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What are good careers for Canadian transhumanists with delayed sleep phase disorder? I need to make $$$ if I’m ever going to afford FFS.
>The body was too short or empty.

find political longshots on kalshi and put down 100 birdbucks or whatever u beaver people have up there. the world is broken now. careers are a joke.

>>8388
Night shift or work from home or gig jobs like food delivery?

Work the Mail. Join the Union.

t. a trans girl working the mail for the same reason



 

>want to learn makeup to fix my ugly masculine face
>have to research and buy an overwhelming fuckton of different makeup products
>realize i have to do skincare and fix my acne before learning makeup
>have to go to dermatologist to get recommended a skincare routine
>says it might not even work for me and it will takes months to tell
>cant even do the skincare routine consistently because of how depressed i am
>mfw its been 4 days since i last used any skincare products

Ill never be able to fix my acne, ill never be able to learn makeup. My face will always be ugly gross and masculine. Ill never be able to be a pretty femboy.
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>>8610
Oh I thought it was free! $400 is not actually what it costs though, like I have a £60 vial once a year and thats my entire costs.

>>8610
uh if ur american and dont have a job u get medicaid and then they pay for it?

>>8610
>i see it as a lesser-evil to twink death
rather than peter panning so hard you're willing to take cross-sex hormones you should probably just realize all this is a normal part of growing up

>>8610
>because i see it as a lesser-evil to twink death
"Twink death" as its talked about online is basically a myth. Sure, as you get older you'll get some wrinkles, your metabolism will slow, you might gain weight, etc. These changes will occur gradually and at some point you'll probably no longer fit the description of a "twink" (although this can happen a lot later than you think, I've known cute twinky guys in their late 30s). But it's not like you'll turn 25 and get zapped with a ray that instantly turns you into Homer Simpson. It's just aging and its inevitable. Estrogen won't stop it apart from maybe improving your skin a bit and combating hair loss, but that can be achieved with a good skincare routine and anti-alopecia drugs. Plus around 50% of men don't exhibit male pattern baldness anyway, and those that do typically don't start experiencing it until middle age. The point is you're freaking out over something that's A) not nearly as bad as you're imagining, especially if you take good care of yourself wrt diet, exercise, hygiene, and skincare, and B) is inevitable and can at best be slowed down a bit. Stop worrying about it, just enjoy your youth, live in the moment. Otherwise you'll be miserable before you start to get old, and be even more miserable after. It definitely isn't worth fucking with your hormones and potentially permanently altering your body over.

unless of course theyre in denial



 

I'm sorry I'm not a good aspiring faggotran im sorry I'm not a good retard
I'm sorry I dont have interests or fixations or hopes or aspirations
I'm sorry I sit around burning my wrists with ciggerettes and doomscrolling 4chan, rotting my brain cells
I'm sorry I don't try.
I'm sorry I hide so much from all these people that have dedicated themselves to keeping me alive
I'm sorry I'm not helping them back.
I promise I will
I promise I will get a job before I commit,
I promise I will impress all these fuckers and buy them pipes and fuck them in the ass if they want to
But i know ill never get better

Why are you sorry? Your life is uniquely yours. Dont apologize for existing, thats cringe. We all have maladaptive coping mechanisms but it doesn't define us. We’re all just humans having a human experience. I wont tell you “its gonna be ok,” but just know that your life is your own and your choices define it

>>8487
Stop using 4chan.

>>8487
>I promise I will impress all these fuckers

And theres your problem. You owe nobody anything. Stop living for others.



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for context: i'm a boymoder, i've been on diy for a while now with great results so far. voice is my biggest source of dysphoria but i'm doing what i can to work on it. i pass to strangers, my voice passes depending on how i'm feeling. i'm not out to anyone though.

whereever i go, i feel strange. i've never talked to anyone about anything trans related. i've just quietly observed how people treat me, treat eachother and how they talk behind eachothers backs. there isn't a single person i've meet that's been understanding and honest.

people are either ignorant / straight up hateful or they will lie about everything. every so-called "ally" only sexualizes and fetishizes trans people.

