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How do I get over my hatred of masculine men? All throughout my school years I was relentlessly bullied by jocks and such because I wasnt into typical masculine things and because i was too emotional. Ive felt extreme resentment towards masculinity ever since.

The only men im able to be attracted too are other feminine boys like myself, aswell as older men. Meanwhile it seems like the vast majority of gays feel attraction almost exclusively to hyper-masculine men, and talk about their attraction like being attracted to masculinity is an inherent part of being gay. It has made me feel so isolated and made me feel invalidated in my sexuality.

Part of me feels like masculinity is inherently evil, I feel like it encourages meanness, arrogance, and cruelty by its design. Plus, seeing masculine guys constantly get praised while every other type of male never gets anywhere near as much love, it just makes me even angrier. My resentment is so deep-seated at this point that im not fully sure if I can even change it.
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>>5363
What surprised me was how many guys WERENT fem4fem or masc4masc. It just makes sense to me to want someone whos similar to myself. I dont really understand why some guys like guys who are the complete opposite of them lol

>I only bully them when they like it :3

I wouldnt consider you a bully then, I see that more as just roleplaying rather than actual bullying. Atleast to me, real bullying has the intention to cause misery to the victim.

>>5404
>I dont really understand why some guys like guys who are the complete opposite of them lol
Well from a sexual perspective I like the feeling of completely physically dominating my partner, just being way bigger and stronger than them. From an emotional/personality perspective I guess I like feminine guys because it's easier for me to feel useful by doing things they can't or don't want to do (carrying heavy stuff, getting rid of spiders, etc).
>I see that more as just roleplaying rather than actual bullying
Yeah it definitely is. My actual personality with a cute guy I like is more like a giant teddy bear they can cuddle and extract fresh cum from.

>>5362
>I see masculinity as something evil that shouldnt be praised or promoted.
Lol me but with femininity.
Edgy comments presented as jokes thus making the mods unable to confidently value the post aside, those archetypes (atleast from when I graduated high school back in 2018) are dead since everyone just goes on their phone.

Past that, think of the material reality, and seperate the traits from each other and evaluate on each one individually to get a fuller picture.

The jock is cringe, but is working out is? Y'know, the thing so good for your health it even reduces cancer?
The dudebro is cringe (I guess?), but is a party culture of having a good time is? Or the jokey aspect of wanting to marry or eben fuck your best friends?

Tldr: stop thinking like a feminist or else you will at some point defend child rape to argue for pink fascism, (something you can do even being a token moid for their cause)

>>5408
party culture is super cringe and all the morons who engage in it are low autism score uncivilized fyckboys

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Am I the only one who doesn’t like the mainstream symbols of transgender identity?
The flag has colors that look too childish and it doesn’t make sense. If you go by the official meaning of the colors, then the flag should actually be a tricolor with white in the middle. I’m sorry, but I couldn't find an apolitical variant With the current flag, it feels like if you want to become enby while being AMAB, you’d first have to become MtF and then enby.
The symbol ⚧️ has no historical context. It’s not even a planetary symbol like Mars ♂ and Venus ♀. I’ve heard that the Mercury symbol ☿ used to represent hermaphrodites/androgynes. I don’t like it either, but it’s clearly closer to us and actually has historical context.
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As a cis person, I think the trans flag is easily the best looking pride flag by far. Most other pride flags just look like a bunch of similar colors put together without any cohesion. The trans flag feels cohesive, is simple, and its color pastel color palette makes it look much more visually appealng.

I never once felt the flag was childish, and i doubt most others find it childish either. Honestly, im jealous that trans people have such a nice-looking flag, since the gay male pride flag looks horrible in comparison.

>>5381
It looks so boring and lifeless tbh

>>5392
>life-denying symbols
Is this a normal term in vexilology / some broader design framework like feng shui? I'm curious and the search engine ain't giving me anything. Like I think I understand vibes wise but I wanna know if your referring to something in case I miss a nuance.

>>5403

tbf is a common sight in hispanic symbols

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I don't know about what a transgender flag could look like, but just as a tangent I really like the suffragette colours / flag.

