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Ive always wished I was a girl, and I have been knowledgable that im most likely trans for awhile now. The problem is that I cant just "become" a girl.

Of course i know theres hrt, but that doesnt account for my brain. My brain still thinks of myself as a man. I still act like a man. Im still male socialized. How do I become a girl mentally?
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I once prayed to be a girl to god as a child. decades later, in what felt like a blink, I became more that a girl. Bitch I became a full on woman!

>>3727
Idk maybe just act like your ideal girlfriend instead of trying to grasp 'woman essence'.

idk man if i looked and was female id probably be a girl but im not so im male forever
plus like it's a life of celibacy pretty much since sexuality is about sex so you're only really your biological sex in the bedroom, still worth it though just take your meds and socialize with women in a way where they dont get the opportunity to treat you as a gay pet or anything, basically just lurk a lot and then you can talk later maybe
also start voicetraining because you can talk to people online and get free female socialization

just be yourself dont try to change. if you wanna dress in a more effeminate way do it who carss, but if you start trying to "act like a woman" youre just going from one extreme to the other, there is no way to "act" as a gender

kill yourself and hope reincarnation is real you lame fuck



 

>I’m transitioning/I transitioned in order to treat my Gender Dysphoria, which is a concrete and discrete mental condition that can be empirically verified and not at all a fictitious mental illness invented by cissexist doctors in the 1970s in order to pathologize transsexuality and restrict access to sex change procedures
>I’m neurologically intersex, which is a concrete and discrete neurological state that can be empirically verified, which I claim to be despite never having had my brain imaged, and which for some reason means that I have to take cross-sex hormones
When are transsexuals gonna stop inventing pseudo-scientific justifications for transitioning and instead admit that they transition simply because they want to?
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>>8789
If you don't want to just Google it and open the "images" tab, then I can't help you.

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>>8788
Yeah, so the degenerates for whom being trans means changing your pronouns to (oy/they) on Twitter haven't harmed transsexuals in any way and haven't turned transsexuality into a degenerate idpol subculture of porn-addicted emo-goths in the eyes of normies?

>>8772
>>8776
IMO the real contradiction here is the separation of the workers from the means of production which makes capitalism fundamentally incompatible with cyborgs and transhumanism.

>>8793
this is the common mistake of people in a niche community imagining that normies can distinguish their particular weirdoes from one another. "if it wasn't for those DEGENERATE furries, normies would love us!" - yeah, good luck with that. **furries have only gotten more "degenerate" and yet, their social position has actually upticked quite a lot since the 2010s.*

"muh neopronouns trenders" aren't even the right niche, either. if you look at the insane people who make up TERFism, they've picked up on the existence of autogynephiles and use that term as a slur, they have almost nothing to say about theyfabs. and they're obsessive transhumanist watchers!

p.s. "normies" don't really exist anymore. the mindset that there's a big set of "normal people" out there making these judgements is the same fallacy that centrists make when they decide to eat shit and lose to the right. society is polarized between several groups of complete freaks. anti-trans views correlate with basically every other kind of reactionary view (which are themselves correlated with: being old, being poorly educated, and being male - except in britain.), which is not what you would find if there was a big crowd of reasonable, moderate people who were fine with transsexualism but draw the line at pronouns with an "x" in them.

>>8793
What are you even bitching about you freak



 

> thirdworldcel
> monthly income barely above 1k usd
> recently got an unstable side job and made like $15k over a few months, might make more (not drugs, just got very lucky to randomly get western-level compensation for software engineering gigs)

So now my entire life savings are around $15-20k, I never had such money before. Should I bet it all and go to Thailand to get FFS or at least some androgynous-type of looksmaxxing? I'm not sure which is worse - being a below-average m🤮le or having no financial cushion? Especially given the cushion in question is kinda laughable anyway. I think I can looksmax enough to start collecting simpbux online or just live at some guy's expense.

That's so much money wtf! FFS is worth it and I would get it immediately if I had that money, but if you feel you need it as a cushion then you should hold on to it. I think FFS is cheaper than that in Thailand anyway.

FFS is great, and I highly recommend it, but it isn't going to fix so many problems that you'll suddenly go from seeing yourself as male to being able to make lots of simpbux. It really just helps give an extra push to an existing transition, removing a couple small male signifiers that won't even be consciously obvious to most people. This also means it won't help your mental health hugely if you're down on yourself, because you can easily just trick yourself to not see the changes and then feel like you wasted your money. And that's not even taking into account that you can't realistically recover from FFS alone and will need a patient helper with you while you suffer for the first few days.

I'm very happy that I had FFS, but it's a hell of a thing. You've gotta be sure.



