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Ive always wished I was a girl, and I have been knowledgable that im most likely trans for awhile now. The problem is that I cant just "become" a girl.

Of course i know theres hrt, but that doesnt account for my brain. My brain still thinks of myself as a man. I still act like a man. Im still male socialized. How do I become a girl mentally?
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>>3800
>even if I did that couldnt fix my massive ribcage, broad shoulders, and tall height.
shouldn't matter all that much when your goal is simply to pass. usually you are going to wear clothes. won't help with your dysphoria, but people don't analyse your shoulders and you can very easily hide some features you dislike or draw attention to somewhere else.
also, there are plenty of tall women. i'm taller than most cis women, but still see literal giants every day that will look down upon me like i'm some kind of ant.
biology doesn't work like "male=tall; female=short"… you are just more likely to be taller when you are male. the average height among men is higher. you can't really apply that way of thinking to individuals.

>oh no! capitalist social relations are making me question my femininity! am i too fat? too hairy? am i pretty enough? 😭😭
>#justgirlythings #girlproblems #notagirltho

>>3800
let go of all doubts and go for it your fear is the only thing holding you back do not let it

YOU ONLY BECOME A WOMAN THROUGH BEING ONE. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS INTERNAL IDENTITY. EVERYTHING IS YOUR SOCIAL IDENTITY. BEING TRANS = TRANSITIONING, IF YOU HAVE NOT TRANSITIONED YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN. IF YOU WANT TO BE A WOMAN YOU HAVE TO TRANSITION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your identity is dialectical basically tbhqiafam+

>>3815
Trve, but there are people who transition without ever socializing with other women of doing self-crit regarding whatever male socialization they had, which is also how you get unironic agp fetishists. Remember chihiro discourse? One common topic is that they basically only ever hung around the men of the group, felt reluctant to talk to any female students and explicitly saw themselves as a failed male, which is how the writer wanted to convey them not to be a woman.


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Figured I made a thread to share our romantic experiences – or lack of thereof, – opinions, wishes and advice. That is part of the whole LGBT experience besides the sex and gender.

I reached mid 20s with barely any experience, autism made sure of that. Kissed a drunk lesbian once, I don't even think I looked that cute for a guy in his 20s, so I was honored more than anything. Broke up a friendship with a trans girl after some hasty choices, but she was crazy anyways. Now focusing on friends, making and deepening them.

Wish I had a man I understood and was understood by, someone light-hearted and whimsical to have fun with on the short time I have here on Earth. Femboy-ish ig, not masculine, but takes care of himself, with a touch of femininity to him. Impartial on sex, willing to do it, might be fun even.

One thing I like is the idea of relations as temporary, serial monogamy if you will. I'm all for loyalty while in a relation, but that doesn't necessarily mean it must be forever and ever. People change, why shouldn't their relations? Admittedly I do see the romance in a lifelong relation, sticking with someone and changing together with them. Besides looking for a new partner every x amount of years sounds exhausting.
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>>3751
I dunno, we want what we can't have? For me it's lesbians.
>>3753
>Whats wrong with me?
Judging from that little passage. Nothing major, we all have that or something similar. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedgehog%27s_dilemma for example.
In the specific case, maybe you just didn't like them back?

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>>3455
If there was some special technique it would be known.
It gets better with time, and that's just how it is.

>>3760
>In the specific case, maybe you just didn't like them back?
It wasnt just one case, its happened multiple times. I wouldnt say I didnt like any of them, I liked most of them as a person or as a friend but not in a romantic sense.
I dont think ive truly romanitcally liked anyone before. I definitley experience attraction to people, but never a romantic crush

i keep waking up needing you
its not realistic so im just hoping it stops one day

same here
except i hope you're alright and get back in touch every day


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I'll turn 30 next year and never actually dated anyone, and it's been like 2 3 years since I had a proper sexual encounter

I'll never lnow true love and probably never even have sex again
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How tf does this happen? You never asked anybody out before?