I kind of like the color combination. I just hate that transgenderism and non binary etc has become a cringey liberal alt subculture.



 

blanchardism should be formally and explicitly banned from this board
it is total pseudoscientific drivel that hurts trans people, especially trans women.
We have a site-wide mandate against wojaks and pepes, but not against this bullshit?

blanchardism fails to meet even the bourgeois scientific standards of validity, let alone the scrutiny of dialectical-materialist analysis
it's a crackpot theory concocted by an ameriKKKan Klanadian cishet boomer moid working in the aKKKademic mediKKKal SSience establishment.

All blanchardist lingo should result in an immediate ban lasting 3 to 7 days, with repeat offenders being permabanned.
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>>5386
yea it exists to pathologize people who have real experiences

>>5380
Only ones brainrotted by the insidious reactionary /tttt/ ideology.

>>5380
Cis women experience AGP, and cis men experience AAP. Being turned on by the affirmation of your own gender role in a sexual context is a pretty normal part of human sexuality. I used to date a cis girl who got super turned on when I told her I was gonna keep her in my kitchen barefoot and pregnant. I don't see how that's so different from trans women being turned on by the affirmation of their gender identity.

>>5395
Literally the first worthwhile post itt

>>5395
>super turned on when I told her I was gonna keep her in my kitchen barefoot and pregnant.
that's masochism my guy



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Non-binary and other invented genders aren't truly gender identities. If you look at what they post, you'll realize they're primarily experiencing a coming-of-age complex, wanting to return to their pre-pubescent, gender-neutral childhood.
But this isn't gender dysphoria, and non-binary people often don't take any hormones and, after a couple of years, become normal adults.
Yet, they often speak on behalf of the LGBT community, and many liberals support this, even though, in reality, they're cisgender heterosexuals with youthful maximalism and some personality disorders.
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>>5292
> Unsubstantiable, take a college writing course to learn to write like you aren't scared of making a concrete statement.
In our survey of 271 non-binary Australians, 66 per cent had used or wanted hormone therapy.
Among the non-binary survey respondents presumed female at birth, nearly half reported that they were using testosterone therapy. In non-binary people presumed male at birth, 59 per cent reported they were currently using gender-affirming hormone therapy to either increase oestrogen or to decrease testosterone.
If we look at gender affirming surgery, nearly half of the non-binary people we surveyed had or wanted surgery.
In non-binary people presumed female at birth, 23 per cent of people surveyed wanted but had not had any type of surgery. In non-binary people presumed male at birth, 26 per cent desired surgery but haven’t accessed it yet.
https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/articles/non-binary-people-have-hormone-therapy-and-surgery-more-often-than-you-might-think
>>5293
> before taking hormones my body was absolutely intolerable. my brain is made for an androgynous body
If you have gender dysphoria and hormones help, I have no complaints. For me, HRT is much more important than social transition.

I don’t know about you, but I personally don’t like gendered distinctions. Russian has strict grammatical gender everywhere, and I don’t like that. When I speak in the feminine form, I feel fake and not taken seriously. When I speak in the masculine form, I feel uncomfortable. I wish the language were fully gender-neutral everywhere, like the Turkic and Uralic languages. I don’t like gender-oriented words and phrases; I’d rather be called “comrade” than “dude.” In real life, I’d like to be both cute and serious, depending on the time and my mood.

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>>5316
cute should not contradict serious, there's nothing inherent in cuteness that is at odds with seriousness 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯
>but I personally don’t like gendered distinctions.
same tbh

op is a reactionary

kill yourself red chudlet

>>5372
You are too aggressive and stupid



 

MadoHomu Exedra edition
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>>5337
Yes I would say they definitely are.

god i love being nonbinary

>>5344
What's so great about it?

