/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>1243
This.
Boring isn't a bad thing.
The problem is, people try to hard to be interesting.

>>1241
I would rather them be "sterile/boring" than have them be portrayed according to patronizing stereotypes of excessive campiness

>>1312
This. Toxic relationships in general are glorified as "valid".
Anything cute and innocent is looked down upon as "fake".

>>1243
>>1948
if the characters for a story are boring then who will actually like it ?

>>1243
>>1956
>>1948
you need personal conflict in a story it's writing 101 if your LGBT character goes through no conflict and does nothing actually interesting or says/does anything to stand out except to be a queer person that just stands there then that's a shit character

>>1957
So like as if most people wouldn't love a book just because it's featured a queer character(s).

>>2043
if the queer character doesn't go through an actual arc it wouldn't be loved and shouldn't

>>1732
There's no way to be good at something right away. In order to become good at anything you need to make peace with the FACT that you'll suck and be embarrassed for months or years straight before you get where you wanna get.

Try voice training privately if you're too self conscious. Record yourself, do exercises, see the changes over the time. In my experience people that just give up at stuff that they want out of shame come to regret it after the years go by.

>>1702
how

>>1552
Call me crazy, but I like transhumanists with manly voices and faces https://youtube.com/shorts/Puxor3gZgLU?si=uSAme6wZqr2uMrkV

>>1787
I don't think it takes that long for most people with dedicated practice. like a bigger issue being the dysphoria from practicing. for me I started w deep voice, like deep and masc sounding for a guy, complimented on my voice :^), and now after like a handful of practice sessions listening to myself when I make an effort I sound like a woman with a warm slightly scratchy average-low pitch/depth voice inspite of like having medical issues with my voice that fug it up and get read as more masc than it would.

Also women with a deeper voice are qt n valid.
actually I know this girl who's like super feminine and beautiful and yeah I clocked her because her voice sounds pretty masculine to me but I can see it just melts her confidence away to speak which really sucks because she mogs the shit out of most of the cissies around here and seems pretty nice.

That being said yeah obviously most people want to fully "pass" or have the ability to appear cis to people whenever they want, which is the same for cis women fwiw.

And I wanna make a distinction between, the reason ppls voices sound deep is literally just because of hormonal exposure or millimeters of difference in the vocal cords, or post-birth medical conditions or even just eating dairy, like when I eat dairy I definitely "pass worse" especially with all the transvestigator scrutiny on women atm.

>>2153
also I know multiple confirmed cis women that have "unpassing voices" that get "clocked" now because of the current transvestigator panic. cissies are retarded

that's not how bpd works you stupid fuck. stop self-diagnosing yourself with bullshit

>>2103
no you fucking don't shut the fuck up

>>2103
because you only "know" trans women from social media?
every single one I have actually met irl was fine, one claimed to have adhd but imo it was fake (only way to get adderall or whatever they give for adhd in this shithole). also there is that, when you hear an illness is "trending", it means that certain drugs are trending, the diagnostics are pill seeking

and this is going to sound stupid and fetishistic but most of these meme "correlations" boil down to non-conformity: even if they play the small bean character, you need a really strong personality and sense of self to not only think about your gender but take a proactive stance towards it. we live in an age of passivity, even in the underdeveloped world

this is why I claim that weird people are revolutionary even if you put intersectionality aside, agency is like a flywheel and they have already gone through the effort of putting it in motion. to some extent I resent the few progressive forces under capitalism that are slowly integrating the weird just like I resent the "treats". it is controversial, but yes, the worse the better

>>2102
lmao
>>2104
trvke as the kids say

>>1932
Or? 😈

>>1933
Hmm nah. Im normal again

>>1905
Idk why this reply when the first image explains that proletariat women are unequal to proletariat men.

Also your second post ( >>1906 ), is just highlighting liberals in the movement and the sway/leading it has.

The problem I had was simplifying the contradictions of the struggle to just purely proletariat vs bourgeois, when it's clear that, even if they're extensions of the first dialect, they still exist.

You're misunderstanding me in thinking that I'm arguing for the solution to be derived from that liberal-feminist framework, or that a communist movement should work part within in it to satisfy those liberals.

And confused when I'm using the modern (water down) definition of feminism of being:
> When you're for the liberation of women and men from the patriachy
And saying that communism, a movement that logically incorporates it but to those less read in theory would not realize this (hence le "maga-communism"), would aim to liberate proletariat women more than just their status as a worker.

>>1931
>>1932
>>1933
>>1934
Get a room you two
you two would be cute together

I think I might be mostly gay or like only able to be satisfied in a monogamous relationship with a woman. But I'm in a relationship with a guy again and thinking of moving in together. I don't feel worthy of dating women and feel like a total creep in general, so ig I am somehow more comfortable dating men even if I feel unsatisfied. Also it's really shitty of me if I mislead my bf or see men as less desirable or precious or hurt his feelings by being crazy like this. I am pretty insane in general tho and kinda cope sometimes by being inappropriately flirtatious. Should I just become a monk and live in the forest and let myself become busted and alone or something?
Ok my actual question is wat do relationship wise? Should I break up with him? Give it time and maybe I will chill tf out and sort some baggage or get dumped but it's worth trying?

>>2070
>having a job used to be a man thing
Not exactly, proletarian women just aren't as much of an underpaid labor force as they used to be, at least in the imperial core. Gender remains alive and well in other forms though, because the more intense economic exploitation constitutes only the most readily apparent part. Thus the abolition of gender doesn't logically follow from the dissolution of difference in the labor market, it doesn't stem from the inherent bourgeois need for an underclass, rather the place in the family structure women are groomed into, with all of the reproductive and emotional labor it entails.

I don't see gender abolition as asking everyone to be male. For example I'm a cishet male father and to me gender abolition involves me taking on more work that was seen as traditionally "female" like domestic labor. In my house I do the laundry, I cook the dinners, I wash the dishes, and I change the diapers. To me that's gender abolition.

>>1968
Capitalism will restrict personal expression (including as it relates to gender and sex) if that is optimal for the production of capital. Even if it is a detriment to the individual.
Corporations restrict female expression more in full time employment, but educational institutions restrict male expression more during k-12 & arguably in higher education.
The restriction is done in different dimensions, i.e. long hair, clothing primarily for women. For men, it looks like lower educational attainment across the board, worse grades, worse attendance, and worse life outcomes.
It's hard for you to fully understand the other side of the aisle here and how men are repressed. It's not quite as obvious as a hair style or skirt length.

>>2076
Hmm, many questions occur in the vast mind

For you:
Are women also unable to establish a deep bond with you due to their inherent limitations?
Would only a male with his medium could touch the deepest tides of your being?
Would you dedicate your life to your male friend in a grim situation ( such as war )? Holding his hand, until death.
Are yuo attracted to males?

>>1968
If “biological sex” is dismissed as meaningless or inherently contradictory, and “gender” is fully detached from material embodiment or social function, then what exactly is being transitioned? You can’t cross into a concept you refuse to stabilize.

Fellow transhumanists should stop reading so much philosophy garbo. Rather than addressing social organization of labor and capital, pseuds end up outsourcing liberation to technology or voting with your wallet or what have you.

funny pb parasite memes

>>1789
The walls of your city are pathetically low and vulnerable

>>1770
>>1763
But what if I dont want it to shrink my balls and other stuff

>>1863
Take T to make up for it

>>1864
Wouldnt that just cancel out the effects of the estrogen? Unless you are making a joke and im just too dumb to get it

>>1904
You can take estrogen but then apply topical testosterone cream to only affect a certain area
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGuvDlYDNzU