I used to have them. Now I'm just trying to forget about all those spooks that say you have to have a degree by age 25 and a full-time job, and possibly get married at 30, or else you'll be too old for all of those things, and that means you're a failure and there's nothing else you can do.
Obviously none of that worked for me and I don't feel fulfilled at all. There's nothing wrong with not getting a degree at the same time as your peers. There's nothing wrong with living with your parents still at 25 and not having a full-time job (unless it actually affects your development as a person, of course). There's nothing wrong with not settling in a relationship, being celibate, not wanting to marry or have kids, or having casual relationships every now and then without ever getting serious (as long as you find the right people and do it in a peaceful and responsible way). There's nothing wrong with changing jobs constantly if you can't adapt anywhere, and every formal job feels like hell to you, as long as you don't stop working if you really need to. There's nothing wrong about making a living with your hobby instead of getting a job where you can "contribute to society". No matter what, you're not going to change the world all by yourself and you'll be living in capitalism until you die, so you shouldn't feel bad about wanting to live with minimal stress and without conforming to society's expectations if something prevents you from doing it.
My goals, or rather wishes, are mostly related to my hobbies and family. If I ever have children, I don't know if I'll have a partner to raise them with, but I hope I do, whether married or not, and I would love to raise a kid, but if it doesn't happen it's also ok (I just hope not to feel bad about it). I want my family to be ok, to enjoy life together with them as much as possible, and the older members to pass away peacefully before me. I want people to like the stuff I make as a creator, even if it's just a small but dedicated fanbase, and I want to make contributions to things I like so that fellow fans will enjoy them as well, and more people will be encouraged to create more like it for me to enjoy. I want to master different skills, whether I learn them on my own or take a course. I want to help people with those skills. I want to know how to do a bunch of things on my own as much as possible instead of having to rely on others. I want to learn how to finish things instead of postponing everytPost too long. Click here to view the full text.