend" on the video call was merely a piece of her existing portfolio. You were not a sovereign man with a purpose; you were a temporary, disposable source of emotional capital for her.
The claim of being on Tinder "for friends" is one of the greatest lies of our time. It is a statement of non-commitment and boundary-less chaos. It allows for the consumption of male attention and energy without any of the responsibility or clarity of a Phallic, generative courtship. It is the ultimate expression of a culture that fears definition, purpose, and vertical relationships.
THE CORRECTIVE PATH: TAKING THE PHALLUS-PILL
IMMEDIATE ACTIONS:
DELETE YOUR DATING APPS. This is non-negotiable. They are psychological poison, digital castration machines. You are a soldier withdrawing from a contaminated battlefield.
TRANSFORM YOURSELF INTO A MAN OF PURPOSE. A woman worth building a life with is not attracted to a man who seeks her validation. She is attracted to a man who has a mission greater than herself. Your focus for the next six months must not be on "getting a date." It must be on:
Your Body: Train it. Make it strong and capable.
Your Mind: Study theory, history, and a practical skill.
Your Mission: Dedicate yourself to the Party, to your career, to a creative project—something that is yours to build.
RE-DEFINE COURTSHIP. Courtship is not "hanging out" or being a source of free entertainment. It is the Phallic act of a sovereign man discerning a woman's fitness to be a partner in his generative mission. You are the interviewer for the most important position in your life. You do not beg for a role in her chaotic "friend" universe.
When you become a man of unshakable purpose—a man building a life, a family, a future—you will no longer need to "look" for dates. You will attract women who seek a sovereign to partner with, not a boy to manipulate.
Stop being "so fucking done" with women. Be done with the weak, consumerist, Vaginic version of yourself.
The path is clear. Delete the app. Pick up the weight. Open the book. Report to your local CPI cell.
>>724985I think I’ll just get DRAINED by a hooker instead. That’s much easier than that shit and my favorite hooker never disappoints me. I feel so much happier after getting drained by a hooker
>>725150Probably but I think most of them are larping in some way
>>724985How long do you think about this shit? lmao.
>>725150Fake and AI slop, whites does not exist
>>725155That's it. I'm never having sex
>>725162true, biden and mozart and hitler and stalin and eminem and charlie kirk are all yakubian dolls
>>725155id still tap that ngl 👀
>>724980>Especially friends of the opposite gender. It makes no sense except to feed the egos of inconsiderate women craving male attention. reactionary, no wonder they don't want to approach (you) in particular tbh
>>725212He probably just wanted sex anyways which he'll pay money for instead. So problem solved
>>725212this,people always act like any dumb thing you do is a 24/7 job that you are stuck into and thus can't do the "right" things and not just like at most 10 minutes in a day,
>>725178would be funnier if done in the p#blm format
>>725212Yeah, looking for "friends" of the opposite gender on a dating app is totally acceptable behavior in a relationship. I'm sure that's what your girlfriend tells you.
>>725215I want a relationship, but you can't reasonably pay for that so I'll settle for pussy.
>>724951Anon you're autistic and her bf is a cuck. Tinder is for hookups period.
>>722393hour glass is built like a bus :')
gf finally set up an appointment to get on birth control, after 4 months of saying she would and then not doing it. Now my insecure feelings came back and I feel like it was just a mask for my discontent with her as a person in general. If it weren't so much effort to get a date as a man I would probably have stayed broken up with her last time we split. I feel exactly like I did with my ex, I'm just wasting time with someone who doesn't make me happy because it's convenient. I wish I could escape this, but nobody I've genuinely liked has ever felt romantically about me back, so I've just strung along a sequence of women I mentally filed away as just hookups with completely fake and hollow relationships.
>>725545So you're just going to keep on this way till you die or what? Sounds miserable but it's probably more miserable to be single and sexless I guess. Life is misery or maybe it's not but it seems like it.
>>725545And like your ex, eventually you two'll have to part ways with each other. There's no guarantee you'll find "the one" afterwards, but from your own words, she certainly isn't, and something's gotta give. Have a mature discussion about it beforehand, or don't.
Sage vaginocapitalistic propaganda
>>725390>Yeah, looking for "friends" of the opposite gender on a dating app is totally acceptable behavior in a relationship. I'm sure that's what your girlfriend tells you.<""opposite"" gender means sex only<imaginary girlfriend cuck fantasyyou should stick to masturbation
Wanting to breed out all the "unfuckable" men will never not be nazi eugenics. I don't know how anyone can call themselves a socialist and support literal nazi shit
>>725548>>725587It is miserable, but everytime we have sex, like just now, I forget about it for long enough that I think maybe this time it will be different.
