/lgbt/ - LGBT

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>>3937

Wrong on the first two

>>3936
Are you sure that female queer circles aren't libidinal as well?

I love kissing my BF

Would it be sexy or cringey if I invited a hookup to "play" in the empty unit in my fourplex instead of my actual apartment
Or is that like serial killer vibes

>>8094
Is there some reason you can't use your actual apartment or do you just want the vibes of the empty unit?

>>8088
It is normal in general to be sad when a friend ditches and ghosts you, yes.
I had a friend I hung out with regularly for a year who just started ghosting me out of the blue. No arguments or anything, he just stopped responding to me and hasn't reached out at all. It's fucked me up, I keep telling myself to stop thinking about it but it doesn't work. These kinds of things just happen unfortunately. And I have done it to others a couple times, but in my case I was depressed and didn't want to see anyone (I don't think that's the case with my friend, I think he just found other people he likes more).

>>8088
>>8092
Anyways, what I'm saying is that sometimes people just don't want to see you anymore and you have to get over it. Easier said than done obviously. You just have to find other people and hope they're less shitty. I have other friends and a BF thankfully. It's good to have more than one friend, if you become too dependent on one person then if they let you down it'll fuck you up.

First came out to my parents at 13. But they thought I was """confused""" - as if I was destined to become a hetfoid or something

>>8095
You are a trans man? That is unexpected.

>>8095
you should family-cuck them by getting a gf with a woke family and start calling her parents yours, and telling your parents how much better parents they are

>>8055
>my bones would eventually masculinize and my shoulders would still eventually grow so large that I couldnt possibly be feminine anymore
That's not a thing Anon. If you're past puberty your basic body frame is pretty much set in stone, at least until you're super old and you start getting arthritis or shrinking lol. What people call "masculinization" is mostly just aging, and apart from baldness most of the issues associated with it (wrinkles, weight gain, etc) are problems women face too. Our society is just far less forgiving of age when it comes to feminine beauty standards as compared to masculine ones, and so ordinary aging that everybody faces is described as "masculinization". This is especially true for femboys considering how heavily influenced by anime aesthetics the whole culture is, and 90% of popular anime characters are teenagers if not actual children. I assure you that a lot of this is in your head. Just eat healthy, exercise, wash your face, shave, etc. I promise you can keep a cute appearance for longer than you think. Even if your face is more masculine than you'd like, you could always consider going for more of a cute-handsome vibe like picrel than trying to look like a girl or androdgynous.

>>8061
yeah i thought it was a thing tho but it was probably you that convinced me. ive been on the whole routine for 3 months and basically everything that happened for the last 10 years of lazy reversed. bloated midsection is gone and i pretty much reverted to my teen body. even my chest hair is thinning which i thought was impossible. the last thing to go is gonna be my broader shoulders im just kinda fucked on that front because i have to lift heavy shit at work for right now but even they are getting slimmer

>>8061
> If you're past puberty your basic body frame is pretty much set in stone
I dont know about that, my shoulders are nowhere near as broad as my dads are. Plus im 18 so I assume theres still a possibility for further growth, but i desperately dont want my shoulders and ribcage to become as large as my dads are.


>What people call "masculinization" is mostly just aging, and apart from baldness most of the issues associated with it (wrinkles, weight gain, etc) are problems women face too
If this is true, then why would so many people recommend estrogen to prevent masculinization? And why do women still look very feminine well into their 40s. Meanwhile most men past the age of 30 just end up being see and hulking, creepy, and uncanny when they try to dress femininely.

>Even if your face is more masculine than you'd like, you could always consider going for more of a cute-handsome vibe like picrel than trying to look like a girl or androdgynous.
I would rather blow my brains out rather than not be able to appear femininely or androgynously. Masculinity just doesnt fit who I am. I dont want to look like some generic masculine handsome man like in that pic.

>>8071
how old are you? is this really true? I want to hope this is true but im scared ill end up masculine and disgusting and regret it forever.

>>8090
>>8090
>how old are you? is this really true?
mid 30s and yes. im barely doing anything but like people say its genetics and ymmv. and i was on absurd amounts of spearmint that whole 10 years to the point it changed my body hair and odor so its kinda like being on a mild aa. i can never know how much is copium but my chest hair really came back less than a third after tweezing it once. i did have an easy starting point and not a lot of weight to lose because i was doing everything i could within reason to prevent twink death but 90% of my changes over the last decade imho were due to regular ass aging and maybe nicotine the biggest things are lines on my face and bigger pores and loss of baby fat on my face that i had up until around 24. and again my shoulders are because of work but i guess i do have a little bit of a doritio/hulk frame from behind and cant tell if im coping from first person view since im also a giant and not delusional so i have realistic expectations, but ive always been that way fr since like 16 yo and my shirts are not getting tighter if anything i went down two sizes in pants and can still fit in small flannels medium tees are loose on my chest. real changes happen when you are like way older than 60 thats when mens ribs shift into a barrel. fr i think look better than i did before about the best ever have, since im actually trying now and seeing the changes gives the motivation to care and im quite certain my face will reverse too in 1-2 years plus laser. the worst looking part was that like rectangular tummy fat and yes its really gone i have abs now and that line thing when standing relaxed and my waist is even slimming.

>then why would so many people recommend estrogen to prevent masculinization?
because its true and does a lot of work. reversal takes alot of discipline and sometimes money. its just most changes like voice and bone structure and hair are done for most people by 18 to mid 20s so i think that advice is targeted towards teens. after that its mostly just body/facial hair slowly increasing in density and thickness, both individually and in number. and thats extremely triggering. plus if your hairline recedes thats like world shattering. it also saves a loPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>7707
Just use photoshop if picking at it leaves permanent scars.

