>Never lend money to friends, family, or significant others. If someone asks, just say you’re broke blame a credit card bill or another excuse. Or you could just say "No, I don't feel comfortable with that." You don't have to lie to your friends and family and significant others, you can just tell them honestly that you don't feel comfortable loaning them money. Sometimes I have chosen to give money to people I care about when they needed help and I was in a position to help them, but I didn't lend it - I didn't expect to get it back or get anything in return, I just gave it to them. In some cases it helped them and in other cases they squandered it, but either way I don't regret anything.
>If you’re debating whether to "wrap it," think carefully. Even if she claims to be on the pill, mistakes happen—and 18 years of child support is no joke. That money won’t just go to the kid; it’ll fund her nails, hair, vacations, and car payments while you’re left with no say.Why would it be an internal dilemma whether or not to wear a condom? If you don't feel comfortable consenting to some sexual act, you are not obligated to do it. You realize that, right? You should never, ever let yourself feel pressured into having sex, especially unsafe sex, and it doesn't matter if the pressure is external or external, whether it is your own fear of missing out or her feelings of entitlement or insecurity that are pressuring you into having unsafe sex, either way it is coercion and you should never let yourself be coerced into sex by anyone.
>No degree? Get a job and work hard. Plenty of non-grads (e.g., construction workers) outearn art history majors working at Starbucks. But stats show grads usually earn more over time—so if you go, do it smartly.Or you could also go to college and get a degree - there is no age limit at colleges, you can go there and get an education at any time, you could take a couple of online courses part-time while holding down some job and earn money and get an education at the same time, it doesn't have to be a binary choice whether you want to be a "college guy" or a "blue collar guy" - you don't have to live your live according to these rigid simplistic social identities, you can just do whatever you want, it's entirely up to you and it's your life after all. And you do know that money and career success is not ne
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