I am 18 and I fear this, I don't konw how to meet guys, and I haven't felt love since 3 years ago and the dating pool is very small, specially for romance but for sex too if you don't want to:
A. Prostituting yourself on Grindr B. Go to a gay sauna/cruising (this last one specially) C. Going partying, and I don't think they would look at me anyways, I am not that good-looking and I don't think I am overtly gay.

And for you OP, I have sometimes read about gays meeting and settling for a relationships in their 30s-40s, so maybe there is hope for you.

im so tired of people with this attitude. all they can do is rot and waste and romanticise this ideal form that their teachers told them theyd achieve growing up

>>3777
You had sex when you were 7?

>>3810
That was the only time they had sex too


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I think I found this meme on twitter. And I thought to myself, is it about transmen?

>body too short or empty
<body too short or empty
>body too short or empty
<body too short or empty


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Hello /lgbtypol/, when are we going to discuss the RAMPANT ANTI-WORKER OBJECTIFICATION of the maid among the MtF community? Cleaning ladies are real working class heroes and dressing up in their outfits just to be all cute and fem is stolen valour.
And don't get me started on nurses…
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>>2945
I don't think many MtFs wear maid outfits outside of their jobs or when they are having sex… I have never seen a transwoman wear one in public, though I have seen many femboys and gay men wear them.

>>2950
maid outfits are just some overdone anime maymay really

>>2945
>>2950
Maid posting is just fetish shit it doesn't really matter

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>>2948
she's literally me fr fr

>>3015
who?


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lefty gay general - boyfriend edition

How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
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>>3738
>>3725
>you just made that up.
Sorry meant to quote with this too.
Since you haven't heard straight people use the word twink, then maybe you don't have the necessary context to know whether it they normally used the word as a stand in for faggot. You accused the anon of making it up. I think it's a bit premature and unfair to the anon. It was just a suggestion, don't take it too seriously or personally.

>>3740
I never heard word twink used negatively though. It is always a way of acknowledging someones attractiveness.

I want a sweet cuddly golden retriever top bf who's taller than me (almost impossible because I'm like 6'3) OR a sweet cuddly femboy bottom bf that's much shorter than me.

>>3762
Sigh, this is why I hate being a tall femboy

>>3765
Definitely a struggle, but that wouldn't be a deal breaker for me. I mostly just want somebody nice and cute who likes to cuddle.


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Why do people hate pansexuals? Like, im not bi, but ive met some men i would be happy dateing but most disgust me. Same thing for women. Ive also dated trans folks but i never dated anyone JUST for their gender or gender identity, it seems like meaningless peacokcing behavior to me. I like who i like, regardless of what their identify is or anything else. What i dont understand is the hate toward the term, apart from the normal hate you get from being openly queer. Im a closeted pan sexual and i only really talk about this stuff with my partners, who also are almost always pan.

thoughts?
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i dated a pansexual guy once he sucked he was super creepy and a chaser and he groped my ass when I didn't want him to.

Im estrogen sexual. Im attracted to people on E

>>2608
Not to be "That Guy"
but the difference between bi and pan is;

pan: you are attracted to people *irregardless* of gender (you don't find gendered traits to be specifically attractive)

bi: you find people attractive *because* of their gender traits, whether it be masc/fem/neutral.

the names for both of them are kind of confusing tbh

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>>2146
>how malleable is orientation and gender identity in adulthood?
Yes
We can make everyone queer or bi (etc).
I came to this "LGBT" thing late (like 5 years into adulthood or more, is fuzzy)
So I will not give out marching orders at this time. It certainly is in the realm of possibility.
Whether it should be done, that's a different issue. We need to think about whether we should in addition to if we could.
>>1297
>attraction to cisgender men and women
Sounds nutso.
I am mostly straight. I have of course jacked it to all sort of trans folk (girlish boys, as well, possibly, is fuzzy).

