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I'm 27 years old and all my more femenine youthful features are gone. I really regret having waited so long to start with this shit.
How are you people feeling?

How did you feel before? How aging felt in previous years ?Did transition help? I am afraid I will be in similar position in couple of years

>>813
Hasn't done shit because I'm extremely early into this journey so it's only natural.
And aging wasn't something that I felt, I only noticed changes in my body out of nowhere. For example, after years of having a beautifully thin neck, I developed an adam apple. I noticed it one day, it felt like it had grown overnight like mushrooms after a rainy day. This was actually the day I realized this would continue to happen with other physical features and that I needed to act fast.

>>799
>>813
I was where you both were about a decade ago. gonna be a longer more difficult road, and you probably need to figure out how to pay for FFS and whatever else might help (BA, BBL, etc), but there's light at the end of the tunnel I promise. get hustling or find a state where it's covered or marry into good health benefits (that's what I did), whatever you gotta do

>>815
yeah it was this kinda shit that cracked me in the first place. mostly body hair and I still haven't finished zapping it all. that second wave of masculinization as you approach 30 is fucked up shit



 

Claiming this territory for my people, we are in the q/plus, I like to think.

Now can anyone recommend some good content or what? I'm still in love with Out of Placers.

total furfag annihilation

>>1646
Cry about it

ຫ້າລັບບາທ

ohhh i love Content



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whoa whoa whoa, you're a trans woman… and you smoke?? you have 20 seperate videos of you blowing cigarette smoke into the camera??? wow… you are one interesting chica

Take me to… GM_Construct…



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goddamn they made the femboys woke and dei, we mst reclaim the white femman's plushie

jokes aside white racialist femboys are real and i don't get how the irony doesn't hit them, this is what happens when you mix gay griffith aesthetics with racism

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dat reply

a trans woman can't wait to get home and take her bra off. a femboy can't wait to get home and put his bra on

replace "white" with "middle class" and you immediately explain the behavior in op's pic lol

he's polish of course he's racy, even gays in poland can be racy

the real question is why aren't there enough colored femboys in the african american society?



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there's definitely a tone where compliments feel like "wow big girl go potty all by herself" but it's very easy to get paranoid and read any compliment like that tbh

>>1502
the funny thing about that picture is that most people love that type of pseudory. I don't know if it is dumb but I do find it boring



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ITT talk about how you realized or started asking questions about your LGBT+ identity.

Was it positive, negative, neutral?
Did you struggle with it or go on a journey of discovery?
Did you or do you have to hide it? If so, how?
How do you realistically hope to see public attitudes changing in your lifetime?
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Son Goku

>>1
>Was it positive, negative, neutral?
Negative, its been an overwhelming detriment to my life

>Did you or do you have to hide it? If so, how?

Dating a woman I don't love.

>How do you realistically hope to see public attitudes changing in your lifetime?

Less outwardly violent maybe. But I don't see coming out as possible within my lifetime.

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A memoir by Caleb T. Maupin

Chapter 4

The Maupin men were born preachers. Not the TV begging kind, and not the megachurchy kind either. No, they were old school, fire and brimstone, repent or burn, King James Bible types. For six generations, each firstborn Maupin took the pulpit by sixteen, married a pious girl by twenty, and spent the rest of his life wrestling with God, the IRS, and the Federal government.
At twelve years old. I knew I would break the chain. Not because I doubted the existence of God. But because I doubted the lies they wrapped Him in.
While the other boys in Dayton traded baseball cards and boasted about kisses behind the bleachers, I sat in the library, buried in Marx and staring at the crucifix. I was drawn not to the expression of agony on Christ’s face, but to the curve of his ribs, and the tension in his thighs.

“You’re soft,” grunted my father one day, catching me sketching instead of shooting hoops.
“You’ll turn into a faggot. A man’s gotta lead. To want.”
And I did want. Just not what I was supposed to want.
The football team locker room was a torture chamber. Youth group retreats in the woods were a minefield of forced prayers, arms slung over, and forbidden warmth. The altar call was the worst. Kneeling at the rail, in the full knowledge that if they knew what I did, they’d cast me out like a rotten sheaf of wheat.

