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263 posts and 60 image replies omitted.>>811477Non binary doesn’t mean specifically mean only feminine traits. Also cis women can grow beards or stubble
>>811395Women will only flock to men with resources just for convenience not out of any genuine sexual attraction
But if said men with resources are good looking they’d choose him over an ugly dude with resources
>>811459Florida isn’t all ex convicts living swampland
Also, LA is overrun with druggies
>>811463People on here look down on working class people. There’s been posts referring to proles are inherently reactionary retards that need guidance from “enlightened” revolutionary leaders
>>810152I wouldn’t take any word from imageboards as fact especially when it comes to dating
>>811522I acknowledged this in my write-up.
>>811526It can’t be worse than the advice you would get from women or normies.
>>811525I never said "inherently reactionary".
>>811662True. This is why all advice should be compared based on the demographics you give them and reality
>>811673It’s the common sentiment
Feeling physical unease around my gf lately. We had a massively rocky start and I thought things would get easier, but I still think about it sometimes and I never trust her in my gut. I'm trying to figure out if I can really be with her against my intuition and it sucks. Lately (past year) has had a few bumps, but intellectually it seems great. Can't help but feel I'd throw something good away if we broke up.
>>807266My ex did some mandatory PLA thing in college. She showed me a photo she was kinda cute in her uniform. Overall she just liked the rising quality of life in China. I'm sure they have lefty-nerds there too, but most CPC supporters who aren't members are just about the results. Sometimes I miss her. She treated me better than any of my other gfs, but she wouldn't let me hit raw or give head consistently. That with escalating demands on my time and wallet built up too much resentment for the relationship to work out.
As I get older I feel more seething resentment towards everyone. I also feel hornier but further away from ever getting laid ever. Of course I don't try and that's obviously a big part of it but I feel that if I did my resentment and bitterness would boil over that I'd make a scene in public that I would never be able to live down which would just make me more bitter and resentful. Maybe I should spend less time on the internet or something or at least spend less time on relationship advice places when all it does is make me feel worse. Although honestly I've been a fairly bitter and resentful person since I was kid so I can't really see things changing much whatever I do.
Should false rape accusations warrant the same severe punishment as rape?
My wife has plenty of experience with large African snakes if you get what I'm saying 🤣😂😅
>>811778>She treated me better than any of my other gfs, but she wouldn't let me hit raw or give head consistently. That […] built up too much resentment for the relationship to work out.What the fuck am I reading?
>>811738I really hate this common assumption that going out to clubs on occasion automatically means degeneracy.
Most people aren't all gonna fuck their brains out or get wasted at the clubs.
Also "smoking weed all the time" can be the same as smoking tobacco all the time or occasional after-hours drink
>>811787People always say that your childhood and adulthood selves are different people, but that seems to be a purely relative thing
For alot of people like us, we were miserable in our youth and are still miserable and will continue to be into senescence
>>812016>I really hate this common assumption that going out to clubs on occasion automatically means degeneracy.Why?
>Most people aren't all gonna fuck their brains out or get wasted at the clubs.They do. Those things are complementary goods to those nightclubs.
>Also "smoking weed all the time" can be the same as smoking tobacco all the time or occasional after-hours drinkSo? All three of these activities is degeneracy commodified by capital.
>>812036>Why?Because it involves dopamine. I never find much stigma against bars. It's only dance clubs that get alot of stigma
>They do. Those things are complementary goods to those nightclubs.Only in the more seedier ones is it more common.
>So? All three of these activities is degeneracy commodified by capital.Degeneracy is when there's excess
>>812040>Degeneracy is when there's excessCapital always demands excess. The alcohol industry wants you to be a drunkard degenerate because it means you’ll buy more alcohol.
>>812012There's more to relationships than just sex, but sex is high priority for me. I think if I'd met her now it wouldn't have been a big issue. I bet if I'd brought up getting on birth control while she still loved me instead of building resentment and letting the relationship fall apart it could have worked out. She could cook like nobody's business, and we were more politically aligned than any westoid girl I've met.
>>812042Actually you're wrong on the second sentence.
