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Figured I made a thread to share our romantic experiences – or lack of thereof, – opinions, wishes and advice. That is part of the whole LGBT experience besides the sex and gender.

I reached mid 20s with barely any experience, autism made sure of that. Kissed a drunk lesbian once, I don't even think I looked that cute for a guy in his 20s, so I was honored more than anything. Broke up a friendship with a trans girl after some hasty choices, but she was crazy anyways. Now focusing on friends, making and deepening them.

Wish I had a man I understood and was understood by, someone light-hearted and whimsical to have fun with on the short time I have here on Earth. Femboy-ish ig, not masculine, but takes care of himself, with a touch of femininity to him. Impartial on sex, willing to do it, might be fun even.

One thing I like is the idea of relations as temporary, serial monogamy if you will. I'm all for loyalty while in a relation, but that doesn't necessarily mean it must be forever and ever. People change, why shouldn't their relations? Admittedly I do see the romance in a lifelong relation, sticking with someone and changing together with them. Besides looking for a new partner every x amount of years sounds exhausting.
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>>8496
(report back in 2 weeks)

>>8497
>>8496
Ngl it will probably be longer than that but I hope it's sooner.

>>8491
I'm gonna be you in like 3 months. I'm together with him right now but gonna be moving for work and we'll be apart for at least 6 months. I love him but I don't know how it'll go when I'm away from him and I don't want him to be held back by me.

>>8500
If he loves you too then you won't be holding him back. Just make sure you guys talk open and honestly about how you feel and what's going on.

>>8497
Update: we're talking again and everything is fine.



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I have a comrade who is autistic(diagnosed), recently she(was a he) told me she wants to start gender transition.
He was a bisexual nerd before never told me she suffered from gender disforia.
I think thats a weird descision for someone to make on his own before visiting a therapist and i know autist is connected to gender fluidity.
I also think it can affect her union organizing in the future.
Am i wrong?
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I think you're just stuck in nostalgia of a time when she was one of the bros. It'll be fine.
>I also think it can affect her union organizing in the future.
Nah, unions have plenty of trans people.

Just because he doesnt suffer from gender disphoria doesnt mean he cant transition.

autistic people can still be quite smart in some ways and lots of transhumanists are autistic. In my case I did my research before telling anyone. A run-of-the-mill therapist would be out of my league, only an expert doctor could have anything new to say to me on the topic and they would likely agree with my decisions in my case. I am extremely confident I have already explored every anti-transition argument you as a layman can think of, it would be a waste of my time to rehash it all for your satisfaction

>>8530
>>8530
>I think you're just stuck in nostalgia of a time when she was one of the bros. It'll be fine.
Now bro can become your hoe.

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>>8540
>now bro can become your hoe
Genuinely a chaser mindset we dont want you nor are we your objects. Fuck off.



 

im genq if theres any like mood differences or personality changes taking E can cause, in yalls opinion. I just wanna treat her right and prepare myself for any troubles.

weird namefag, but a lot of people do report that they experience that, yeah. I think they are misattributing a lot of it but eh.

honestly quite a lot. the most important thing i noticed pretty quickly:
i basically didn't speak a lot before HRT. i'm socially anxious AND have extreme voice dysphoria. some people thought i was just unable to talk and it was just very disabling.
even without voice training, after starting E, i could open up way easier. ppl told me i was more talkative, that i smiled way more and so on. people actually wanted to be friends with me.
they thought i just stopped being weird and opened up to them. they didn't know this "development", as they called it, was called "transition"… i don't even think it was me being more comfortable in my body (ofc that can make you more confident in yourself aswell), just mental changes

I take estradiol patches for male pattern baldness. When I get moody or my chest hurts, I take them off for a few days to let my hormone levels reset.



 

MadoHomu Exedra edition
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bumping to prevent another general.

>>819
We need a gay misandrist general

reminder

Do you think cishet femboys are queer (or LGBT) and very feminine/awkward cishets? most of the discomfort I have experienced as a cishomo guy was from my mannerism and I am still considered LGBT by the wokes

>>8505
I mean, queer/LGBT/etc is just a label used against the outgroup to efficiently corral and kill us. It's also incidentally a good way for us to find each other and build community too, but mainly the first thing. So, I think as far as the ruling class is concerned, everyone who's done anything other than Love Big Brother is queer - and that certainly includes cishets who are just a bit unusual. It's a spectrum of how loyal you are to normality, so while they're rarely the first targets, yeah, I'd call interesting cishet people a part of the community in that they're on the same purge list that we are, even if they are way at the bottom.

That's probably a weird take on it all, and a little grim, but it's the only way I can see it, personally.



 

While i'm gone i want you all to work towards your goals and do what makes you happy even if it's scary!

I hope all your goals and dreams come true queers and transhumanists in my computer!

see you when i see you!

Sabina add me back on Steam, even though you blocked me several years ago.
-buyyet

I hope you will be fine afk

YAY



 

then they use it as a pretext to invade the whole world because they haven't legalized it yet.
Not legal in the wholesome gay nation of Israel either but that doesn't stop them from massacring "people in the name of love" to spread it.