When I was fourteen, Pastor Rick pulled me to one side. The bugs buzzed around the fluorescent lights, as he thumbed his Bible open to Leviticus 18:22.
“You’re different Caleb,” he said.
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>1
my mom thought i was gay when i was like four but i didn't register that i was queer until i was like 9
i came out to my grandma (my mother died a few months before i realized i was queer) when i was 13 and i've been bipan since then

>>36
she's in the matrix chat if you wanna talk to her



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Manmoder/Boymoder general
FAQ
>What is a manmoder/boymoder?
A moder in this context is defined as a transgender individual assigned male at birth who is currently undergoing feminizing hormone therapy or sex transition but for whatever social reason does not present as a transgender woman.
>What is the purpose of this thread?
To bring discussion/light to the complex experiences and economic causes which may lead a person to this point in their gender transition. It may also exist as a space to discuss a common oppression and help strive to better individuals in this position
>Why not repgen?
Reppers do not go through with gender transition so topics in this thread do not represent their experience, they do not have to hide secondary sex characteristics developed through gender transition nor do they have to deal with the complexities of feminizing hormone therapy.

QOTT - Say/share something nice you enjoy about yourself.

Resources:
hrtcafe.net - A website repository full of information on DIY transitioning.
transharmreduction.org - Helpful site for harm reduction through transition and testing done on DIY sources of estrogen.
transfemscience.org - Another helpful site which includes a calculator and simulation to run the effects of estrogen buildup in your body.
safeinourworld.org - Includes a page which has a detailed list of trans support/lifelines in your country that you can call for assistance in mental health support. Those in crisis are encouraged to seek help through one of these lines.

Damn more 4channers jumping ship ?

>>772
Not new to leftypol I just think that with the invention of this board we can now facilitate a conversation with materialistically inclined people who also share a trans experience.
>>771
Ill start with the QOTT
I enjoy reading and I'm proud of the fact I can share that with other people.

>>771
With the links posted is it worth it to make an /hrtgen/. Only reason to is because of potential ftm lurking the board.

>>1129
I would recommend it, if nothing else then for the sake of containment threads / keeping the board clean.



 

i'm 100% straight & cis, but I'm deeply fascinated by LBGTQ+ people, and always want to get close to them and surround myself with them.
straightoids, on the other hand, annoy and repulse me because they seem so basic and so identified with the cultural hegemony

does that mean I'm gay? I kinda wish I were gay sometimes
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>>1240
lgbt acceptance and culture was a small cultural bubble with an oversized reach due to progressives generally being over represented in media
rightoids were right about that i'm afraid, the average westerner is actually a deeply racist cultural christian

I'm a str8 guy but I only really like being around lesbians. Straight men and 90% of straight women I hate them. Even the libbed out lesbians are pretty chill and cool. Gay guys are sometimes fine but sometimes performatively loud and annoying. I also tend to be attracted to less feminine girls. Like, not straight up butch but you know what I mean. Sometimes I wonder what if I was a lesbian but then I think no I like having a dick and I don't want boobies. Sometimes I think what if I was theythem but that sounds like too much work socially tbh. Sometimes I want to wear a dress but then I think how self conscious I would feel and it feels maybe fetishy or something so I don't.

>>1289
If it's any consolation, I think gay incels are a thing on 2² chan.

>>1303
>but then I think no I like having a dick and I don't want boobies
Same on my end. I couldn't stand to have my groin bleed every month, and boobs would just get in the way.
I can understand you liking butch lesbians because they're closer to what you're attracted to, but why the hate for other straight men?

>>1304
I almost never encounter another straight man who has any emotional intelligence, and most of them are right-wing dipshits. There's this whole posturing thing that men feel they have to do with one another. An aggro joking thing that I am expected to participate in and which I hate. They also tend to have no interests outside of sports or (in my area) hunting or capeshit or bad video games. Not that most women's interests are much better I guess, but at least I don't feel like I'm in a competition when I talk to women.

>>1306
Yeah knowing all that I can't really blame you feeling as you do, that sounds like hell to have to share a community with troglodytes like that. Though, tbh, I don't get too along with men in my area either, less of an interest in hunting here thankfully.
WIsh ya the best straight-anon, mask as well as you can and hang out with your lesbian friends, life's too short to be around bad company anyways.



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Is it weird if I think I am kind of politically bisexual? In that I feel everyone should be attracted to everyone and I kind of feel I need to be into men. Before I transitioned I was gay / bi but like more gay than bi, but now I feel I'm completely into women except anime men. But I feel I need to be bisexual because that is the most progressive thing I think. Does anyone else have similar experiences? Am I just experiencing comphet?
7 posts omitted.

Engels and Marx obviously talk about this. In the end what matters most is the material benifit of entering a relationship / marriage. This is why bourgeois marriages were far worse for the woman. I don't remember what Engels writes exactly since I have not read On the origins of family, private property and the state since I was a teenager, but he said something along the lines of how once bourgeois marriages have been abolished we can have real monogamy, because there would be no economic incentive in it. This is how I write relationships between the socialists when I write fiction. I wish I could make a better comment here because I feel like I'm on the brink of making an analysis, but I'm too confused and probably not in the best condition to make it right now.

