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Does anybody else not understand why they find guys attractive? I recently came across a video that said "straight men just dont understand what women and gay men find attractive in males" and it made me realize that I couldnt even identify what it is about men that im even attracted too.

I definitley know when i find another guy attractive, but I usually couldnt explain why. My tastes in men arent even very coherent, I like feminine men, but I also like buff hairy dudes, and I also like incels. My attraction to men makes no logical sense
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>>4576
Maybe somethings wrong with me but I dont feel anything looking at that, or any of those otome scenes of the guy looking deep into the girls eyes. Is the feeling just attraction? Do you just mean that your attracted to guys who make you feel attracted to them? because if so, that goes for everyone lol

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penis

getting handled

and uhh, getting… compliments?

I think sigmund freud was partially right in regards to this
The traits in men that we find attractive tend to be traits that our fathers have
Just look at how many women and gay men thirst over dad bods

>>4590
My dad was super hairy and fairly husky but I dislike facial/body hair and prefer lean guys.
It's more dumb pseudo-science. Freud was a hack.

Don‘t know about gay guys, but women are into security in a man and that‘s signified in various ways. Height, muscles, unreactiveness, certainty when approaching her or when leading her. This is the essence while it comes in various flavors to choose from.



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okay so i don't even know what but i guess i'll ask people here about this. i'm afab but have gender dysphoria that i've only recently became aware of, but transitioning doesn't really seem to be the best option for me. ik the people on this board will try to convince me otherwise but i'm short as hell, very feminine body, etc. i don't understand why people think transition is either the best thing in the world for people with gender dysphoria or the moral equivalent to 9/11, like i really feel whether transition is good for someone comes down to considering 1. will you pass and 2. will you be happy even if you don't pass. and if the answer to both of these is "no" then you probably shouldn't transition. idk!

>>4720
>very feminine body
resulting from what? if it's mostly due to gynoid fat distribution it's fixable, however since you mentioned being short you'll likely have more trouble adhering to a caloric deficit. you'll also possibly need to gain muscle in some spots after fat loss and eat at a surplus

if you don't want to transition then don't
afab enbies are pretty common. if you don't have dysphoria about your body then don't worry about it and just do whatever alleviates the dyshporia.

that said, it's generally easier to pass if you are FtM than MtF, mostly due to how masculinization works and being irreversible through hormones alone.

>don't understand why people think transition is either the best thing in the world for people with gender dysphoria
Because from what I have heard it is the best way to prevent suicide, and most trans people are very suicidal/depressive and HRT improves their mental health even if they don't pass

>like i really feel whether transition is good for someone comes down to considering 1. will you pass and 2. will you be happy even if you don't pass. and if the answer to both of these is "no" then you probably shouldn't transition. idk!
No, HRT really reduces dysphoria, even without social changes. It’s not placebo

At least you don’t need to hurry. You can pass as FTM even if you start HRT in 30yrs



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I'm not posting pictures of myself but my (ftm) abdomen currently pretty much looks like picrel and my 0.81 whr makes me extremely dysphoric. I'm not anorexic but I've been underweight nearly my whole life, and testosterone just made it so that I have more muscle than before with an extremely low body fat percentage.
I want to avoid gaining body fat as much as possible because body fat increases your aromatization and I also don't want to get wider hips or lose any muscle definition or vascularity.
I've tried working obliques and it seems like it's done something, but I've only really gained in the lower halves of my obliques. Do I need to target the upper half separately?
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>>4699
But that pixar mom build has more to do with hip to shoulder ratio, rather than waist. Bodybuilders have high hip:waist ratio, but nobody would call them feminine.

>>4701
true, i failed to consider that one ;-;
so you're suggesting OP/other trans men possibly itt to focus on building shoulder muscle?

>>4702
Yeah, low bodyfat and lot of upper body workouts. And dont neglect lower either, you want tight and firm, not loose and flabby.

To further add to my point, in male fashion high waste pants are worn to visually narrow the waist in order to achieve more masculine figure.
Btw, does anyone know where can I buy black pants like picrel? They look great, but I have never seen them is clothing stores.

carry a calf around until it grows up into a bull



 

Ka Daisy, a NPA guerilla and trans woman, was martyred after a confrontation with 5 battalions in Barangay Tapi on April 27th. She was known for teaching literacy and math to members of her squad who were uneducated and always carrying a makeup kit in her guerilla supplies.