>the few trans people i've met only ever sexualize themselves

>women will treat me like a fag (and sexualize me)
>specifically young lib / LGB women expect me to somehow like that and will have no problem outing me in front of random strangers, talk about how my appearance has changed since they've first met me, ask me at my workplace wether or not i am trans (in front of literally everybody…)
>old people will do their best to pretend i'm normal and just not even acknowledge the fact i have giant boobs (which is honestly sometimes preferable to the young women i've mentioned before, except when they loudly scream SIR NOTSODEADNAME a trillion times and out me to everyone)
>young men honestly seem the most welcoming, they just treat me like a normal human being (i only ever want to have real social interactions with men for that very reason), but of course you'll notice their porn-induced brain damage pretty quick.

not even the people offering trans care have a single clue.
i got my blood drawn a while ago at a place a lot of diying transhumanists go to get their labs. i could literally hear the staff make fun of me in another room while i was waiting.

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>>8616
Please don't take this as a rude question but what is the problem with being sexualised? Isn't that kind of validating you as a woman?

>>8617
while i do think it's interesting, it's also different in some ways.
this sort of sexualization often focuses on genitalia (and post-op trans women don't really exist in porn so people never think about that)
for example: when people call me a ladyboy, femboy, whatever, that's just a constant reminder that i'm stuck in a body i don't feel comfortable in.

i'd also say there is no "problem" with people sexualizing others, there's no problem with people being stupid, ignorant, whatever. i just:
  • want these people to be radically honest, to tell me what they think, so i can avoid them or even talk to them and maybe change their mind. instead they'll lie to your face and play politically correct, then talk shit behind your back. i've noticed that pattern so many times and i think it's sad all the other transhumanists fall for it
  • want to find other people that don't think that way, so i can freely associate with them instead




 

Is there any way for me to be sure i support trans rights because its the correct thing to do and not just because i find transhumanisters cute.

This is really bugging me i dont want to be a creep or a hypocrite

Its ok and based to support peoples rights because you want to fuck them tbh, its the star trek pov fill up the beastry

>>8602
It doesn't matter what the reason is, only actions matter

>>8603
Basadoooo

>>8602
Everything except class is spooks and divide and conquer

>>8602
I hate that so many people internalize the idea that social movements can't involve fucking. That's like one of the big appeals. As long as everyone is consenting of course.
There's so many lonely miserable young people, why should we not want them to join us so they can have more sex? It's a good thing for consenting adults to have sex and they're joining good causes.
There should be joy in our movements.



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I don’t know what happened today because for the longest time I’ve had feelings of wanting to be the opposite sex really just so I would be looked at less weirdly for the stuff I like and I would be judged for acting a certain way.

But I feel like today there has been an especially strong feeling for wishing I was a woman, I literally looked at video ddlc cosplayer and felt like cry because I could never be or look like her no matter how hard I tried

It’s useless anyway, I’m too ugly and hairy to ever to ever be a girl and too weak and pathetic to ever be a man and I’m just too fucked up looking in general to be non binary

>too ugly and hairy to ever to ever be a girl and too weak and pathetic to ever be a man and I’m just too fucked up looking in general to be non binary

You realize none of those things actually prevent you from being those genders right
Quite the opposite tbh
Most men are weak, most women are hairy, most non-binary people look unusual in some way :P
Most people fall short of all the standard expectations because they're not there for you, nor are they there to be a helpful average to measure by, which they very much aren't - they're there for capital to make you feel bad on purpose so they can sell you hundreds of dollars a month in cosmetics and make you a smoothed out tiktok slave.

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OP sounds like picrel



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Figured I made a thread to share our romantic experiences – or lack of thereof, – opinions, wishes and advice. That is part of the whole LGBT experience besides the sex and gender.

I reached mid 20s with barely any experience, autism made sure of that. Kissed a drunk lesbian once, I don't even think I looked that cute for a guy in his 20s, so I was honored more than anything. Broke up a friendship with a trans girl after some hasty choices, but she was crazy anyways. Now focusing on friends, making and deepening them.

