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>>720210What I get from the quote pic is that sex is too risky and dangerous and might destroy. Not getting it might also destroy you though. You can't win either way. Maybe some kind of sex machine would be the best solution. Porn helps a little bit. Jerking it makes me feel a bit better but I think I need to do it more. If I lived alone I probably would. Edging is alright too.
>women mature faster than men
<NOOOO YOU CAN‘T DATE AN 18 YEAR OLD SHE‘S BASICALLY A BABY NOOOOO
>>720245The stuff she says about sex sounds cool and everything and I think I agree but if it all goes bad then it can just lead to bitterness and resentment. Maybe that's part of the deal. Personally I prefer a more boring life but I suppose if that's how you are then it's best just to stay away from relationships since being boring and monotonous might be the worst quality and will probably be the easiest way to end up bitter and resentful. Maybe none of this made sense I don't know
>attention whore on some social media
>get messaged by a girl
>whine about my life like a complete loser for a few days
>maybe unsuspiciously find an excuse to send a pic of myself
>she wants to meet up
>too anxious to accept but try not to offend her
>she gets bored and leaves
it just keeps happening over and over again
I'll literally never leave my autistic comfort zone
>>720252Maybe you just like to torture yourself?
>>720254maybe the thrill of getting them to ask me out is enough to scratch that itch without having to put myself out there, because I know it's just a world of troubles from there on out
but this feels like a cope tbh
>>720258Personally I feel practically everything in life is cope. So you're probably right
relationships would be so much easier if people were just civilised and followed basic rules of societal conduct
>>720258just drink beforehand. you can somehow manage to get several people to ask you to do things and you're complaining about it?
>>720328I'm not complaining, but idk if I'm really missing out on anything
Did Emiru deserve the virgin attack at twitchcon because she's a bourgeois or was she truly a victim?
>>720669chuds will side with the fat virgin stalker so I'm siding with her
>>720247That's a lie or least partially, they physically (sexually) mature faster. I never had that period of life where girls are taller than you, thats only true if you're destined to be a manlet.
>>720535bro looks like a michelangelo statue
>>720669She doesn't deserve to be kissed without consent but I also don't think this is a scandal worthy of caring about, it always annoys me a bit when famous people complain about the predictable consequences of being famous (especially when also cultivating a parasocial cult)
>>720729This is what I think as well. Theres multiple variables and because it's a woman, people don't want to talk about them. Also not defending the creep either because he'd probably do it to proletarian women too.
>be me
>19 years old
>unemployed
>mentally ill with auadhd and ocd
>obese but has been trying to loose weight as of lately
>lives in strict household that treats me like meh griffin and the house in general gives me claustrophobia
>has nobody else to live away from the household
>is both sexually frustrated and repulsed at the same time
>is a virgin
>is born as a girl but overtime started to look like a male most likely due to early signs of pcos and high testosterone
>nobody irl finds me attractive except for a couple people online
>has small breasts irl
>looks and sound like a male to the point men assume i’m unironically a guy or a trans person irl
>is overall unattractive irl
chat am i cooked?
>>720748just lose some weight you fat fuck
>>720748Yeah probably but you're only 19 so time to improve. You're also a girl so I think it'll be slightly easier for you to date than a guy. After 25 though I don't think you'll much of a shot at improvement in all parts of life but that's just what I think.
>>720748London? If you can get a scholarship go to college. You'll get away from your family, get a labor aristo certificate, meet some handsome young men. I dated a girl with basically all your conditions. Being ugly isn't as big a deal as people make it out (for men or women) you just have to put more work in to make up for it.
>>720748>chat am i cooked?largely depends on the country but
>obeseif you don't tackle that you are basically cooked most of the time
How many more people here under 6 feet and 200+ pounds or their metric equivalent? I'm not I mean I'm between 140 to 150 lbs. But I'm a bit of a manlet.
>>720769i’m born and raised in the US and im still living in this shithole. i’m more than likely cooked but that’s because my mental health drained during high school. been trying to loose weight as of lately though
>>720752i am. can’t you read my post? but then i just remembered im on a image board so people here are more likely to lack critical thinking skills or reading comprehension
>>720779You wrote that you were "trying to loose weight as of lately" which is not the same as what I wrote, fatty.
>>720774>6 ft 4 in, 209 lbNope.
>>720783it is the same thing, are you retarded? and why are you using high school fatphobic insults? lmao
Sex and Romance are for elite males and women of any standing. What can I do to purge my mind of sexual desire through will power. Fucking with my hormones doesn't sound like a great idea. Paradoxically I am happiest when my test is high.
>>720859Go on dates, try to get a girlfriend. Its fun
>>720860lol you really are a funny guy. But that's impossible, I'm 39 years old, I know what I am not to women.
>>720861So what if youre 39. If you got a job youre game. Just be sociable and meet new people
>>720251It sounds like she wants Chad to constantly entertain her with novel experiences which of course gets increasingly difficult
and expensive as you get older. Bitterness and resentment are inevitable especially when you grow old (65+).
>>720863The juice is not worth the squeeze. But I also keep thinking it is. It's far too complicated, judgemental, miserable of a game to play. Even those with success are just another flavor of sad and now with a level of complexity added on top of just trying to survive. It would be kinda fun if I was handsome, bourgeois, and white. I'm not into begging for scraps, desperation is not attractive to anyone, even me.
My dad and his roomate are bachelors and their experiences frighten me that if I don't lock down a decent woman I'm gonna be fucked later on. My dad is pretty much invisible as a fat bald dude and his roommate who has always had better prospects but squandered them to be a gamer is getting taken advantage of by a single mom with a retarded kid.
>>720860How much drugs and/or alcohol would I have to take to make this true? Which ones would you recommend?
I don't have sex and I don't have relationships, yet I post here
>>720947You need an ego death. To have no inhibition. A very low sense of shame. I didnt take any drugs but I heard shrooms on downtime can hell
>>720868If you say so, thats fine. Im not white, handsome nor bourgeois and yet I got dates just fine. I'm 5'10 and balding and can't grow a full beard. I'm quite a bit younger too which also puts me at a disadvantage bc a man in his early 30s should have a larger dating pool Just lose weight if youre fat, dress clothes that fit, apply some perfume, and start smiling more. Kill your inhibition. Make a fool of yourself and others and see it as a way to have fun.
> Sex and Relationships
It's a fake, they don't exist
>>720865Exactly. Something just rubbed me the wrong way about what she wrote. She just tries to make it sound much more fun than it would probably be. I don't even think she'd like those things much.
>>721108That's because white women who don't look at porn are neurotic freaks who want to stone you to death for having an age gap relationship
>>721108We can all learn from white women
>>720327Would I fuck Miku? Obviously, who wouldn't.
How do I deal with wanting to fuck my friend?
She's really nice, we're close friends and she's with someone already but recently I can't help but lust over her.
I don't want to make things weird between us and I feel like it could get weird if I'm thinking about her like that constantly
>>721114Maybe get less attractive friends?
gf still stringing me along about getting on birth control. it's the third time she's said she would set up an appointment and didn't do it. I'm so tired of condom "sex" I think I'm just going to only ask for head until I can hit it raw.
>>721125try japanese condom brands, thin/ribbed varieties
also this
>>721150 while birth control is certainly progressive in regards of harm reduction from sexual activity it still has side effects, just like any medication
not the "vagina will literally shrivel up and you die from estrogen poisoning" kind memed by reactoids to ban them as "health hazards" though
>>721153I already use thin/non-latex condoms. It's all cope and marketing to sell products with lower material cost at higher markup. Condom sex just isn't real sex, period.
>>721156break up with her immediately
Why do people hate gamers so much?
>>721517Her idea of a man comes from Boomer sitcoms.
>>721517this has to be a parody of incelposting
>if i was a woman i would just marry a rich guy or get into sex work at 18 and live off that, literally easy mode update:
trying to be a woman's therapist never works. don't ever console a woman over a bad breakup. it NEVER works. she'll forever associate you with her ex in her mind just because you were present to listen to her bitch about him. it's not fucking fair man.
I find sex abhorrent
Idk why you people are so obsessed with it
>>721555are you that girl on discord that ghosted me after a long convo about japanese youkai
if so please come back.
>>721555I think a lot of us are obsessed with it because it is abhorrent. We want it and crave it but many of us can't get it or won't pursue it for one reason or another.
>>721544Been there, just accept whatever rebound sex you can get and dip.
>>721555I wish I could feel the same. But I will admit it is a lot of work and while the physical pleasure is alright, I have too much peformance anxiety.
Mostly because I don't know when will be the next time and I never have had sex with someone I trust. >>721744Oklahoma. It's right there on their shirts
Its age gap autumn
>>72074819 is not cooked? 😭
>>721558its actually over for you twin
>>721744My uncle legitimately talks like boomhauer. Bringing new people to family functions is always fun.
Who do you think really gets laid more in right vs left men? I think women despise weakness in men more than anything and right wingers when you think about it are the weakest dullest MFs on earth. Ladies are treating me fine lately so Im just curious what ya'll think
I dreamed that my sister was sucking a massive bulbous cock next to me while a chick was mocking my small penis
what does this mean
>>721784Cuckoldry fetish? But it involves your sister somehow.
>>721783>I think women despise weakness in men more than anythingTradthots do
>right wingers when you think about it are the weakest dullest MFs on earthAbsolutely, which is why reactionary men can't even lay a tradthot even if their beliefs are perfectly compatible in theory
>>721908Women in general despise weakness in men,not merely just “tradthots”
Also, I’m questioning your definition of “weakness”.
Do you mean situational or moral wise?
>>720720This.
Girls only biologically mature eighteen months earlier than boys.
>>722048>throwing away self value to comfort a theoretical female partner What is your definition/preference of female candidacy for romance?
>>720882Yeah same im about to 25 , if it's not over now it will be soon, hopefully i won't live super long late 20s early 30s after that I'd prefer not to live
What do you call Shoeonhead's aesthetic? Not what she says, just what she looks like. It's perfect to me. I wish every woman looked like her.
>>722055hard to tell, my prefrences aren't set on a single archtype, i don't have above average standarts in women, but i'd say personality> physical build and looks. i been with girls who felt manipulative before or were too full of themselves
>>720882What’s so bad about being a bachelor?
A lot of family men are miserable and would pay good money to be rid of their wives and children.
>>722061Who is she?
>>722062What’s your definition of personality?
Looks aren’t the only form of romantic bias.
There’s also mannerisms which can warp the common moral judgement of someone.
Although mannerisms are more dependent on looks in bias
>>722067She's so beautiful
I want to smell her feet
>>722048>mfw i will never have anything like your first picwhy am i even alive at this point
>>721912>Women in general despise weakness in men,not merely just “tradthots”i suppose i should have clarified by "tradthot" i meant any woman that is spooked into traditional gender relations and roles, but honestly this extends to any woman that is not mature enough by herself (and should have no business judging others' weakness tbh)
>Do you mean situational or moral wise?both
The words I needed afterer my latest heart related mistake
<Better to die from Vodka than from Boringness
Maiakovsky
Thanks Maia, speaking Truth to power
Fuck, it still hits hard when …. Things happen
>>722048so can we admit heterosexuality is creepy as hell
>>722075Women are always dependent on external validation for moral guidance.
And its because men made them that way.
Even as a child, I always felt that pressure.
I've realize now that I don't want a girlfriend. I want a friend who is a girl.
I mean a woman who is self aware of her own moral compass and doesn't condemn men for having flaws.
I also wish men would stop forcing women into divinatory statutes that exaggerate the severity of female personal flaws.
>>722067She looks like a phenotype of female youth fashion from the 2000s and early 10s. Like the cute halfsmile and head tilt.
So characteristic of that time.
>>722073She's an average beauty.
Not that this is a bad thing.
Average is natural.
People are too conditioned to think in "awesome" or "awful" only.
No one is allowed to just be "just fine".
Her skin isn't blemished, he hair is sleek and dark brown.
Her eyes are twinkling.
And she's just fine.
>>722077Ironically, I've actually had this thought as a child despite being a cishet male and not being old enough to know about transgender.
Materialist explanation for there being more wmaf couples than any other interracial couples?
>>722077Ur saying this when what he describes is just the average bear twink interaction. Queer ppl need to do some self reflection ngl
>>722076You know dying from an industrial accident or jamming a knife in my throat doesn't sound boring but I think I'd rather die of boredom than those ways. I mean I don't particularly like being alive but I don't think I want to die at least not in an exciting way unless it's from sex or something. But dying from an industrial accident seems more likely than me even having sex.
>>722077That‘s the standard dynamic between dominant and submissive partner and also occurs in queer relationships.