>>8488
It's also a plainly bullshit way to advance social progress.
By all rights economic development and higher education are the keys, and those come through effective public policy and fair trade deals, yet they claim progress can come at the barrel of a gun. We saw in Afghanistan and Libya how horribly that backfired. Doesn't help that the US/Europe have continuously murdered all the liberal/secular leaders in the Middle East in favor of religious fundamentalists. Like how can you be close allies with Saudi Arabia and give them a bunch of money and weapons and then claim to care about gay rights lol.



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I used to be like, rlly, rlly horny last year and I don't know what changed… all I use to think about was sex and gooner art but now I can't even get it up for my partner- obviously my first thought was I haven't been watching enough porn/enough stimuli but I don't even really want to??? It's weird. I just wanna be horny again.



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Anyone ever notice how unfeminine most transwomen are in their demeanor and hobbies and etc.? I swear the average cis gay man is more feminine than the average transwoman by miles. Every transwoman I've ever met is into the most masculine and male-coded interests out there. Guns, mechas, engineering, combat sports, etc. And just their entire personality and demeanor are so much less feminine than the average cis gay man. What causes this?
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Your self-loathing will cannibalize you.

>>8416
You look like a woman. Your fashion sense or interests do not affect your passability in the slightest, everybody who looks at you is going to see a woman no matter what.

>>8416 Hey, I actually really appreciated how honest and self-reflective your post was. A lot of people just vent about that 'terminally online femboy-trans' stereotype without owning any of their own tastes, but you laid out your actual hobbies pretty clearly.
From what you described — gardening, reading theory, writing, Sailor Moon as a kid, and dropping video games years ago — you honestly don't sound like you fit that hyper online, thigh-highs + sci-fi shirt + constant hornyposting archetype at all. You seem more grounded and introspective than the Discord/twitter noise you were describing.
I agree with you that clothing choices and oversharing the hypersexual stuff do a lot of damage to how people perceive the broader group. 'Passing' (socially, at least) is heavily influenced by just blending in like a normal woman instead of leaning into the obvious male-brained nerd/fetish aesthetic.
Curious though — what kind of theory do you like reading these days? And what sort of writing do you do? Philosophy/politics stuff, fiction, essays?mind if we continue on Discord? Disc is Maxilosaurus

Is being into metal and punk considered male brained?

>>8424
dont give a fuck about what gender should be doing what, its a mind opp promoted by liberals who need in groups and out groups.

just do what feels right and looks fun, let the haters sniff your farts as you breeze past.



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>*smacks lips* ermmm…. yeahhh, we're not focusing on LGBT rights, we actually just want queer baby killers to get their money
this stonewall shit is fucking hilarious lol
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>>8382
hello i think this site is cool.

>>8382
>>8349
The main characteristic of capitalism is that all production is geared towards commodity production and the existence of a monarchy doesn't change that. Have you even read Capital volume 3?

>>8311
They're just lavender compradors, not really different from pink, Black, Red and Brown compradors.

>>8382
>>8349
There needs to be a different word for imperialist countries like "co-semi-feudalism" or "co-colonialism". It's true that these countries create and perpetuate regressive structures but the material base is in the colonies and so on.>>8312

>>8384
My definition in no way disqualifies Pinochet, who deregulated and privatised many sectors and while he often sold state assets to allies, on the whole he exposed the economy to more market discipline than before. This is not true of Thatcher, Major or Blair, who preferred state-direction role-playing as the market.

The key point that I have tried to emphasize is that the UK is NOT acting in a way that helps the accumulation or flow of capital, that this is a result of its own anomalous social structure, and that if Britain were run in such a way it would be less reactionary than it is now.

>>8389
Let's try this: insofar as the UK is oriented towards commodity production, and insofar as services are taken to be a commodity, a disproportionate share of commodity production in britain is effectively produced for the state, to state specifications, not for a market. This is papered over with role-playing.




 

Im sure you guys have noticed that people on this site do that thing that is just a carry over from 4chan where people call each other "Newf-word," "Oldf-word," "Draw-word," or whatever, (Can straight people type out the F-slur in this context? I'd rather not find out the hard way) I never personally did that shit myself because I have queer friend who DEFINITELY don't think straight people like me should say that shit and even if they won't know my conscience would feel heavy. But I know that queer people are not a monolith and I was wondering what the majority of people here think of it even if I won't use it either way obviously. I can already image 5 different responses,
1. Most Lgbtqianons people are okay with it
2. Most are not okay with it but don't bother calling it about because they will be labeled "Idpol"
3. Nobody cares
4. It turns out that most people on this site who do that are actually gay themselves
5. A mix of all of the above
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bad words are a stupid concept, you just dont say some of them because the level of extreme exclusion youll receive isn't worth it.

uyghur isnt a big deal and faggot definitely isnt.

>>8374
brilliant! :-DDDDDDD

>>8376
They're only a stupid concept if you're autistic.
Shibboleths are a useful social tool. There may be nothing inherently wrong with the word, but "the people who say this are generally dickheads so don't say it if you don't want to be mistaken for a dickhead" is very sound logic.

A nazi uniform is just fabric, but wear one off a film set or historical LARP and don't be surprised when people think you're a wrongun.

Honestly I don't really understand how faggot or transhumanist could actually ever be offensive. If someone is trying to use those to hurt you they are an enemy anyway and you shouldn't be listening to them. What really hurts is being clocked in public.

"leftist politically incorrect" when one says politically incorrect word
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