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I like the idea of bottoming in theory but in practice in kinda sucks ass (in the bad way)

how can I make bottoming actually pleasurable?

jannies should all kill themselves btw
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>>3551
also regardless of gender dysphoria: learn what gets u into a sexy mood
maybe u have a kink that u need to discover

>>3500
>eva
gay

>>1879
How frequently do you have to train Im kinda autistic and won't remember to do it if I don't schedule it

To be lazy you can just imagine being penetrated and orgasm from that.
I'd imagine cock/dildo/finger penetrating me, rubbing against my prostate – feels like as I kinda did it physically.
Still orgasm, bussy twitching, jolts of energy making me have to push my head against the pillow, etc.

Not as good as the real thing.
That makes me see stars and my tetinitus kicking in

>>3559
I just do it right before I fuck. The muscles can be trained to give you better control and a better sense of tightness and stuff, but they doesn't stay loosened except immediately after when the muscles gets tired out.



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Im trying to start voice training but every beginners guide and youtube tutorial just makes no sense to me. Theyll say some shit like "Widen the airspace of your throat while quadrupling your resonance" and then all the comments are like "Wow! This tutorial explajined things so simply for me!" while im just left completely and utterly frustrated and lost. Am I just too stupid?

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Have you tried helium?

I did the 'raising the larynx' thing but it hasn't changed anything. And I don't know what resonance is. I just sound like a gay man tbh.

>>3865
same, I cant even understand wtf a larynx even is besides that its some organ somewhere in the throat, and i also dont know resonance is.

There is unironically nothing more disappointing than a passoid that hasn't voice-trained. I would even say it's worse than a passoid that has gotten SRS.



 

Hi! It doesn't use this or any chan since 420chan went down. Used to view on 4chan, never posted. It's moving to Houston and heard that there was a trans punk scene. It is moving in with its puppy and is desperate to know what kind of housing is available, if co-op or communal living would accept 2, and how to fuckin' socialize at all!! Also, any information about places to be :^) pls spoonfeed it; it's really bad @ research: no socials, don't know nobody

I do not want to reply but will be reading, also deboonk this map :3 thx -Athoc

>>3839
Wait you mean a dog puppy or a human puppy? Also is Houstin in Texas?

>>3839
Sis please don't bring you or your puppy girl to Texas what are you thinking

>>3839
native houstonian here. we do have a BIG punk scene and it is very queer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCqmonjguFQ
this doc is partially at 1810 ojemann (downtown bar/venue) if you wanna cop some local tx recs
in respects to communal living, i know about cohousing htx (https://www.cohousinghouston.com/) and haus (https://www.hausproject.org/) but if ur searching for specific leftwing communes i would try to get a hold of the two bigger anarchist orgs, space city ao and screwston afc
(https://spacecityao.noblogs.org/ and https://screwstonafc.org/ respectively)

>>3848
>>3843
also venue recs. the white swan is a teeny little bar that hosts consistent punk/metal gigs (very cozy though), the end is more of an established alt venue (aka pricier and has bigger bands) and a newer but growing venue is the gay monkey close by pasadena (owned by a couple of punks and primarily punk shows iirc)



 

Starting the first bi thread since nobody else has yet.

Post about your bi panic and shit here.
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>>3834
>what women fear about dating bi men is infidelity
Straight men cheat all the time yet I never see anyone talking about how they fear straight men because of that. It's totally rational and not delusional at all to fear bi men because of the chance of infidelity while never even considering the possibility that a straight man might cheat.
>men fear abandonment and being left for a woman.
The same thing can be said for gay men, just instead of leaving for a woman they leave for another man. Its actually incredibly common among gay men.

>>3835
>Multiple people experienced the same thing!? It must be a universal fact of life then!
lol.
also that pic proves nothing. Of course theres gonna be more bi people in straight relationships simply because of the fact that straight women are much more common than gay men. The statistics dont prove anything about bi men leaving their previous partners for other ones.

>>3836
I don't say it is a universal fact of life, but it can happen, and being wary is Okay, specially if the bisexual male has some internalized homophobia.

>Straight men cheat all the time yet I never see anyone talking about how they fear straight men because of that.

It's because of homophobia, they find it disgusting/emasculating/dirty that his man has had sex with other men.

>The same thing can be said for gay men, just instead of leaving for a woman they leave for another man.

Again, most of them would worry about him leaving them for a woman because she is a woman and she can bring him a family, because he feels his playing years have ended and now he has to "settle down". It is not simply about cheating.

And I guess you are right about the statistics pic I posted.

>>3837
If you are gonna be wary of bi men, then you should be wary of all potential partners too. Anyone could cheat on you or leave you for another. Although I agree you shouldnt date a bi man if they have internalized homophobia.