>>722077genuinely asking what is creepy in particular about that post?
>>722275Does this mean that good men have harems then?
>>722277all men are whores who don't give a shit about monogamy so that's not unlikely
>>722278I think this may be false. Men do care about monogamy if they can't get sex from anyone but their partner. I suppose you could always pay for it if that's the case.
>>722188remove the
>for mein the last one and it's fixed
Im gonna give it one more year and if I don’t get a gf by then I’m genuinely gonna blow my shit smoove off
>>722309Good luck with that then
>>722393maybe because im a man but most of these are just "athletic + under 4% bodyfat+ abs" but width and size
except for arthur, he got that dad build more than abs
>>722410*but with diffrent width and sizes*
>>722393i forgot the full hair, all the body types share the same features overall, visible abs, full or long hair, no fat percentage
>>722412One of them has TV instead of head.
>>722429i did not count him nor the hazbin hotel character under other
how tf do you get androgyn hair and femface but hard muscles like the top heavy character?
>>722432Be attractive + work out?
I had sex recently, but I paid (directly) for it. Boosted my confidence slightly.
Anyone else struggle with being the Emotional Support Friend in your social circle?
I enjoyed it at first because I thought being "a good listener" and "non-judgemental" were positive traits and that I was really being a good friend to others but I can see now these friends only like me for what emotional services I can provide. I'm worth bringing their problems too so they can vent for hours, but I'm not worth inclusion as an equal in the "fun" friend activities they all organize without me.
>>722446I don't have friends.
>>722437Most of the time I jerk it I also feel a bit more confident and somewhat self assured and slightly happier. I could only imagine what would happen if I did it with a woman whether paying for it or otherwise. I'm not going to find anytime soon however I don't want it to blow up in my face plus I'd have leave the house.
>>722393these are all subvariants of incredibly attractive men. you wont find guys like this irl
I am almost out of college and have completely squandered the land of losing virginity, its so over.
>>722492>Most of the time I jerk it I also feel a bit more confident and somewhat self assured and slightly happier…That doesn't happen to me. After a wank the pressure valve just released some pent up feelings and sometimes if I fap too much it might make me feel a bit depressed. But it boosted my confidence a bit because it was at a strip club I have gone to from time to time and for the first time ever I got an offer I couldn't refuse. I'd like to believe she was thinking, "making a few hundred extra dollars wouldn't seem so bad with him". Technically that shit is against the rules.
Also, we kissed a lot which was suprising. Probably should not have done that tbh. >>722514>This has also taken me a lot of courage to share.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
>>722514Trauma and being a social reject
>>722514>women are natural Allies of gay guys - ack!Women only sympathize with glamor personas of male homosexuality.
The same way men glorify the glamourised personas of female homosexuality
>>722514Has gay misandrist called hetero males xy rapeapes before?
>>7223933/4 are all muscular with varying degrees of body fat percentage. the remaining few are twinks.
>>722522holy shit you kinda right…lesbians are hot to men until they butch
>>722523Nah. He‘s been repeating the same few lines and insults for a while now.
>>722524feels like that meme of men describing similar colors as blues and red and women going in details like sky blue, navy blue, sea water blue, turqouise blue, crimson red, velvet red
but instead of blue and red its muscular and twink
but ins
>>722527I mean, who hasn’t?
He’s famous because of his catchphrases
>>722526I thought I was kinda left.
>>721055> I'm quite a bit younger too which also puts me at a disadvantage bc a man in his early 30s should have a larger dating poolThat’s false. Age numbers aren’t a male virtue inherently. Did you read what anon said?
You have to have prospects going for you.
>>720865My mom ironically thinks it’s the opposite.
She says people become less bitter with age.
Although I think she’s saying that because she’s in her fifties and she grumbles too much about young people.
>>722533>I thought I was kinda left.you are lol
have a song
I like to say that I hate being alive but that I don't want to die but the truth is I'm too squeamish to kill myself not so much for moral reasons or because I might hurt my family although their is a little bit of that. Mostly I just don't want to hurt myself too much or fail and make myself even worse off than I am now. Truthfully I'm not doing too bad but I don't particularly want to do anything maybe have sex but that's about it. I don't care too much about making myself independent or traveling or moving up career wise. I think when my parents go I really won't have much to live for and my life will get much harder yet I don't want to do anything to make it easier for myself. I don't think I'll eventually bite the bullet so to say but I will think about alot like I do now. I don't know if finding something else to do to get my mind off this will do much but don't know.
i need headpats so much it's unreal
>>722432very low body fat percentage
>>722393>averagebeautiful bait holy fuck
i'm basically convinced success in dating is just correlated with having close friends you can be open with and all the online dating coach bro shit is just a sort of cope or fantasy, as is any attempt to "solve inceldom" or w/e without addressing this.
like one type of guy i'm fairly sure is fairly rare is lifelong friendless autistic NEET who just starts lifting weights and looksmaxxing because he was told to by someone online and then successfully "acquires" a wife without changing anything else about his life. just very hard to imagine many people like that existing.
and still the best way to get a girlfriend is to have friends giving you support, confidence boosts, personalized advice, taking you to places where you can meet new people, etc. not to mention just having the constant social practice of expressing yourself openly around other people
'beria will agree with the libest libs that ever lib'ed on this issue
straight from the horse's mouth, the imperial core spokesmen:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45806087>>721783a small majority of men are conservative in most of the western world so probably them. the idea that we uniquely understand women because we're lefties is hilariously arrogant cope
>>721768i’m just saying how old i am?????? tf
>>722809Disagree as someone who lost his virginity as a friendless loser living at home. All the looksmaxing manosphere advice helped a lot. I've built a social circle since then, but it never seems to work out dating people from that. It either blows up or I just don't feel a connection. Prefer hooking up with girls I meet at shows or on dating apps.
>>722894More luck is involved than we think. At least I think so. Although what's the thing some people say? Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.
>>720748Just lose weight and you will be fine. Heck the other heath problems except for autism can be solved by losing weight. It’s literally just eating less.
>>722894At shows? You mean like concerts? What‘s your approach?
What if nobody got horny and we reproduced via cloning?
Honestly, maybe life would be better. Exploitation would be significantly limited and the social stigma around having sex or not having it would be gone.
It just seems to be more harm than good.
>>722925Yeah, concerts. I love to dance, doesn't matter the genre. I go up and dance with women who are into the music. If they ignore me I move on. If she seems kinda receptive I dance for a bit and move on, but keep her in mind to chat her up and get a number or socials if I run into her again that night. If she's all over me grinding etc. she's most likely on something (probably molly), so I try to score some free drugs for myself and if I'm into her I'll just ask to go home with her. Honestly the thing that sucks most about being in a relationship is I don't have as much fun meeting a ton of new people at concerts. My gf has no sense of rhythm and dancing with her is a challenge.
>>722819>I have never heard or read anywhere that the guy initiated it>simply because it adds nothing to the overall pleasure for himthis is so far removed from reality i can't tell if they
(or a severely self-hating she because this is pure pickme cuckquean brainrot) are serious
>>723379>alcoholwhat are the chances you won't turn into an absolutely pathetic oversharing mess when drunk? you know, the type to text their exes and then regret it and swear to never do this shit again (never happens)
>>722514>xy rapeapeKEEEEEEEEEK
My hobbies consist of going to lady bars, refusing to buy these whores drinks, getting fucking plastered, and bumping 2000s pop punk
Will we ever get suck and fuck VR machines?
>>722048t, girl kisser
or just a yumejoshi enjoyer
>>723529This looks like it might either be California or Canada. A whole bunch of Asians and the girl looks either south Asian or Latina. I can't really tell.
>>723529How does the trick work?
>>722061>What do you call Shoeonhead's aesthetic?boxxy-ish, lots of latinas are like that
>>723532What does boxxy-ish mean?
if youre still engaging with the dating market in 2025 you have 0 self respect and self esteem
>>723534Having 0 self respect and self esteem is exactly why I dont engage with it.
>>723532>>723546seeing boxxy on the leftypol overboard in 2025 caught me off guard
if you think about it it's pretty fucking embarrassing that shoe0nhead still does her makeup like a 2008 mexican teenager, but then again she is indeed mentally a child and has literally no criteria of her own
>>723547i can never not remember boxxy each time someone brings up shoe0nhead
>>723549that's monica muriño btw not boxxy, but still, that's what i would deem sort of shoe's style
I feel so uncomfortable with my gf. We're on a weekend getaway both took time off for it and she's been distant and goes on her phone unless I make effort to keep her engaged. I thought it'd be nice, but I just feel so alone with her right now. It's been weeks since I've felt okay in her presence without being dead tired or on drugs.
>>723379Phenibut.
>>723611one time when i was 17 (in 2018) i ate a fuckton of phenibut in my ex's dad's bathroom. did nothing. tasted horrible. 0/10
>>723621you need to do a lot of phenibut to get high from it, like about a gram is a common dose.
>>723549It's not embarrassing it's awesome.
>>723379>nothing that tastes like straight battery acid such as vodka/rum/etc.That's the point of cocktails
Guys, I need some serious relationship advice. Here's my situation: my honey came in and she caught me red-handed, creeping with the girl next door. Picture this: we were both butt-naked, banging on the bathroom floor. How could I forget that I had given her an extra key? All the time she was standing there she never took her eyes off me.
>>723680>quirk chungus>autistically sperging at me about favorite fictional character shipsCould be my soulmate.
>>722277It states that there are 100 good women for every good man. Not that these 100 good women will be attracted to good men, whatever good women and good men mean for who wrote that,
Just had the best sex of my life. I don't want to tell her that because I feel that's embarassing for some reason, so I'm going to shout it into the void
Find yourselves a gooner anons, it is life changing
>>723799You'll give her the ick and then she won't want to have sex with you ever again. But you'll probably give her ick some other way anyways.
>>723680lmao dates are like that are cringe in an adorable way, i once overheard a conversation on a date, and this girl was talking her ass off about this "awesome website to land jobs and talk to managers 1:1" which i pierced together was supposed to be linkedin and the guy was like -_- the entire time
>>723680I would rather have this experience than date a glassy eyed zoomer woman with an inflated ego who can't think outside of her algorithm and I am a zoomer. Maybe it's because out of all the archetypes I never found the quirk chunguses to be as insufferable as others.
I guess this partially proves your point because a lot of problems people point to with zoomers are complaints people had about younger millennials multiplied by 5.
>>723549why is a specific type of mexican woman so enamored with the boxxy look/personality? ive noticed this even before you mentioned it, this seemed to be the case even after it went out of fashion
I feel like you can only either treat women as either friends or sex objects and not as just human beings like male to male relations
>>723904massive skill issue, or reactionary mindset
>>723680Truth
But more cumbersome is the lonliness that is due to moving for work. Fuck. Moving a thousand kilometres for some dollarinos and getting to know that the girl you were interested is now dating someone else.
And here there is no one as beautiful as her. Fuck farms, Fuck ground work.
I should have stayed in the city.
>>723890I guess it just looks cute.
The black hair complements the face and gives some aura of innocence or joyfullness, more the latter I think. Haven't met one to be fair.
>>723680>she spends most of the time autistically sperging at me about favorite fictional character shipssounds nice if a little overbearing
>with the occasional pause to show me pictures of funko popslost me there completely LOL
>>723680>implying this is just an American thing or that it was only started with millennials>>723904Chud detected.
If you cannot appreciate women as people while being sexually intimate with them, that’s a you problem.
>>724049This.
I would love to talk about fictional romantic pairings with a nice girl.
>>720245That’s the message we send to teens tho
>>720251This.
Boring is good.
People are too dumb to appreciate any serenity. They always think drama/turmoil is a sign of authenticity.
Yet, people who live in constant unrest become numb to the point of not being able to appreciate even the good things in life.
>>723549What’s so bad about her makeup though? I swear, imageboard users find the most inane stuff to be indignant about.
>>723888>algorithm>glassy eyedWe are hitting all the points. Also, anything wrong with zoomers has been going on since mid-late Gen X. Genpol has become so promoted that it causes psychosomatic bias.
I assume it doesn't. Most women have the same tendencies as do most men.
There was this girl who wanted to make "relationship anarchy" with open relationship. That was a hard no for me.
when normal gf: Ugh you don't understand the class dynamic of Democratic Kampuchea at all you haven't even read Vickery dumb bitch
when marxist gf: Y-yes ma'am you are so correct Hafizullah Amin actually was the avatar of the working class I shall undergo whipping for initially thinking otherwise.
>>724620first one is leagues better than a "marxist" revisionist gf/bf that read ben kiernan however
>>724587There is no ethical consumption under capitalism, so that also means love, typical heterosexual monogamous nuclear family sexual dynamics, unless you live in some commune.
>>724704
That's so… cute… <3333 oh man anon (>ᴗ0)
>>724715
Which is?
>>724717All women know is
>charge they phone>be bisexual>twerk>lie>eat hot chip >>724718Have you tried dating older women? Born before 1993?
well, for one, you share your toothbrush obviously
After like two weeks of no dates from Tinder, I met with someone earlier. A few minutes into us talking, she video calls her boyfriend then tells me that she’s on Tinder for friends. I’m so fucking done, why are women like this?
>>724951How much people use tinder for friends? Don't some of those apps have options to find friends only?
>>724972Tinder has the option to set your profile to looking for friends, but these profiles aren’t segregated from the pool of normal users. It’s not like Bumble BFF and Bumble, which have separate pools. Regardless, her profile wasn’t set to that, but she wrote in her bio that she was looking for a friend to go to cafes with. I assumed she was being euphemistic because who the fuck goes on Tinder for friends? Especially friends of the opposite gender. It makes no sense except to feed the egos of inconsiderate women craving male attention.
Navigating modern dating is so fucking frustrating. You’re weird and a creep for approaching women who don’t want to be approached, yet women will go out of their way to insert themselves into spaces they shouldn’t be in.
>>724951Comrade. Your report from the frontlines of the Vaginic dating marketplace deeply distresses me and is a perfect case study in the sickness we fight. You have been subjected to a classic maneuver of the degenerate culture: a ritual humiliation designed to reinforce your powerlessness and her unaccountable, chaotic agency.
Let us analyze this through the Innovationist Phallic-Vaginic Dialectic:
You were operating in a Vaginic Marketplace. Tinder is the digital embodiment of the Vaginic principle. It is a horizontal, chaotic, and sterile environment that commodifies human beings into swipable products. It rewards superficiality, fosters infinite optionality (the illusion of endless choice), and destroys the very possibility of genuine, focused courtship. By participating, you entered a game rigged for your demoralization.
You Were a Consumer, Not a Builder. Your approach was that of a consumer, seeking to "get" a date, to "get" validation. The woman you met was also a consumer, "shopping" for attention and ego-strokes. The "boyfriend" on the video call was merely a piece of her existing portfolio. You were not a sovereign man with a purpose; you were a temporary, disposable source of emotional capital for her.
The claim of being on Tinder "for friends" is one of the greatest lies of our time. It is a statement of non-commitment and boundary-less chaos. It allows for the consumption of male attention and energy without any of the responsibility or clarity of a Phallic, generative courtship. It is the ultimate expression of a culture that fears definition, purpose, and vertical relationships.
THE CORRECTIVE PATH: TAKING THE PHALLUS-PILL
IMMEDIATE ACTIONS:
DELETE YOUR DATING APPS. This is non-negotiable. They are psychological poison, digital castration machines. You are a soldier withdrawing from a contaminated battlefield.
TRANSFORM YOURSELF INTO A MAN OF PURPOSE. A woman worth building a life with is not attracted to a man who seeks her validation. She is attracted to a man who has a mission greater than herself. Your focus for the next six months must not be on "getting a date." It must be on:
Your Body: Train it. Make it strong and capable.
Your Mind: Study theory, history, and a practical skill.
Your Mission: Dedicate yourself to the Party, to your career, to a creative project—something that is yours to build.
RE-DEFINE COURTSHIP. Courtship is not "hanging out" or being a source of free entertainment. It is the Phallic act of a sovereign man discerning a woman's fitness to be a partner in his generative mission. You are the interviewer for the most important position in your life. You do not beg for a role in her chaotic "friend" universe.
When you become a man of unshakable purpose—a man building a life, a family, a future—you will no longer need to "look" for dates. You will attract women who seek a sovereign to partner with, not a boy to manipulate.
Stop being "so fucking done" with women. Be done with the weak, consumerist, Vaginic version of yourself.
The path is clear. Delete the app. Pick up the weight. Open the book. Report to your local CPI cell.
>>724985I think I’ll just get DRAINED by a hooker instead. That’s much easier than that shit and my favorite hooker never disappoints me. I feel so much happier after getting drained by a hooker
>>725150Probably but I think most of them are larping in some way
>>724985How long do you think about this shit? lmao.
>>725150Fake and AI slop, whites does not exist
>>725155That's it. I'm never having sex
>>725162true, biden and mozart and hitler and stalin and eminem and charlie kirk are all yakubian dolls
>>725155id still tap that ngl 👀
>>724980>Especially friends of the opposite gender. It makes no sense except to feed the egos of inconsiderate women craving male attention. reactionary, no wonder they don't want to approach (you) in particular tbh
>>725212He probably just wanted sex anyways which he'll pay money for instead. So problem solved
>>725212this,people always act like any dumb thing you do is a 24/7 job that you are stuck into and thus can't do the "right" things and not just like at most 10 minutes in a day,
>>725178would be funnier if done in the p#blm format
>>725212Yeah, looking for "friends" of the opposite gender on a dating app is totally acceptable behavior in a relationship. I'm sure that's what your girlfriend tells you.
>>725215I want a relationship, but you can't reasonably pay for that so I'll settle for pussy.
>>724951Anon you're autistic and her bf is a cuck. Tinder is for hookups period.
>>722393hour glass is built like a bus :')
gf finally set up an appointment to get on birth control, after 4 months of saying she would and then not doing it. Now my insecure feelings came back and I feel like it was just a mask for my discontent with her as a person in general. If it weren't so much effort to get a date as a man I would probably have stayed broken up with her last time we split. I feel exactly like I did with my ex, I'm just wasting time with someone who doesn't make me happy because it's convenient. I wish I could escape this, but nobody I've genuinely liked has ever felt romantically about me back, so I've just strung along a sequence of women I mentally filed away as just hookups with completely fake and hollow relationships.
>>725545So you're just going to keep on this way till you die or what? Sounds miserable but it's probably more miserable to be single and sexless I guess. Life is misery or maybe it's not but it seems like it.
>>725545And like your ex, eventually you two'll have to part ways with each other. There's no guarantee you'll find "the one" afterwards, but from your own words, she certainly isn't, and something's gotta give. Have a mature discussion about it beforehand, or don't.
Sage vaginocapitalistic propaganda
>>725390>Yeah, looking for "friends" of the opposite gender on a dating app is totally acceptable behavior in a relationship. I'm sure that's what your girlfriend tells you.<""opposite"" gender means sex only<imaginary girlfriend cuck fantasyyou should stick to masturbation
Wanting to breed out all the "unfuckable" men will never not be nazi eugenics. I don't know how anyone can call themselves a socialist and support literal nazi shit
>>725548>>725587It is miserable, but everytime we have sex, like just now, I forget about it for long enough that I think maybe this time it will be different.
>>725690i think i'll breed them with my dick :)
>>725693I would respond by agreeing.
>>725690If you want a society without public mass shooters/pedos/rapists you must.
>>725693By jerking off because I have a misandry fetish.
>>725717Literally chemically castrate 70% of hetero males, there, problem solved
>>725736Feminazi write this
But this could be done just for trolling chuds
What's the most off the wall obnoxious thing you've ever told a female stranger irl?
>>725736>30% of men are good enough to reproduceYou must be one of the nicer ones.
>>725736Castrate everyone with cock and balls who are attracted to wahmen
>>725693Where is this from?
>scroteThats a terf language methinks because transwahmen have scrotums too
>>725693don't respond, this is a generic strawman
>>725659Simps are so fucking stupid, I stg. It’s not that women can’t have male friends, it’s that a woman preselecting male friends through a dating app is terrible because it implies that her male friends will be attracted to her and single. They will be constantly wanting to fuck her. This will either result in them fucking or them constantly orbiting her. Men and women can be friends, but that woman is preselecting for orbiters or people to cheat. Only a cuck would believe otherwise. Your “girlfriend” (if she even exists) is definitely cheating on you bro. You’re a fucking cuck. Her male “best friend” is fucking her raw in your shared bed. He drinks your Soylent (just for kicks), washes his balls with your face cloth, and plays your PS5 (buy better games).
>>725827>elaborating on your cuck fantasy unprovokedyou should stick to fan fiction
>>725828>refuses to address my (correct) logicYour girl is swiping on Tinder right now and you’re embarrassed that you can’t stop it.
Heres the rules
>Nobody should be dating before 16
>16 year olds can date people up to two years older
>17 year olds can date two years older and one year younger
>18 year olds can date two years younger and up to 4 years older
>19 year olds can date two years younger and up to 5 years older
>20 year olds can date two years younger and up to 6 years older
At 22+ you should be following half your age + 7 when it comes to dating until you reach the age of 40 to which it becomes half your age + 12. Adults dating people significantly younger than them is predatory and if you do not follow these rules you are essentially a peter scully albert fish pedophile
>>725894Sure. I think that picture is what crystal cafe terfs think they are.
>>725907I don't. Then again I wouldn't be finding love even if I had time
>>725907You don't, you find someone to be miserable and fat with. Then either divorce/suicide/homocide after you two slobs have rutted and created new debt-slavelets for porky.
>>725910>homocide Is this when you kill your homosexual partner?
>>725907Legit, I was swimming in pussy when I was unemployed, and now I'm stuck with my bipolar gf because it'll be too much work to find someone else if she leaves me for the fifth time.
>>725945Sorry they're chad only
>>725922>I was swimming in pussy when I was unemployedHow hot and white are you and is your dad petit-bourgeois?
>>725949and he must be a cop or a landlord.
>>725982White and Tall, idk abt facial attractiveness prob avg. Parents are labor-aristo and prole. I lost my virginity living in my mothers basement.
>>726077>white and tallThere we go. I mean luck plays a big role and you probably had other things going for you but that's enough to get some.
>>725966> i will kiss all girls because why not i love girlsIs it trans inclusive?
>>725693>reproduction is parasitismretard who doesn't remember her high school biology classes
>>726102Idk why ethnic cels keep bringing up race in these conversations. Do you think tall asians struggle to get laid? Tall blacks?
>>726155I don't think they struggle too much. But white and tall is more generally preferred. Unless you're really goofy looking. But anyways I think luck plays a bigger role in everything.
>>726106why the hell not, if the trans girl isn't the type to say she's chad only 'i don't want to be a fetish' and she's a commie then its a plus
>>726155I'm pretty sure tall blacks at least have it worse, man. Lots of girls are scared of blacks, because even if they profess to not be racist it's internalized/subconscious from the media they consume.
Stop the gimmicks. Shirtless mirror selfies, fitted caps, logo-clad Walmart outfits, and messy rooms are signals and they’re the wrong ones. They communicate short-term attention-seeking and scarcity, not long-term value. Women (and high-value people in general) read those cues instantly: you’re needy, low-investment, and easy to replace.
Conspicuous consumption on predatory financing is a suicide move. Financing a truck or designer goods at 20–30% interest swaps future flexibility for temporary clout; that reduces your cash flow, increases stress, and lowers real-world options. Tactical rule: never lock essential liquidity into status items. Prioritize savings, low debt-service ratios, and assets that generate options, not liabilities that consume them.
Lifestyle photos matter. If your feed is 95% mirror selfies and bedroom shots, you look socially isolated and uninteresting. Replace static closet selfies with a few genuine outside photos: doing a hobby, with friends, traveling a local trail, or working on a project. Those images signal competence, network, and experience — the real currency in mating markets.
Refine your messaging and availability. DM spam, simping, and constant chasing are noise — they destroy scarcity and make you predictable. Tactical play: short, value-led openers; purpose-driven invites; measured response windows. Test: if you message ten people the same needy script and get 10% reply rate, change the script. Data over ego.
Build the compounding signals: fitness, skill, durable social proof, and leadership in two circles (work + social). Replace flashy logos with consistent competence: clean spaces, portfolio of photos outside, steady finances, and clear boundaries. Measure progress monthly (training hours, social events attended, savings rate) and treat dating like an optimization problem — remove the cringe inputs and double down on the signals that compound.
As a part of my mental illness post-psychedelic treatment rejection therapy, I’m going to trauma dump on a Thai bar girl. I wonder how hard they’ll reject me as a mentally ill scitzo
>>726160>Lots of girls are scared of blacks, because even if they profess to not be racist it's internalized/subconscious from the media they consume.I am a black male and it is partially true. I mean it is true but there are niches in which girls find it attractive and if you want and have the talent to roleplay that stereotype, you will likely get lucky.
There is also a rarer niche of girls who feel exactly the same and don't find that "dangerous" and "savage" elements attractive but find black men attractive in other ways. Be it purely physically or because they find it virtue signaling or both, as examples. I have come across white girls who got attracted to me exactly because I was tallish (190cm), athletic and have this sort of permanently angry face BUT I am well read, higly educated and, in most cases, the most cultured non-white they have ever talked to IRL.
