>>8416 Hey, I actually really appreciated how honest and self-reflective your post was. A lot of people just vent about that 'terminally online femboy-trans' stereotype without owning any of their own tastes, but you laid out your actual hobbies pretty clearly.
From what you described — gardening, reading theory, writing, Sailor Moon as a kid, and dropping video games years ago — you honestly don't sound like you fit that hyper online, thigh-highs + sci-fi shirt + constant hornyposting archetype at all. You seem more grounded and introspective than the Discord/twitter noise you were describing.
I agree with you that clothing choices and oversharing the hypersexual stuff do a lot of damage to how people perceive the broader group. 'Passing' (socially, at least) is heavily influenced by just blending in like a normal woman instead of leaning into the obvious male-brained nerd/fetish aesthetic.
Curious though — what kind of theory do you like reading these days? And what sort of writing do you do? Philosophy/politics stuff, fiction, essays?mind if we continue on Discord? Disc is Maxilosaurus