In general im not really sure where your going with this. It seems like you are trying to justify biphobia, yet you condone women being biphobic since it stems from homophobia? Are you trying to say that biphobia is okay only if your a gay man?

>>3838

Why can't you understand that it isn't a fear to be cheated on for anyone but for being left for a WOMAN because she is a WOMAN who can give him a HETEROsexual relationship and a BIO FAMILY. That isn't possible with a homo (only with extremely high levels of autohomophobia).

>Are you trying to say that biphobia is okay only if your a gay man?

Not at all, for example, denying the existence of bisexuality would not be okay, or thinking they are more prone to cheat, or not wanting to have sex with him if he has touched a vagina (the legendary extremely misogynistic gays radfems like to talk about). Not all biphobia is made the same. A woman asking for STI status of a bisexual man but not of a hetersexual man would be okay too (only if he has had sex with men) (idk if you would consider this biphobia).

>>3824
Biphobia stems from the fact that bisexuality fucks with the linear way of thinking that homos and heteros impose on the world. Homosexuals are monsters who like sameness. Heterosexuals have an obsession with otherness. The obsession with sameness is why homosexuals tend to be narcissistic and morally questionable. Morality is about ethically coming to terms with an 'other,' with someone who is not like yourself. Homos fail at this. Its why they are hostile, misogynistic, and extremely self-centered. Since people organize their entire lives around being straight or gay, then someone who fits neither calls into question the truthfulness of the entire system. Homosexuality and heterosexuality are founded on a negation of bisexuality. And bisexuality can only be tolerated when its a niche thing a minority of weird people do rather than, as history and Freud show, has been the dominant mode of sexual expression throughout most human civilizations. This is the real source of biphobia.

>In ancient greece it seemed like bisexuality was the norm, as being straight or being gay werent concepts yet,

This seems to have been the case in most pre-modern pre-capitalist cultures. In less developed societies like Afghanistan its still common. Something seems to have happened which destroyed it. An ideal society should abolish these kinds of distinctions. In an ideal world, there would be no gay, straight, bi or other buzzwords that chop up society and make us fight.

>>3827
>Honestly it would be so hurtful to be with a man who then lefts me because I am fundamentally not enough for him.
How is this different from any other relationship? People break up for reasons all the time. Since I want children and a family (not just an inverted clone of a hetero family, but an actual one) and a gay male can never give me this, then such a long term relationship is impossible. The problem here is thinking in bourgeois terms that all relationships must lead to a happy mommy-daddy-me nuclear family. In other times and in other cultures, you could be happily married and still love someone else or love someone and its not connected to an idea of marriage. Western culture is fixated on monogamy and the nuclear family, butPost too long. Click here to view the full text.



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Why do people hate pansexuals? Like, im not bi, but ive met some men i would be happy dateing but most disgust me. Same thing for women. Ive also dated trans folks but i never dated anyone JUST for their gender or gender identity, it seems like meaningless peacokcing behavior to me. I like who i like, regardless of what their identify is or anything else. What i dont understand is the hate toward the term, apart from the normal hate you get from being openly queer. Im a closeted pan sexual and i only really talk about this stuff with my partners, who also are almost always pan.

thoughts?
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Im estrogen sexual. Im attracted to people on E

>>2608
Not to be "That Guy"
but the difference between bi and pan is;

pan: you are attracted to people *irregardless* of gender (you don't find gendered traits to be specifically attractive)

bi: you find people attractive *because* of their gender traits, whether it be masc/fem/neutral.

the names for both of them are kind of confusing tbh

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>>2146
>how malleable is orientation and gender identity in adulthood?
Yes
We can make everyone queer or bi (etc).
I came to this "LGBT" thing late (like 5 years into adulthood or more, is fuzzy)
So I will not give out marching orders at this time. It certainly is in the realm of possibility.
Whether it should be done, that's a different issue. We need to think about whether we should in addition to if we could.
>>1297
>attraction to cisgender men and women
Sounds nutso.
I am mostly straight. I have of course jacked it to all sort of trans folk (girlish boys, as well, possibly, is fuzzy).

>>3640
>bi: you find people attractive *because* of their gender traits, whether it be masc/fem/neutral
Gendered traits are not that important.
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>>2146
>So how malleable is orientation and gender identity in adulthood? I've heard of HRT changing orientation before

I dont think hrt actually changes orientation. Most examples of it are just straight or gay people becoming bi when they take hrt, but its most likely that they were always bi but just couldnt imagine themselves with both genders until they transitioned into the body they wanted. The only thing hrt is changing is their bodies, not their sexuality.
>>1297
Im pretty sure that it doesnt have anything to do with whether theyre cis or not. Tons of bi people are trans or date trans people

>>1656
based



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Initially, capitalism worked towards abolishing the family with industrialization. But since imperialism, capitalism is stagnating heavily and capitalism no longer works towards abolishing the family (at least in the imperial core).