"As an LGBT youth our role is important in advancing revolution. to change society's views we must change society herself"

rest in power to one of our own!
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>>761
Rest in power. Very based.

rest in power

Rest in power.
Really cool to be hearing about this.

>Daisy
>Filipina guerilla fighter
>Died fighting
Is this the sequel to Daisy's Destruction?

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Asking as a transhumanist, I find it incredibly hard to find reliable resources on how it is in the PRC, and since the Chinese internet is fairly insular and I don't speak Chinese I don't really get the opportunity to talk with queer people from China much. I am aware they very much have their own subcultures and would like to learn about them if anyone has anywhere to point me.

China seems somewhat decent when it comes to transgender rights, but societal attitudes still seem to be pretty transphobic. Atleast according to what ive read on prolewiki, that is.

I remember there was a lot of queer users on XiauHongShu well before the TikTok exodus. Comment sections seemed pretty normal, though now that XHS requires face ID I can't check anymore.

>>4629
Were they tiktok refugees or chinese people?

>>4631
Chinese people, yeah. Hence my specificatian that it was before the TikTok exodus.



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WAHHHH I just wanna be a faggy little deerboy but I’m trapped in this dumb big boy body and it’s so annoying. i just want to be a cute little bisexual dear who beautiful women of all genders fawn (heh) over but instead I have this!!!! I thought I was trans for so long but I think I’m just nb and annoyed by my boy body but doing girl stuf and transitioning made the confusion worse. AHHH!!!!!

Im built too boyish for my outside to match my inside AHHH
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i too wish i was a twink. or hunkish. i would honestly be anyone else that isn't myself

>>4542
But i just want to be a femboy and possibly also a girl, i dont want to just be relagated to just "non-binary"
>>4493
Is it even worth taking estrogen then if it wont even prevent my twink death? My life is basically over when i hit twink death, besides my body is laready incredibly masculine enough as is. I want to cry, why was i cursed like this

op again and I’ve done some thinking. The thing you’re missing is that non binary isn’t good enough. Being a femboy isn’t right or good enough.

I’ve been promised success in embodying an archetype if only I try, work out, improve my social skills. I can be anything, and that neurosis is buried so deep within me and I don’t know if it’ll ever come out. It’s compounded by contemporary theories of gender that suggest it’s all constructed and I can just choose. I actually agree with that completely, but it doesn’t soothe the ache of being unable to fundamentally, ontologically change my entirety to match an interiority that’s just. Fabricated. It doesn’t exist. It’s all ego. But I can’t square any of it.

I think I just need to meditate and find acceptance or soemthing but it hurts so much

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does before hoes

>>4542
I think it sounds like he is fat



 

anyone else born in the gheto finds it hard to reconsile their desire to be violent and desire to be feminine?
i'm drunk so bear with me, i was born and raised by parents who got raised in pretty fucked up backgrounds, grandpa had multiple families and dad has been threatened with guns multiple times, they managed to stay off the streets because they're just fucking excellent at all they do.
dad was the best student maybe ever, and still got his score lowered by teachers who hated him but just couldn't deny him at least a near perfect grade.
mom was a bit harder, i can't think of something that didn't happen to her, she has brothers she doesn't even know, grandpa was an asshole when young, she and her brothers lived in a house they were occupying under shaky legal grounds up to this day.

and i've had a few things, they tried to keep me off the street, quite literally i wasn't allowed outside til i was like 7
and since then a lot of shit happened

up to the point where i'm bordering on lumpen and i can't fucking deal with knowing i was meant to be a criminal, i picked up the habits and i was good at surviving but i didn't want to worry my parents.

and now i'm just here still letting them down, couldn't even join the military because i'm a transhumanist

i guess this is motly a trans issue but what have you sacrificed for being yourself?

i feel so at the edge and at the same time right at the center of the hurricane
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>>4595

not so much a desire but a reflex tbh
i was gonna say "desire to be strong" but it's more of a reflex, not so much a desire since what i really wanted was to be able to defend myself.