>>3640
>bi: you find people attractive *because* of their gender traits, whether it be masc/fem/neutral
Gendered traits are not that important.
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>>2146
>So how malleable is orientation and gender identity in adulthood? I've heard of HRT changing orientation before

I dont think hrt actually changes orientation. Most examples of it are just straight or gay people becoming bi when they take hrt, but its most likely that they were always bi but just couldnt imagine themselves with both genders until they transitioned into the body they wanted. The only thing hrt is changing is their bodies, not their sexuality.
>>1297
Im pretty sure that it doesnt have anything to do with whether theyre cis or not. Tons of bi people are trans or date trans people


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I need a bi4bi queen so bad bros I can't deal with trying to not be fruity when talking to cis girls
I wanna be able to put cute twink pics on my apps without getting called an AIDs ridden cheater
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>>3712
>pretty nice
Uff, you didn't have to rub it in, you you know. That's just cruel.

ok but shes gonna want to munch box on the regular and u have to accept that

Where does this happen, hetero, homo spaces?
I dunno. I heard of biphobia but I do not take it serious.
I am straight for all intensive porpoises, I would not say no to a really cute boi or anything inbetween, I don't know, they coming out with new stuff every day, I don't fucking know.
Of course androgyny is peak

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Do the young folk still say "peak"
probably not

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Oh and bi4bi is new to me
I get it with t4t, like hets and such can be fuckin mental, so there is risk involved. bi4bi seems ill-advised, people after all do not choose this shite.
Is it a reaction to biphobia? I dunno, never got it, you know, I follow "whatever-floats-your-boat-ism"


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My ex just posted her university graduation photos on Instagram and I just want to kms. Maybe I should show off with my graduation pics but like, she would just know I'm copying her. Hadn't felt the pain of love in a long time. I hate this shit so fucking much. I will never experience love apart from with her. What am I meant to do? I'm so fucking stupid this is all because I was too scared to transition when I lived with my parents. She is only into women, she told me after she broke up with me. When I told her I love her she said it was the best day of her life and then a week later it was over and I was so heartbroken because we grew up together and she meant everything to me. And then later I asked if she wanted to get back together and I ruined our friendship over it because I just love her, thats when she said she just wasn't into men. And its all fucked now.

I forgot about it all for years, I got over it. But I have never experienced love since. Nothing like it. My life has been good the last year, I've been politically active and living my life basically, really doing interesting stuff. But all it takes is one picture and I'm fucking back where I was. Obviously not going to talk to her again, I don't want to burden her with this shit. I'm not going to be an annoying ex, just completely out of her life. But I loved her no matter what gender she was. And she didn't love me because I was too scared to transition (even though she knew I was trans). It's just heartbreaking.

Not to say my life is bad or I won't have a meaningful existance, I'm happier than ever, but I'm missing her. I really don't think I can experience love for anyone else. It'll never happen. Nobody is as funny and kind and beautiful as her and I have to live with that. I have everything but a life partner. Maybe I gave this up for political success. I will die at 30 fighting the state or I will win, but there is no romantic love for me, just the love of the masses and the love of my friends, but never this same all encompasing power. I have given up idealism for materialistic love.

Didn't you post about a painful breakup a while ago? You're obviously going through a lot, but i can't help but suspect you're seeing this too narrowly. I'm sure you are still capable of love and will eventually be able to make it work with someone. People tend to be extremely adaptable and you're no exception!

>>3732
>And she didn't love me because I was too scared to transition
did she say that?

>>3732
>And she didn't love me because I was too scared to transition

Bold of you to assume that love has such prerequisites. I don't believe that love has a definite because/reason to happen, because ideally it's a state only exists when it distinguishes itself to the non-existence in all the other things.
The fire grasps your soul in its enthralling warmth, so everything else feels cold.

How can you be sure that her heart had beaten for you, when she told you things like 'she's not into men'

Perhaps you should congratulate her on her achievement?


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Initially, capitalism worked towards abolishing the family with industrialization. But since imperialism, capitalism is stagnating heavily and capitalism no longer works towards abolishing the family (at least in the imperial core).

It seems to me that the working class must work towards industrializing domestic labor and abolishing the family. But I am not sure how that might concretely be organized. It's not really as self-contained as a struggle for national liberation.

Pic unrelated.


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