>>5591That article seems to be missing some crucial information and falling for classic conservative talking points - for example, it isn't at any point "an open wound", that would be ridiculous as it would imply that penetrating it would lead to nothing but blood and insides, which isn't even remotely true. Any actual "wound" material is protected by stitches til it heals away.
It's just an area between your legs that's being acted upon by muscles a lot since you, y'know, walk. So the muscles will contract it. Likewise, your muscles can help open it up again. Ask anyone who's ever done kegels - the muscles in your crotch area can be trained like any others.
And, of course, a huge percentage of women have to do kegels and other exercises in that area, because these areas can be damaged in childbirth or simply not work right sometimes…
Which makes this the millionth example of people being scared and confused by something just because most cishet men don't have to deal with it. Big surprise.
Outside of the initial dilation to help the area heal right, which could indeed take many months, you can generally go months at a time between dilations and even undo shrinkage if you do have any. Also, penetrative sex does it just as well, meaning the "oh no you have to dilate forever" actually translates to "have you tried getting laid like half a dozen times a year maybe".
Also, y'know, even when done with toys, it's usually enjoyable, because you're penetrating your vagina 🙄
Getting laid or masturbating with toys half a dozen times a year isn't flashy or difficult. It's kinda, y'know, nothing. Effortless. Which doesn't make good headlines or play well as a way to scare gullible people.
Turns out everything is fine and boring actually.
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