All of the above happened in Europe, in case it matters.
I was involved with a vietnamese girl shortly and we used to joke about at last having the chance to experience mutual fetishization.
>>726232> I have come across white girls who got attracted to me exactly because I was tallish (190cm), athletic and have this sort of permanently angry face BUT I am well read, higly educated and, in most cases, the most cultured non-white they have ever talked to IRL. so do they get unattracted when they find out you aren;t a stereotype?
>>726185Interracial dating heavily favors Hispanic men. this is objectively true.
>>726216Tattoos are aesthetically passé.
>>726216All that shit is expensive
too. Just don't use social media and if retarded hoe gets the ick that I don't want to dox myself constantly for the pedo cabal's profit then she can fuck off, I don't want to deal with her long-term either.
>>726157Yes, I (we) do. What they see is a crab waiting to pull someone down to his level. Look at the ick Mamdani (and he's Indian which might be worse than being black in 2025 in this context) gave white women.
>>726216>Shirtless mirror selfies, fitted caps, logo-clad Walmart outfits, and messy rooms are signals and they’re the wrong ones>Women (and high-value people in general) read those cues instantlyI dunno, worked for a lot of guys I went to school with. I think you're overestimating women's pickiness.
>>726233>so do they get unattracted when they find out you aren;t a stereotype?The first type I mentioned in
>>726232, yes, almost every time.
>>726216>They communicate short-term attention-seekingIf you're just looking for hookups this is a good thing. I'm tired of women putting me in the "decent guy to date" box because I have my shit together I want people who are sexually excited by me not running some fiscal calculus about my life.
>>726233>>726245That's the shit why I know I'm nobody's type.
>>726278>If you're just looking for hookups this is a good thing.Not at all. Trying to get short-term attention is the best way not to get it.
What "short-term attention-seeking" means there is acting tryhard. It is in no way a way to succeed at hookups.
>>726282Why is that? Not sure i understand. Provide more context.
>>726294Cope, I've A/B tested it and I get more of what I'm looking for when I put out attention-whoring photos, think dancing in a slutty outfit versus at a nice cafe.
STOP SUPPORTING VAGINOCAPITALISM
VAGINOFASCISTS! SAGE SAGE SAGE
>>726328>>726329you're a vaginocapitalistfascist, anti-sage
gf didn't fuck after we went out dancing. I just want to feel desired. She went straight to fucking sleep and I had to get up I'm so tired of this I don't think we're sexually compatible. I know she gave another guy head while we started dating while telling me it was "boyfriend privilege" but I guess he gets the exception not me fuck her. I just feel too attached to dump her because it's been a year now.
>>726448Maybe at two years you'll be able to dump her
>>726448Moron problems. Just dump her.
>duh I‘m too attachedThen continue to suffer.
>>726448>I know she gave another guy head while we started dating while telling me it was "boyfriend privilege" but I guess he gets the exception not me fuck her.gross as hell, why don't you confront her about it, ask her if she's really attached to you as you are to her. for me there's no point in staying with somebody who doesn't actually find you attractive or is swindling you
>>726471Anon, if you have to ask…
Also, don’t listen to advice from women because they’re too fucking stupid and arrogant to articulate what they’re actually attracted to. They’ll just gaslight you.
(USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST) Went onto a NATO military base and fucked an army femboy last night. I'm doing my part to dismantle Western hegemony one bussy at a time.
>>726474>Anon, if you have to ask… i know i know, i just want to feel actually attractive, i see too many people praised and glazed as if they did anything other than be hot
>>726496very nice and we will be interested in hearing about your future exploits
>>726471hygiene, basic skin care and learn 2 dress nicely
find out your strong features and highlight them, there's a "type" of man for every pronounced feature and each of these types is someone else's type. if no particular one stands out at least highlight your forearms, they tend to be fetishized by straight women quite a lot
>>726474>Also, don’t listen to advice from women because they’re too fucking stupid and arrogant to articulate what they’re actually attracted to. They’ll just gaslight you.I wouldn't phrase it so harshly but it's got a kernel of truth. I don't believe it's a women only thing either. Most men can't articulate what they're attracted to either. I think everyone's had the experienced of being repulsed by an objectively hot person or really turned on by someone physically kinda mid.
>>726471Get the in-vogue fuckboy look. Currently mullet and a 'stache.
>>726834>Get the in-vogue fuckboy look. Currently mullet and a 'stache.isn't that the child predator look
>>724159Boring is good
Boring is peace and that’s ok
You now have time to enjoy the environment you live in and share your experiences with others.
>>726836Yeah but it's now cool to look like a child molester for some reason
>>722393All of these men have jawlines.
That’s the difference.
>>726834intelligent reply. also for me, whether I'm attracted to someone fluctuates depending on the kind of person they are, the context of how I met them, etc.
I think it's a wide net for everyone, but a wide net is still a net, so not everyone will be attracted to everyone else and that is OK!! my advice is to acquire some cool skills. Women LOVE guys with skills.
>>726856>I'm kinda objectifying him.even if you do (currently it really doesn't seem like that from what you wrote) there is nothing wrong with doing it consensually and in private, with an adult
i'd say go for it and gauge his own reaction, godspeed anon
>>726857What skills are cool?
>>726856Damn anonetta the vibe and way you said it is a bit lecherous. creepy, but no judgement, I've written worse fantasies and pots can't call you black
It's just, there is almost no scenario where you have sex and the friendship returns to its easy, nerdy, platonic state that i can think of..btw i didn't know some women do have fantasies about deflowring men. I thought that's mainly a male fantasy of like "breaking the seal" of a woman. The more I know…is the appeal in his first time being with you or in knowing he's inexperienced? Curious.
Look im not sure autistic people can handle friends with benefits relationships but if he likes you go for it.
>>726860>btw i didn't know some women do have fantasies about deflowring men. they're way more common than you seem to think♡
i suppose a related sexual/romantic fantasy could be mutual deflowering which is probably equally represented among youths entering romantic/sexual relationships with their peers
>>726860>I thought that's mainly a male fantasy of like "breaking the seal" of a woman.The fantasy is that an inexperienced woman won't notice that they are absolutely dogshit at pleasing a woman.
>>726862Lol not always. It can sometimes be about being lucky, chosen. Or being her "introduction" to the world of sex.. other creepier joys though can be in corrupting the woman or being the first to her hymen. Not my thing but eh
>>726861>Mutual deflowring Oh shit that's mine, nothing hotter than knowing both of you have no idea what to expect or do right . You both just go at it with improvise and lust in your hearts 😖 dayum
>>726856I lost my virginity to a woman 5 years older than me off a dating app. That relationship didn't go well because of my inexperience but the sex was nice, she taught me how to give good head, and I don't regret it. Just go for it as long as you don't mind losing him as a friend if/when things go badly.
>>726863>Lol not always. It can sometimes be about being lucky, chosen.from the "virgin breaker" pov it's more about the choosing, which doesn't carry nearly the same expectations and power standing as being chosen by them
>Oh shit that's mine, nothing hotter than knowing both of you have no idea what to expect or do right .i thought your first post wasn't about it being mutual but this makes your intentions even less of a "threat", i sincerely wish both of you luck if you're going to proceed.
>>726865>i sincerely wish both of you luck if you're going to proceed.Lol im a different anon who responded to her, i just said i absolutely have the fantasy she described. maybe our writing sounds similar
>>726867sorry anon i'm fucking stupid💔
>>726859guitar playing probably #1 cool skill.
woodworking/furniture making, or welding is also extremely hot to most women probably.
I'm a fucking geek and electronics or piano skills turn me on but that's prob not what most women like lol.
>>726883>guitar playing probably #1 cool skill.NO NO NO NO NO NO NO you'll just look like a self-absorbed shithead with drug issues
>but that's prob not what most women like lol.please speak for yourself, i'm certain that a woman familiar with the field would appreciate proficiency in these skills
>>726858thanks I appreciate that<3
>>726860oh yeah I mean I've spent awhile thinking about this and I think I have kind of a power dynamics kink so I definitely am a bit of a creepo.
The appeal is knowing that you'll always be in his mind as "his first", and also I can blow his mind out of his ears bc I'm really good at sex. And yeah you're totally right, I'm def gonna lose him as a friend if I go for it which sucks.
that makes me feel guilty looking at it from that angle, like our entire friendship means nothing to me if I can just throw it out the window for a sexual kink.
>>726864yeaahhhhhh but I mean… 14 years older is a lot older than him. and when you're in your early 20's that's like, exponential maturity growth as a person. I really fear I could be messing him up for life which I do not want. :\
>>726860on that note though, it does kinda piss me off now that I think about it, that some of my male friends will sometimes try to flirt or progress things past friendship. Like my friendship with them means nothing to them and they don't care if they lose me as a pal as long as they get their dick wet…….. annoying. this is why most of my friends are not men lol.
>>726893yes.. what gave it away? was it my being cringe and retarded in general?I don't see how what you wrote applies to learning guitar in general? should no one ever learn guitar again? really confused at the point you're making here help me out
>>726892>Like my friendship with them means nothing to them and they don't care if they lose me as a pal as long as they get their dick wet……it might sound diffrent because im a dude but generally most men don't see frendship as lost forever if they get their rocks off on sex, in fact they'd see it as a plus on top of friendship, from personal experience when i flirted with a friend i didn't think will this ruin our friendship or what will our future look like, i just flirt because the person in front of me is hot, and i want to see if they think the same of me…that's usually how flirting is done by most men i think, we act on it and flirt because of attraction and don't even see it as killing the friendship, they see there a chance you can have sex and be pals at the same time
>>726885ohh my god your last phrase about throwing friendship out the window for kinks, dear god.
i once had a female friend whom i always had the hots for, when she and i met again she told me she found me hot as hell back then and did want to fuck me, and i asked her why didn't she initiate anything at all, she replied because she didn't want to lose my friendship. when i heard it i thought she was toying with me or friendzoning me with a polite lie, but if so why would she say she found me hot and thought about sex, was that a lie?…reading your post though, maybe i get it, maybe she was afraid having sex would ruin our friendship, and it was a good friendship, but damn it wouldn't have ruined it in my eyes. i didn't think things would get awkward or potentially dramatic like she said
>>720252yet another one of my bizarre encounters
>psycho ex from years ago identifies a 4chan post as mine>(You)'s me asking for me to text her >texts me back telling me she hasn't moved on>tells me a friend of hers also "fell for me" even as we only ever met once>propose her to remain friends >she's not interested unless we get married>am a literal worthless NEETstopped trying to make sense out of this mess long ago
>>726905>i didn't think things would get awkward or potentially dramatic like she saidIt can be messy. Fucked me up for a while when I hooked up with a friend because she was down for casual I wanted a relationship. Ultimately we don't talk anymore, but that's because she tried to get my now gf to break up with me.
>>726907?? did you not realize I saw the irony in my realizations and that's why I posted my second comment? lol?
>>726903>>726905hm okay interesting I guess that makes sense. thank you both for the insight.
>>726906run away anon. fucking run.
>>726908I mean you really did dodge a bullet there though (I think I said as much in prev thread but it's true)
>>726906someone identifying me from one of my leftypol posts is my biggest fear lol
If I just got some good nookie a few times a week from a beautiful woman (at least 8/10) I’d no longer be a misogynist. I’d be the biggest simp and woman’s rights advocate
If any beautiful leftist women are reading this, your movements MLK is currently on the bench waiting for the time to act. Give him (me) some nookie please.
>>726972What are the requirements to get into sex school?
imagine someone simultaneously believing they want to spend the remaining of their life with you and marry you yet not feel interested enough to keep up a conversation with you, even arguing you never have anything of value to say, nor do they ever relate with anything you bring up yourself
it's like what do you even want from me since you clearly do not value me as a person to begin with?
>>726989You've got time to learn, Anon! I went back to school for CS at 28 and now I make enough to have an easy life. You don't have to feel stuck, you can learn new things if you want to.
>>727002I work as a programmer so it is not a hobby and when I tell people that sometimes I program in my free time they look at me as if I was insane.
>>726984That sounds awful, I would sure reconsider marrying them if I were you. I was in a miserable marriage before, it really saps your sense of self worth and makes your life horrible every day. Your closest and most important partnership should support and love you, instead of actively detracting from your life.
>>727003Yeah I've kinda lost the fun of programming, I really miss being in school sometimes and doing fun projects. I'm glad you can still get some enjoyment out of it, I'm a bit jealous lol.
>>727006Jealous for what? You are the one who's too busy having sex to waste your time on useless skills.