>>725690i think i'll breed them with my dick :)
>>725693I would respond by agreeing.
>>725690If you want a society without public mass shooters/pedos/rapists you must.
>>725693By jerking off because I have a misandry fetish.
>>725717Literally chemically castrate 70% of hetero males, there, problem solved
>>725736Feminazi write this
But this could be done just for trolling chuds
What's the most off the wall obnoxious thing you've ever told a female stranger irl?
>>725736>30% of men are good enough to reproduceYou must be one of the nicer ones.
>>725736Castrate everyone with cock and balls who are attracted to wahmen
>>725693Where is this from?
>scroteThats a terf language methinks because transwahmen have scrotums too
>>725693don't respond, this is a generic strawman
>>725659Simps are so fucking stupid, I stg. It’s not that women can’t have male friends, it’s that a woman preselecting male friends through a dating app is terrible because it implies that her male friends will be attracted to her and single. They will be constantly wanting to fuck her. This will either result in them fucking or them constantly orbiting her. Men and women can be friends, but that woman is preselecting for orbiters or people to cheat. Only a cuck would believe otherwise. Your “girlfriend” (if she even exists) is definitely cheating on you bro. You’re a fucking cuck. Her male “best friend” is fucking her raw in your shared bed. He drinks your Soylent (just for kicks), washes his balls with your face cloth, and plays your PS5 (buy better games).
>>725827>elaborating on your cuck fantasy unprovokedyou should stick to fan fiction
>>725828>refuses to address my (correct) logicYour girl is swiping on Tinder right now and you’re embarrassed that you can’t stop it.
Heres the rules
>Nobody should be dating before 16
>16 year olds can date people up to two years older
>17 year olds can date two years older and one year younger
>18 year olds can date two years younger and up to 4 years older
>19 year olds can date two years younger and up to 5 years older
>20 year olds can date two years younger and up to 6 years older
At 22+ you should be following half your age + 7 when it comes to dating until you reach the age of 40 to which it becomes half your age + 12. Adults dating people significantly younger than them is predatory and if you do not follow these rules you are essentially a peter scully albert fish pedophile
>>725894Sure. I think that picture is what crystal cafe terfs think they are.
>>725907I don't. Then again I wouldn't be finding love even if I had time
>>725907You don't, you find someone to be miserable and fat with. Then either divorce/suicide/homocide after you two slobs have rutted and created new debt-slavelets for porky.
>>725910>homocide Is this when you kill your homosexual partner?
>>725907Legit, I was swimming in pussy when I was unemployed, and now I'm stuck with my bipolar gf because it'll be too much work to find someone else if she leaves me for the fifth time.
>>725945Sorry they're chad only
>>725922>I was swimming in pussy when I was unemployedHow hot and white are you and is your dad petit-bourgeois?
>>725949and he must be a cop or a landlord.
>>725982White and Tall, idk abt facial attractiveness prob avg. Parents are labor-aristo and prole. I lost my virginity living in my mothers basement.
>>726077>white and tallThere we go. I mean luck plays a big role and you probably had other things going for you but that's enough to get some.
>>725966> i will kiss all girls because why not i love girlsIs it trans inclusive?
>>725693>reproduction is parasitismretard who doesn't remember her high school biology classes
>>726102Idk why ethnic cels keep bringing up race in these conversations. Do you think tall asians struggle to get laid? Tall blacks?
>>726155I don't think they struggle too much. But white and tall is more generally preferred. Unless you're really goofy looking. But anyways I think luck plays a bigger role in everything.
>>726106why the hell not, if the trans girl isn't the type to say she's chad only 'i don't want to be a fetish' and she's a commie then its a plus
>>726155I'm pretty sure tall blacks at least have it worse, man. Lots of girls are scared of blacks, because even if they profess to not be racist it's internalized/subconscious from the media they consume.
Stop the gimmicks. Shirtless mirror selfies, fitted caps, logo-clad Walmart outfits, and messy rooms are signals and they’re the wrong ones. They communicate short-term attention-seeking and scarcity, not long-term value. Women (and high-value people in general) read those cues instantly: you’re needy, low-investment, and easy to replace.
Conspicuous consumption on predatory financing is a suicide move. Financing a truck or designer goods at 20–30% interest swaps future flexibility for temporary clout; that reduces your cash flow, increases stress, and lowers real-world options. Tactical rule: never lock essential liquidity into status items. Prioritize savings, low debt-service ratios, and assets that generate options, not liabilities that consume them.