I have gender dysphoria - i go through HRT. It’s not about your character

>>4599

can't afford that shit here yet

>hard to reconsile their desire to be violent and desire to be feminine?
There is nothing inherently contradictory about femininity and violence.
>>4595
Cis women get spooked into "nonviolence" too despite not being "socialized as men"

You can project strength without acting wantonly violent. Remaining entirely calm and confident while being challenged, like in that yes chad meme, is one of the most female-coded expressions of powers there is. If you are actually prepared to engage in violence or retaliate is ultimately only tangential to both.



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what is with the endless "LGBT are the base of fascism" hate/bait threads? Do they actually believe their own shit? Does it matter?

it's always sneaky snarky bullshit like "gorkyposting" and hazcel schizophrenia, or finding random examples of crossdressing nazis or spamming pictures of ernst rohm.
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repression doesn't eliminate desire it merely distorts it.

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>>4562
>Let's create fascism based on LGBT
:^)

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>>4571

MARVEL soyboy!

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>>2353
It's just social-imperialist labor aristocracy projecting their bullshit on the lumpen. It's no different than Karl Kautsky blaming antisemitism on the lumpen. Our beautiful tradie boys couldn't possibly be bigoted and our beautiful intellectuals couldn't possibly be bigoted so who's left? It all stems from Marx feuding with Bakunin and shitting on the lumpen.



 

Starting the first bi thread since nobody else has yet.

Post about your bi panic and shit here.
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>>4431
Filtered by two intersecting lines. Had I chosen a different flag or no flag at all, which I could've since my opinion has nothing to do with my "religious" beliefs, you wouldn't have read my word salad either way since you're not here to engage different opinions but to circlejerk. My views on sexuality were formed well before I chose to associate myself with Christianity and what I wrote differs little from what others have posted above. Are they mentally harmed by delusions too?

>>3820
Don’t break their heart. Just get it over with

>>4264
Your first point is poorly put but true and your second is absolutely how I experience life

How do you detect closet bisexuals? They can use their het side as a shield.

>>4491
Do something gay in front of them and monitor their reaction.



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the idea that transness is inherently bourgeois comes from a very simple assumption: an imaginary of the working class as not having desires, cultures, history, etc, only austere base needs, completely alien to any "bourgeois excesses"

despite the supposed third-worldist bent many of you claim to have, this exactly how social workers and managers have framed and attempted to reconstruct the working class, as docile, administerable subjects, and a crucial part of how the labour aristocracy was developed

this goes in tandem with the historically paternalist position in regards to sex workers, any political agency denied a priori, they can only exist as passive objects to be administered by the state until they are integrated into "proper" circuits of social reproduction
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>>4584
>Gender is a material socio-economic relation
>sex is a superstructure for assigning gender to workers.
Biological sex (male/female reproductive roles, physical labor capacity, etc.) clearly belongs to the material base because it shapes labor organization, inheritance, and class relations. Gender, by contrast, is the superstructure: the set of social and ideological expectations built on top of these material realities.
>You're reversing the base and superstructure.
(You) are reversing them
>"Bio-woman" is an ideal sitting on top of the real working woman.
A biological woman simply is, it's not an ideal to attain. What’s ideal is the notion of ‘womanhood’ as something that can be constructed or purchased

>>4591
Gender is a remnant of feudalism which is primarily about domestic labor. The bourgeoisie do use sex as a means to resolve inheritance disputes but the matter is overhyped. Sex is like race, it's superstructure. Sure, skin color is material but skin color has nothing to do with nations or imperialism.

Semi-relevant
https://www.marxists.org/subject/women/authors/davis-angela/housework.htm
Also read Harry Braverman's "Labor and Monopoly Capital."

>>4591
The "biological woman" is as real as you are a biological redditor. You are so used to bourgoise superstructure trying to muddy any decernment of gender vs sex that simply stating the facts gives you an existential crisis.

Even sex itself is a matter of coincidence, several genes coming together, none totally load bearing. Not the XX vs XY nonsense popsci and unregulated highschool textbooks hammer in, forcing colleges to have to correct and get shit for being "woke" over.

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>stemlords when they find out sex is a social construct

>>4605
I really do think that STEM education should be a package deal where regardless if someone's trhing to be an engineer, doctor, programmer, artist, etc… they should have to take biology, programming, drawing, [insert whatever engineers take idk lol], etc… so that:
1) They're not ignorant to the other stem fields
2) They can draw from the other fields to improve the one they choose to do professionally.

Basically keep the general education going even if someone's clearly going to specialize in something.



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