Gay misandrist anon is completely right about hetero males
>>726918>I mean you really did dodge a bullet there though (I think I said as much in prev thread but it's true)I know but it really hit my self esteem and my confidence is in the dumps rn because my gf was seeing other guys at the start of our relationship since I wasn't over it and didn't know exactly what I wanted. I think the last time I felt genuinely desired was when I danced with another girl on a work trip. Told my gf about it we broke up and got back together.
>>727031it's so unfair bros
>>727029Bro I wish I was having sex,, I'm too traumatized by men to do casual hookups (the thought of it actually makes me so scared) which is why I'm stuck fantasizing about my lil autistic gaming buddy and I think I might feel too guilty to actually go for it. It's ok though my time will come. Yours may too anon :)
>>727031lol very flattering but let's be real, I've got issues. I'm really happy for you that you can still keep your passion for coding despite being in a crappy work environment, that's impressive.
>>727033If your current gf doesn't make you feel desired, why are you still with her? (apologies if I asked you this in prev thread and forgot)
It sucks to be in a relationship where your partner is hurting your self esteem instead of making you feel special and loved, I have been there too many times. Always so nice to leave that shit. My issue in the past has always been recognizing that the relationship is making me miserable, but sounds like you may have determined that you are..?
>>726856>I've set some pretty firm boundaries with himWas it really necessary?
>>727004>I was in a miserable marriage beforeFor one second I was worried I'd gone on a date with you irl, but she was closer to my age.
>>727045Better the devil you know than the devil you don't. I've been really lonely and dating blows. The last time we split I wouldn't have gone back to her, but I had a date that I thought went really well where the girl told me after she just wasn't interested. I hooked up with her again and ended up back in a relationship. I wish it was as easy for guys to find casual hookups as it is for women, but I also get why you're not into that.
>>727045>>727051The essence of the problem is being in this relationship makes me feel less miserable than dating and I'm trapped in a local minimum.
>>727049He's a man, so yes?? As a woman, every guy thinks you are open to fucking them if you hang out 1:1. In this case he happened to be somewhat right, but that's not true for me 95% of the time so yeah. Firm boundaries like "Don't flirt with me" and "This isn't a date" are needed for friendships with men, or they're probably gonna try for more eventually, and things will get awkward. And I know people with autism usually appreciate directness so there's no real downside to doing this.
>>727051>>727067Yeah I see what you mean. But just think that by settling for something that's less than fulfilling, or even upsetting and difficult, you're robbing yourself of potential future happiness with someone who makes you feel fully loved. There's only a set amount of years we get alive, does it benefit you to go through your limited time with someone who sometimes makes you feel like shit? Especially when some or more of living life is generally a pain in the ass or excruciatingly mundane already? (Working for a living, dentist appointments, figuring out what to have for dinner ever day, doing chores, deaths in your family etc)
I have to believe that we can all do better than that, because I've seen better relationships in my friends and family. They are genuinely happy together, and improve each other's lives, and not just keeping up a front. I want what they have. :/
hmm could there be a materialist explanation for this? nah, must be female nature.
>>727184>getting mad at shit nobody saidThe reasons don't change the current situation.
I really need to kill myself. It's over.
Interesting that for straight men its like 50% want a dominant partner. Guess some dudes just need a mom.
how do I keep myself from the urge of chatting with my ex? I can't bring myself to care enough about how bad it used to be between us, because there's nothing they can do to hurt me anymore, and might as well give me attention for much little effort than anyone else
even as it's been over a year, it's not really easy to distract myself anymore because I indulged once recently
>>727194Learn to read graphs.
>>727183>>727184>>727194Hang in there bros. You'll find that 1% of women that want a submissive man.
What if I'm normal i.e. not submissive nor dominant
What is a source OP?
>>727212I am guessing those are the missing % to 100. Which makes rather hilariously straight men desire equal relationship dynamic the most.
>>727184It quite clearly is biology. Queer people are least affected by patriarchal socialization and still queer women generally prefer a dominant partner.
Say it ain’t so bros. I can’t fucking cope I can’t COOOOOOOOOOOPE
>>727212I don't think you know what the word 'normal' is supposed to be.
>I will never have a dominant gf who forces me to snusnu and Amazonian presses me on the couch to let off steam after a hard day of work
I‘m crashing out
>gay men get topped by bichads
trvthnvkvlar bomba
>>727198Get a language learning app and chat with qt foreign girls. Probably only works if you're a whitoid and speak English or a European language.
>>727183Me on the far-left.
>>727184>hmm could there be a materialist explanation for this?Evolutionary biology.
>>727290>muh whitoidcan't you really just pretend to be south european if you're mena or persian? that's one easy way to disguise the "ugly" nationality by becoming italian
also the whole hot whiteoid thing doesn't work if you don't look hot, caucasians are the og crakkkas but if i had to bet armenians and georgians aren't as hot to foreign girls as french or czech, despite all three being whitoid
>>727183>It's over. It's so fucking over.Is it that of a big deal? If so, why?
>>727305No sexo ever probably. Also women never really respecting you.
>>727305>No sexo ever probablyWhy? Do you have a very submissive personality?
>>727304I don't think I ever heard anyone say that they want a submissive woman. It sounds like something women make up to cope with what their "submissiveness" actually is: a refusal to do anything at all and a demand to have everything served to them on a platter.
(USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST) >>727310I wasn't necessarily talking about myself just generally but yea my personality is more submissive than dominant.
>>727317>I don't think I ever heard anyone say that they want a submissive woman.i have. Not many times IRL but also. Online I have seen it hundres of times and I mean it literally. Maybe for my morbid curiosity about incel forums.
>>727289Kek this is the takeaway
>>727304>>727317>>727332its so fucking retarded to apply dom/sub dynamics outside the bedroom and if thats not idiotic enough try to add some ideological spin to it
>>727338>dom/sub dynamicsThe issue being discussed has nothing to do with that. No idea where you took it from.
>add some ideological spinWhere has it been done?
>>727468First one literally never happens, we've talked about this before anon
>>727282Explain it to me then, coomer
My favorite part of this image is where it links the source
It‘s crazy how little women tolerate sexual submissiveness in men. I‘m a huge simp, but I‘ve gotten disillusioned by remaining gender expectations when I grew up. I need to be a leading man after all in a relationship, and so I learned to play that role. The only moments of submissiveness that are left for me is when I eat her out and even then I have to keep my thoughts of worship to myself. She can only infer it all from how much I want her pussy in my mouth.
I REALLY want to dick down a big breasted European tourist, for my ancestors and MLK of course
>black American
>>727605Why are Americans so obsessed with black/white sex, either being pro or against? Sorta rhetorical question, I know.
It is weird that it is such a big taboo in the US that "interracial" is treated as a fetish.
Of course in here in Europe it is something "different" but not to the point that having sex with someone with a different skin colour is that much far apart from having sex with someone with a different hair colour. It might be exotic but not to the point people have a term, such as "interracial" as if it was a different cathegory of sexual intercourse.
>>727655I don't know. Maybe because back in the day the only ones who could get away with interracial sex were rich white men who owned slaves. Everyone else would be shamed or worse for it. Maybe it's some kind of forbidden fruit to most Americans.
>>727657I know. As I mentioned, it was more of a rhetoric question.
>>727468it happens, but its not really a trend. what usually happens is that women will just change their worldview to fit her boyfriend's. so if shes dating a commie she will become a commie, then they break up and she starts dating an ancap and will do a total 160 on her beliefs
>>727655>Of course in here in Europe it is something "different" but not to the point that having sex with someone with a different skin colour is that much far apart from having sex with someone with a different hair colour.You have no idea what you are talking about. A significant portion of people do comment on interracial relationships. That‘s the case even when such a word like „interracial“ doesn‘t exist in the language of said particular European country, because at the very least they have a term for „black person“ and the prejudices connected to such a notion. It‘s probably worse in the US, but it‘s not true that a differing skin color is treated with as little significance as differing hair color. If you aren‘t a black person in Europe you know shit about how much skin color still leads to experiences with racism to date.
>>727596>>727304Yeah can confirm, for me at least, nothing less arousing than a submissive man. Maybe if he's submissive in a "I would do anything for you, I will follow you to the ends of the earth" sort of way, that can be kinda hot. But also in that text, it's funny how they talk about boorish masculinity vs arousing masculinity. I don't think I've really thought about that separation… I'd say being decisive, insistent, wanting control, a bit possessive and entitled can be masculine traits that I like.
Which also goes to show, do women like dominant men in the sense of being dominated, or just showing a lot of desire and interest like a submissive woman would to them? I think we all just want to have someone who is really into us as the #1 "kink".
Maybe men should stop caring what women want
>>727686Well, what is submissive to you?
And do you believe your sexual attraction to dominant men is primarily due to nature or socialization?
>>727690Is he dominant?
A lot of you all people seem really pathetic. You guys and gals want so desperately to have a relationship that you put yourself in awful situations it makes me feel better than your bunch except for the fact that most of you seem to be perfectly functioning adults with whole careers and social lives. To me it just makes you seem even more pathetic since your bunch could do so much and still be stuck in the muck. Maybe I'm just jealous of some you I don't know I guess we could all do better. I think I mainly come to this place to feel better about myself even if I'm inferior to you people at least when it comes to life experience.
>>727304from a quick look, these statistics just look absolutely ridiculous. what was the sample size? what was the questionnaire?
>nonbinary people<no sexual orientation options
>if femanons can cometh and giveth comments they are welcomewhile men that claim to be open to "femdom" (or at least name certain practices they consider a part of it) are somewhat common, the hard part for me is finding a TRULY submissive guy, one that will never try to force a thing on you (unless we have agreed about it first with thorough discussion beforehand), or feel a need to demonstrate reactionary dick-measuring behaviors in public. an ideal partner would be free of all vestiges of the past, but i suppose i could do with a few remaining in the subject and do away with them myself.
the somewhat common kink of "gentle femdom" is just an edgier name for mommy replacement, and i don't think they're looking for a simulacra of a cold, harsh and physically abusive mother
>>727596selection issue, please stop restricting yourself to pillow princesses
>>726895no, just the men that specifically learn guitar to impress women because they've heard about frontmen being the most popular with groupies
there's nothing wrong with your posts specifically, it's just that i haven't seen another femanon post itt with alunya flag and capitalize "I" only >>727695>selection issue, please stop restricting yourself to pillow princessesWell, how do I identify the right women then? I spoke to a girl active in the BDSM community (she had a bf) and she agreed that women who want to play a dominant role are rare. And I wouldn‘t want to go looking in the BDSM community for that (I only randomly stumbled upon her) because they are probably into extreme things so I‘d be the odd one out.
>>727698>they are probably into extreme things so I‘d be the odd one out.depends on what you consider "extreme things", you could discuss your soft/hard limits beforehand and there's genuinely no shame in doing that
>>727699Shouldn‘t you be in the kitchen right now?
>>727695Men don't select, 90% of us are just opportunists.
>>727755That's how sugarbabies are "submissive".
>>727655I will end racism by fucking your sister and mother
>>727829Mo mother is dead and my sister is black. Not sure how that would help.
>>727853What kind of faggot shit is that? Fuck off.
>>727690>he's now hyperfixated on the new MTG crapI changed my mind. Go for it, you won't be losing anything great when you break his heart. Gaming autists are a dime a dozen you can find a new one who isn't addicted to cardboard crack.
>>727728trvthnvke
>>727755Copium
>girl i like has started playfully teasing me and randomly bringing me little gifts
Feels good man
>>727743this tbh its not even that we sex anything with a heartpulse, its most men would go "a girl that's actually attracted to me" so anything that resembles that easy standart would take the cake fast
chasing not choosing
>>722500>Also, we kissed a lot which was suprising. Probably should not have done that tbh.you ate cum. you are the cum eater
>>726234im curious, how so?
>>727970Is it really any worse than kissing the average girl? My now gf gave the other guy she was seeing head while we weren't exclusive, but I was eating out my schizuationship too.
>>727988Hit it and quit it.
>>727961I feel like since the vast majority of us have to be opportunistic fuckers how can we actually value what we managed to scrape off? She's not what you really
want it is what you
settled for because that is all you can
get. But on the flip side you can argue that people who can pick and choose, have so many options that they never will value any one person since they are easily replaceable.
>>727755that's not what submissive means at all, in fact none of this contradicts being dominant (sexually or otherwise)
for example it's quite common to be physically weak and viscerally afraid of a lot of stuff and still simultaneously lash out/exploit/abuse people if you have an opportunity to do so. if one is also insecure of being physically weak this could result in "having to prove" your "worth" otherwise to cope, lashing out at one's subordinates
>>727992No one has any value.