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If trans was actually a mental illness people would treat them much better and fairly.(Rule 15 - unsighty frog)
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The best thing you can do for trans people is blow up Tufton Street.

>>8752
>>8759
>>8761
We would have to start destigmatizing young adults sexuality

>>8763
We already do that when the sex is between young adults, I remember getting sex ed and taught how to have responsible sex in middle school

>>8750
You say this as though trying to subordinate desire to political principle has ever worked. Let me guess, you’re younger than 26?
>>8753
>It isnt rare to rare to see edgy intelligent boys transition and become daft gynoworshipping moralfag(s) at a fast pace.
As an edgy and intelligent young man who plans to transition eventually, this terrifies me. What can I do to avoid this?

  1. Neoliberals were more right than wrong and their biggest problem is that they're subject to many of the truths they themselves emphasized.
To summarize a very long story: free trade and "just let people do things" are excellent first principles in a world where lots of nasty tradeoffs have to be made, markets are efficient on the whole, but in a way that gets more annoying the more intelligent you are, hence why smart people are usually anti-market. deregulation is good, much better than tax cuts, but people who're already rich in the current overregulated world can lobby for tax cuts and against deregulation, so "actually existing neoliberalism" is mostly an ideology about cutting taxes rather than deregulation or even (real) privatization.
(e.g. most Thatcher privatizations did not put firms into the market to compete properly, but into specially created LARP markets created and controlled by the state.)

Neoliberalism can join social democracy and "AES" amongst the ranks of ideas betrayed most by their own chief practitioners. Now that "actually existing neoliberalism" is on its deathbed and we're heading into a much worse world (a warmongering, anti-trade, don't let people do things sort of world, a world with all the downsides of postwar social democracy and none of the upsides…), more people should recognize this fact.

Unfortunately that won't happen because:

  1. Politics today is mostly downstream of personality.
Leftists will not accept these points because they have implications that run contrary to the generally leftist personality. Open-minded neurotics do not want to be told that the chaos machine cannot be beaten by a smart person applying their faculties creatively. Worse still, neoliberals themselves cannot take on this insight because for them, too, it's not about the reality of the situation but about their personality traits. They have a disagreeable streak, a love of saying "selfishness is good, actually" to shock the kind-hearted. That's why they love Thatcher, someone who should be hated by neoliberals with a thousand times the fury that she's hated by communism: because she was a very disagreeable person who spoke free market platitudes even as she ducked every opportunity she could find to actually set the market loose.

This is the number one reason why attempts to pander to members of the global Trump culPost too long. Click here to view the full text.



 

I just met a girl on the street. She had quite a few piercings (even a septum piercing) and she looked a little bit boyish. She wore a flannel shirt, baggy black jeans, a studded belt and Doc Martens. She was really chill and she does animation as well. She likes anime, especially Full-Metal Alchemist. She is the daughter of one of my dad's breeder friends. But it feels unlikely that i would meet her again soon. What would I do?
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>>8219
Not really. But I think opinions of transmascs kind of soured

I was rejected by the 14th crush i had in my life so far. I always feel slightly sick and i can't even sleep. People's voices irritate me more by the day. When babies cry near me, I just want to scream in their face.
Fuck it, i must be the eternal virgin.

>>8729
Sending hugs

>>8729
Do you keep a logbook of your former crushes?

>>8736
No, but i do keep track of them mentally

>>8734
Well, thank you <3



 

>want to learn makeup to fix my ugly masculine face
>have to research and buy an overwhelming fuckton of different makeup products
>realize i have to do skincare and fix my acne before learning makeup
>have to go to dermatologist to get recommended a skincare routine
>says it might not even work for me and it will takes months to tell
>cant even do the skincare routine consistently because of how depressed i am
>mfw its been 4 days since i last used any skincare products

Ill never be able to fix my acne, ill never be able to learn makeup. My face will always be ugly gross and masculine. Ill never be able to be a pretty femboy.
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>>8610
uh if ur american and dont have a job u get medicaid and then they pay for it?

>>8610
>i see it as a lesser-evil to twink death
rather than peter panning so hard you're willing to take cross-sex hormones you should probably just realize all this is a normal part of growing up

