/siberia/ - Off-topic

>>783074
Most of which may blow up in his face.
And even if he gets lucky chances are it may be some gold digger tryna find some prospects to leech him out of.

Let’s be real. Some people are doomed romantically from their youth.

>>783074
Yet meanwhile, older people whom have already had a shitload of romantic success cry about not being desirable anymore and are given sympathy

>>783087
If I was in your shoes, I would not waste a cent more on college.
I would go straight to a trade program.

>>783089
>If men are too chickenshit to face rejection, why do we face it all the time?
you sound like a bitch tbh. Learning to face rejection is a skill and you don't have it, so odds are you haven't been rejected enough, probably for lack of trying. it would be easier for OP to just ask her out, get rejected and move on. He won't do it and instead will mull about the imaginary possibilities because he's afraid of ripping that band aid quickly.

>>783102
Sorry you've got such a pessimistic outlook Anon, but I see no reason for it.
>>783087
>but I feel their is nothing to lose by trying to make a few more attempts to get something to work because of how much I have emotionally invested into it
Bro I'm begging you to just tell her you like her and ask her out. She's not stupid, she's going to see through tactics like that and know you're interested in her, and I promise she won't appreciate sneaky attempts to spend time with her or get her attention. People appreciate honesty, so stop all this pussyfooting around and be direct. If you just ask her you'll get a clear answer and then you'll know for certain if she's worth this kind of effort and anguish. Otherwise you're just wasting your own time and hers. I thought autists were supposed to hate all these normie mindgames and favour direct, explicit declarations of feelings and intentions.

Jadey Anh

>>783108
>I thought autists were supposed to hate all these normie mindgames
oh no dude autists do these mind games way more than normies, especially because they rely on it way more in lieu of being able to interpret social cues

It's over.

everyone here lowkey putting the pussy on the pedestal

I was just kind of thinking, is feminism inherently third world?

>>783108
So are you saying that I should send a text asking to meet her at the coffee shop next week during finals? As much as I want to do that, I don’t want her to file a HR complaint, and I think the less risky approach is to send her a couple texts throughout the summer, see if I get some positive responses, and then try to arrange a meeting with her at the start of next semester (or even less risky, hang around the coffee shop hoping I run into her and can successfully start up a small conversation and maybe buy her a coffee), because she is super shy/insecure (especially around men) and I don’t want to scare her. Part of what I like about her so much is that her personality gives off such a harmless/innocent vibe combined with her being so cute, she almost seems like a real life anime character (I don’t even watch much anime, but I have picked up a lot of knowledge about the aesthetic by being on this website, lol) or a life-size plush doll version of a pretty young woman. I know I sound like a retard/creep but their is something really special about her but deep down I know that I am not good enough for her and I eventually will sadly have to accept that, but I am still coping that it will work out. Think of the dumb and dumber meme where one of the titular characters says “so your telling me their is a chance”, lmao.

>>783172
> I don’t want her to file a HR complaint
Anon…

ew gross

>>783183
I assure you this is not a lolifag

>>783172
>So are you saying that I should send a text asking to meet her at the coffee shop next week during finals?
I'm saying send her a text telling her that you like her and want to go on a date.
>As much as I want to do that, I don’t want her to file a HR complaint
She won't, and even if she did there's no basis for that. It's not harassment to ask somebody out once. If she says no and you politely and respectfully accept that answer and drop it, you'll be fine.
>I think the less risky approach is to send her a couple texts throughout the summer, see if I get some positive responses, and then try to arrange a meeting with her at the start of next semester (or even less risky, hang around the coffee shop hoping I run into her and can successfully start up a small conversation and maybe buy her a coffee)
This is stalker behaviour and way more likely to result in a complaint and a finding of harassment.
>but I am still coping that it will work out
You're just making yourself more miserable by dragging this out. Ask her out, if she says yes then yippee. If not, then you can at least start moving on and stop worrying about it.

>>783108
> Sorry you've got such a pessimistic outlook Anon, but I see no reason for it.

You have no right to speak when this board constantly dismissed the future because of “muh AI ruining everything “

>>783107
You’re just saying this because it’s a man. If it were a woman you’d be all coddly
Stfu

>>783267
if i had anon close i'd coddle that retard and take him out somewhere fun

>>783152
there must be at least one branch of liberal feminism that sees male chauvinism as a backwards retrograde feature of the third world that needs to be eradicated through the imposition of liberalism, by force if necessary, especially against the muslim world, especially against iran.