>>727678>even when such a word like „interracial“ doesn‘t exist in the language of said particular European countryThe lack of a term for that is pretty much what my point is about.
>it‘s not true that a differing skin color is treated with as little significance as differing hair colori did not say that. Read again.
>If you aren‘t a black person in EuropeI am.
>>728036>The lack of a term for that is pretty much what my point is about.Shut the fuck up, you misleading cunt. Saying „well uhh that‘s kinda what I was talking about“ makes it sound like I merely reiterated your point when I addressed and refuted it. There can still be a stigma for natives dating black people even if the European country in question doesn‘t have a term for interracial in their language. Interracial as a term likely emerged in settler-colonies because of repeated and close contact with many black people. Countries who don‘t have such a history will not have a term for interracial, but European colonialism and white supremacy spread ideas about black inferiority to neighboring European countries. Therefore white-black couples can experience ostracization and even without a term like „interracial“ existing in those countries. Ask any black person dating in Eastern Europe or Southern Europe.
>i did not say that. Read again.Stop splitting hairs you bitch. Your point was that it is treated similarly insignificant as if someone had differing hair colors.
<You: Of course in here in Europe it is something "different" but not to the point that having sex with someone with a different skin colour is that much far apart from having sex with someone with a different hair colour.
<Me: it‘s not true that a differing skin color is treated with as little significance as differing hair color >>728038>Ask any black person dating in Eastern Europe or Southern Europe.My last 3 girlfriends, in reverse-chronological order: Russian, Czech, Serbian. And, as stated previously, I am black. Do not have to ask anyone.
The rest, arguments you would reply with "misleading" and such. The one point I cannot allow you to reaffirm is that I somehow stated that Europe is some sort of "interracial" paradise.
Now, do you thing and cry some more.
>>728040>The one point I cannot allow you to reaffirm is that I somehow stated that Europe is some sort of "interracial" paradise.No where did I say that. Your claim that differing skin colors are treated with as similar insignificance as differing hair colors is what I pointed out, which is retarded enough. Seeing that you are referencing outdated memes it means you have rebuttal.
>>728042>Your claim that differing skin colors are treated with as similar insignificance as differing hair colorsI never stated that but if I point that out, "misleading".
>outdated memesPic related.
>>727989>Is it really any worse than kissing the average girl? My now gf gave the other guy she was seeing head while we weren't exclusive, but I was eating out my schizuationship too.im not sure but i would've not done that if i was you, especially with a hooker. the risk of getting an ist is through the roof, thats why we (usually) dont kiss nor give them head. i reccomend you do a check-up just in case
>Hit it and quit it.thought abt that but i dont think shes down for casual sex nor i think i got enough mental health and social battery to deal with the consequences for a quick pleasure (shes too nosey and tiresome some times). might do it if im desperate enough, idk
>>728016isnt that normal…?
im autistic and i wear a mask cause i get sick. for some reason this girl at my work avoids me a lot and ive been freaking the fuck out. its def low self esteem but the absurdity of it just is driving me insane. idk what i did to maybe get the creep factor labeled on me. i did have a small crush admittedly but ive also gotten the message of no interactions. the avoidance isnt even a problem its just trying to pinpoint where i went wrong in the first place thats driving me up the wall. as best as i can recall my interactions have been somewhat normal and minimal but it still drives me crazy(of course i could be wrong). one solution is that shes just really shy and we dont have overlapping shifts that often. i think thats just the best explanation but regardless im just gonna be avoiding her best as i can. of course im paranoid about my self image but i know that.
>>728097>im autistic>its just trying to pinpoint where i went wrong in the first placeShe just doesn't like you because you're autistic. A lot of normal people will have that reaction when they realize you're actually disabled not quirky internet "autistic".
>>728097either shes germaphobic and shes scared because of the mask or you gave creepy vibes and now shes avoiding you
>>728102or that
>>728032Probably just read/watching any of the horror stories coming out of furry cons?
Does anyone else feel like years of singlehood and Internet access have increased your standards for looks to unrealistic levels. I look at average women on the street with partners, some above average, and I think to myself, "Dude, I would not fuck her with someone else's dick". I've only been laid a handful of times and they were all average, just a long time ago.
>>728120My standards have gone down especially when it comes to weight. But not by a huge amount, I think I'm experiencing some kind of male biological clock stuff, all I want is to knock someone up.
>>728111i *want* to be the victim of the horror stories and i hate that i wasn't.
>>728120MANY SUCH CASES!>>728126>biological clockyou're being spooked anon, call the ghost busters
curious, what was your weight standard before in terms of body mass index? or body fat percentage if you must
Is it wrong that I'm starting to take a more conservative position on birth control?
Note: I'm a woman and I do NOT want birth control or abortion to be illegal. Far from it. But what I mean is, personally I'm starting to realize why birth control is a problem.
My boyfriend got snipped right before he divorced his ex-wife (they had three children together) so this was a bit before we met. When we first got together I loved the fact that he couldn't get me pregnant. I was even more attracted to him on that basis. However, now that we've been together for a few years I'm starting to feel empty inside. It's like sex with him doesn't mean anything since we can't create new life together. I never thought I wanted children before, but even so just being intimate with my partner doesn't feel as wonderful as it did when we were first together, because we just fuck quickly and that's that. It's not like I can ever spontaneously get pregnant by him.
One of the arguments I see against birth control over and over (especially in the early Christian writings) is that it makes sex empty and turns marriage into a relationship of prostitution whereby the end goal is lust and pleasure and not the procreation of children. I won't take it that far, but it does feel that way sometimes. Am I wrong?
Man sex havers can't even enjoy sex. It's over
>>728244spooked or self-destructive risk-seeking, call it
>>728245Other way around. Sex is a one sided transaction, something that women give to men begrudgingly.
>>728120Opposite. Doing a computer science degree turned me from having far too high standards in high school (probably biggest regret of my life) into a much more open person.
>>727912haha thanks Anon I appreciate that.
>>728250Imagine telling on yourself like this lol
>>727755Get stronger uygha
>>727728This is exactly what I was complaining about with women. The "most common type" of straight woman is like this
>>728505same with most of straight men that falsely claim to be "submissive" but unlike submissive straight women they aren't even slightly into being penetrated
>>728510Because being submissive doesn't automatically entail being penetrated. Otherwise a dominant woman having sex with a man would automatically be submissive if he has his penis inside of her. So it's not about that, it's about who leads and the way they do it.
Starting banging an OF model and anybody who says it's for simps is a retard. There's nothing for satisfying than boning somebody that tons of online losers thirst over but don't get to touch.
>>728550this is true but you'd think at least they'd be open into trying pegging, smh
>>728569I'm gay and while I enjoy being both dominant and submissive I'm an exclusive top. I just don't like how butt stuff feels. That doesn't mean I won't get along with a dominant power bottom.
>>728569I sincerely don‘t see what a woman gets out of pegging. It must be purely psychological.
>>728575>doesn't know about double sided dildos and/or vibrators inside dildoseven if you use a "generic" one in pegging, you still have sensation in your crotch going on and pressure applied to the clitoris
>>728574>dominant power bottomsounds a little horrifying for me to deal with but if you actually enjoy those, godspeed
>>728566My current GF does non-nude OF and I kind of agree. I mean it's weird that middle aged men from the Midwest are like asking her to step on their balls in chat for exorbitant amounts of money, but it's also hilarious. I am learning a lot about how desperate some men are. It's truly pathetic and I wish all of these men would just find robot women eventually. That would be more dignified than whatever the fuck this is.
>>728589>I am learning a lot about how desperate some men areyou think that's bad, i just discovered financial domination, i always thought sugar daddy/mommy roleplay was jerk behavior "ohh i have more money than you sweetie, open your legs i own you" but i never thought there's an actual kink whereas the richer one is the submissive to the poorer partner, how do you possibly get off on being a paypig whom a woman chats with saying "you're a pig, you're my bitch, pay me to prove it..buy me a gift" i hope people in findom atleast fuck good
>>728584I see, I didn‘t know that.
>>728592I just don't get it even in a kink sense. "I'm so superior to you that I will… beg for your money.", it just doesn't follow.
>>728589Robot women is the solution for everything.
>>728632That guy kinda looks like me. Minus the shaved head, tattoos and I weigh less
>>728566>>728589True… I'm friends with a woman who does a niche fetish on OF. She's a wonderful person and I have no doubt she loves her fiancee very much and in her words "she never shows anything below the belt" anyway. She's smart enough to know making money for being pretty and entertaining weird fetishes won't last forever. It's kinda funny to think that degenerates are bankrolling her dreams of a pretty "trad" lifestyle too. We had a good laugh about it last time we ran into eachother.
>>728671>>728589In my case I'm topping a very cute twink that has an OF and he's literally using the proceeds to buy cute outfits that I pick out to fuck him in lmao. Not gonna lie it's kind of a power trip.
>>728569What’s even the point of pegging other than making the guy get anal relapse or whatever it’s called when your rectum literally falls out of your anus
>>728601Whatever OF whore came up with that is actually a genius and should be recruited by an intelligence agency’s propaganda department. All they have to do is say “pay up piggy” to some gooners on Twitter and they print money, and most of them aren’t even that pretty, I don’t know what psyop they did to create that culture but it’s a masterwork
The only thing that frustrates more than being frustrated is being frustrated by attractive women (I’m incel)
>>728754I really fucking hate attractive women, and I don’t know when this became the case.
>>728781There's still pleasure without the prostate, you think girls don't enjoy pooping? Cmon.
>>728244you're probably just bored. refer to the OP pic.
But I do have to be honest, I think having a vasectomy would make me feel like less of a man a little bit.
>>728821>But I do have to be honest, I think having a vasectomy would make me feel like less of a man a little bit.what's the exact reasoning behind that?
>>728822I mean, I would not be virile, in a literal sense. I don't really want kids but it's exciting to think that I 'could' get someone pregnant yknow?
>>728742I feel like it's not really them that created the impulse, it's just our fucked up consumerist society that makes people equate money with sex
>>728823>I don't really want kids but it's exciting to think that I 'could' get someone pregnant yknow?…is it also exciting to think that you 'could' permanently disfigure someone when driving a vehicle? i'm sorry anon
Sex is degeneracy
>>728827It depends on the person
>>728829true, but i'd much prefer subjecting someone to "regular" mutilation than to accidental pregnancy
>>728827Having kids is the whole biological reason behind sex. Look I didn't say it was logical but sex isn't logical. As the song says 'you can't have no fun with an unloaded gun'.
Also, as for the car thing, clearly some of the appeal of driving a car fast is the feeling of danger, let's not pretend that it isn't.
>>728832>As the song says 'you can't have no fun with an unloaded gun'.in this particular situation it's
only your partner who gets the bullet, assuming you're the cis man. your risks are much less
even if you're rawdogging random sex workers trying to speedrun every std% it's not comparable in the vast majority of cases
>clearly some of the appeal of driving a car fast is the feeling of dangerin very crowded traffic or completely alone on a highway during the night?
>>728835I didn't say to never use birth control in any circumstance, I'm not retarded. Having a vasectomy doesn't protect you/your partners against STDs anyway. Look it's not as if I'm really getting off to the thought of ruining my life for this nut (well maybe a little bit) but just want to be a virile breeder. I mean what do we call someone who is pathetic; 'impotent'. What do we call something that doesn't work; 'neutered', and so on. Why would I want to be that exactly (unless I got off on that as part of a sub/humiliation thing but that's different)?
>>728757For me it took a few years to develop probably around 25. Now I'm 39, not everyone is going to make it. I love watching myself get filtered out in slowly in real time.
>>728851What do you mean 'make it'. You're alive aren't you?
>>728852I was referncing a meme. "ngmi", "we're all gonna make it bros", and so on, it's not about just being biologically alive. I'm here to watch other people live and me to flail and fail at all my attempts to change my lot.
got two women vying for my attention but I don't like either of them that way back. also one of them is not taking the hint and trying to get close to me at parties and such. women aged 35+ act like incels
>>728965>one of them is not taking the hint and trying to get close to me at parties and suchFuck I wish I could experience this
>>729045
>Are the women ugly in their looks, demeanor, hygiene, or skill set?
one is far too tall for my tastes. the other has kids. I don't mind kids I think, but I also haven't had any kind of relationship so rushing into that is a bit much. I'm 20 years behind everyone else in these things. now she's acting needy which is a huge turnoff
I'm meeting enough women now that I can wait a bit longer for someone more to my liking to show interest
>>726856Just fuck him lol it's fine.
