/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>686
read HERner

>>681
I've got a similar thing going on, but it's less that I want to be seen as a woman and more that I just want to stop being seen as a man. Mainly because the people I feel most at ease around don't seem to be very comfortable around men. All the men I like are straight or taken, all the women I like may as well be lesbians. Even the ones who say they're bi/pan are only into women and feminine-enough enbies. Though I guess I can't blame them with the way society encourages cis men to act. Especially nowadays.

I've already started calling myself nonbinary and feel comfortable with it, more than when I called myself a man. I want to start E too, but I don't have a proper support network, so if I get fired or evicted because someone notices I've started growing tits, I'll have no one to fall back on.

>>681
You should transition to further the gender acceleration. This is praxis

>>3636

make everyone as queer as possible and fuck with gender so much that everyone is nonbinary, and something something dialectics something something gender abolished

>>681
understand heavily. I don't like being seen as a man at least partially because of the social expectations that you be an agent of oppression and bigotry and such. but a lot of it is not really "explainable" beyond "I feel much more comfortable in my own skin when I think of myself as a woman and I feel much more comfortable when referred to with feminine pronouns." Gender is weird. Wonder how much of it is tied in with my fucky wucky identity issues that may not be because of a trauma disorder lolol

>>1931
>>1932
>>1933
>>1934
Get a room you two
you two would be cute together

I think I might be mostly gay or like only able to be satisfied in a monogamous relationship with a woman. But I'm in a relationship with a guy again and thinking of moving in together. I don't feel worthy of dating women and feel like a total creep in general, so ig I am somehow more comfortable dating men even if I feel unsatisfied. Also it's really shitty of me if I mislead my bf or see men as less desirable or precious or hurt his feelings by being crazy like this. I am pretty insane in general tho and kinda cope sometimes by being inappropriately flirtatious. Should I just become a monk and live in the forest and let myself become busted and alone or something?
Ok my actual question is wat do relationship wise? Should I break up with him? Give it time and maybe I will chill tf out and sort some baggage or get dumped but it's worth trying?

I'm not sure on which thread to post this but I need to vent and decided to dump it here in case anyone is sympathetic or interested in giving genuine first hand or second hand advice about my situation.


Recently I've been diagnosed with HIV during a health examination and will start taking PEPs this week after going through Third World healthcare bureaucracy, fortunately both of my parents are being supportive and not panicking after understanding how medication works which gives me peace of mind to some extent.

What is keeping me up at night is the way this is bound to affect my dating prospects as a Bi man who doesn't see much success with cis women to begin with but is fairly popular with transgender women.

For example recently I was talking with this pretty attractive lady who wanted to hookup for me to piss in her mouth before I was diagnosed and now is very reluctant about contact even if she says she still likes me and appreciates that I disclosed my status while explaining how becoming undetectable/untransmittable works and being eager to use protection for her sake, after being diagnosed instead of keeping it to myself in fear or ghosting her, just a few hours ago was in a call with her to discuss meeting for talking or having a few drinks together and apparently she won't be able to until next week despite being on vacation since a few days ago I'm not sure if she blocked me on socials or Meta is being dogshit and glitching out.

There is also a second trans chick who also wanted to hook up with me but we just started talking and I'm gonna wait to meet in person for talking and getting to know eachother before disclosing because this whole situation is making me very paranoid about being unlovable even if I become after taking my PEPs for long enough and using protection until and after that undetectable/untransmittable due to stigma

As for how I contracted it, or at least how I suspect it happened, a year ago while living by myself and working a job I fucking hated which made me hate my life every waking hour, I started getting into the party and play scene to cope and went into a 4 days meth binge with two seperate girls where I had unprotected sex where we nutted inside eachother, one which was a sex worker who had cancelled all her appointments to be with me and a few days later after the meth/sex binge I experienced fever, diarrhea and vomiting which I attributed to the drugs at the time bPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>3630
I wish I could help but I don't have much advice really. I think there are dating places for HIV positive people but idk if that's something you want.