>>783298
We need more appreciation for friendship or fraternal recreation.
Society dismisses it as shallow/juvenile.

Yet, people reminisce on their fraternal-recreational phase, even paying thousand of dollars on toys that evoke said memories of that phase

Guys.
Serious question.

Do you think that worldliness and modest assertion would help in dating prospects?


Society tells young people to be themselves. Yet, young people who are themselves are parronized and discarded. That is if they fit the stereotype of awkwardness and innocence

>>778019
Wanna know something?
There’s a lot more abnormal middle class/poor people than abnormal rich people.

>>780065
>I had sex with this one woman and she had such a good time she wanted to keep having sex with me in the future but than she shit-tested me and because I didn't prove I had the 'killer instinct' or something enough so she would have given up completely great sex just because of some minor thing like that
Had an almost identical thing happen to me a couple of years ago, I'm pretty similar in the regard that I think a lot of women are a little disinterested in me since while I'm a decently socially well adjusted person (outgrew most of my autistic chuddy ways and habits in my early 20s), am allegedly pretty funny and a decent person to be around (or so I am told), I just don't have any kind of "edge" or anything like that to me that would make most women find me sexually appealing, I suppose it's nice that I'm not a manlet but I've got quite a skinny build and can't gain any kind of muscle mass if my life were to depend on it, which adds to the "unmanly" vibe that I probably give off. I also don't really care about status or buying fancy clothes for myself or anything like that, I'm quite content just doing my own thing, reading about whatever autistic interests I have or spending time in nature, which I think combined with the lack of any kind of "masculine energy" or whatever you want to call that shit makes many women just think I'm a little too boring. Not that it really matters though, I'm either too busy with work and studying to go out and meet anyone or too tired from one, the other, or both. Anyway enough of my silly blogpost in response to another blog post, I'm off to sleep before getting the only action I've gotten in the past almost 3 years, namely getting fucked over by my employer on a daily basis.

>>783513
rich people literally engage in ritual cannibalism
giving someone unlimited power will fuck with their head

>>783521
A minority of them do that.
You’re referring to the super rich.

>>783585
Are you saying most of the super rich engage in behavior that's seen as extremely degenerate? Are the poor and middle more degenerate than the rich? Is your point that it's a bunch of sour grapes against the rich for being rich?

>>783592
I’m saying that in terms of population based on the classes

There’s more poor people in The world than rich
And there’s more rich people in the world than super rich.

That’s what Im saying

>>776801
You know, we have posts on this board calling to ban porn because “muh misogyny” meanwhile you be saying crazy fuck shit like this

And yet mods haven’t banned you yet

>>783255
I may sound like a retard (I am autistic, lol), but what is inherently wrong with casually hanging around the coffee shop to maximize my odds of running into her (I know she goes their regularly) so I can start some casual small talk with her and maybe buy her a coffee? I don’t see how that can be considered “stalking” as long as she is fine with talking to me, and if she is not interested in conversation I will stop trying to talk to her (a stalker would keep trying even if she was not interested), while if she wants to engage in conversation it can become the basis for a casual friendship and eventually a possible relationship.

>>783600
Just give the girl a call up and ask her if she wants to hang out a bit at the coffee shop

Please don’t act like a romance movie character.
You’re not Matthew McConnahey

>>783600
>I may sound like a retard (I am autistic, lol), but what is inherently wrong with casually hanging around the coffee shop to maximize my odds of running into her (I know she goes their regularly) so I can start some casual small talk with her and maybe buy her a coffee?
Well, there is the possibility that she might suspect or deduce that you're only hanging around there because she goes there, and she may find that creepy. But even leaving that aside, you're just dragging this out unnecessarily. Either she likes you or she doesn't. It's pretty clear that you're scared to get a definitive answer to that question because you're afraid that she doesn't, so you're hovering in this grey zone to avoid confronting a potentially disappointing reality. There is no benefit to this. At best, the kinds of maneuvers you're describing will have no impact on whether or not she's interested. At worst, it could come off as creepy and hurt your chances. If she's not interested, she's not going to change her mind just because she bumps into you at the coffee shop. If she is interested, then she'll probably say yes to a coffee date. In either case, this pussyfooting is pointless. You need to just confront your fear of rejection and get a clear answer so you can stop fretting and either move on or actually start seeing her.
>while if she wants to engage in conversation it can become the basis for a casual friendship and eventually a possible relationship
I mean I guess man, but that seems more like a recipe for the friendzone. I don't know this girl, so maybe I'm way off here idk. But based on what you've said so far, I think you're just stalling and would be better off just going for it.