>>8610
>because i see it as a lesser-evil to twink death
"Twink death" as its talked about online is basically a myth. Sure, as you get older you'll get some wrinkles, your metabolism will slow, you might gain weight, etc. These changes will occur gradually and at some point you'll probably no longer fit the description of a "twink" (although this can happen a lot later than you think, I've known cute twinky guys in their late 30s). But it's not like you'll turn 25 and get zapped with a ray that instantly turns you into Homer Simpson. It's just aging and its inevitable. Estrogen won't stop it apart from maybe improving your skin a bit and combating hair loss, but that can be achieved with a good skincare routine and anti-alopecia drugs. Plus around 50% of men don't exhibit male pattern baldness anyway, and those that do typically don't start experiencing it until middle age. The point is you're freaking out over something that's A) not nearly as bad as you're imagining, especially if you take good care of yourself wrt diet, exercise, hygiene, and skincare, and B) is inevitable and can at best be slowed down a bit. Stop worrying about it, just enjoy your youth, live in the moment. Otherwise you'll be miserable before you start to get old, and be even more miserable after. It definitely isn't worth fucking with your hormones and potentially permanently altering your body over.

unless of course theyre in denial




 

Being into femboys doesn‘t make a man gay or bisexual. This may sound like a cope to avoid admitting to being either, but think about it.

Men who are into femboys are usually men who are also into women. And what they are into in femboys is a heteronormative presentation of femininity. Such men are usually not into men who look like men. One could then argue this is a preference, but a preference would mean that they are still into men but merely prefer this type of man. This isn‘t the case for men who into femboys though. Of all the people who are male they aren‘t turned on by any of them except femboys. So it‘s not a preference, it‘s exclusivity. Finally, men who are into femboys are generally not interested in sucking dick or being fucked in the ass.

We either conclude that 1) this is bisexuality but a very, very limited form of it with peculiarities that make it distinct from ordinary bisexuals who are attracted to average men, or 2) it is heterosexuality, but a redefined version whose basis isn‘t biology but certain signifiers and presentation, or 3) these men are standard heterosexuals but given enough female elements the gullible human brain mistakes it for a woman and lights up the horny center of the male brain. Evolution did not foresee cute, horny femboys and therefore didn‘t exclude it as a pointless mating option.
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>>5107
Based
Normies will deny this.

How many of the chasers in here have actually touched let alone fucked a femboy?
Also, asinine thread. Stop living your life by the petty constraints others wish to create.

>>8730
Thanks glowanon you've added nothing as usual

indeed theres nothing more straight (derogatorily) than being attracted to anime shit like "femboys"

also whats the fucking point of making a thread about how much of a straight male you are on the fucking lgbt board LMAO you can keep femboys bro

also also these captchas are such a cancer



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https://www.wearequeeraf.com/the-gallae-transgender-priestesses-of-ancient-rome/
The body was too short or empty.The body was too short or empty.The body was too short or empty.The body was too short or empty.The body was too short or empty.The body was too short or empty.
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>>8713
Just cut your balls of lol before honning out.

But yeah thats true too

>>8716
>trans"gender"
>no it's actually transsexuality
motte and bailey

>>7927
true

>>8719
they're not. gender is spooky nonsense and sex is biological stuff

>>8720
Sex is spooky nonsense like race. Gender is like nation, sex is like race. Sex and race are spooky nonsense. The bourgeois family and imperialism are real.



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>HRT before puberty
>HRT at 14-16
>HRT at 25+
The body was too short or empty.
The body was too short or empty.
The body was too short or empty.
The body was too short or empty.

>>8702
not really the sooner u start hrt the taller u will become
because puberty blockers stop bone plates from fusing.

When should i take testosterone?
Great picrel doe, is Rodina a Yugoslav?

And they're all cuties

>>8702
>HRT before puberty
That is not a thing. Do you mean blockers?

Do you think it is possible for HRT alone to change bone structure over a period of years or decades? Long term stem cell re-orientarion. Epigenetic shift.

>>8704
If you are a trans man, then you should be taking it.



 

I'm sorry I'm not a good aspiring faggotran im sorry I'm not a good retard
I'm sorry I dont have interests or fixations or hopes or aspirations
I'm sorry I sit around burning my wrists with ciggerettes and doomscrolling 4chan, rotting my brain cells
I'm sorry I don't try.
I'm sorry I hide so much from all these people that have dedicated themselves to keeping me alive
I'm sorry I'm not helping them back.
I promise I will
I promise I will get a job before I commit,
I promise I will impress all these fuckers and buy them pipes and fuck them in the ass if they want to
But i know ill never get better

Why are you sorry? Your life is uniquely yours. Dont apologize for existing, thats cringe. We all have maladaptive coping mechanisms but it doesn't define us. We’re all just humans having a human experience. I wont tell you “its gonna be ok,” but just know that your life is your own and your choices define it

>>8487
Stop using 4chan.

>>8487
>I promise I will impress all these fuckers

And theres your problem. You owe nobody anything. Stop living for others.

>>8487
eh a lot of people are pretty fucked up and do drugs and crime and bullshit

Anyhow you just have to search around a lot and try a bunch of things before you can make life slightly more bearable and limit the blast radius of your dysfunctions a little.



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