Lifestyle photos matter. If your feed is 95% mirror selfies and bedroom shots, you look socially isolated and uninteresting. Replace static closet selfies with a few genuine outside photos: doing a hobby, with friends, traveling a local trail, or working on a project. Those images signal competence, network, and experience — the real currency in mating markets.
Refine your messaging and availability. DM spam, simping, and constant chasing are noise — they destroy scarcity and make you predictable. Tactical play: short, value-led openers; purpose-driven invites; measured response windows. Test: if you message ten people the same needy script and get 10% reply rate, change the script. Data over ego.
Build the compounding signals: fitness, skill, durable social proof, and leadership in two circles (work + social). Replace flashy logos with consistent competence: clean spaces, portfolio of photos outside, steady finances, and clear boundaries. Measure progress monthly (training hours, social events attended, savings rate) and treat dating like an optimization problem — remove the cringe inputs and double down on the signals that compound.
As a part of my mental illness post-psychedelic treatment rejection therapy, I’m going to trauma dump on a Thai bar girl. I wonder how hard they’ll reject me as a mentally ill scitzo
>>726160>Lots of girls are scared of blacks, because even if they profess to not be racist it's internalized/subconscious from the media they consume.I am a black male and it is partially true. I mean it is true but there are niches in which girls find it attractive and if you want and have the talent to roleplay that stereotype, you will likely get lucky.
There is also a rarer niche of girls who feel exactly the same and don't find that "dangerous" and "savage" elements attractive but find black men attractive in other ways. Be it purely physically or because they find it virtue signaling or both, as examples. I have come across white girls who got attracted to me exactly because I was tallish (190cm), athletic and have this sort of permanently angry face BUT I am well read, higly educated and, in most cases, the most cultured non-white they have ever talked to IRL.
All of the above happened in Europe, in case it matters.
I was involved with a vietnamese girl shortly and we used to joke about at last having the chance to experience mutual fetishization.
>>726232> I have come across white girls who got attracted to me exactly because I was tallish (190cm), athletic and have this sort of permanently angry face BUT I am well read, higly educated and, in most cases, the most cultured non-white they have ever talked to IRL. so do they get unattracted when they find out you aren;t a stereotype?
>>726185Interracial dating heavily favors Hispanic men. this is objectively true.
>>726216Tattoos are aesthetically passé.
>>726216All that shit is expensive
too. Just don't use social media and if retarded hoe gets the ick that I don't want to dox myself constantly for the pedo cabal's profit then she can fuck off, I don't want to deal with her long-term either.
>>726157Yes, I (we) do. What they see is a crab waiting to pull someone down to his level. Look at the ick Mamdani (and he's Indian which might be worse than being black in 2025 in this context) gave white women.
>>726216>Shirtless mirror selfies, fitted caps, logo-clad Walmart outfits, and messy rooms are signals and they’re the wrong ones>Women (and high-value people in general) read those cues instantlyI dunno, worked for a lot of guys I went to school with. I think you're overestimating women's pickiness.
>>726233>so do they get unattracted when they find out you aren;t a stereotype?The first type I mentioned in
>>726232, yes, almost every time.
>>726216>They communicate short-term attention-seekingIf you're just looking for hookups this is a good thing. I'm tired of women putting me in the "decent guy to date" box because I have my shit together I want people who are sexually excited by me not running some fiscal calculus about my life.
>>726233>>726245That's the shit why I know I'm nobody's type.
>>726278>If you're just looking for hookups this is a good thing.Not at all. Trying to get short-term attention is the best way not to get it.
What "short-term attention-seeking" means there is acting tryhard. It is in no way a way to succeed at hookups.
>>726282Why is that? Not sure i understand. Provide more context.
>>726294Cope, I've A/B tested it and I get more of what I'm looking for when I put out attention-whoring photos, think dancing in a slutty outfit versus at a nice cafe.
STOP SUPPORTING VAGINOCAPITALISM
VAGINOFASCISTS! SAGE SAGE SAGE
>>726328>>726329you're a vaginocapitalistfascist, anti-sage
gf didn't fuck after we went out dancing. I just want to feel desired. She went straight to fucking sleep and I had to get up I'm so tired of this I don't think we're sexually compatible. I know she gave another guy head while we started dating while telling me it was "boyfriend privilege" but I guess he gets the exception not me fuck her. I just feel too attached to dump her because it's been a year now.
>>726448Maybe at two years you'll be able to dump her
>>726448Moron problems. Just dump her.
>duh I‘m too attachedThen continue to suffer.
