Simp Wars Edition
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408 posts and 52 image replies omitted.>>785845alright then, Koreans are the black people of white people.
i feel so lonely im watching the JAVs where they go on a date at the beginning
>>785997this is adorable, I'm glad you two love each other, this is beautiful, man. Love is beautiful, man <3
>>786018she loves you, she really meant it, you should take her word at face value, and also she'll be entirely faithful to you, so you don't have to worry about her chosen line of work or any possibility of infidelity. you're good bro.
>>786018You're an unlovable chud. Any woman that says that to you either is related to you, most likely your mother, or is trying to extract some money or labor from you. Does that help?
Guys, what is wrong with me? My life has been defined by cycling stretches of either constant anxiety, profound emotional heaviness, or just a hollow dry feeling of apathy, with nothing tangible affecting these mental states. All fundamentally lacking in any sense of joy, which I know I'm capable of feeling, as I remember feeling it a long, long time ago. I think it has to do with my dream of making a great work of art, a dream that I'm kind of watching die in real time, in at least some small part due to my fear of inadequacy (but also a dead-end day job that saps my time and energy). I think life at its default is a boring, dreadful thing, and great pains must be taken to make ones life worthy of being lived… I understand that intuitively and I do work on it but it feels like I've failed to make meaningful progress despite my best efforts.
Also I've gotten really aliented from people, but that's not even a concern to me anymore. I find it funny but I guess deep down I'm worried I have lost touch with my humanity.
Pic unrel.
>>786036sadly this thread only gets replies when youre a chvd spouting retarded shit
>Guys, what is wrong with me?i dont know the solution bc im in the same boat lol
I want to forgive my gf for the rocky start we had, but she will never own up to her part of it and it makes me feel really bad. I took mushrooms with her hoping it'd help but she went to sleep and I'm thinking about shit that happened almost 2 years ago still. Ngl sex on shrooms felt so mechanical, like I was watching porn that didn't really do it for me. She was faking a lot which turns me off, but once I got into the groove it was fine.
>>785705God I wish that were me, I would get sucked off by so many twinks.
>>786046I'm desperate to suck a cock it's been years since I did but I'm a sides masc gay guy
There's this young hot guy at my hood market that is usually overly nice to me I'll try to get his number
The bad news is she doesn't like me. The good news is I'm free and finally feel like I can move on and stop wondering. Even hearing no is better than being stuck spinning my wheels.
>>785840lol
>>785834>Tbh, I think a lot more women than you'd hope for are willing to cheat on their boyfriends. One time I matched with a girl on Tinder who called her boyfriend on the phone while we were talking. She was clearly annoyed with him and she was embarrassed when I pieced together that she was talking with her boyfriend. Having been essentially in that guys position before multiple times, it pissed me off so I ended the interaction shortly after.thx good post
>>786036Therapy? Or just read Agamben ig
>>786128I know, anon. I am lesbian but i get no girls either. I am a gaycel. I also wish samodivi are real. Seeing straight couples anger me
>>785834
>That's society at large. I agree that women 30-45ish are underrated. And as I get older, I find myself consistently appreciating (attractive) older women. They're so much more interesting and accepting. Wrong. Women over forty are underrated in sexual attractiveness.
You using thirty thru forty five as the definition of older women is what Im taking about.
Women are still lusted after in their thirties and early forties, its just that theres not a lot of moral obsession over them.
Also the idea that older women are ore interesting and accepting is also a romanticised stereotype.
Older women aren't automatically more empathetic or sympathetic of flaws in romantic candidates.
Its just that older people get less flak for discriminatory behaviors.
>But also, the only college aged women who show interest in me are hypergamous brokie hambeasts so.Maybe because that's the only way they can get some because theyre not slim?
>Tbh, I think a lot more women than you'd hope for are willing to cheat on their boyfriends. One time I matched with a girl on Tinder who called her boyfriend on the phone while we were talking. She was clearly annoyed with him and she was embarrassed when I pieced together that she was talking with her boyfriend. Having been essentially in that guys position before multiple times, it pissed me off so I ended the interaction shortly after.This is why its better to be a music/movie star basking in the adoration of fans rather than to have a bf/gf
>In a pornified version of the world where emotional intimacy didn't exist, this would be great, but it disgusts me and really erodes my faith in women. Maybe the real pornification is the assumption that emotional intimacy means automatic fidelity.
Also its not good to look down on women just because they can demonstrate having the same flaws as men.
Don't blame women, but rather chivalry.
>>786152I need this explained to me.
>>786170womyn be shopping with your mone
How is the "motherfucker" insult supposed to be interpreted? Is it about incest, like "you fuck your own mother!" or is it about being someone that fucks other people's mothers? Like, as in "you fuck your homies' mothers wtf?!"
>>786150>the idea that older women are ore interesting and accepting is also a romanticised stereotypeI'm literally describing my lived experience. Obviously not literally all of them are this way. This is true for when anyone literally describes everything. Constants don't really exist in the real world.
>Maybe the real pornification is the assumption that emotional intimacy means automatic fidelity.There's a reason healthy civilizations don't have polygamy (which realistically would always manifest as polygyny).