>>6069
I never even mentioned adhd lol, it has nothing to do with my problems you retard
>>6068
No i cant take hrt because im not trans, i dont want boobs

>>6077
>you retard
this insult really loses weight considering all the shit youve posted itt that makes you seem like a barely functional autist who cant even tie their shoes together without bemoaning and giving up lol

>im not trans
sure thing buddy

>>5076
>>5240
I have been through different phases with clothes in a non corporate context (I'm a caregiver so I don't need to dress up). Typically loose shorts, tees, accessorised with headsock or bandana. Leggings under shorts. Small personalisation like nail varnish or pendants can feel "right" at times. I like the idea of a tunic or djellaba type dress shirt but I'm not ready to take on this expression just yet. I did wear a long grey skirt for a while but it wasn't super comfortable - too tight waist! I would experiment again with skirts and try kilts in the future.
t. queer / gay / asexual / cis male

Resurrecting (I'm not OP), I need info and inspo. How the fuck do I search clothing by type and have a lot of options for torso/jackets that aren't PLASTIC SLOP?

how do i get rid of body hair easily without waxing or having chemical bath
like some trimmer with longer handle and flexible head? gotta exist right? is there a name for this? because i cant find it

>>8057
>I have noticed this a lot here, recently: posters will just post something as if it has a quantum of meaning.
That does seem to be what you're doing, yes. Any plans to actually address anything I said, or are you just going to project and redirect like a MAGAtard?

You are literally half a percentage of any given population, why should anyone give a fuck?

>Are they being paid to delegitimize the trans movement?

If you care so much about influencers supposedly delegitimatizing the trans movement on the Internet then why are you obsessed with like two washed-up nobody streamers/YouTubers and don't focus on like the two biggest trans influencers on the entire internet with millions of subs and views, toobz and hontra, being unironic opportunist war and genocide supporters? If anything this is more damaging to the supposed trans movement than another shitty clip by destiny that was botted to thr top of reddit.

loling @ the twitter thing last week where randoms thought having breasts mean you had surgery

>>8065
On what part are you confused so that I might help you understand why your response was a non-sequitur? The part where your sample size is too small? That your samples are bad and non-representative? That this entire endeavor is pointless fucking about driven by a fixation on spectacle?

>project, act like a MAGAtard
That's rich coming from you lol.

>>8029
Also. Whats up with balto-slavic neopagan lesbians? There are already two of them here. You and Palinka should meet

>>8031
She lives in Latvia or at least that's what I heard

>>8031
I'm not pagan. I'm an atheist who secretly desires a samodiva top

Also, sometimes it feels painful when I'm asked something personal. Because they could use it to harass me. I guess my shyness and frequent inability to socialise may have stemmed from being bullied and having NO ONE in my childhood to actually make proper friends with - because all my parents' friends are breeders with really irritating kids. I just want to get taller too. I'm 5 foot 3 but I want to be 5 foot 6. Is there any way to get my first irl friend in 7 years? Or am I doomed to being an eternal involuntary loner? :-(

I spit on everything. The world is run by an octopus-like robot demon hellbent on shitting on me.

>>8063
>Describing yourself as "gynesexual, femsexual and more rarely finsexual"
brother you simply misread the fucking posts. Your interpretation of the meaning of the sentences is analytically erroneous. Then you flew off the handle,
>If anon isnt willing to get together with men and copes with "I like 'some' ftm"
and entered the strawman championships
>If anon isnt willing to get together with men […] describing himself as bisexual is useless
They're willing to have sexual relations with androgynous, enby, agender people, women. Just not all genders. That's bisexual, just not pan. But maybe this really rustles your jimmies for some dumb reason.
If you're gonna keep this going re-read it again and take some deep breaths. Hopefully you're open to the possibility of making faulty analyses, hell, even conclusions.

>>8075
Excuse me how many genders are there. If your answer is more than three then there's no way we can have a conversation.

>>8076
>>8077
>If your answer is more than three
>Or rather, more than two
>then there's no way we can have a conversation
Bitch you dumb as hell!

>>6993

funni

>>6993

not worth a new thread and i'm not against or for the use of these but whoever made this meme really thought having a billionaire breaking a gun would get points with trans ppl knowing a lot of us are anarkiddies and gun nerds?

also i'm not impartial to the use of these words, i just rarely see a reason to use them beyond dialectical experiments.

>>6993
girlcock is hot

>>6993
>trans woman still has a fucking cock
nice

>>6993
One of these operations is considerably more complicated and costly than the other.

>>7976
And modern conservatives wanna claim that “there are only two genders”.
More proof that modern conservatism (1600 - present) is historical revisionism

All religion can fuck off. Substitute religion for national culture as was done in Albania. Convert all religious sites of worship into museums and cultural centres, if religoids continue to misuse these centres then they must be demolished. Being religious should be a thought crime, same as being a liberal or conservative. Public execution of religious figures.

>>7987
Ironically, it was the secular Enlightenment that pushed the two gender binary hard. Modern conservatism is actually anti-conservative.

>>8036
How

>>8050
Since the Renaissance, Western medicine begun to slowly move to a two sex binary model where male and female were fundamentally separate biological categories with a person's sex being determined by science, rather than theology or some other ideology. This binary model was supposedly validated by science and secular Enlightenment values against superstitious and religious dogma, especially those of non-Western natives in the colonies who lack a proper understanding of sex.

>>8041
>I AM COMING FOR THEM AND I AM A STORM OF DEATH. RED GUARDS MASS MURDERING TERFS.
The transgenders are VIOLENT PSYCHOPATHS who want to MURDER US HORRIBLY simply for the COMMON SENSE DECISION to HARMLESSLY GENOCIDE them.