>>726448>I know she gave another guy head while we started dating while telling me it was "boyfriend privilege" but I guess he gets the exception not me fuck her.gross as hell, why don't you confront her about it, ask her if she's really attached to you as you are to her. for me there's no point in staying with somebody who doesn't actually find you attractive or is swindling you
>>726471Anon, if you have to ask…
Also, don’t listen to advice from women because they’re too fucking stupid and arrogant to articulate what they’re actually attracted to. They’ll just gaslight you.
(USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST) Went onto a NATO military base and fucked an army femboy last night. I'm doing my part to dismantle Western hegemony one bussy at a time.
>>726474>Anon, if you have to ask… i know i know, i just want to feel actually attractive, i see too many people praised and glazed as if they did anything other than be hot
>>726496very nice and we will be interested in hearing about your future exploits
>>726471hygiene, basic skin care and learn 2 dress nicely
find out your strong features and highlight them, there's a "type" of man for every pronounced feature and each of these types is someone else's type. if no particular one stands out at least highlight your forearms, they tend to be fetishized by straight women quite a lot
>>726474>Also, don’t listen to advice from women because they’re too fucking stupid and arrogant to articulate what they’re actually attracted to. They’ll just gaslight you.I wouldn't phrase it so harshly but it's got a kernel of truth. I don't believe it's a women only thing either. Most men can't articulate what they're attracted to either. I think everyone's had the experienced of being repulsed by an objectively hot person or really turned on by someone physically kinda mid.
>>726471Get the in-vogue fuckboy look. Currently mullet and a 'stache.
>>726834>Get the in-vogue fuckboy look. Currently mullet and a 'stache.isn't that the child predator look
>>724159Boring is good
Boring is peace and that’s ok
You now have time to enjoy the environment you live in and share your experiences with others.
>>726836Yeah but it's now cool to look like a child molester for some reason
>>722393All of these men have jawlines.
That’s the difference.
>>726834intelligent reply. also for me, whether I'm attracted to someone fluctuates depending on the kind of person they are, the context of how I met them, etc.
I think it's a wide net for everyone, but a wide net is still a net, so not everyone will be attracted to everyone else and that is OK!! my advice is to acquire some cool skills. Women LOVE guys with skills.
>>726856>I'm kinda objectifying him.even if you do (currently it really doesn't seem like that from what you wrote) there is nothing wrong with doing it consensually and in private, with an adult
i'd say go for it and gauge his own reaction, godspeed anon
>>726857What skills are cool?
>>726856Damn anonetta the vibe and way you said it is a bit lecherous. creepy, but no judgement, I've written worse fantasies and pots can't call you black
It's just, there is almost no scenario where you have sex and the friendship returns to its easy, nerdy, platonic state that i can think of..btw i didn't know some women do have fantasies about deflowring men. I thought that's mainly a male fantasy of like "breaking the seal" of a woman. The more I know…is the appeal in his first time being with you or in knowing he's inexperienced? Curious.
Look im not sure autistic people can handle friends with benefits relationships but if he likes you go for it.
>>726860>btw i didn't know some women do have fantasies about deflowring men. they're way more common than you seem to think♡
i suppose a related sexual/romantic fantasy could be mutual deflowering which is probably equally represented among youths entering romantic/sexual relationships with their peers
>>726860>I thought that's mainly a male fantasy of like "breaking the seal" of a woman.The fantasy is that an inexperienced woman won't notice that they are absolutely dogshit at pleasing a woman.
>>726862Lol not always. It can sometimes be about being lucky, chosen. Or being her "introduction" to the world of sex.. other creepier joys though can be in corrupting the woman or being the first to her hymen. Not my thing but eh
>>726861>Mutual deflowring Oh shit that's mine, nothing hotter than knowing both of you have no idea what to expect or do right . You both just go at it with improvise and lust in your hearts 😖 dayum
>>726856I lost my virginity to a woman 5 years older than me off a dating app. That relationship didn't go well because of my inexperience but the sex was nice, she taught me how to give good head, and I don't regret it. Just go for it as long as you don't mind losing him as a friend if/when things go badly.
>>726863>Lol not always. It can sometimes be about being lucky, chosen.from the "virgin breaker" pov it's more about the choosing, which doesn't carry nearly the same expectations and power standing as being chosen by them
>Oh shit that's mine, nothing hotter than knowing both of you have no idea what to expect or do right .i thought your first post wasn't about it being mutual but this makes your intentions even less of a "threat", i sincerely wish both of you luck if you're going to proceed.