It seems to me that the working class must work towards industrializing domestic labor and abolishing the family. But I am not sure how that might concretely be organized. It's not really as self-contained as a struggle for national liberation.

Pic unrelated.

One could argue that the current state of capitalism actually reinforces the family, since we've officially entered such a late stage that most workers think of only two things - labour, and the fact that the meager capital they acquired this way can be used to let their children survive to do the same. At least if their child doesn't literally die of being poor before they die of old age, they can say they kinda sorta achieved something.

It's the last bastion, though. As capitalism descends to ever more hellish levels, one can assume that people will lose the last excuses they had to commit financial suicide by having kids, as it becomes that much closer to actual, tangible suicide to do so.

Am I thus advocating for accelerationism to help end the family unit, along with its traditional effects of causing class warfare?
fuck maybe I don't fucking know, why not
not like it could make things that much worse



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I think I found this meme on twitter. And I thought to myself, is it about transmen?

>body too short or empty

<body too short or empty
>body too short or empty
<body too short or empty



 

Hello /lgbtypol/, when are we going to discuss the RAMPANT ANTI-WORKER OBJECTIFICATION of the maid among the MtF community? Cleaning ladies are real working class heroes and dressing up in their outfits just to be all cute and fem is stolen valour.
And don't get me started on nurses…
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>>2945
I don't think many MtFs wear maid outfits outside of their jobs or when they are having sex… I have never seen a transwoman wear one in public, though I have seen many femboys and gay men wear them.

>>2950
maid outfits are just some overdone anime maymay really

>>2945
>>2950
Maid posting is just fetish shit it doesn't really matter

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>>2948
she's literally me fr fr

>>3015
who?



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My ex just posted her university graduation photos on Instagram and I just want to kms. Maybe I should show off with my graduation pics but like, she would just know I'm copying her. Hadn't felt the pain of love in a long time. I hate this shit so fucking much. I will never experience love apart from with her. What am I meant to do? I'm so fucking stupid this is all because I was too scared to transition when I lived with my parents. She is only into women, she told me after she broke up with me. When I told her I love her she said it was the best day of her life and then a week later it was over and I was so heartbroken because we grew up together and she meant everything to me. And then later I asked if she wanted to get back together and I ruined our friendship over it because I just love her, thats when she said she just wasn't into men. And its all fucked now.

I forgot about it all for years, I got over it. But I have never experienced love since. Nothing like it. My life has been good the last year, I've been politically active and living my life basically, really doing interesting stuff. But all it takes is one picture and I'm fucking back where I was. Obviously not going to talk to her again, I don't want to burden her with this shit. I'm not going to be an annoying ex, just completely out of her life. But I loved her no matter what gender she was. And she didn't love me because I was too scared to transition (even though she knew I was trans). It's just heartbreaking.

Not to say my life is bad or I won't have a meaningful existance, I'm happier than ever, but I'm missing her. I really don't think I can experience love for anyone else. It'll never happen. Nobody is as funny and kind and beautiful as her and I have to live with that. I have everything but a life partner. Maybe I gave this up for political success. I will die at 30 fighting the state or I will win, but there is no romantic love for me, just the love of the masses and the love of my friends, but never this same all encompasing power. I have given up idealism for materialistic love.

Didn't you post about a painful breakup a while ago? You're obviously going through a lot, but i can't help but suspect you're seeing this too narrowly. I'm sure you are still capable of love and will eventually be able to make it work with someone. People tend to be extremely adaptable and you're no exception!

>>3732
>And she didn't love me because I was too scared to transition
did she say that?

>>3732
>And she didn't love me because I was too scared to transition

Bold of you to assume that love has such prerequisites. I don't believe that love has a definite because/reason to happen, because ideally it's a state only exists when it distinguishes itself to the non-existence in all the other things.
The fire grasps your soul in its enthralling warmth, so everything else feels cold.

How can you be sure that her heart had beaten for you, when she told you things like 'she's not into men'

Perhaps you should congratulate her on her achievement?



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I have an idea. I would like to he told if it's, please be brutally honest.
My boyfriend means the world to me, he's my big brick wall of a man, I love him and I love his pretty blue eyes.
He likes being dominated sometimes, I was thinking of dressing up a fascist whilst going for the "you have superior genes as a male and I want to enjoy them" you get the idea, I think he would really enjoy being treated like a mere object by me, but I wonder if this is a bad idea?

Please don't be kind. Tell me if I am being stupid

>dressing up a fascist
wot like Hillary Clinton wearing North Korea dictator clothes?
>Please don't be kind. Tell me if I am being stupid
yall need Jesus to exorcise this degenerate bourgeois eugenics ideology

If you want to do rp with him why not just ask him what he'd like?



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