Wish I had a man I understood and was understood by, someone light-hearted and whimsical to have fun with on the short time I have here on Earth. Femboy-ish ig, not masculine, but takes care of himself, with a touch of femininity to him. Impartial on sex, willing to do it, might be fun even.

One thing I like is the idea of relations as temporary, serial monogamy if you will. I'm all for loyalty while in a relation, but that doesn't necessarily mean it must be forever and ever. People change, why shouldn't their relations? Admittedly I do see the romance in a lifelong relation, sticking with someone and changing together with them. Besides looking for a new partner every x amount of years sounds exhausting.
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>>8496
(report back in 2 weeks)

>>8497
>>8496
Ngl it will probably be longer than that but I hope it's sooner.

>>8491
I'm gonna be you in like 3 months. I'm together with him right now but gonna be moving for work and we'll be apart for at least 6 months. I love him but I don't know how it'll go when I'm away from him and I don't want him to be held back by me.

>>8500
If he loves you too then you won't be holding him back. Just make sure you guys talk open and honestly about how you feel and what's going on.

>>8497
Update: we're talking again and everything is fine.



 

Im gonna be honest and this isnt ragebait

I use the sharty, while being a bisexual trans woman, whos also a leftist obviously.

I honestly just like soyjaks, ive been hyperfixating on them for a while now, i kinda just ignore the transphobia and laugh at the jaks.

I dont participate in raids or doxxing other trans people of course

Im not self hating or anything either dont get me wrong. I love being trans and i love being a tankie.
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>>8518
Also 8511 isnt me

>sharty
It has a wasm that loads arbitrary javascript. If you want soyjaks then use twitter.

>>8523
I thought Quote raised the minimum age limit to 18

>>8518
I turn 25 this year

>>8548
Tick tock grandpa



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I have a comrade who is autistic(diagnosed), recently she(was a he) told me she wants to start gender transition.
He was a bisexual nerd before never told me she suffered from gender disforia.
I think thats a weird descision for someone to make on his own before visiting a therapist and i know autist is connected to gender fluidity.
I also think it can affect her union organizing in the future.
Am i wrong?
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I think you're just stuck in nostalgia of a time when she was one of the bros. It'll be fine.
>I also think it can affect her union organizing in the future.
Nah, unions have plenty of trans people.

Just because he doesnt suffer from gender disphoria doesnt mean he cant transition.

autistic people can still be quite smart in some ways and lots of transhumanists are autistic. In my case I did my research before telling anyone. A run-of-the-mill therapist would be out of my league, only an expert doctor could have anything new to say to me on the topic and they would likely agree with my decisions in my case. I am extremely confident I have already explored every anti-transition argument you as a layman can think of, it would be a waste of my time to rehash it all for your satisfaction

>>8530
>>8530
>I think you're just stuck in nostalgia of a time when she was one of the bros. It'll be fine.
Now bro can become your hoe.

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>>8540
>now bro can become your hoe
Genuinely a chaser mindset we dont want you nor are we your objects. Fuck off.



 

im genq if theres any like mood differences or personality changes taking E can cause, in yalls opinion. I just wanna treat her right and prepare myself for any troubles.

weird namefag, but a lot of people do report that they experience that, yeah. I think they are misattributing a lot of it but eh.

honestly quite a lot. the most important thing i noticed pretty quickly:
i basically didn't speak a lot before HRT. i'm socially anxious AND have extreme voice dysphoria. some people thought i was just unable to talk and it was just very disabling.
even without voice training, after starting E, i could open up way easier. ppl told me i was more talkative, that i smiled way more and so on. people actually wanted to be friends with me.
they thought i just stopped being weird and opened up to them. they didn't know this "development", as they called it, was called "transition"… i don't even think it was me being more comfortable in my body (ofc that can make you more confident in yourself aswell), just mental changes

I take estradiol patches for male pattern baldness. When I get moody or my chest hurts, I take them off for a few days to let my hormone levels reset.



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