>>726865>i sincerely wish both of you luck if you're going to proceed.Lol im a different anon who responded to her, i just said i absolutely have the fantasy she described. maybe our writing sounds similar
>>726867sorry anon i'm fucking stupid💔
>>726859guitar playing probably #1 cool skill.
woodworking/furniture making, or welding is also extremely hot to most women probably.
I'm a fucking geek and electronics or piano skills turn me on but that's prob not what most women like lol.
>>726883>guitar playing probably #1 cool skill.NO NO NO NO NO NO NO you'll just look like a self-absorbed shithead with drug issues
>but that's prob not what most women like lol.please speak for yourself, i'm certain that a woman familiar with the field would appreciate proficiency in these skills
>>726858thanks I appreciate that<3
>>726860oh yeah I mean I've spent awhile thinking about this and I think I have kind of a power dynamics kink so I definitely am a bit of a creepo.
The appeal is knowing that you'll always be in his mind as "his first", and also I can blow his mind out of his ears bc I'm really good at sex. And yeah you're totally right, I'm def gonna lose him as a friend if I go for it which sucks.
that makes me feel guilty looking at it from that angle, like our entire friendship means nothing to me if I can just throw it out the window for a sexual kink.
>>726864yeaahhhhhh but I mean… 14 years older is a lot older than him. and when you're in your early 20's that's like, exponential maturity growth as a person. I really fear I could be messing him up for life which I do not want. :\
>>726860on that note though, it does kinda piss me off now that I think about it, that some of my male friends will sometimes try to flirt or progress things past friendship. Like my friendship with them means nothing to them and they don't care if they lose me as a pal as long as they get their dick wet…….. annoying. this is why most of my friends are not men lol.
>>726893yes.. what gave it away? was it my being cringe and retarded in general?I don't see how what you wrote applies to learning guitar in general? should no one ever learn guitar again? really confused at the point you're making here help me out
>>726892>Like my friendship with them means nothing to them and they don't care if they lose me as a pal as long as they get their dick wet……it might sound diffrent because im a dude but generally most men don't see frendship as lost forever if they get their rocks off on sex, in fact they'd see it as a plus on top of friendship, from personal experience when i flirted with a friend i didn't think will this ruin our friendship or what will our future look like, i just flirt because the person in front of me is hot, and i want to see if they think the same of me…that's usually how flirting is done by most men i think, we act on it and flirt because of attraction and don't even see it as killing the friendship, they see there a chance you can have sex and be pals at the same time
>>726885ohh my god your last phrase about throwing friendship out the window for kinks, dear god.
i once had a female friend whom i always had the hots for, when she and i met again she told me she found me hot as hell back then and did want to fuck me, and i asked her why didn't she initiate anything at all, she replied because she didn't want to lose my friendship. when i heard it i thought she was toying with me or friendzoning me with a polite lie, but if so why would she say she found me hot and thought about sex, was that a lie?…reading your post though, maybe i get it, maybe she was afraid having sex would ruin our friendship, and it was a good friendship, but damn it wouldn't have ruined it in my eyes. i didn't think things would get awkward or potentially dramatic like she said
>>720252yet another one of my bizarre encounters
>psycho ex from years ago identifies a 4chan post as mine>(You)'s me asking for me to text her >texts me back telling me she hasn't moved on>tells me a friend of hers also "fell for me" even as we only ever met once>propose her to remain friends >she's not interested unless we get married>am a literal worthless NEETstopped trying to make sense out of this mess long ago
>>726905>i didn't think things would get awkward or potentially dramatic like she saidIt can be messy. Fucked me up for a while when I hooked up with a friend because she was down for casual I wanted a relationship. Ultimately we don't talk anymore, but that's because she tried to get my now gf to break up with me.
>>726907?? did you not realize I saw the irony in my realizations and that's why I posted my second comment? lol?
>>726903>>726905hm okay interesting I guess that makes sense. thank you both for the insight.
>>726906run away anon. fucking run.
>>726908I mean you really did dodge a bullet there though (I think I said as much in prev thread but it's true)
>>726906someone identifying me from one of my leftypol posts is my biggest fear lol
If I just got some good nookie a few times a week from a beautiful woman (at least 8/10) I’d no longer be a misogynist. I’d be the biggest simp and woman’s rights advocate
If any beautiful leftist women are reading this, your movements MLK is currently on the bench waiting for the time to act. Give him (me) some nookie please.
>>726972What are the requirements to get into sex school?
imagine someone simultaneously believing they want to spend the remaining of their life with you and marry you yet not feel interested enough to keep up a conversation with you, even arguing you never have anything of value to say, nor do they ever relate with anything you bring up yourself
it's like what do you even want from me since you clearly do not value me as a person to begin with?
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