I lack context for the political lesbianism thing, but I feel like bisexual/pansexual characters are easier to write since you just don't lock them in to a particular gender preference. I think bisexuality will become more common with representation that would result of more authors realizing that.

>>1324
Mate, I say this in a kind way, I think you would benefit from therapy. These things are not worth ruminating on, and we both know it. The fact that you do makes me think you would benefit from talking about your feelings a bit more. I feel there's more to it than just the political aspect.

Sexual attraction is insanely context dependant. Sure, I like guys basically exclusively, but given the right circumstances, I wouldn't be shocked if I did something with a woman. "Prison gay" is a thing. Young adolescents do gay shit all the time. Sexuality is way more dynamic than these solipsistic "gay, bi, etc" labels make it out to seem.

>>1331
I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about this, in fact I think an imageboard is the best place to. Sometimes its good to discuss your thoughts without commiting to a serious political statement.

Peronsally I would never see a therapist, I don't trust them. It's much healthier to talk about this with random people or your friends tbh, that's what I always do.

>>1313
I (cis man) have tried to make myself attracted to women, not for self hating reasons, but because I want to understand and vibe with all people's sexualities, so I think I kind of get you.
It just doesn't work all that well. I see glimpses of heterosexuality every once in a while (and have jerked off to yuri frequently since I was 16), but I still don't think I'm really fully bi.

I feel like part of the reason I usually feel so distant from heterosexuality is heterosexuality is so tied in with a specific form of sexual hierarchy that I want nothing to do with. I don't think sexual hierarchies are necessarily bad, but I despise the ones of today: "aura", "alpha" "confidence" etc all feel like scams with nothing backing them up. It exists in gay stuff too, but less so (or at least it feels more tongue in cheek?), its very difficult for me to imagine fucking a women as a man without feeling over whether I "deserve" her on that level, or she's bequeathing me with value or something, or judging me by standards which I don't want to be judged. I'd guess that's largely a me problem, but I'd also guess it isn't entirely.

I think most people nowadays think that the only "ideal" sexualities are ace or bi. Just don't beat yourself up over it. A lot of gays and lezes have been put in torture camps and killed themselves trying to get attracted to people they thought they were supposed to, so while personally I'm not going to stop in the near term, we have to acknowledge that it might not even be possible, and in any case it isn't a big deal.



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Might as well ask the queer community because they've thought about this more than I ever will.

I think the gender binary (and coping mechanisms like a gender spectrum) is nonsense, and the concept of gender whatsoever is increasingly obsolete in society. I have no problem with all the coping mechanisms people have for reconciling themselves with our society's dumbassery, I'm not a prefigurative idealist, but if asked to make a choice, I consider myself non-binary. This is purely a political stance, outwardly I fit neatly into the 'cis man' label and that has about 0 affect on my mindset and life. I face no societal oppression for my sex, sexuality or gender so I'm effectively only involved in the queer movement in solidarity, rather than being a part of a queer community.

What is a succinct way to sketch this position to people? Postgenderism? Gender abolitionism? I definitely want to avoid using the wrong words and having people mistaking my position for "gender critical" bigotry.

i have always found gender to be such an obtuse thing; you will see things like "gender is how you present yourself" but run into contradictory perspectives like "clothes aren't gendered" or "body types aren't gendered", and it really waters down what is actually trying to be articulated by the word. i don't really think it's pointing to any one thing at all; trying to think about how i perceive gender as a concept with for instance my trans friends and it's like we're in a whole different fucking universe.
language kinda fucking sucks none of this shit actually makes any sense i think. i consider myself a gender abolitionist but even that is like fuckin, not even really true? in a way? i really don't even try to talk about it anymore with people because it's just so alien to most people, even most queer people

The world you are looking for is "privileged". As a cis man you have the luxury to be dismissive about gender as your own identity is based on the "default", the unsaid assumption, the general reference point to which everything everything else is compared. You can call yourself whatever you like, as it has zero consequences. The very real, evidently intensifying struggles that queer people face will not go away just because some cis man on leftypol.org considers themselves to be above the concept of gender.

>>1340
>misgendering
ok grace

>>1340
>The very real, evidently intensifying struggles that queer people face will not go away just because some cis man on leftypol.org considers themselves to be above the concept of gender.
It literally will. OP clearly detailed how this will happen with more than enough citations and references to peer-reviewed journals. Read Marx.



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