>Don't blame women, but rather chivalry.I blame women because I actually want to fuck women. I don't bother expressing my dissatisfaction with men because I don't fuck men so I don't care.
You are a simp and psuedbrained.
>>786179>ChivalryThat's just a white night fantasy, women only want the most handsome men they can get their hands on and to breed endlessly with them, because that's what conservative society wants you to do.
>>786178It depends on context. If they like you then it means you fuck other peoples mothers but not their mother and that's a good thing because you're a player. If they don't like you then it means you fuck your own mother. And if you like fucking your own mother then it doesn't really matter either way.
>>786179>You are a simp and psuedbrained.How am I a simp?
Especially when you said shit like this:
>I blame women because I actually want to fuck women. I don't bother expressing my dissatisfaction with men because I don't fuck men so I don't careThat’s more simpish than what I said.
You’re projecting your frustration onto women because you cannot have your way with them as conveniently as you’d hope.
No different from these radlib feminists who think of men as urban jesters for female amusement.
>There's a reason healthy civilizations don't have polygamy (which realistically would always manifest as polygynyMonogamy doesn’t mean long lasting stability. People often break up and get new partners.
>I'm literally describing my lived experience. Obviously not literally all of them are this way. This is true for when anyone literally describes everything. Constants don't really exist in the real world.You’d think so. But with the way everyone romanticized older women in as automatic sexual empaths.
And even then, their definition of “older women” usually means mid-late forties at most
>>786181why are incels so retarded. women dont care that much about looks you can just go outside any day of the week and you'll find ugly dudes with good looking women
>>786184Those ugly dudes have to compensate in other areas.
I wish this board would stop promoting this sympathetic lie that ugly men are plentiful in romantic prospects
>>786184>why are incels so retarded. women dont care that much about looks you can just go outside any day of the week and you'll find ugly dudes with good looking womenYou're actually retarded and don't seem to understand the concept of trends. Yes, there are exceptions to trends, but that doesn't negate their overall existence. Additionally, there's piles of white papers on how attractiveness influences everything we do as humans. You're fucking delusional to think that anyone is agnostic of attractiveness. Like the other guy said, those men are compensating in another way. Even if they weren't that doesn't negate the broader trend.
>>786181Chivalry is literally a white knight fantasy.
It was just an overrated bro code for medieval warriors that eventually evolved into men being courting partners for women
>>786186>women only care for looks, except for all the ones that dontriveting
>>786189if you're not married to a 4 or below then shut the fuck up you hypocrite.
>>786189By your retarded logic we can never discuss any trend because exceptions always exist in human behavior. I'm sure you always use this logic when it could be in favor of men. You're a bitch and a simp
>>786189Thanks for willfully misinterpreting me.
Women don’t care only about looks but let’s be honest, they’re a primary factor for mate selection.
People need to stop denying looks as exclusively a female burden
Besides, most people, men and women, are plain in all their faculties.
Their looks, wit, assets, talent, and even hygiene are all plain
>>786191This.
The same people who complain about lookism are often the ones who would never intimately associate with said victims of lookism
I've been wondering recently if befriending butch lesbian types might be the best route. Not because I want to have sex with them, I don't. But because I won't be sexually attracted to them and also because unlike males I won't see them as a threat. Unless they start mocking my manhood as I'm not a particularly handy or dominant male then I wouldn't be able to stand them. Maybe this retarded and idealistic. But it's something I've been thinking about.
>>786184True. But hetfoids may also go for rich guys though. It's way harder for me because no one else is a lesbian
>>786197Hello there. But you're going to have to get to Varna though.
>>786197>But because I won't be sexually attracted to them and also because unlike males I won't see them as a threat. This is willful discrimination and it’s gonna backfire on you.
>>786197This logic you have is purely idealistic.
>>785771How about no?
What about if we all only pursued people over eighteen? None of this “half your age plus seven”
>>786187>>786193but the "exception" IS the trend you dumbfuck
you watched too many looksmaxxing fags on tiktok and think the average man looks like a greek statue. no. the average man isnt very attractive, yet they have no trouble getting into a relationship. looks genuinely are not that important, stop coping
>>786218You're confusing plain looking men for ugly men.
Looks aren't the sole factor but they're a primary factor.
Of course the average man isn't that beautiful compared to looksmaxxer but that just means they have to have other assets working for them
>>786218The average women isn't very attractive either, average people are average. You're not saying anything.
>>786197If you know some cool ones go for it. Alcoholic lesbians are fun to party with and they make perfect wing-mates.
anyone else feel physically sick when you get intimate with someone? i dont want to have sex, ever.
>>786257I puke when I see naked adult women.
>>786036As
>>786138 said, therapy is always worth trying.
In my experience, life isn't about making achievements, though we all have goals and milestones we'd like to accomplish. I think life is more about finding happiness and good companionship along the way - yes, it'll be great to look back on the moment you finished and shared a big project, but it's also important to have moments during that process that you can look back on, too, like finding the right angle for a photoshoot, or having a good conversation while drilling screws into the walls of a setpiece.
My advice? Shoot the shit with friends, or find a new hobby or show to enjoy, or just have a good laugh at something silly. Pain and apathy can only claim their glory over you if you refuse to let them fade away - happiness is always waiting around the corner.
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