>>790455this type of thinking only makes sense if you tell yourself you will never be enough and that's okay, somone out there is better than you in everyway. so its fine for my partner to discard me..its pathetic and self fallegating.
or if you tell yourself love is a spook of chemicals. you cannot be loved at your lowest
or if you just think monogamy is ass which, yeah but polyamory is assymetrical, i can hardly see polyamory benefiting most men. remember some woman on a podcast saying to a guy you won't cheat because you'll be fine with a partner if they're good for you, me on the other hand, i'll cheat because im bored.