stop normalizing boys kissing, homophobia makes for great angst stories

being trans and med is a fucking curse

>>2852
>it actually does grow back stronger
As far as i know it temporarily stimulates hair growth in the area, but does lasting damage to the hair follicle. If the hair you're tweezing is just long enough and ripped out at the right angle, you can actually see it bleed. Speaking from personal experience, i've already killed or whitened most of the hair between my lips and my chin over the course of this year. I've only started doing it on my cheeks and below my chin a few months ago, but it's already thinning compared to my throat and sides. My experience with anti-androgens is that they only reduce the diameter of hairs, not their darkness, and slow growth in every area.
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Are foil razors any good? Rotary electric razors give me bad razor burn so i normally use cartridges, but they’re expensive and also give me razor burn if i’m not careful

>>3138
i use a foil shaver every day and it gets me completely smooth without irritation. Just don't press hard since the foil can deform and then you might get irritation. I use witch hazel and lotion before also to mitigate irritation

>>3138
I bought foil shaver once, it worked ok on face, but was useless for finer bodyhair.

Nothing is a "stepping stone" if that's where you'd prefer to chill. It's just a stepping stone for some people, we aren't all the same.

>>3569
>i feel likd i cant be bigender because people have told me thats just a “stepping-stone” gender
transmeds or something? its best to not be around those types

>>3569
How about just forgetting about gender and be yourself, let others judge you.

why would anyone want to be a boy? they're ugly and smell bad lol

>>3569
>i feel likd i cant be bigender because people have told me thats just a “stepping-stone” gender.
Well that's a spook. Just be bigender if it feels right. If it is at all a "stepping stone" that's only because they'll melt into eachother.

>Just realized Contrapoints did the Tim Dillon bit to a T
Tim Dillon, go on The Mike Recine Show, king!
https://xcancel.com/HBendaas/status/1943410015894687980

>>3279
says the lib

>>3240
she doesnt have a problem with what is going on
>>3279
>quintessential radlib
means evil person

smh

I don't get biphobia, everyone's on a spectrum
Like i'm basically gay but if the hottest woman in the world started advancing and kissing me of course i'd at least try to have sex with her

>>3217
If I put a gun to a gay man's head, and forced him to eat pussy, would that make them bi?

>>3340
That's hot

>>3313
Exactly, right?
I call myself a lesbian, but I am not immune to jackhammer cock. So realistically I'm technically bi. Realistically, surely most people are. Like always, black and white concepts, like gay and straight, mostly exist for the sake of simplifying a more complicated truth.

>>3313
>>3594
But there are obviously different modes of sexuality, e.g. enjoying the stimulation, fulfilling fantasies and fetishes, being attracted to their perceived value or desirability to others, stuff like that. When it comes to actual physical attraction felt toward the other person, i wonder how many people are bi? I think most bisexuals don't have the same kind of sexuality for both genders, where they have genuine chemistry with only one gender. I wanna be proved wrong though

>>3571
Just be a nice and kind person. She might have autism and need to be taught social cues. Be patient

>>3504
This is quite possibly the greatest video on organized transphobic research in the entire world. It honestly deserves to be a book! This is practically a crime thriller. The people who conducted the research on those poor trans kids are utterly sick and depraved. It's so comforting and hopeful

>>3565
As a Marxist I hope someone will build on this and expose the bourgeoisie who have profited on this mass hate campaign

I'm not watching a 5 hour video about something boring that barely anyone cares about. Also take your ads elsewhere.

>>3547
>I would like to think that I was making direct accusations
oh ok that's cool, i can have contempt for you for a completely different reason then. sorry for the misunderstanding.

>>3549
all good thank you for clearing that up

>>3511
>Femboys are pedophilic
>They're problematic

>But feminine men are le heckin valid

Ngmi

>>3511
Why do people like you wanna complain about "boys" vs "men" but don't differentiate "girls" from "women"?

>>3555
howso?
>but don't differentiate "girls" from "women"
I do
It is maybe more normalized to call adult women girls but I think it's the same problem

>>1876
be a power bottom

if ur trans it could be bottom dysphoria
might have to get the old out-in if you can

>>3551
also regardless of gender dysphoria: learn what gets u into a sexy mood
maybe u have a kink that u need to discover

>>3500
>eva
gay

>>1879
How frequently do you have to train Im kinda autistic and won't remember to do it if I don't schedule it