/lgbt/ - LGBT

Being into femboys doesn‘t make a man gay or bisexual. This may sound like a cope to avoid admitting to being either, but think about it.

Men who are into femboys are usually men who are also into women. And what they are into in femboys is a heteronormative presentation of femininity. Such men are usually not into men who look like men. One could then argue this is a preference, but a preference would mean that they are still into men but merely prefer this type of man. This isn‘t the case for men who into femboys though. Of all the people who are male they aren‘t turned on by any of them except femboys. So it‘s not a preference, it‘s exclusivity. Finally, men who are into femboys are generally not interested in sucking dick or being fucked in the ass.

We either conclude that 1) this is bisexuality but a very, very limited form of it with peculiarities that make it distinct from ordinary bisexuals who are attracted to average men, or 2) it is heterosexuality, but a redefined version whose basis isn‘t biology but certain signifiers and presentation, or 3) these men are standard heterosexuals but given enough female elements the gullible human brain mistakes it for a woman and lights up the horny center of the male brain. Evolution did not foresee cute, horny femboys and therefore didn‘t exclude it as a pointless mating option.

i finally came out to a member of my family, my sister whom ive been slightly closer with than everyone else. my family are all conservative christian trump supporters including my sister but she seems like she's not as brainwashed as the rest of them. a few days before thanksgiving i told my sister i'm queer and i've had sex with guys before and i didn't really know what to expect, i figured it could go either way - she could either react with shock and horror and shun me forever, or she could be supportive and accepting about it.

at first it seemed like the second thing happened, she was surprisingly very nice and supportive and told me she loved me and was totally okay with it and she promised not to tell anyone else in the family. then comes thanksgiving and nobody in my family calls me or wants to talk to me at all, not one of them. days pass and i still haven't heard from anyone in my family, they always call me or at least text me on the holidays but now nothing. finally i get suspicious and i text my sister and just ask "hey is mom ok, she hasn't been talking to me much" and i see the "user is typing" notification for a very long time, then it disappears and comes back, then again, several rewrites before she finally responds saying my mom was just busy and gives me this list of excuses and then my mom suddenly calls my phone minutes later and she tells me the same list of excuses almost word for word, and then she starts demanding to know why i'm asking my sister about her (even though she called me). finally i ask her to just be straight with me and she says "i am being straight, i am being VERY straight." in a very snotty tone and i finally just say "fuck it" and tell her exactly what i told my sister and she seems not surprised or shocked, she just immediately starts grilling me demanding to know the names of the men that i've slept with in the past and if they were anyone she knows, while simultaneously insisting that it's completely fine and she doesn't care if i'm queer.

one of the reasons i decided to come out was because a few years ago i heard from my mother that my eldest niece, my older brother's kid, came out to her parents and, at the behest of my mother, they told her that she was just confused and it was just a phase and told themselves that too and they never mentioned it again. i felt so bad for her and i see her now being depressed and alienated and going through the same issues i went through at her age and i wPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

i feel like i've been denied everything the moment i was born
my father was the least favorite of his known (and unknown) brothers, that much he says.
my family always treated us like others,

growing up with FARC stories and named after a communist hero i always wanted to be a soldier.

going through my teenage years i tried so hard to fit in a mold that wasn't made for me, i got to associate femininity with bourgeois behaviour due to me getting bullied out of my own feminity

i used to stare at quinceañera dresses daydreaming of my own quinceañera party

i wanted to be a mother, to be a woman, to be a soldier, everything i've ever wanted has always been denied to me.

and then my mother who kept stopping me from joining military school kicks me out for wearing a skirt.

i see my cousins who my grandfather loved more achieving all of this and the only thing i have left for me is violence, all i have is the dream of one day taking my enemy's life
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why are white trans women such petty pieces of shit?
you'd think being slightly more marginalized despite being in a first world country would make you at least a bit less of a bitch but it's like ya'll really just wanna fit the annoying white woman mold so much it's unreal you still wanna act like you own the queer community.

i don't want to believe in optics, but ya'll legitimately make being a transhumanist in the third world so much fucking worse in every way.

and no wonder /tttt/ thrives with how fucking milquetoast a bunch of you are yet go around with radlib talking points with next to no sense of class consciousness.

seriously the 2 sides of the white transexual are either annoying r/traa radlib or racist r/4tran grifter?

it has legitimately made me rep at times and it hurts, and i'm not even in the US.

looking for suggestions on clothing/outfits that are androgynous and preferably not too expensive. got any ideas anons?

i tend to like tighter fitting/heavy clothes (autism?) but don't want to be perceived as a woman

pictures please!

lefty gay general - boyfriend edition

How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.

There are some things I don't understand about transphobes:

Why is it that when a man displays an attitude or behavior that isn't typical of his sex/gender, he's immediately treated as an incomplete man or a sissy, but when it comes to trans women, they immediately say he's a man, a complete man trying to deceive society? I mean, either do you believe that one can lose their status as a man or a woman, or do you believe that biology is absolutely binary? You can't believe in both (I mean, a eunuch should be as masculine as The Rock, but these idiots wouldn't see it that way).
Another thing I've been thinking about is this:
On the one hand, they tell a trans person that they will never be the sex they were born with, mainly because of their genes, but on the other hand, they don't care about those same genes when it comes to unnatural body modifications, like steroids, breast implants, etc. I mean, if a trans person isn't a man, then I, who am bald for example, and get a hair transplant, would cease to be bald phenotypically but not genetically. The funny thing is, if I went to a meeting of bald people, they'd kick me out even though I'm genetically bald. Unless you're a Lamarckian, the argument doesn't hold water.

By the way, many TERFs say that trans women invalidate women's suffering. This reminds me of when deaf people say that those who use hearing aids invalidate their suffering. And let's not even talk about conservatives who claim to protect children from mutilation but remain silent when discussing circumcision. KEEEK
pd. sorry the syntax im not anglo

https://hidwehproject.nekoweb.org/pages/blog/posts/2025-10-04-On-The-Transgender-Question.html

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im just leaving this here. some of the stuff written here might be useful for some of you

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help me out here /lgbt/. I was hanging out at the local anarchist book club the other day and, because it has a high concentration of trans people, there was a discussion about trans issues. since I don't really care I was just listening
one of the people there, who is a trans man, was talking about how they're a lesbian. it's at this point that I feel like an immense boomer, because in my head lesbian = women fucking women. can someone please enlighten me how this is supposed to work? does gender stop existing when SEX is involved? or is it just calling a spade a spade?