>>5346
You're not hated by the right as much as transhumanists

im a disgusting fucking manmoder and i hate myself so much im thinking about getting a mastectomy instead of ffs just because of how fucked and ugly my body is. i hate myself



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Hetero moid here. I came to conquer your board. I want all your femboys and transgirls. Kneel in a circle around me. You will each get your turn on my cock. I‘m here to enact violence and you will love it.
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>>5347
i have the opposite problem, i'm rather short and give off sub vibes sometimes but i'm a switch that's heavily into topping

ogkay ^-^>>4731

>>5347
domming someone taller than me feels masculinely gender affirming in a goblin kinda way, not sure how to convey it better

>>4731
Post hog

>>4731
but i look like a man



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erm heloure

2 months into hrt w low dose (2mg) estro and (100mg) spiro and i intend to keep it that way bc i dont want full feminization for enby purposes

what should i do to keep my pp working and my prostate good enough for anal sex? is getting regular erections good enough? is there more to it or am i overthinking it



 

im bi with a heavy preference towards women but i wouldnt call myself butch i identify more with masc
i also have a stupid fucked up gender
anyways i want tips on how to look or feel more masc that dont involve hair(i alreary have shorter hair) or clothing style(i already wear hoodies all the time bevause of dysphoria)

Gym and testosterone

>>5351
Work out BITCH
Pump those muscles
Get SWOLE

date me so i can teach you how to be mare masculine

just kidding haha

Battle jacket that you stick loads of lesbian and palestine flags on



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help me out here /lgbt/. I was hanging out at the local anarchist book club the other day and, because it has a high concentration of trans people, there was a discussion about trans issues. since I don't really care I was just listening
one of the people there, who is a trans man, was talking about how they're a lesbian. it's at this point that I feel like an immense boomer, because in my head lesbian = women fucking women. can someone please enlighten me how this is supposed to work? does gender stop existing when SEX is involved? or is it just calling a spade a spade?
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Does it really matter what you call it? A lot of this terminology is just historical baggage, remnants of clumsy past attempts to describe and categorize sexual/gender divergence from social norms.

There is no clear consensus on how words like sexual labels are defined. Is it gender or sex? Is it just attraction or is it actions only? These sort of things have no agreement.

trick question! they cant. a lesbian is a NONMALE whos exclusively attracted to NONMALES

lesboys are straight why do ppl get mad at me for affirming that theyre men

>>5004
this excludes butches obviously

>>4013
that all sounds good to me. now where can i find a cute dyke lesbian girlfriend who likes me? t. cis man



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How do I cope with the fact that i'm probably genderfluid?

For years now ive constantly been conflicted with my gender, wanting to be a girl but also wanting to just be a femboy. Ive been told by many that im likely some type of non-binary, but I dont want to be. I just either want to be either a normal trans girl or a femboy, but if I identify as genderfluid then I fear that people wont see me as a real transgirl or as a real femboy, so it would be like I just dont get to be either.

God, whats wrong with me? Why couldnt I have just been born as a normal gender-binary-fitting person? I dont want to be genderfluid.
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>>5288
I never mentioned anime even once in this entire thread lol

>>5298
I suppose so, but its definitley not just liberals portraying it as such. Ive seen plenty of transwomen on this board reinforce the concept of transbrain and other stuff like that. And im also not sure that I can just choose to alleviate my discomfort, i cant really control the fact that I feel discomfort.

>>5332
But labels are so heavily ingrained into society though, idk how id live without one.

>>5333
>I never mentioned anime even once in this entire thread lol
<wanting to be a girl but also wanting to just be a femboy
one is being trans the other is retarded weeaboo shit. and your pic is literally from anime

>>5332
This is an undialectical understanding society. Read Stalin.

>>5334
Femboys don't originate from anime, the subculture literally started in the west and is still mostly only prevalent in western countries. I havent even seen the anime the character in the pic is from, I only used an image of him because he's a popular well-known femboy character.

>>5333
>im also not sure that I can just choose to alleviate my discomfort
No, you can't, or personally i think you only can with a shit-ton of psychedelics and at the cost of your current identy and most personal values. I'm refering to the fact that your desires, however deeply ingrained and essential to you they may be, are still malleable to a degree. I see this thread very clearly as your attempt to, on the one hand come to terms with, but on the other hand also to negotiate your exact way of living as transfem, which would be impossible if femboy and transwoman were all just brain patterns along a malebrain/fembrain spectrum.



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