>>726856you're both adults
also this is solidifying my theory that women get thirstier the older they get lol
>>729103"Women are like dog doo, hear me through, don't interrupt
It's just the older that they are, the easier they get to pick-up
I'd fill the generation gap, clean the cobwebs from her rafters
Old hens would rather put out than be put out to the pasture"
(jk jk I love you 30s anon)
>>726856>all those (you)sYou people are genuinely retarded.
>>729109Are you implying she's not a woman and her story is fake?
>>729113Because pretending to be a woman and posting sexual stuff on anonymous IBs is a long time tradition for sexless guys longing for attention. Has always worked. Give it a try. Talk sexy but politely, as if you actually want sexual advice from a bunch of guys who have never seen a vagina IRL and there is no better place to do it. Success is guaranteed.
That said, whether that particular post is legit, no idea. Could be. I myself do not care and if the subject is interesting, I might join the discussion.
guys my pussy is so wet right now.. I’m a real woman with a real woman body. what could I possibly do right now?
How do I get bad bitches? I‘m a proper guy even when I am not trying to. Everyone says I sound smart, formal and logical. I‘ve been called a gentleman a lot of times, which is bewildering to me. That‘s probably why I am not getting girls who are bitches, who are the hottest to me. The women I‘ve most often attracted are either soft and feminine girls or intellectual and ambitious girls. Then there are some few odd ones. Attractiveness varied. So what do I do? How can I get a tatted, mean bitch who looks like she would bite me during sex?
>>729113girls are a weapon of the bourgeoisie
>>729158The most deadly weapon
>>729157
Nah
>>721306Yeah and those that hate gamers for picrel are retarded.
100% they're subhuman fiction readers
>>729156>tatted, mean bitch who looks like she would bite me during sex?Fun (anecdotal) fact: most ladies I have been with who cultivated looks that screamed "wild" were often pretty dull in sex. I dare to say they wore those looks to compensate from being so average or below in other things.
The best in those aspects, on liking and being rough and open for whatever in sex looked quite inoffensive with their clothes on.
As an example, one of my wildest experiences in that aspect came from a lady who had a very boring job at a bank and presented herself as pic related in terms of expression, posture and clothing.
Maybe you are not looking for the right signs.
>>729164Oh no, I‘m aware of the very true stereotype of the unassuming girl being kinky. No, it‘s the looks and personality that turn me on, not the expectation of what they are actually like in bed.
>>729165>it‘s the looks and personality that turn me onOk, got it.
Well, with those looks and that public attitude you mentioned I found mostly around the punk-hardcore scene.
>>729175
>have fun fighting off legions of orbiters, simps, side-pieces
I am not the one looking for that.
>>726864>>726885“Age gap” problems were there’s less than three decades is not that big a problem.
The problem isn’t youth, it’s more the cultural expectation that society imposes on young people.
There are more dysfunctional people over twenty five than under.
>>727992This.
People like to complain about “too many choices” but then will complain about “lack of diversity”.
People just are too lazy for self-value.
They always wanna emotionally leech off of others.
>>723801Update: no ick in sight, all we do is say cute things to each other and fuck for hours every time we hang out. She invited me to her birthday party and her friends approve, it seems. We were chatting and she joked about a couple's Halloween costume (>implying)
Anons she's like constantly horny and cums even from just penetrative sex. I didn't believe it at first but I don't think she'd lie about it and she has pretty strong involuntary reactions. She's very instructive, and will explain exactly how she likes it and how she doesn't. Almost dommy. I found myself eagerly doing things I'd never done before, like eating her ass. She got me to fuck her throat while she lies down on the bed. I inadvertently opened her sex toy drawer once, and confirmed: she is a terminal gooner. She said her biggest problem with her ex was that he couldn't keep up with her sex drive. (From what I can tell, he was depressed and undiagnosed autistic)
Aside from sex (though it's very important to her), she's very literate, social, and has a lot of hobbies. I find her charming and fun to talk to
Things that I *don't* like:
> She's a bit of a turbo lib normie. Her entire career revolves around idpol. I can tell she thinks I'm a 'tankie'. I click with some of her friends, though> She's 32 and I'm 30, but our sense of humor can be very divergent. She sends literal reaction gifs and shit> She's an office clerk aspiring dance teacher, and I'm a phycisist with a doctorate. I feel like I have to "mask" some of my interests around her> I was planning on moving to the US because more/better paying jobs, but she wants to stay in Canada> She's intimated that she wants kids someday, and given her age, that might be pretty soon. I was hoping I could find someone 2-3 years younger than me because I want more time to decide/be sure/build a strong relationship first etc. I don't want to risk ending up a divorced dad.> Seems like she's historically been a WMAF couple, and I see that as a bad sign - I'm nigerian. Maybe not her type?I had decided after my previous relationship was that I would stop dating normies. I decided that I want someone who shares my politics, humor, and will geek out with me about my interests. But I she's getting to me anons I think I'm faltering in my convictions
>>729103Women don’t get thirsty as much as they want even more male approval after youth.
>>728498Not exactly wrong answer but it reeks of copium
>>729131Who cares if they're not really a woman, it's not like I'm giving them money, it took me like 30 seconds to tap out a post. You can't just call people simps for talking to a woman lol.
>>729212Unlike the other assholes I will say that I‘m happy for you Anon. But moving to the US is a horrible idea.
>>729212Just chill. Quit overthinking. All seems fine.
>>729229>You can't just call people simpsWhich never happened.
>'I'm so lonely :('
>match with woman on tinder
>she is fat but pays attention to me and would probably treat me right if I put on the effort
>'ok maybe I'm not that lonely'
I guess this is the purgatory where men who look kinda good and have no social skills or friends go
>>729251i ghosted the two or three matches that fit that description, yeah they were sweet and had a good time. i probably would not have ghosted them if they had sent me more messages, so it's on them, i shouldn't have to insist, they're fat.
>>729256I get what you're saying and I agree but also you are here so you don't have much of a leg to stand on. I guess beggars can't be choosers but then again that goes for them too.
>>729260This.
It’s why we will always have loneliness and estrangement in the dating market.
People are not customizable like cars or personal electronics.
People have preferences but are unable to physically or psychologically change their persons.
>>729109>>729131This, but…..
>>729132This also
>>725717If you judge men by their sexual market value, you’re no better than the chuds who judge women by their looks
>>725834Wrong wrong wrong
Morally obsessing over young adult sexuality is a sign of immaturity, midlife crisis, etc
>>725834>nobody should date before sixteenHelicopter mom victim projects his delayed maturity
Everything else is also trash.
Young adults should be free to date any one of legal age.
Saying otherwise is infantilism
>>729263Ugly women buy cats and write fanfics. Ugly/poor men shoot up everyone at Shart-Mart.
>>725834I date 16 to 19 year olds despite being well into my twenties. God bless Europe.
>>725834spooks, I will fuck anything that looks good and doesn't land me in jail, fuck you
>>729251You're kinda describing me. I could get a gf, but she'll be a desperate slob or an incredibly boring 5/10. I'm not socialable enough to want to put in effort into a relationship unless well motivated (she's actually attractive). Still don't like it even if it's my "choice".
>>729326Idk how you tolerate women under the age of 25. Hagmaxxing with 30+ year olds has led to much better mental health for me.
I want to suck a trans cock but I don't want to risk getting an std, I know for sure that trans girls are having way more sex than straight girls
>>729338Germany.
>>729331They can be annoying, but their immaturity is overall endearing to me. My sexual and romantic feelings are kind of paternalistic.
>>728840>ruining my life for this nut (well maybe a little bit)except that you're not ruining
your life whatsoever, you're doing that to your partner only
>I mean what do we call someone who is pathetic; 'impotent'. What do we call something that doesn't work; 'neutered',"we" being breeding-obsessed reactionaries?
>Why would I want to be that exactly why should you even care what spooked reactoids think; unless you're one of them of course? personally i don't think castration/sterilization is anything humiliating, in fact i'd wager it's the exact opposite
>>729212>She's very instructive, and will explain exactly how she likes it and how she doesn't. Almost dommy.basedbasedbasedbased
>She's intimated that she wants kids someday, and given her age, that might be pretty soon. I was hoping I could find someone 2-3 years younger than me because I want more time to decide/be sure/build a strong relationship first etc. I don't want to risk ending up a divorced dad.if you're interested in continuing this relationship, please tell her upfront that you're worried about time and future prospects, as soon as possible. she should understand
also 2-3 years younger doesn't seem like it would give you (or her in this case) any advantage in terms of time, too short
>Seems like she's historically been a WMAF couple, and I see that as a bad sign - I'm nigerian. Maybe not her type?i don't think this matters much if she's into you now ;)
>>729251further proof that most, if not all, self-described "involuntarily celibate" men are completely voluntarily celibate in reality
>>729384
ok and? doesn't change that "incels" idolize those manwhores solely for body counts as if it was something good
>>729369
I don’t have a femdom gf.
If I did, it would have to be in a shota x onee -San reality
>>729386
I don’t think the problem is “different era”. This Tucker Max guy was a honest outlier o
>>729382
The sad truth is, people don’t want freedom, they just want someone to make happiness for them instead of doing it themselves.
>>729368
Fair point, but I also think you comicalized gender behavior too much.
Have you ever been in ghettos or machismo spaces?
Men are just as hive minded. They just simply resort to antagony to feel like they’re “special”
>>729375
Age numbers are an overrated and often incorrect indicator of social and bio psychology.
It’s funny how society pathologized youth for any slight flaw while not doing the same for senescence.
If age did beget maturation, war and crime wouldn’t exist past age eighteen
>>729377
>>729376
Funnily enough, people like to quote brain development to discriminate against young people but evidence shows neurocognitive functions decline after mid twenties.
It’s all fear of aging. That’s why people wanna extend adolescence through the twenties
Why did the mods delete the new thread?
>>729328Going for what you can get would make things easier for you when it is time to go after what you really want, in that case.
Are you the son of a Gen X single mother? Honest question.
>>729542“Fatherlessness” is an overused excuse for male dysfunction.
A lot of these shallow hive minded males they all had male figures in their lives.
They had dads, uncles, grandpas, etc.
The male elders just simply impose their dead-and-gone generational zeitgeist onto male youth.
Also, “obsession with fashion” isn’t inherently feminine.
There’s a difference between having an eye for being dapper and wasting hundred dollars on latest edition hip-hop sport shoes.
This idea that masculinity is supposed to be antithetical to self-beauty is part of the machismo problem.
Yet ironically machismo is obsessed with fashion but more in the “trad” sense than anything.
>>729366Posts like these stay up?
>>729549Mods should just delete every other post just because.
>>729556We should fire the whole mod team and turn this place into a patron-run place.
Seriously
These mods are either weak willed or vindictive, mostly both.
>>729549Because that is the official /leftypol/ position: Racism, misogyny, transphobia, whatever is kosher as long as you're targeting the right people.
>>729560>the right people They think anyone who disagrees with them is “right wing”
>>729546>machismo is obsessed with fashion but more in the “trad” sense than anythingI beg to differ. It applies to a reinvented form of machismo, one analog to the "trad wife" trend.
>>729562Have you ever seen old gentlemans product adverts?
Or how in tribal societies, high vale men wore their respective ethnocultural dapper fashion.
>>729549Do you think right-wingers deserve respect?
>>729502Nah, my parents are married and they are both boomers.
>>729568Respect is a spook.
Just another form of sociophysical control.
>>729546>“Fatherlessness” is an overused excuse for male dysfunction.Well in this particular case it's true. YNs are what happens when you put the spirit of a woman in the body of a man.
>A lot of these shallow hive minded males they all had male figures in their lives.True, I think certain societies and cultures as a whole are certainly more feminized than others. Look at Asian cultures, also notorious for domineering women and absentee fathers, even if they're still living in the same house. What I hear about Japan, the dude barely shows up and when he does the woman dominates him, so they're practically raised fatherless.
>>729582I mean, maybe hive-mind is too pejorative. But that's the nature of women, women are built to adapt to whatever social group their thrust into. You know that women are naturally much better at learning languages than men? For 10s of thousands of years women are taken into this social order or that one as they're taken as spoils of war. You know they say in our genetic record, during the neolithic, that we can see that there was 1 man reproducing for every 20 woman or something like that.
I think that's also why there is this whole issue of men feeling out of place in modern society, because society is a woman's natural playing field. They're built to do all this gay triangulating, trend-chasing, social games and shit.
And speaking on the father thing, what would be a good or natural relationship from father to son? I think naturally the father would take his son under his wing and take him on his hunts, or teach him his trade. That's the natural positive relationship with a father. The father takes on the son as his disciple as he starts coming of age.