Consumer industries don't want addicts. Addicts are unreliable money sources.
They want functioning devotees.
Alcohol companies make more money on moderate consumers buying a cold one a couple times a week than an excessive consumer
>>812043It's probably for the best it didn't last
>>812048>Consumer industries don't want addicts. Addicts are unreliable money sources.Capital absolutely wants addicts, provided they have money. Addicts have inelastic demand, which means they’ll pay much higher prices to avoid withdrawal. I thought that was obvious in my last reply.
>>812052There's so many industries that depend on whales it's insane. It's well known that the luxury restaurant industry lives off the occasional spendthrift that blows like 5k in overpriced wine
sorry I need to vent a bit, not necessarily looking for advice but whatever.
so my gf of +11 years has been on antidepressants for about 6 months and she got leave from the doctor so she has been home this entire time.
And honestly, it's really to starting to piss me the fuck off. It's been months and she is always at home, she might as well be part of the decoration. Not to forget I was holding her crying daily more then a year before that. I've been supportive all the time, shut my mouth and went to my shit job everyday, paying for everything, taking care of the house, garden and doggo.
I get it's hard for her, I get that it's on doctor recommandation, I really want to see her better but I just can't anymore, I'm just supposed to fucking plow through every day and doing everything I can to help her, but it's too much, nothing is changing the situation despite her medication clearly working. (have a long history with depression,suicidal thoughts, etc as well). I've never felt this alone in my life, I know I am coming off as a selfish prick but it's getting too much, I'm going completely insane.
Also, ofcourse the antidepressants have completely fucked her sexdrive.
Fuck
I finally got my first nude from a girl and I didn’t even ask for it. This is me with a pointy hat <:P
I finally accepted that I am a volcel. I could get a gf, but she will be trash. That is still a choice I made even if the options are fibroid ridden, hormonally imbalanced, yeast infected, obese single mothers or my hand.
>>812416Look, comrade, I don't know your situation but have you tried talking?
I'm not being condescending or anything, I've needed that advice too. I've bottled up and exploded before over shit that could have been solved if I wasn't too cautious and polite to talk about issues earlier.
>>812416Have you checked the economy lately? Even if she was a goddamn robot designed to only look for jobs the odds of her finding one in the past 6 months are pretty damn low.
I do understand that it feels terrible for you though. My practical recommendation is to be gentle but dominant in getting her to wake up with you, you have a basic (very basic), 'sense' of where she's at as you leave her and then again a
basic check again for small, incremental progress when you get back (this is for you to not get a wrong impression but also to actually practically help her not spiral downwards but rather upwards, back into ability to manage herself mentally as well as economically).
>>812496>Goes online, cant wait to sow division, hurt, atomization at every opportunityYou are a miserable psycho.
>>812502What’s psycho about telling someone to leave a person causing them unnecessary mental distress?
>>812502>her finding one in the past 6 months are pretty damn lowSure, but she can still startat her old job again.
Anyway, we had a talk yesterday and now everything feels even more fucked tbh
>>812416>>812611Friend who married his highschool sweetheart was in the same situation. She was NEETing while he did everything. They divorced. Your girlfriends psychologist is a quack if hes prescribing time off for depression. Sitting around at home is the worst thing you can do. Even a shitty job gets you out interacting with people.
Another grieving process for a girl lost ;-;
>>812689How much does that make? 1? Well you got me beat.
>>812685Honestly, taking time off due to depression is not bad. What is bad is mooching off your spouse who has no other support but themselves
>>812697Maybe that’s a naive suggestion but as far as I know activity is the best aid to overcome depression. Her not doing anything will likely perpetuate the condition.
>>812691Several girls honestly. Why don’t you put yourself out there? Not ending up grieving is arguably worse than never having tried.
Another lonely night listening to dommy mommy crushing my balls ASMR. *sigh*
>>812707Upload the file here
>>812709Sorry, I was just being funny. I actually listen to bratty loli ASMR but didn’t want to admit it.
>>812697Time off is good especially if your job sucks. Sitting at home all day waiting for your partner to come back while you pop SSRIs isnt
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