>>783600
Dude this is so painful to read. I'm sorry bro.

>>783600
Sure, why not?

>>783600
>I don’t see how that can be considered “stalking” as long as she is fine with talking to me
That's one way to make her not fine with that very quickly. If she as much as notices your existence, she knows what your deal is and she decided she won't bother already. It's possible she doesn't and that idea didn't even cross her mind. In that case it's especially not happening.

>>783619
So your saying if I walk up to her and say “hi, how are you doing, are you finished with your finals yet, I just finished mine, could I buy you a coffee, etc.”, she won’t want to talk to me, unless it is a pre-planned interaction?

>>783624
You make it sound better than waiting at a cafe for hours on end, looking around every few minutes, very obviously waiting for someone, then getting a few disinterested if polite comments before she goes on to buy her coffee and specifically sit at a different table. That's the best case scenario, you could also just go there for three days and she doesn't show up, or she could get stalker vibes from you and tell others and now everyone thinks you're a creep. It's just not a good time and not something anyone would respect. I would just write her off but if you really want to, then just tell her.

>>783624
We're saying that dragging this out is a lot more likely to hurt your chances than help them. She's probably already made up her mind about whether she's interested in you. Asking her out won't determine her interest, it will just reveal what she's already decided. So just ask her out.

>>783172
dog you've already tried like 5 times and she wasnt interested.
like put yourself in her shoes, if a guy you liked was trying to talk to you, would you just ignore him or give basic ass responses?

>>777914
Had a very rich woman attracted to me in college (her parents were millionaires I believe, they owned a castle in France) At first we were getting on well, and we even had a date planned out, I told her about a few family story (nothing weird really, but that shows my social origins) and the day afterwards she got really angry at me, eventually angrily asking me why I was talking to her and what do I want.
We didn't talk to each other afterwards, but she kept staring at me, eventually I sent her a message asking her if she wants to talk and make peace, she awsnered telling me to leave her alone and that she didn't have to tell me anything.
I replied to her that I didn't have the energy to be angry at her, thats things could never have worked out between us because she never viewed me as her equal and that our morals aren't compatible because we don't live in the same world.
(didn't stop her from staring at me the rest of the year) My opinion is that these people aren't worth bothering with.

>>783685
i would completely humiliate myself for the chance to date some rich hoe. i dont care about dignity, i want money

>>783687
They'll know, You'll always end up dropping something that shows you're lower class, I'm a well read and well dressed guy and she still knew I was lower class because my mother migrated. There is nothing you can do, some detail will always leak and they'll latch on, she was obviously paranoid I was into her for the money, these people don't view us as equals, they have been raised since their childhood to view us a lesser, they think we're as greedy as they are because nothing else can justify what they've done to the world.

>>783687
Socdem moment. Kill a classcuck today

>>783694
how is it classcuckery to scam rich ppl

>>783695
Is humiliating yourself for trests a scam? Sounds like dog behavior to me

>>783687
You will get better results if you beat a rich woman while being sexual about it. You do have to be hot for it to work, of course. Submissiveness is an ick for more than 9 in 10 women.

>>777584
nothing wrong with sexo with fat girls but likely no, the best sex is always going to be with women who are sexually comfortable, fat girls are very awkward, and unless you're willing to lead every step of the way, it's probably going to be an uncomfortable experience. this is how i can tell those memes are kinda larp, and the guy drawing these has never fucked a girl, fat or otherwise.

>>783306
depends on age gap tbh, an older women may find a young awkward lad alluring, but a young girl will definitely find an older, or even similarly aged awkward guy to be cringe as fuck. act your age.

>>783706
>act your age

People say this but what does it really mean?
We see it’s possible for kids and young adults have natural cynicism and intuition about worldly things.
Peoples behavior is shows by how they are treated.

Society actively smothers/patronizes young people from birth and so it’s no wonder why young people are awkward/innocent.

Also, older women aren’t gonna tolerate awkward young men as sex partners. They’re just gonna treat them as adopted sons.

>>783778
It's probably just another way of saying act worldly or mature. You could always just lie but being worldly could probably make you a better liar anyways since you'd have more general experience to build off on.

>>783817
I don’t say no, but you do agree that society seems to have a problem with worldliness in young people.