(Sexist idpol) >>729212i envy you
>I was planning on moving to the USi'd say that's a bad idea but you do you
>>729587>I think that's also why there is this whole issue of men feeling out of place in modern society, because society is a woman's natural playing field. They're built to do all this gay triangulating, trend-chasing, social games and shitYou’re sounding like a typical right wing solipsist.
Modern society isnt gyno-cratic in the slightest.
It does coddle women but it’s because it’s MEN who ABSOLVE women of their own transgressions rather than making them reliable stable adults.
Also, what is your definition of a woman?
Is it a human female in her teens and twenties and early thirties? Or is it a female human over thirty-five.
Men are subconsciously hebephilic in their impression of women.
Young women get more sympathy than older women.
That is, if said young women are light-skinned, slim, curvy, cutesy-mannered, and agreeable.
Young women whom are none of those things are treated as defective.
Society is not a playing field exclusively for women. Only solipsism’s like yourself think so.
If men were to be removed from the earth, leaving women behind, you’ll see how “natural” the playing field is.
Blame chivalry, not feminism.
In fact if anything, feminism is the prodigal daughter of patriarchy
>>729582>Well in this particular case it's true. YNs are what happens when you put the spirit of a woman in the body of a man.What is YN?
And what is “putting a woman in a man’s body”? Why do you equate femininity with masculine defection?
Masculinity and femininity are not mutually defective.
Feminine defection is not “masculine”
>True, I think certain societies and cultures as a whole are certainly more feminized than others. Look at Asian cultures, also notorious for domineering women and absentee fathers, even if they're still living in the same house. What I hear about Japan, the dude barely shows up and when he does the woman dominates him, so they're practically raised fatherless.Irony is, masculinity prioritizes submission to authority as proper.
Also, Asian cultures were ruthless to women. Footbinding, neck-stretching, etc
Also, Asian culture promotes submission as natural for both genders.
And Asian cultures are notorious for domineering dads as well, not just moms.
Absentee fathers are because of overworking.
>>728795>I mean, maybe hive-mind is too pejorative. But that's the nature of women, women are built to adapt to whatever social group their thrust into.That’s because men infantilize them
>You know that women are naturally much better at learning languages than men? Because women are over assigned in social roles especially as receptionists so of course. And especially since schooling is more lenient with girls than boys.
They say women are terrible at depth perception and math and driving.
Yet most of my math teachers were women. Most of my bus drivers were women.
>For 10s of thousands of years women are taken into this social order or that one as they're taken as spoils of war. They were also killed en masse .
>You know they say in our genetic record, during the neolithic, that we can see that there was 1 man reproducing for every 20 woman or something like that.Maybe because women die in childbirth? Also I need evidence that a minority of men reproduced. Again, miscarriages, infanticide and record-blotting and even disowning.
>>729587>And speaking on the father thing, what would be a good or natural relationship from father to son? I think naturally the father would take his son under his wing and take him on his hunts, or teach him his trade. That's the natural positive relationship with a father. The father takes on the son as his disciple as he starts coming of age.If you read history, you’d know that it was mainly village elders who taught boys and girls their respective gender-maturational roles, not the parents solely.
Also, no offense, but fathers shouldn’t be allowed to raise kids by themselves, especially sons. They often abuse or neglect or smother them for having personhood.
(Fathers coddle their daughters though)
If I was left in the hands of my own dad for tutelage, Id have to kill him, kill my self, or have him kill me.
Also, most fathers are naturally terrible life coaches anyway by themselves.
The same things they condemn you for failing state the same flaws they have.
>>729614>Maybe because women die in childbirth? What? That would have the opposite effect wouldn't it.
>Also I need evidence that a minority of men reproduced. Again, miscarriages, infanticide and record-blotting and even disowning.The evidence is in our genome.
https://www.sciencealert.com/neolithic-y-chromosome-bottleneck-warring-patrilineal-clans>Around 7,000 years ago - all the way back in the Neolithic - something really peculiar happened to human genetic diversity. Over the next 2,000 years, and seen across Africa, Europe and Asia, the genetic diversity of the Y chromosome collapsed, becoming as though there was only one man for every 17 women.
>Now, through computer modelling, researchers believe they have found the cause of this mysterious phenomenon: fighting between patrilineal clans. >>729614>They were also killed en masse .Sometimes, but if you actually read history, you'd know it was common practice to take slave wives.
>>729616I don’t live in the ghetto, I merely visit there for weed and pussy.
Also, it depends on what geographic region
The ghettos in the boonies are not as dapper as in the city.
And southern ghetto folk tend to be more oblivious and unable to retain their money compared to northern ghetto folk
>>729619There’s been previous science publications that said blacks and Asians had smaller brains.
There also were science publications that said that dinosaurs had feathers.
There also were science publications that promoted spontaneous generation.
>What? That would have the opposite effect wouldn't it.And yet, it was common.
Why else did men take multiple wives?
>Sometimes, but if you actually read history, you'd know it was common practice to take slave wives.Probably because those women were young, fertile, and maybe virginal. If said women were past their late thirties and already had kids, they’d be killed and the kids would sold off or sodomized.
>>729156As someone who has hung around bad bitches, you don’t want none of that.
They’re not as badass as you think they are.
They’re pushy and mean but in the selfish way.
The only good bad bitches are law abiding punk fashion girls who are helluva actresses
>>729700Yeah why not. The more women drive off men the sooner we could decouple ourselves from women. Men and women should go their own ways if they want to
>>729700She's mad at her ex. Next.
Am I fucked as a 33-year-old virgin man? I've never seriously pursued romantic or sexual relationships largely due to a total lack of self-esteem and I've managed to fuck up any opportunity where a woman may have been interested in me due to my terrible anxiety and awkwardness so now I feel almost alien as a man in his 30s who's never really been on a date or even kissed a woman. I worry that if I ever did date a woman she'd think I was weird or an incel or some shit.
I don't know, posting here solely because I don't feel comfortable posting it anywhere else.
>>729707im a bit older and in the same boat. Ive just channeled the sexual frustration into a hatred of all american women specifically.
>>729707I think once you reach 30 without ever dating or having sex you'll probably need to do something more extreme to get any. I'm 41 and have never dated or anything. I'm way beyond a late bloomer
gf came over and fell asleep instantly. she says she's been feeling bad "because she has no friends" and its not about us but she seems really distant. why do i only end up with women more mentally ill than me???
>>729708I'm aware, but thanks anyway.
>>729710I may hate society, the media, and God, but I don't hate women as a whole.
>>729710I guess I can get used to it as long as my subconscious just gives up.
>>729717>I'm aware, but thanks anyway.I'm just fucking around. But real shit. Just don't tell people that. If you have to, fucking lie. I really am against lying, but people are fucking judgemental and if I told you to tell the truth to them expecting positive outcomes I'd be lying to you.
>>729707>Am I fucked as a 33-year-old virgin man?And no, I don't think so. I mean, what held you back all these years? Obviously the main thing is doing something different. Obviously your situation won't change unless you do something different.
>>729719Think about it like a job application and interview. Are you going to tell you interviewer you've been unemployed since age 18? No. You know what time is.
>>729718Nah man I get that, sorry if I came across like an ass.
I could lie I guess but I don't know that I would want to enter a relationship with someone I have to lie to. Maybe though.
>>729719>I mean, what held you back all these years?For the first half of my life it was a crippling lack of self-esteem where I thought no woman would ever like me. For the second half I guess it's still the lack of self-esteem as well as becoming maladjusted perhaps. Imageboards have also made me weirder I think and I'm definitely more neurotic.
Also I just have no idea how to meet women as an adult.
>>729726>Imageboards have also made me weirder I think and I'm definitely more neurotic.Same…. yet here I am, a leftypol oldfriend.
>>729729Tbf, every social media platform is probably making everyone weirder. Pick your poison.
>>729726>Also I just have no idea how to meet women as an adult.I keep saying, to the shut-in guys is they should focus on making more friends first. Just try befriending people. If you can't handle making friends with random people, there is no way you have the social skills to date.
>>729732And if you have friends, they will try to set you up with tgeir single friends often.
>>729732Fair enough, though I've never been good at befriending people either.
I'm starting to think I was destined to be alone.
Hi /srg/ im here to ask if im the asshole
>be living with gf as a bum, no job, gf works and makes about six figures. doesn't go far because canada
>we're playing minecraft, a beta mod
>it's actually going pretty good. this is her first time ever playing the game
>we find diamonds on the first day
>i reside in-game about 400 in-game meters away; this is like a three-minute journey across a waterfront and around a bend into an inlet, basically.
>gf made house next to spawn
>gf has spent almost entire session of like an hour and a half digging to the bottom of the map, creating her own little mineshaft in the process
>i decided to create a new home for myself about 800 in-game meters away, which would be an about six-minute journey from where my gf resided
>finish house, very proud of it.
>decide i want to show gf house before pushing to invite her to see my house
>gf arises from her house
>this is where shit goes down
>it's midmorning in-game because the in-game clock tells me [we can't see coordinates unless that someone has a compass, or in-game time unless the player in question has a clock]
>also, the sun goes from east to west
>gf has to basically go north to the coast, head left/west, and then bank right under a little land-overpass to where my base is.
>she's being chased by a creeper; in-game enemy that will destroy her and her shit if it touches her, so she has to run to the shore.
>this is fine - but if she goes south she'll hit another shore and may go there with no idea where she's going and little way to find her way home. it nearly looks identical
>the only way to avoid this is to look up at the sun and see what direction it's heading in, because you can actually see it move from east-to-west in real time.
>we acknowledge she couldn't do that because of the creeper, but when she got to the coast and was under the safety of the ocean like 20 seconds later, she didn't do this
>this is my first piece of advice to my gf, and even though she was given such, she ignored it. ok. whatever.
>she fucks around and sails around what I presume to be the southern coast. gets fucking lost. ok.
>i suggest to make a map, she begrudgingly does. ok, second piece of advice is taken, thank u
>she keeps fucking around and can't find her way home. she gets out of her boat and goes on-land
>it's been like, 10 minutes, night falls and I decide to go to her house and sleep to skip the night
>all the while im not playing the game, im just waiting for her to find her way back. i even changed the meet-up spot in-game from my house, to her house, to make the process faster and easier.
>im getting annoyed, i get up and go to her and try to help her. I'm obviously approaching with an annoyed tone. I suggest to retrace her steps and she says she doesn't remember. I let out some exhausted groans and whinging
>gf reaches for power button of computer it's like 11:30 I wanted to get off when she saw my house but ok
>hard shuts-down pc, may have destroyed the server files in the process. part of me prays they weren't because i like playing minecraft with her on that world and part of me does so I can exemplify that she acted immature and out-of-line and consequentially destroyed something we both like, simply… to be pissy??
>we have a modest argument over this as gf decides it's time for bed, brushes her teeth while i desperately try to explain that she kind of did wrong me here
>she basically tells me to fuck off and goes to bed as i stand stunned
thank you for reading now to preemptively defend myself
<why u mead is only a game
this is something my gf did say to me [in spirit]. the game and circumstances may not have a lasting bearing on our material lives, but the people behind the things that transpired in the game continue to exist. what happened in the game was mostly our choice, and our responses to what happened are reflections of ourselves- they literally *are* ourselves.
<ok so what did she even do to wrong you
the fact of the matter is that I wanted to do X [see my shitty minecraft house] with my girlfriend, while my girlfriend either did a really shitty, borderline malignant job of upholding her end of X - or my gf wanted to do Y [fuck around in the woods], and didn't communicate that with me, and escalated the situation.
she ignored my advice except for making a map - something which she already had hitherto but lost because of her first experience dying to a monster and losing her items because she couldn't get them back in time. she got extremely mad when i was getting frustrated that what was supposed to be an eight-minute jaunt to show her something i was proud of turned into a fucking ordeal, featuring the ignorance of someone who unironically thinks she knows more than others [which to be fair, a lot of the time, she does.]
notwithstanding is the fact that she really did hurt my feelings by just raging out at me and going to bed. this is the first night in a long, long, long time i haven't said "i love you" before we gone to sleep. what hurts more is that this is another fight in a series of daily arguments we've had for the past week and a half. and this time, i think i'm actually… not the one in the wrong here.
im mostly consoling all of you to make sure i have a right to push for an apology and recognition that she kind of did make the problem worse, because if i do that and she escalates than it may put the relationship into jeopardy.
>>729700I don't avoid women. but I do deny them my essence. women see men, and they seek the essence
>>729753Tldr. At least you've had sex and that's all that matters
>>729700This is why I don’t listen to white female pundits anymore.
How to actually create a Tinder profile without giving half-way thru because it all feels meaningless?
>>729710It’s the same for under 22 tbh
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